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If you are a Christian, watch over her in prayer

Davies25:
Hello familylanders,
I have a 3 year old girl who's my life. She's cute, good and almost perfect.
But recently, I've discovered she's intentionally being disobedient. Like, you literally have to threaten her sometimes to do somethings. People say she's spoilt but i don't see that element in her. I just see a growing girl. She doesn't overdo things.

The reason for this thread be say...
Uhm, my girl likes to cuddle, she likes to be touched, more like a cat �. I didn't see anything sexual in it until my baby was Caught Kissing a 4 year old male. My heart has been paining me since then. Have i failed as a father?
The mom wanted me to scold her or even beat her but I've been confused. Does she know it's a sexual act or she just saw someone doing it?
Can my baby understand sex education at 3?
What should be my reaction?
I'm lost really.

Iyanma.

If this is true, then it is a confirmation the world is truly evil.

Better hide in Jesus, for safety.

Hope all is not just to get down with a girl?

Secondly, do you masturbate?

Because those enagage in masturbation are very very intimidated talking to a girl.

Thirdly, you need to be close to Jesus, and let Him work on your personality.
Because If you go like this will you end up with a red simP card.

Just sit down and reason.

If na two orphans wey you give 111k school fee scholarship, for college of education ; don't you think it will pave smooth path for you, and won't be a waste?

See how you waste 111k on someone wey be like say dem beg force am go date with you.

Sometimes make una dey reason.


Guy you are simp in the true biblical sense.

Biblical wisdom is golden.

Say no to fornication.
Say no to you are wise in your own opinion.

It is being wise in your own opinion, not God's that brought about all these chaos.

The thing is over there are opportunities for jobs one can do, if laziness ain't in your blood.
And payment per hour.

Why scam for goodness sake?

Godliness with contentment is great gain

He groomed that huge bush meat to get killed by it.

Oh.
Well if they follow my comments on other topics, they will get to know I am no simp.

Jovialjune1:
They will soon call you a simp, simple basic logic is usually far from them, that is how daft they are.

A woman who respects you when you cheat on her has a problem with self esteem.

And a woman who disrespects a man that is loyal to her is for the streets.

Be loyal, and have a loyal spouse.
That's being blessed.

She is not the most beautiful, definitely.
Neither is He.

But developing together and being loyal is the key.

Nothing wrong so ever in what he said.
He was not insulting in whatever he said.

Anyone who tells you are the most beautiful, na lie e dey lie.
You don't have to be the best looking to get loyalty.

Beauty is vain.
A woman or man who fears the Lord shall be praised.

She needs work to do on herself.
Till then put a pause on wifing her.

Don't mind having a relationship with one with more cool and cosy attitude.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Therefore we were buried with Him through baptism into death, that just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
ROMANS 6 : 4

As a believer who is in Christ Jesus, we are expected by God to walk in newness of life by His Spirit ( the glory of the Father ).
Not in the old, sinful, defeated, hopeless, fearful life.

How do we walk in this newness of life by the Holy Spirit?
By the words of God in the testament of His Christ.
For The Lord said the Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth.
And also that is words are spirit and life.
When you spend time with the word, you are also spending time with the Holy Spirit.
And when you are receiving the word into you, you are receiving the strength of the Spirit into you.
Haven't you even read that the word of God is the sword of the Spirit?

I remember a time I was praying that Holy Spirit should manifest Himself to me. While at it, I happened to see a vision of the scarlet covered bible I use, and from it's pages, I saw vapour looking smoke coming out.
And I remembered as well that a time I dreamt a man of God saying, "Spending time with the word of God is spending time with the Spirit."
That same day I happened to come across that same man of God in the Tele saying the exact same words.

Now ask yourself this question.
Am I being transformed into what Christ wants me to really be, or I am a mould of what the world wants me to be, and what they think I am?

Which church do you attend together?

Go for counselling together there.
Or invite pastor and his wife to your home to counsel you both.

