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To be justified, you should have asked this question offline... because its either a phone or pc or tablet you are using for this post.

engrelvis:
Go to offices,campus ,churches ,social gathering even on d street everybody is always bending down doing one thing or other with their.husband n wives r nt left out.dey dnt interact properly again because of "browsing " their phones.y is everybody so addicted to their phones these days?

pls stop exposing your mundane ignorance.... YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT ANIMALS AND PLANTS HAVE NO SOULS...

end this thread abeg. Find something better to do

Brock1:
Pls let me know ur view

Niageriaunite:
we were just casual friends, getting to about six years now, she had a break up with her man, me too break with my girl almost same period we came together to console our selves along the line we started dating, she is a very nice person she a very sincere person who fidelity with her husband is guaranteed, her cooking skills is excellent A1, OMG she cooks very and excellently (pls don't mind my grammar) well, and she has loved me so much and I have locked the gate of my heart not love her cos she lacks most features which I desires in a woman, to cut long story short, is that, I can't marry her but how do make it known to her so there will be no problem, I'm afraid she is hot tempered and quick to anger, it's either she hurts me with an object like knives or she use snipper for her self, I know her too well, she can do it, she is a very emotional
so please how do I do this, peacefully
like I said she is a very nice person

Brother, why did you allow your erection to CONTROL your DIRECTION.
You never really dated her, you and her were just LOCKED IN PASSION and infatuated with each other.... you ENJOYED her positive emotional side... now you want to dump her because of the NEGATIVE SIDE?


You may need to fake your own death or relocate and shut down your facebook and change your numbers totally.

Brother in a NUT shell, you are FINISHED o.
UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW TO MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH YOU.... Once she can break up with you... then you GHOST yourself from her. If you cant do any of these things... YOU HAVE CREATED A TELEMUNDO story that may never end well.

IMPLICATIONS will NOT make anyone change..... Only God can save those who do it and probably a major JOB

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charlsy:
Hello house. I would appreciate if you could suggest a very profitable business or investment that I can invest 5million naira. All ideas are welcome.

Thanks

this does NOT work....

shina peter and jim ovia grew up with differently and had different childhood exposure... HENCE they would not value the same things.

NOT EVERYONE CAN BE A JIM OVIA.... shina peter is NOT even good in Maths... but he is good in MUSIC....

YET NONE OF THEM ARE BROKE.

pls the real knowledge to pass to the younger generation is KNOWLEDGE.

whiterat:
In 1990, Shina Peters built a house with N20 million naira; the same year Jim Ovia started Zenith Bank with the same amount.

Today, you and I don't have a room in Shina's house but I have an account in Jim's bank and probably you do too.

Shina's house was built in Iju Lagos and remains there till date.
Jim's bank started in a corner and now has over 500 branches in Nigeria, and many international branches.

Millions upon millions transact business in Jim's bank daily.
Shina's house is becoming dilapidated...in 2015, he SPENT more money to renovate the house and bought a Nissan Pathfinder with N10 million...additional liability, while in the same 2015, Jim's bank MADE a profit of N105.7 billion.

Zenith bank employs hundreds of thousands, and feeds their families.

This is the difference between Assets and Liability. If you buy a car for N20 million today, in 20 years time, you will be ashamed to drive it. On the other hand, if you invest that same amount in a lucrative business or in an asset, It may be worth billions in 20 years. ( Jim Ovia is now worth $980 million dollars, with the official dollar rate of N320, that means he is worth N313 BILLION NAIRA because of an investment of N20 million).

Spend the little money you have today wisely. Some people driving expensive cars today, are not aware that they are driving their future and the future of their children. Some people carrying iphone7 today, may not be aware that they are carrying their future.

When you are young, don't spend money. Invest it.
Every penny in your hand is like a seed, you can decide to eat it, or sow it. When you sow it, it will bear much more seeds later in future.

pls this site PAYS NO ONE.... you people seem not to think at all. Did you check their reviews on YOUTBUE? or ALEXA.... these survery sites are only Time wasters for Nigerians

well I guess your older folks didnt explain this to you but here we go....

