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RomanceRe: Please Is This Child Abuse? by Blue86(m): 4:59pm On Jun 04, 2022
Nope, it is not.
I have seen 22 and 36.
This one I am talking about, the gal matured for body, u no go know

It depends on how fleshly matured she is.
Christianity EtcRe: When Should I Stop Been A Good Neighbour? by Blue86(m): 4:46pm On Jun 04, 2022
Being good doesn't mean being dumb.

Just tell her, na manage we dey so for Naija o.

God help us o.

And manage your property seriously.
RomanceRe: Elders,i Need Your Inputs by Blue86(m): 12:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
She no get uncle or Father, or Father figure wey fit drum sense to the Maleh ear?
Kreddy:
There's a girl I've been dating for more than a year now, I'm still an undergraduate student, teaching in a school during the compulsory holiday ASUU. Her family members are putting too much pressure on her to get married. Recently we'd a disagreement which we settled after few weeks of keeping malice with each other. The lady really loves me and I do too. But I a married man was seeking her hands in marriage which her mother and siblings have succumbed to. After much pressure she did introduction in the early March. Then she visited me few days ago and revealed everything to me, how she's coerced in doing the introduction.She confided in me that she would abscond from home to avoid being taken by force to the man house.the man is very reach, having 4houses and a car,his first child is older than my girlfriend.
My girlfriend called me yesterday and told me she's leaving the house. I persuaded her not to because they would know it's all because of me.After much persuasion,she agreed to visit the man and spend two weeks as instructed by her mother.


She called me yesterday to inform me that,the man has not informed her wife in regards to her visit or the introduction. So he asked her to stay in his friend room who seems to have traveled. It's been two days staying with the Man.
The confusion here is that,she calls me this morning to send her 3k for her transport, that she'd tell the man not to ever call her again and ends the forced intro.l really don't know whether to send it or not. The Truth of the matter is that I've already moved on when heard of her intro.but she's insisting of leaving the man and coming back to me. Please I need your inputs
Her mother who okayed our relationship suddenly changed and told me I can't marry her again.
My feelings for her has started dropping.
RomanceRe: “no $ex Before Marriage” Relationship With A Girl Who’s Not A Virgin? by Blue86(m): 12:21pm On Jun 04, 2022
Okay,
At op.
Your daughter because of stupidity had sex with a guy she had feelings for.
They broke up.

Would you want her to keep having sex with all the men that comes her way, when it is not sure those guys will walk the aisle with her.
After those men come and go.
Seeing she has feelings for the men she let into her life?

After all now, una go say women loose.


Go the path of Christ.
Marriage is honourable, the bed undefiled.
Fornicators and adulterers, God will judge.
If you are wise, you are wise for yourself.
If you are fool, only you will bear it.
FamilyRe: Seeking Sincere Advise by Blue86(m): 12:13pm On Jun 04, 2022
Are you a Christian?
If yes, where is Jesus in all these.

And if no,
No true peace without the way, the truth, and the life
CelebritiesRe: Evgenia Smirnova Falls 80ft To Death From Apartment During 'Sex Party' In Thai by Blue86(m): 11:46am On Jun 04, 2022
May we not use our brief time in what will destroy us but in what we make us.
Christianity EtcVision Of A Call To Chrsitians To Pray For Themselves by Blue86(op): 11:44am On Jun 04, 2022
I saw written on a piece of paper :
THINK.
WE NATION, OUGHT TO ALWAYS PRAY FOR OURSELVES.

The scripture calls us an Holy nation.
1 Peter 2 : 9

Correct?

If that is so, when we do deviate from that standard, we miss the mark, right?
1 Peter 1 : 15 - 17

And as the holy nation of God, walking in the standard set, are to pray for ourselves, that those weak may be healed ; that those backslidden may be restored ; that those in trouble may be rescued.
That doesn't mean we are to neglect the art of correcting and rebuking and exhorting.
While we are at praying, do these mentioned things, if need be.