Pinkie2018:
Please I have a problem in my marriage. I need advice. Pls no insult.
I got married 2020 and did the court Marriage last month. My husband has been a wonderful husband and by God's grace I have been a wonderful wife and a mother. We have one child.
The issue I'm having in my marriage is anger management. When ever my husband gets angry, he says all sorts of things to me, like leave my house, you are a bad wife, different sorts of insults of which whenever we reconcile he apologizes sometimes.
He's the type that no matter the good things you do, once he gets annoyed, he abuse you verbally of which really hurts me. Last month we had an argument that resulted to a fight, her beat me like his fellow man and locked me out and ask me to leave his house. Neighbors intervened and we settled.
Something happened today. He came back home around 2.am this morning instead of the usual 11-12pm he usually arrive home. I wasn't happy, he tried to explain but I knew he was lying because my sister in-law already called one of his friends before he came back. So I wasn't happy with him but I didn't make trouble with him. So this morning I drank aju mbaise and hot drink on empty stomach, so it was affecting me and making me want to faint. So it happened that he was giving me money for something this morning but I felt like fainting so I threw the money on the floor and quickly fell on the bed. After few minutes, I regained myself and got up, all the while my husband never cared to know what the problem was. I got up and asked him for the money, he started shouting and insulting me that why will I trow money on the floor for him. I tried to explain to him what Happened, he never cared to listen. He started insulting me, saying I will leave his house, that he can't continue with the marriage, that he will kill me. Note, it's not the first time he has threatened to kill me. I don't know what to do. His family members have talked to him about this his attitude about marriage but he gets worse. Pls I need advice because this his "leave my house" and threat all the time is too much. Little issue that couples have and settle, my husband always make it a big deal. If he annoys me and I get annoyed and refuse to talk to him, he will vex and start insulting me and threatening me. Pls I need your advice, what do you think I should do? how can I change him because I don't want my marriage to crash?, we have a daughter and u wouldn't want her to grow in a divided home. Thanks

Please bro.
Go to Jesus.
And let me carve your destiny for you.
You didn't come to this world for women relationships.
Get to know your destiny in God. And God will match you with a purpose filled complementing woman.

Youngerikan:
I'm 27 years of age and ever since I was born av not gotten a girlfriend, I'm good looking, I'm 5'10 I have the right physics but every girl have wooed turn me down, I'm not the type of guy that like talking too much and I can't chase a girl too much.
But just being lonely everything in this world is just so meaning less to me I need a companion someone I can emotional connect to pls wat can I do...

You acted irresponsibly by committing fornication.

Now do not compound the problem more by running away from your manly duties of taking care of the child.

Do not abort that child.
For good things also come out from the mud.
And it is not a go ahead to marry the girl.
But a lesson to straighten your ways out and be a sheep with the lord.

I hope you hear all these things.

It is that simple.

You mean this Tufiakwa - hairstyle?

He shall save his people from their sins.
He showed up to destroy the works of the devil.

The testimony of a believer in Christ should be that of being saved from iniquities.
A bad mouth turned a good mouth.
A slut turned a saint.
A liar turned a truth teller.
An alcoholic turned sober.
A beast turned harmless etc.

Anything besides that is not life from the eternal life himself - Jesus Christ.

His death is not freedom to go on doing what you feel or want.
But a provision of remission of sins past.
Freedom from sinning.
And the obtaining of forgiveness when you mess up, with the motive of repentance.

Do not be deceived, because you can be.
[ So many are deluded right now]
That's why we are told to be careful and watch, not to be deceived.
For the ones who claim Christ as their Lord, and keep living in sins will find themselves in hell, if they don't repent.
1 Corinthians 6 : 8 - 11
James 4 : 8

"Let him that stole steal no more" entails repentance.
Ephesians 4 : 28

" Let fornication, covetousness, uncleanness ( homosexuality and co), not be once named among you " implies repentance.
Ephesians 5 : 3

"Let everyone that names the name of Christ, depart from iniquity entails repentance.
Isn't departing from a wrong doing repenting?
And it begins with godly sorrow?
2 Timothy 2 : 19
2 Corinthians 7 : 9 - 11

Severally Jesus spoke to the church ( candle sticks before Him; indicating they are His) in the early chapters of the book of Revelation to repent from the wrongs they were doing.
And you with your high and mighty opinion do say and promote that repentance from being bad is not one of the messages of Christ!

