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Desperados:
I saw this somewhere so i decided to share here.

The guy saw his missing rib and they have been dating for a while. So it was time to go to the family of his fiancee to pluck his beautiful flower(as they say) but he got the biggest shock as he was met with what he didn't expect.

He was given a list of items to provide for the traditional marriage as is customary but he instead ran away and never came back.



What are your views on this?



See list below..

This one no enter 300k...max 400k not sure If it's akwainom or crossriver

I see death as beginning a lonely journey that never ends..not even sure if there is communication among the dead...cos no taking of lesson in the land of the dead and all are equal

The plan all along to allow the eventual emergence of his vice. Wonder why it took so long.

thewinning101:
After stealing rice they will come online to insult their helper.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bL-9YROSgCM?si=_HAif8_0Jn2WOWe4



https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxGIS4wO_pJ/?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

una never see anything..when dem say vote wisely and defend your votes...in a sane clime shey we suppose dey see this kind with..many youth are unemployed wasting time yet we have arable lands for agriculture..train them and give them the platform.

efelicity:
I live with my mother, a single mother, since I lost my dad over a year ago and we haven't been having issues until recently
The problem with my mother is that she wants to remarry but I never wanted that because she planned to move in to the house my father built.

After a heated argument, she claimed the house as hers but I rejected! I didn't stop her from marrying any man but what I am against is moving the man into my father's house. More to that, she planned to open a business for her husband to be on my father's land. I know the consequence of allowing that to happen: he will later claim the land.

Since my mom met this man she stopped treating me like a son. One of her sisters told me that the man was disturbing my mom to send me out of the house so he can move in asap.

When I approached my mom with this, she cursed me because she believes I'm against her will.

How do I prevent this man from taking what belongs to me?

Dat man no get shame he wan reap where him no see.. if he is man enough make he rent house leave ur papa house..how old are you?

[quote author=bigadler post=125743149]That's obviously a subpar road construction but people can't complain when they have none. Ogun state has some of the worst roads in the south west.

Agbara, where most of their industries are located, has terrible roads despite the huge taxes being derived from that location.

If the roads in Ogun state were okay, more industries would have sprung up in Ogun state but they're not planning for the future. All I see them doing is Abeokuta and Ijebu politics.

Make dem sha finish the road 😒[/being3] can they build this kind of road in China...road wey no go last

Building a house is no Childs play in present day nigeria..one of my house currently under construction spent close to 450k for a thousand blocks last month and you need 4000 or more depending on the house..the price of sharp sand for tipper no be here..cement price just day fly from 4900..now 5200...u can't even do foundation with 500k for a good house.

Names of the facilities sealed

An act to deceive gullible fellows.

ashewoboy:
True.


Add yours.

Talking stage na as the spirit leads oo..shishi you no go see no be alleviation scheme I dey find..I fit help once once but not sacrosanct.

brabie:
I've been thinking about it for a while now and I don't want to spoil it.
I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple of months now and everything is going fine she is a nice person, kind and cool.
But for me am not yet financially strong enough to do what a bf is suppose to be doing, she's not complaining but I can see it in some of her attitudes towards me, I was thinking of telling her I want us to cut it off, more like taking a break off all this love stuffs so I can really work on myself and start doing what am supposed to be doing as her bf.

I want to tell her that "I still love her and want her but I can't be with her like this anymore because it hurts me so much, that am not able to do stuffs for her, I know eventually she might start to see other guys, I don't want it to get to that so pls guys help me out

WHAT SHOULD I REALLY DO OR SAY TO HER

I still want to be with her but not in my current condition now

You should have thought about this before dating her.

Most likely a fixed match

Great project we need to also develop maintenance culture.. Good for the road too. Cos its going to free up traffic and keep many ppls care at home enough of importing scrap in the name of cars. These kind project suppose dey everywhere e go make some real estate value nose dive if e dey everywhere.

OladipupoIyowun:
Amarachi Amusi, Nigerian skit maker and prominent brand influencer, popularly known as Ashmusy on social media, has shed light on the reason behind her single status.

The Instagram influencer said she remains unattached because she earns more than many of the men who approach her for a romantic relationship.

She made this revelation during her appearance as a guest on the latest episode of the “Tell Your Story” podcast, hosted by Aloma Isaac Junior, also known as Zicsaloma.

She said the issue of women earning more than men is one of the reasons many celebrity marriages/relationships don’t last.