LONG TIME AGO IN NIGERIA... It was very rare to find people who were solely LEFT-HANDED.
So, the left hand was seen as a WEAK hand, and most people consider the fact that since it is a weak hand, we use it to hold things that are NOT important or of value to us.
IDIOMS were even constructed around the importance of the right hand.

Hence, giving anyone something with your Left Hand, began to feel disrespectful because If you are holding it with your weakest then you certainly do not value it enough and you do not value whomever you are giving it to. THAT IS DISRESPECTFUL.

However, it began to fade as more people got enlightened about left handed people in the world and our society.

ability19:
Good evening folks I really want to know why do people get angry when they are given anything with the left hand especially from the southern part of Nigeria. They just look at you with evil eyes like lack home training. Is it actually. A crime. Obama uses the left hand osinbajo uses his left hand too. And we got lots of left-handed persons. Please I want people to coment on this

James 5:16 King James Version (KJV) Confess your faults one to another...

BROS explain. No one uses 1John for that... this scripture is the MAIN ONE. kindly solve it

jiggaz:
(1Jn 1:9) If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Unlike what is popularly believed out there, this verse isn’t saying you need to go to a priest, a pastor or even a fellow brother/sister in church and tell them every evil thing you have done within the week before God would ever forgive you.

It is also not saying you need to make an itemized list of your sins and verbally pour them out to God one by one while begging Him to have mercy on you and give you a second chance to act right.

The Greek word translated as “we confess” in 1 John 1:9, is the word “homologomen.” When properly translated, “Homologomen” means “to say the same thing as another, i.e to agree with, assent.”
In this context, “homologomen” would mean “to say the same thing God has said concerning our sins” or “to agree that what God has spoken concerning sin is true.” That is, if we assent to what God has already said concerning sin, then we’ll receive the forgiveness of sins for all times.

So what is it that God has said that we are to agree to? Let’s see the previous and next verses together.

(1Jn 1: If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

(1Jn 1:9) If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

(1Jn 1:10) If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.

From the above verses, we that we are to agree that.

1. Sin exists (verse

2. We have sinned (verse 10)

Else we make God a liar and His free gift of forgiveness does not apply to us seeing that we have rejected it by our unbelief and refusal to acknowledge our need for it.

Reading from verse 1, we see that the author was throughout the chapter talking to a set of people who were in the church but refuse to accept the divinity of Jesus, the existence of sin and their need for God’s forgiveness.

So the author having taken time to explain the divinity of Jesus and our fellowship (oneness) with Him by Faith, invites this set of people to acknowledge these things including the existence of sin and their need for forgiveness so all their sins could be forgiven them. It is just as simple as that.

The verse isn’t asking you to wake up in the morning or even before you go to bed at night to cry, roll on the floor and list out every evil thing you have done before God or man. It was written to those who have NOT fully accepted what God has said and done concerning sin, imploring them to do so.

For the man who had already believed and received all that Jesus has done, 1 John 2:1-2 now points him to the cross everytime he sins, to see the one who is the sacrifice for his sins. It is through that one (Jesus) that we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. Not through our openly or privately verbalizing them one by one.

(Col 1:13) Who hath delivered us from the power of darkness, and hath translated us into the kingdom of his dear Son:

(Col 1:14) In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins:

(Col 2:13) And you, being dead in your sins and the uncircumcision of your flesh, hath he quickened together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses

If you decide to still continually list out your sins one by one and ask the Lord to forgive you of them every time you sin, feel free. If you decide not to but trust in His Word that He has already forgiven you, better. As long as you know that you are forgiven not according to your listing or not listing them out but according to the riches of His grace, then you are good.

I hope this blesses you.

Glory to God!


https://www.feedmejesus.com/2019/03/know-about-confession-sins-John.html?m=1

naturalgirl:
I want to fast. I've skipped meals before but never fasted intentionally. I love food and always thinking about food, cooking and eating. How can I get my mind off food and fast effectively? Can you fast about multiple things, like if i want God to do this and that for me, or must it be one thing at a time?

1) GIVE OUT ALL YOUR FOOD TO THE POOR

2) Ensure you have WATER... you need it o.