He shall save his people from their sins.
He showed up to destroy the works of the devil.

The testimony of a believer in Christ should be that of being saved from iniquities.
A bad mouth turned a good mouth.
A slut turned a saint.
A liar turned a truth teller.
An alcoholic turned sober.
A beast turned harmless etc.

Anything besides that is not life from the eternal life himself - Jesus Christ.

His death is not freedom to go on doing what you feel or want.
But a provision of remission of sins past.
Freedom from sinning.
And the obtaining of forgiveness when you mess up, with the motive of repentance.

Do not be deceived, because you can be.
[ So many are deluded right now]
That's why we are told to be careful and watch, not to be deceived.
For the ones who claim Christ as their Lord, and keep living in sins will find themselves in hell, if they don't repent.
1 Corinthians 6 : 8 - 11
James 4 : 8

"Let him that stole steal no more" entails repentance.
Ephesians 4 : 28

" Let fornication, covetousness, uncleanness ( homosexuality and co), not be once named among you " implies repentance.
Ephesians 5 : 3

"Let everyone that names the name of Christ, depart from iniquity entails repentance.
Isn't departing from a wrong doing repenting?
And it begins with godly sorrow?
2 Timothy 2 : 19
2 Corinthians 7 : 9 - 11

Severally Jesus spoke to the church ( candle sticks before Him; indicating they are His) in the early chapters of the book of Revelation to repent from the wrongs they were doing.
And you with your high and mighty opinion do say and promote that repentance from being bad is not one of the messages of Christ!

Oh.

That's too bad.

I see.

PoliteActivist:
There is actually another aspect to this people don't think of. As a black person, every interaction you have with the police is a chance to become a millionaire. That won't happen if you just meekly comply!

Didn't see no racial profiling whatsoever here.

Don't resist.
Simple.

Comply.
Any issue, settle in court.

Acting thuggish can get you killed.

Don't be stupid.

See how you were manhandled like a fowl.
Going all about, rather than comply and settle whatever in court.
Is that too hard?

Let us stop all these racial bitterness passed down by the parents to the children.

Even the recording is an evidence against the man.

Because over here I see a man running from the cops, and resisting.

Why are you running?

Witchcraft is real.
It is of the devil.
And it can be used as a medium to steal from you.
The devil comes to steal.
Your spouse can be stolen from you via witchcraft ;
Your belongings ;
Your health etc.

An elderly pastor once told me that his mum was heavily pregnant with one of his expected sibling.
One day, she awoke and her belly was as flat as a teenager.
Till date, the baby is no where to be found.
This woman isn't inexperienced in giving birth; it's not her first time.

Even a person and their mind can be stolen via witchcraft.
Just as the various means people steal in the physical, so it is in the spiritual.

Your concentration can be stolen through diversion and frustration, that you might not be able to manifest the celestial glory allotted to you.
Because the hordes of darkness know that if you move in that celestial glory in its purity, you will destroy their kingdom.
That's what a demonic entity of high authority said in the realm of the spirit, while I watched.
Even your terrestrial glory can be stolen.

Works of witchcraft should be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
And a command should be given to the same thief ( spirit ) to restore what it had stolen, seven fold.
And ten times.
That's what the Bible says.

PROVERBS 6 : 31

Witchcraft is real.
It is of the devil.
And it can be used as a medium to steal from you.
The devil comes to steal.
Your spouse can be stolen from you via witchcraft ;
Your belongings ;
Your health etc.

An elderly pastor once told me that his mum was heavily pregnant with one of his expected sibling.
One day, she awoke and her belly was as flat as a teenager.
Till date, the baby is no where to be found.
This woman isn't inexperienced in giving birth; it's not her first time.