She said, “With my status presently, most men I meet, I ask them sometimes like, ‘How much do you earn in a month?’ So that I can compare because I want a man that is bigger than me.

I want my man to be bigger than me; to be my head. To be way way richer than me like let my money be nothing compared to his, you know. But when I ask them (potential suitors about their earnings) and they tell me, even the ones that are doing good, I’m still doing better based on what I earn.

“So at the end, it is still like I’m still on top. Most men I meet are making less than what I make in a month. And it feels bad because I want some that will make more.”

In May this year, the skit maker said she is fulfilling her dream to become a billionaire before 30.

She spoke in an interview with Richard Igwe of Topnotch where she gave tips on fame and success.

“As a young businesswoman, I am working towards fulfilling my dream to become a billionaire before the age of 30,” she said.

With over 1.5 million followers on Instagram and over 100,000 subscribers on YouTube, Ashmusy is regarded as one of the successful female skit makers in Nigeria.



https://dailytrust.com/im-richer-than-most-of-the-men-seeking-to-marry-me-says-skit-maker/

everything has a time and season..we see say ppl no deh too focus on stand up comedy again..better strike while hot before u go begin tell us once upon a time as amny actors actresses musicians influencers and skit makers would still ask for go fund me in time to come especially those wey no wise among dem

My major problems is not to break too many girls heart na why I dey Watch my words..cos if I smile lasan or i open my mouth sope otilor...but how many women person wan get.

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/DSS-operative-kills-fashion-designer

nawa oo..dss official own don dorn

Meerahbel:
From DM

No think am..in their mind they are using you.how will only one person acct...procurement...sales..and you should be earning three times your salary..naso them dey do for their eyes dem dey wise.

If nigeria is to one day become like China its going to ce from the east..from assembly to manufacturing complete, from sub standard to quality like china

This one don too date yahoo boiz na why

igala1:
I have two kids in Bells University. I sent them there because I wanted a better life than mine for them. The fee of N650k each was within my budget, then when they increased it to N860k, I had to take a loan to augumemt. Now N1.3m (ie N2.6M for 2 kids) is a very tall order fro me right away in this inflationary economy.

I understand the situation of the country...but its not easy on business owners.

1 sec but no worry I go buy u vibrator...I cannot come and kill myself

igala1:
OBJ'S BELLS UNIVERSITY INCREASES SCHOOL FEES BY N500,000.

Bells University, Ota is currently rated 93rd in the Nigeria University Commission rating of higher Institutions. Uniport, RSU, Covenant University are all rated higher than her. Covenant University is a global institution with transparent admission processes. CU is rated number 1 in Nigeria University. It has won global awards. Their school fee is now N1.5M. Bells University that is situated directly opposite CU charges N1.3M. Chief Obasanjo has been very critical of the present administration of Tinubu. OBJ has berated Tinubu's policies of fuel subsidy removal without providing palliatives that has caused hardship on the citizen. However, his school has unjustly increased school fee twice in one year. In 2021, the fees was N650,00. It was increased to N860,000 in the first semester of the 2023 session. Just recently again, the school management with approval from OBJ have increased the school fees to N1.3M. This is a case of kettle calling pot black. OBJ is quick to condemn other administrations after him but acknowledges his administration as the best. It is obvious many students would apply for transcript and transfer to other schools in the coming days as the news session resumes on 15th October. Majority of the sponsors in the school are civil/private servants who have not received a salary increase in this butting harsh economy even many business owners are not left out. Rather than ameliorate the suffering of the masses, OBJ and Tinubu have lost their conscience to the devil. They have become profit grabbers at the expense of the customers. We call on OBJ and the management of BELLS UNIVERSITY to allow reason prevail and revert to status quo (is N860,000) else they would resume to an empty school. They should allow we parents breathe.

Business owners dey suffer..u don't want him to increase school fees but don't care if his workers demands increase in salary..if he doesn't increase his workers salary they would say he is wicked..if he fires some staff to do like marks year of efficiency una go still complain. Ppl who can afford 800k plus should be able to afford 1.3m except they were biting more than they can chew in the first place.. I noticed many ppl are biting more than they can chew..when road clear immediately fuel increase to current rate ppl begin park car for house.