3) Be very very relaxed and watch a christian message on the issue that made you fast

4) Pray for at least ONE hour.

5) when you are tired SLEEP.

6) take your hygeine serious and freshen up well

7) thank God for the fast and write down everything God told you and vision you have seen.

once 12pm has passed then RUSH AND GO AND BREAK THE FAST WITH HEAVY FOOD.

9) Repeat the process for 7 days and watch testimonies pour into your life.

you may be a very strong illiterate not to see that YOUR LINK clearly spells out that it is a different thing you are misleading people to see.

You better have some sense and stop this wasted effort.

400k kor, 401k ni

you bloggers are not afraid to go to hell for always loving lies and dishonest gains.

Made4naijaceo:

then DO NOT BRING GOD INTO IT.... like HITLER all u want but you and him are dead wrong.

Evil is NEVER JUSTIFIABLE on any ground.
So stop seeking succor for a wound you NEVER Lived to experience.

panafrican:
You can't claim that you know God or have more relationship with God than others either .
Hitler did not need to say he was acting on behalf of Africans,. Why should he ?
The fact is those who felt blessed for enslaving others for centuries tasted in five or six years what it meant to be enslaved. They cried about it.
They can now say Hitler was blessed.
God is great !

maybe you are not taking note of the fact that HE DIDN'T DO IT FOR AFRICANS OR FOR GOD.

God does not punish anonymously.... else HE WOULD NOT BE WISE. You punish so that the error is NOT repeated by letting the offender know why they are being punished.

So dont come here to be claiming what is not there.

panafrican:
The Germany fuhrer kicked slave masters' butts. He
made them do forced labor, and enslaved many .He did to them what they did to Africans.
They learned a lesson, after tasting what it meant when someone's dignity is trashed.
Putting aside some mistakes made on the Russian front , it would be fair enough to say Hitler delivered God' s message to Europe. He was a Saint.

it means he will be PRESIDENT soon.

If this is implemented in NIGERIA.... it would help alot BUT also we know that LAS LAS SCHOOL NA SCAM.


Education is legit BUT school na scam.

lol
NO METHOD TO IT because everyone's KNOWER is different.

How did you know your PURPOSE IN LIFE? if you can answer that then you can know how we knew about our spouses.... for those of us who married the right one.

peckebu:
So to the married men and women on this platform, could you share with us how you knew your spouse was the one and if possible how you met

how much.... hope its less than a million

SunnyskyTG:
We need the Voice of more People like you.

No matter what they do to cause Tension & Fear among Nigerians, we are Courageous & Strong still.

God Bless Me
God Bless You
God Bless Nigerians
God Bless Nigeria.

Yes o... I hail you sir. We keep the faith... because it is the only LIGHTED CANDLE in this Dark Phase we are in.

NIGERIA will come out of this barbaric innuendo of political pharisaic lobotomy

he needs to find what he is good at and get into it fast.... someone might even suggest he goes for prayers

so he USED vengeance against his wife to commit suicide

Saneesk:
nairalanders help me I have a crush and I don't know how to toast her
please help me and give me an advice no insult pls.
also she has a boyfriend and she Luvs him damn bad
so how can I substitute him

moderators front page pls

pls bros, this is NOT a front page issue.
a relationship is not a PUBLIC MATTER or a COMMON ROOM where you invite everyone to HELP u.
If you do not have what it takes to make her happy then using TRICKS and GIMMICKS will only postpone DOOM for you both.

After you have used scope or money to get her.... WHEN INSIDE THE RELATIONSHIP how will you keep her? of course if people helped you to get her to like you.... DONT YOU KNOW IT MEANS YOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH TO HANDLE THINGS YOURSELF?

SEE, work on yourself, build yourself... MONEY ATTRACTS LADIES... but CHARACTER will keep the right one that is meant for you.

It will be a fatal mistake to wish for what you can not handle.