Even a person and their mind can be stolen via witchcraft.
Just as the various means people steal in the physical, so it is in the spiritual.

Your concentration can be stolen through diversion and frustration, that you might not be able to manifest the celestial glory allotted to you.
Because the hordes of darkness know that if you move in that celestial glory in its purity, you will destroy their kingdom.
That's what a demonic entity of high authority said in the realm of the spirit, while I watched.
Even your terrestrial glory can be stolen.

Works of witchcraft should be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
And a command should be given to the same thief ( spirit ) to restore what it had stolen, seven fold.
And ten times.
That's what the Bible says.

PROVERBS 6 : 31

As long as you are obedient to the Lord as a sheep does to a shepherd; you shall not want.

Your obedience to the Lord Jesus will land you in green pastures. Just as the sheep with a shepherd.

Your close walking with the Lord will grant you protection and shield from the terrors of death.
For the Lord is who you rely on, and who you are loyal to.
You will call on Him, and He shall save you from your enemies : the pangs of death, floods of wickedness, sorrows of the grave, traps of death.

Those who walk with the Lord Jesus as a sheep does a Shepherd are the ones who get to have tables prepared for them in the presence of their enemies.
[ Something to think about, for all who think all eating in the dream or vision is demonic.]

Goats should forget about getting their heads anointed with oil - cup running over.

Those who are sheep in acts draws the attention of mercy and goodness, and will finally end up in the abode of the Father forever.

Are you acting as a sheep is with a Shepherd with the Lord or you are acting as a goat?
The blessings and promises of Psalm 23 are for true sheeps not goats.

Psalm 23

As long as you are obedient to the Lord as a sheep does to a shepherd; you shall not want.

Your obedience to the Lord Jesus will land you in green pastures. Just as the sheep with a shepherd.

Your close walking with the Lord will grant you protection and shield from the terrors of death.
For the Lord is who you rely on, and who you are loyal to.
You will call on Him, and He shall save you from your enemies : the pangs of death, floods of wickedness, sorrows of the grave, traps of death.

Those who walk with the Lord Jesus as a sheep does a Shepherd are the ones who get to have tables prepared for them in the presence of their enemies.
[ Something to think about, for all who think all eating in the dream or vision is demonic.]

Goats should forget about getting their heads anointed with oil - cup running over.

Those who are sheep in acts draws the attention of mercy and goodness, and will finally end up in the abode of the Father forever.

Are you acting as a sheep is with a Shepherd with the Lord or you are acting as a goat?
The blessings and promises of Psalm 23 are for true sheeps not goats.

Psalm 23

Those Psalms given you are mercies of healing to you.
It won't go on like that forever
Best, leave a sinful life.
Spend time with God and fix His words into your spirit, and use the words from your spirit to fight any situation.

That's what is expected from a Christian.

You sow Yahoo, you reap Ya-hoo.

Jesus is the way

Tell him to seek the Lord.
Seek His face.

And He will find his destiny.

Where una dey get this kind gurls from?

Well, for you to be with this kind of gurl reveals the manner of man you are.

There is something as a demonic anointing / empowerment that can increase your power.
You just had that. And it is not of God.

Be with Jesus.

Messi1:
It is to 7pm here. I just woke up from sleep. A short nap.

Background: I was obsessed with Michael Jackson and have been listening to his song "give in to me" for almost a week now...I love the guy from roots of my heart.

Dream: I dreamt that I saw myself in a place and lo and behold I saw Michael Jackson appeared in White garment and stood still. I ran to fall at his feets but he ordered me to stop and not to cross, that he's in a different world.There was a thin line between us. He brought out a black and a white paper of the same size. He said if I want the black paper he will annoint me then I'll become like he was. I said I wanted the white paper, he told me to look to my right, I saw my late dad. I ran with joy to hug my dad but he ordered me to stop! I look down and Saw a thin line between us, he told me he was in a different world. I told him that I wanted him to annoint me. He placed his hands on my forehead and prayed for me, then squeezed liquid substance on my head and gave me a white