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

. She is a good woman who fell into the hands of bad men and her firewall has been cracked but dat doesn't change the fact that she is a good woman..as a man who is married I can tell you there are some women I will alway hold dear to me anything they ask for I will always do that won't hurt my marriage cos they are pillars..one of the ladies I dated we built a valuable business worth a fortune she was the tech behind the business and the one in charge of digital marketing and securing us vc I had no choice but to give her 5 percent of the company..my wife thinks I did it alone with a couple of business partners she know but that girl is the brain how do u want me to forske this kind woman..would have married her but when she is angry she can damage lots of things though she would replace them but u neva can tell u know.

Karen2024:
Yeye gender that can't live without multiple pussies.

yes oo..men were made to fuuucckkkk pussy.

Like if you feel this meter should be for free and share if you feel it should be sold while still being owned by the electricity company

Lurdd:
So there's this girl I approached three weeks ago
She's pretty, we've been speaking on phone, I have already taken her out.. we've been chatting very often, we confessed love to each other.
Now the problem is she always flash me,
For once since we started speaking on phone has she call me with her airtime.. I've recharged her 1k airtime 5 times since we met still
She always flash me...she can flash me up to 15 miss calls at once and anytime I want to pick up the call, she'll immediately cut it. It still baffles me what this girl does with the whole airtime I've been sending her. And She works too. Even as I write this she has flashed me now. I confronted her to know what's going on. Her only excuse was that she uses her airtime to sub for data.
Seeing all of this has already turned me off
I stopped calling her on Saturday to know if she'll change and for once call me with her airtime..
But no she proved me wrong
She's still flashing me up till date.
I like this girl but this attitude of hers is so irritating.. and this is a very big red flag for me
Am already loosing interest in her
Landers advise me on what to do

Start chatting with her and do WhatsApp audio and video call only..if she no pick ur call dump her..and don't call her every time give am space...how much is her salary

You broke and you wan knack..at least find food chop first make you no go lose weight.

IamAtAnger:
I'm all u need

u no ask if na man or woman you wan go loose guard

Sets,

marvelck:
Wearing of butt pads by ladies

Biko, what is the reason behind the wearing of butt pads (fake nyansh), by a lot of ladies these days...

I once noticed a lady was wearing butt pad. Cos the size of her yansh keep increasing and deflating every day like a motor tyre. To the extent, I became confused

Why go through such stress just to entice men. Are they low on confidence, or just doing it for fashion or to entice lustful men.. Cos I don't understand.

Yansh or no yansh, the beauty of a woman is not tied to her backside. Don't let any man mislead you to hell. Oyibo women no too get yansh, but men dey chase them upandan, for movies

Biko, let's stop being fake. Let any man that wants you, like you just the way you are. Don't deceive any man with artificial looks, yansh or status, only to end up being disgraced later.

Be proud of yourself.

makes no sense..so u wear butt pad to get men attention and when una finally land bedroom he see butt pad u think say him John Thomas go stand.

Ololade4:
Good day House.. I am an ardent Nairalander but I am using another identity to cover up..

It's almost over a year now that i started the journey with her, I met her parents 4 months ago, I was told by her day that thier daughter is not free( bride price things) normally... we talked it out and we decided to get marriage.. I am 35, she's 32. She has a 8 years old boy out of wedlock, the boy stays with her parent.. I don't have any problem with that, Single mother is not a disease.. we have being living together since March this year, just like a couple and i decided to tie the knot with her later in the year which we both agreed on.

So we both agreed to go for registry then normal engagement and rest the case.. she later changed her mind, she doesn't want the court registry anymore (i am not move with this anyway, but why? Is she having another secret affairs elsewhere, or maybe she's thinking she may leave if things go south, like she doesn't want to get into a legal marriage that will hinder her from having choice in the nearest future, because I don't understand..).. She only want Engagement, without the court registry for now.
Anytime her parents, especially her mom ask her about it in the wedding plan, she will tell her we will do it later in the future .
As a man in the first place I don't need to worry about this in the first place, because all this court marriage registration only favor the woman and I know most of them crave for it...

But she... What is she up to??

any woman that is running away from court marriage doesn't value you as a man she is just managing you for whatever reason until a better option comes by..for high value man women jump at the opportunity..any gal wey no want court wedding should be ready to have other women join her too cos e no hard to do traditional wedding..a man can do 10 traditional wedding but can only do 1 court wedding.na why those registry go ask for passport.. nin...and all those other documents dem dey ask I don forget sef.