For example :
1.God help Sister so and so, she is not smart in her relationships
2. God empower brother so and so, he has lots of mouth to feed
3. God heal their dad/mum, that the children may not be left unattended to properly etc.
In the name of Jesus.

The prayer of brethren walking in unrighteousness brings no power down.
James 5 : 16
1 Peter 3 : 12
Ephesians 6 : 18
RomanceRe: Guys, Will You Do This Kind Of Thing For Your gf or wife? (photo) by Blue86(m): 11:03am On Jun 03, 2022
There is nothing wrong in the man wearing that.

But a lot of wrong with what the woman is wearing below the waist.
PoliticsRe: Is Tinubu Ready For This Fight He Has Started ? by Blue86(m): 10:54am On Jun 03, 2022
Both Tinubu and Atiku no go win.

With the statement Tinubu made, e don fumble.
FashionRe: Bum Shorts: Is This The Trending Fashion Among Men? by Blue86(m): 10:35am On Jun 03, 2022
What is not normal is not normal.
This trend is not normal.
CelebritiesRe: Amber Heard's Reaction To Her Court Case Loss by Blue86(m): 2:08pm On Jun 02, 2022
Till the end, Amber, till the end, still holding on to your lies.

The American right is not the right to abuse a man, as a woman, and think it isn't wrong.

Watch out for women with this mindset!
PoliticsRe: Travellers Kidnapped On Birningwari-Kaduna Highway by Blue86(m): 1:59pm On Jun 02, 2022
Can't the Kaduna State government and its neighbouring state government empower an armed policing force, like Amtoekun, to guard those roads.
Christianity EtcRe: Church Member Becomes Mentally Deranged After Burning Her Village Shrine by Blue86(m): 1:12pm On Jun 02, 2022
We are to preach Christ Jesus to every creature not force them to accept Christ.
And it is the right of the creatures to choose Jesus or no.

Now if Jesus Christ personally commands you to decimate a shrine, go ahead.
But if he doesn't, don't presume and go do it.

This shrine we are talking about is in the jurisdiction of the rights of the worshippers.
If they don't want the christ, don't force Him on them.
That's where some Christian's get it wrong.

If they want the shrine gone, collective people that pay homages to the shrine before, will come to you to do something.
Then you can do something.

And also, if those shrine worshippers attack you for preaching the gospel, then Christ will fight you.
But not you forcing Christ on them.

And however, Christ would have warned her severally, and with other men of God, before embarking on her mission.
And second, don't think Christ have forsaken her.
He will come for her and restore her madness.
By that time, she would have learnt her lesson.


Christian's do not force Jesus on people.
Christian's preach Christ Jesus, and with patience consistently and prayers.
That the ones they preach to may turn by decision from the darkness into light.
RomanceRe: Parting Shots To All Bisexuals And Gays. by Blue86(m): 1:00pm On Jun 02, 2022
It is against nature for the same sex to be sexually attracted to another.

Do you think then, that it will go well with those who practise what is naturally unnatural?
RomanceRe: 19-year-old Girl Beaten To Pulp By Her Boyfriend In Delta State (photos) by Blue86(m): 12:39pm On Jun 02, 2022
I answered that in the third paragraph, sir.
SmartyPants:
so married men aren't beating their wives?
RomanceRe: Heartbroken Lady Almost Kills Herself After Boyfriend Of 5yrs Married Her Friend by Blue86(m): 4:27pm On Jun 01, 2022
I think it is time people start being submitted to the dictates of the Lord.
Rather than having your own way

The Lord knows the end from the beginning.
And the hidden things of men's[ man and woman] heart.

He is the way, the truth and the life.

If people have been submissive to the Lord, no one will waste your time.
Because you will be informed and up to date.
RomanceRe: 19-year-old Girl Beaten To Pulp By Her Boyfriend In Delta State (photos) by Blue86(m): 4:23pm On Jun 01, 2022
Listening to the wisdom of the elders ( the bible) will go a long way in adding to your life.