WALK UP TO HER AND BEFRIEND HER AND SHOW HER WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER..... and if it is only SEX that is in your head... then your ERECTION is MISDIRECTING you.

blackmaine:
please nairalanders can someone advice me on how to start a clothing line business, I live in an environment where tailoring is a major occupation, I want to start my now clothing line business but not into tailoring per say, can I get advice please

but do you not think it may be very challenging? Everyone in your area is already into tailoring and definitely many have the same idea as you have... you may have too much competition o. Just saying..

the LONG TIME Girlfriends... did not GROW RICH... they felt love would be enough BUT it never is.

If the girls stopped sabotaging their own progress by waiting for a MAN TO BE RICH before progressing in their own lives in the name of love or in the name of "BEING THERE" for him.... even when the man gets money... he will be humble towards her.

MONEY CHANGES TASTE... both for women and men. RICH girls too dump guys who grew up with them... its called LIFE.

No one should WAIT for anyone... everyone should be moving.

jezuzboi:
Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.

While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.

A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.

Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.

A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.

If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.

Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.

That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.

That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.

We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.

The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?

If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.

That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.

Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Jezuzboi©

well, am shocked that you are shocked.... pls tell me... HOW MANY MARRIED PEOPLE REALLY KNOW HOW TO RAISE THEIR KIDS?

How many churches have FAMILY counselings?

How many books are out there that you know on how to guide a child through the erratic erotic turbulence of teenage years?

How many parents have taken time to adjust themselves to be aware of the current trends in their children's generation.?

THEN YOU ARE HERE WONDERING WHY THERE IS SO MUCH DECADENCE IN OUR WORLD TODAY FROM THESE YOUNG ONES..... here is your answer.... THEY WERE REARED.... NOT RAISED.

They were sent to school.... NOT EDUCATED.
Their parents used OLD methods to train NEW CHILDREN.... and it simply can't work.

We cant blame GOVERNMENT... PASTORS.. IMAMS.... TEACHERS.... because the children do not live with them.

The older generation failed woefully due to their ignorance... hence it led to the rise of a generation that has no value for VALUES.

Gospeltruth01:
I’m curious, back to 2016 girls were arguably worth more than they seem to be now. They’re now just more like sex object, wearing clothes exposing their body. It’s now like the only selling point they’ve got is their boobs and ass. Way to back 2016 it really wasn’t so. Girls used to dress far more decent and we still loved them, but now it’s all just sexual, taking pictures with the sole possess of letting us men see their big boobs or ass. What happened

lol... bros bros... no go there o... lemme help you SEE.

ABEG I hope you know MARRIAGE is not a HUMAN THING... It is an INSTITUTION SOLELY FROM GOD and BY GOD.... and He only one who can set the boundaries, premise and foundation for it.

So NOW tell me who in the world can ADD to what God has clearly and finitely finished. You create something that only you can do and can guard or guide then the person you created it for.... now want's to ADJUST it to suit their own purpose.... PLS lets not act like we KNOW more then GOD.

On other issues yes man can bring in creative additives BUT ON MARRIAGE... it is CLEAR and FINITE.

ELSE we should also say GOD DIDN'T SAY A MAN CAN NOT MARRY MORE THAN ONE WIFE... that it is only for BISHOPS/PASTORS....

then where would we end up as a generation.
THE PROPHECY STATES THAT TWO SHALL BECOME ONE... and that is how it is to be... but in conclusion... this is the scripture that crowns it all.

Revelation 22:18-19 The Message (MSG)
18-19 I give fair warning to all who hear the words of the prophecy of this book: If you add to the words of this prophecy, God will add to your life the disasters written in this book; if you subtract from the words of the book of this prophecy, God will subtract your part from the Tree of Life and the Holy City that are written in this book.

MrGerald:
So because it is not in the Bible therefore it's not valid, God created us in his own image and has given us power of discretion, and remember not everything Jesus did was written in the scriptures John 21:25

how much, and where is the link or name.... we need to see the response rate to know if the page is alive

you can HATE the man for all I care.... I do not follow any pastor.... I have read my bible for myself and I personally know it is not there... so even if it was daddy freezer or princess shyngle that said it.... I WOULD GLADLY SAY.... YES O.... without consulting your intelligence.

MrGerald:
If he say it's good you'll still shout yes oo...