Couples life without marriage is wrong.

And being in a marriage without the go ahead of the Lord Jesus, the author and the finisher of our faith, is wrong.
RomanceRe: My Husband Doesn’t Want Sex – And It’s Wrecking My Self-confidence by Blue86(m): 7:31am On Jun 01, 2022
Are you a Christian?
If you are.
Then what is Christ Jesus the Lord for?
Haven't you read He is a Helper, and saviour ?
rzekman7:
I thought we’d turned the corner after a series of blazing rows. But it’s been more than a month …

I have been married to my husband for nearly four years. He is 34 and I am 33, with no children. We have had problems with our sex life in the past, as I’ve wanted it more than my husband. We have had blazing rows about this and though I felt we had turned a corner recently it’s now been more than a month since we were intimate. I am tired of the effect this has on my self-confidence. He regularly stays up late and I often go to bed on my own as he loses track of time. I am becoming despondent in our marriage overall, especially with the duties I used to take pride in. He makes a lot of effort to keep up with his hobbies and friends, so I feel as though our sex life isn’t important enough to him. I don’t want sex to be a chore but unless I said something he would never raise the subject. What do I do?
RomanceRe: Lady Cries Out As Her Husband Calls His Sidechick To Cook In Her Presence by Blue86(m): 7:27am On Jun 01, 2022
Well, what the man did is not good.

And also for two people living together, your crave differs.
So next time if you are the one who cooks, ask the other one what they crave before venturing to cook what you chose.
Christianity EtcRe: Jesus Walked Into My Prayer Room And Gave Me A Message To Nigerians by Blue86(m): 5:05pm On May 30, 2022
Because that nation is full of individuals that He died for.
Kobojunkie:
Stop using Jesus Christ's name to perpetrate your lies abeg! undecided

How can Jesus Christ, the embodiment of God's agreement and Covenant in the Kingdom of God, meant for individuals- Matthew 26 vs 28 - 30 - give a message concerning a nation that is of this world abeg? undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Video: Dead Stampede Victims Of Port Harcourt Church (kings Assembly) by Blue86(m): 11:24am On May 29, 2022
Greed can find you out.

Greed can spoil things.

Surely if only those it was meant for came, these wouldn't have happened.

But " atenu's" no go allow man rest.
Christianity EtcRe: Love by Blue86(m): 11:22am On May 29, 2022
[b][/b]Jesus is not a white man's. It is everyone's. He is the Christ. And Isrealites aren't even white self. They are olive oil coloured skinned.
And many Isrealites don't even receive Him.
However the ones that did, He chose 12 to go for Him. And those ones went everywhere, beginning from Jersualem.
KINGJAJA888:
Everywhere I go Jesus Jesus. This brainwashed Nigerians won't allow somebody have Peace in this Country. Must Everybody believe in your useless God??.
I Can't have a reasonable conversation with my fellow Nigerian without them Mentioning the white Man's Jesus at any single instance they get. I'm Legit fed up.
Christianity EtcRe: As An Atheist This Is My Favorite Passage In The Bible by Blue86(m): 11:18am On May 29, 2022
The revolution of the sun is solely on the command of God. It answers to God alone. But for a man to alter it by a decree, and God allowed it, it means God listened to the order Joshua gave.
Hallelujah.

Secondly, the same God after that said all nations should come to Him, and pray to Him, for He answers prayers.

My life is a life of answered prayers.


Hohenheim:
Joshua 10:12-14

12 On the day the Lord gave the Amorites over to Israel, Joshua said to the Lord in the presence of Israel:

“Sun, stand still over Gibeon,
and you, moon, over the Valley of Aijalon.”

13 So the sun stood still, and the moon stopped, till the nation avenged itself on its enemies, as it is written in the Book of Jashar.
The sun stopped in the middle of the sky and delayed going down about a full day.

14 There has never been a day like it before or since, a day when the Lord listened to a human being. Surely the Lord was fighting for Israel!

Not only did God kill everyone on earth by stopping the earth from spinning, he also clearly states that he doesn't listen to human beings, yet Christians keep wasting their time and energy praying to God.
FamilyRe: Is It Okay For Wife To Initiate Sex Always by Blue86(m): 7:32am On May 29, 2022
Please read that verse you quoted well again. Then read what begat that discussion and read down again.
Kobojunkie:
The same God who said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - ? undecided

Look, the OP sees what husband is doing wrong but turns a sort of blind eye to it. Doesn't that inform you enough to know that God is the last thing on her mind at this time, this since her god of choice is instead her husband from the looks of things. undecided

Make una no dey drag God's name into these things abeg! undecided
FamilyRe: Is It Okay For Wife To Initiate Sex Always by Blue86(m): 5:54pm On May 28, 2022
Your husband needs to be warned.

You are not wrong in initiating sex.

He is wrong in denying you, and not initiating sex too.

If you know who he respects deeply and you can trust, report him to that one.
Preferably, a woman.

And the best person to report to is God, In Jesus name.
RomanceRe: I Didnt Beg You To Pay My Fees, Dont Use It To Trap Me – Lady Tells Boyfriend by Blue86(m): 12:04pm On May 28, 2022
Some will be saying because they saw a future, na im make dem lash money like that on top woman. When she still get papa and mama.

If u see future, marry am.

Not lash money like that.

School fees na parents responsibilty.
Clothes and upkeeps na parents responsibility.
What you should do is jara.
Like taking her out and other pretty stuffs.

Except if she is a struggling orphan.
RomanceRe: I Didnt Beg You To Pay My Fees, Dont Use It To Trap Me – Lady Tells Boyfriend by Blue86(m):
My dog stepped on a bee.
When we say make una wise
Una no go gree.
FoodRe: High Cost Of Living: See The Mangoes I Bought For #500 by Blue86(m): 7:49am On May 28, 2022
Una no dey farm?
Na to just build house and build filling station una dey do?
FamilyRe: Should I Humble Myself Before My Cousin? by Blue86(m): 7:42am On May 28, 2022
Don't go back. Cry to God. Jesus uplifts downtrodden people. He is a proud a man, your cousin is .
MrOjay1:
My younger cousin is what you will regard as a typical big boy.He drives a good car and is living large.

We haven't been in contact for a long while so I decided to get his number and call him to catch up on old times. I really wanted him to put me through his line of work so I could solve my personal issues. He invited me over to his place and I stayed there for 3 days.

Omo after the first day there,he gave me his clothes to help him wash and instructed me to clean his flat.Hmmm I did it o

He came back with his woman and didn't even mutter as much as a thank you.

He even told her I was one of those his family members 'wey no get levels'.He said it in a very spiteful and disregarding manner.This na person I senior o and he do visit us then when he was little.

I was a little pissed at that descrption and he noticed it.there are other humiliating stuff that happened that day but I don't really have strength for typing.He was just using me to shine in front of the girl.

Before I left,he told me I will need to humble myself before him unless nothing for me.

I'm thinking of going back there to apologise to him for being pissed at him.

How do you guys see it?

I really need his percuniary support to solve my personal issues.
TV/MoviesRe: CGI Animations. by Blue86(op): 2:30am On May 25, 2022
Thanks, will check it out
Tmberwolf1:
AJIN!!! Very awesome anime!
TV/MoviesCGI Animations. by Blue86(op): 7:21pm On May 24, 2022
Please can someone give me a list of great CGI animations that I can download.
Either American or Korean or Chinese or Japanese.
Action packed please.
FamilyRe: I Am Confused � by Blue86(m): 11:51am On May 21, 2022
But my advice is this, you men should know how to be men and stand your ground in your own house.

Let your yes out of wisdom be yes.
And your no out of wisdom be no.

Must you be manipulated to doing what the one that should be submissive wants.
Because of sex.

For her to manipulate you and hold your clothes in that manner means you are not holding the family as a man.

Be men, you men.

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