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A woman intending to get married, should know how to be a keeper of the home.
Not to be a foolish woman who destroys her marriage with her own hands.
The best counsellor is the word of God, the Holy Spirit, and the ones who are wise in God, in godly marriage.
Not any one on social media or any literature book ; nor bitter old women, and old women without wisdom.
Proverbs 14 : 1

A person adamant to rebuke will end up destroyed without remedy.
Proverbs 29 : 1

Avarice : Don't for the love of money sell your worth.
Many have been destroyed for that.
Just like how a mouse is caught in a mousetrap with a cheese/food bait.
[ Speaking to all, especially women. ]
1 Timothy 6 : 10

My naija people, I dey see trouble.
Abeg! make una pray.
Wetin I dey see no good.
Make we pray.
Na beg I take beg u.
Make Baba God deliver us from trouble wey dey wan dey, in Jesus name.

Do not take this as an insult. But please go and follow after Jesus. It will save you from all these unnecessary insults.

You think smooching and stuff is life.

Life is when you know God's true purpose for you and you fulfil it.

OlaitanAkanbi:
Today I felt so unhappy because I don’t like drama have been single for a while now and am not complaining or searching for love by force am in my 30S.There is a lady in my area she is a single mother she sells cloth , boxer , children toy and cloth too have known her for while but we recently started talking 3month ago . She likes me and I know it we tried something intimacy before but it was only kiss no s£..X .
She an her friend owns the she shop
Her other friend is single mother but older than her . One day I started talking to both of them buying cloth at there shop but one of the ladies that owns the shops like me and I like her too we’ve been cool as friend till her other friend got jealous of us oh . Yesterday I was passing through and I branched her shop to greet her she asked me what will I drink I say nothing am okay then she and her other friend was drink best cream and gisting . Then her older friend brought out a topic that women endure more than man that was how the argument start oh I told her man Go through a lot but keep silent that men endure more . I went outside to get table water and came back to her shop . Can you believe matter change oh the older lady as already poisoned her friend mind she just change it for me at first I though she was high but then I realized it was not highness again . She insulted me ( calling me a old fool that as old as I am I don’t have a wife, child and am happy living is that life that am not a man am still a boy ). I felt so touched because this lady was being pushed to say this shit to me her other friend was just laughing with style I just told them both that I thought she was mature but she disappointed me and I left ..



Now I notice she as been gossiping about me and her telling her friend but why are woman like this I took her as my friend took her out .
Even the day we where in a lounge bar we kissed and romance deep she told me to drive to any other location that the place is too crowded. But that day I was scared i felt it was a set up because it came too easy we’ve not even talked for 3 days we are kissing but have known her for like a year plus but then we don’t talk just greeting . So I controlled my self from so we didn’t have s£x but she wanted it but when I notice the closeness was too much and I don’t want to develop feelings her child is just 3 years an her shop is very close to my house in my street so we are just friend . Am just wondering why she just changed at me and insulted me I treated her nice bought things as friend we even went to the beach together and we did not have issues why did she insult me is strange an I don’t even have the other friend number or communicate much with her .


Please I only post here for the mature ones to tell me if woman naturally get jealous of another woman relationship

Please if you insult me for posting my own topic or my Wording’s
May God Torment the person .
Am not here for cruise
God bless you

In Him was life ; and the life was the light of men.
And the light shines in darkness ; and the darkness comprehended it not.

We thank you Father for your word, in Jesus name.

What is darkeness?
Is it not the absence of light?

The light shines in darkness, and the darkness [the absence of that light] doesn't come upon to overtake it.

If you are having mental health issues, [which is darkness ofcourse], go into the word of God [ which is light ] that tackles and addresses mental health issues.
And the mental health issues will be dealt with it.

You can not use the light[ the word of God] that addresses mental health issues for the light[word of God] that addresses laziness.

For for every darkness, there is a light that quenches it.

Go you Christian, and look for the good words of God that addresses that specific darkness in your life, and cast it down.

The light shines in darkness, and the darkness [ the absence of the light] comprehends it not.

JOHN 1 : 4 - 5

Let the pastor release you. No release yourself. Stay there

1vid:
I am currently working with a church that pays me 61k monthly.

I have a calling to start up my own ministry and I am there for learning.

So, I am thinking to quit to start a job job as a sienna driver in a company that pays 50k monthly, I just want to experience outside work and also raise money to start up my ministry.

So, I need some advice.

The Christian that leaves the path of doing right shall find himself in the congregation of the dead.
And he/she can be touched by demons, if they want to.

Let me speak of a true life scenario from the lips of one who was a demonic agent :
A man once boasted to him that he had power in the blood of Jesus Christ. As he was boasting, the astral forces working with this demonic agent reported to him that this Christian boasting wasn't freed from anger and greed.
So he ordered 14 wicked spirits of death to kill him.
And these wicked spirits killed the man in his sleep within 9 days.

He who is born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one touches him not.

Keep playing with ouija boards, visiting ungodly sites and locations, messing up yourselves, and see if you will be immune to a demonic assault or attack when they launch it.

Life is serious!

PROVERBS 21 : 16
1 JOHN 5 : 18

The Christian that leaves the path of doing right shall find himself in the congregation of the dead.
And he/she can be touched by demons, if they want to.

Let me speak of a true life scenario from the lips of one who was a demonic agent :
A man once boasted to him that he had power in the blood of Jesus Christ. As he was boasting, the astral forces working with this demonic agent reported to him that this Christian boasting wasn't freed from anger and greed.
So he ordered 14 wicked spirits of death to kill him.
And these wicked spirits killed the man in his sleep within 9 days.

He who is born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one touches him not.

Keep playing with ouija boards, visiting ungodly sites and locations, messing up yourselves, and see if you will be immune to a demonic assault or attack when they launch it.

Life is serious!

PROVERBS 21 : 16
1 JOHN 5 : 18

I had a vision of a four sided transparent container containing cloves.
Praying further, I saw the apparition of a man relating to me that, if you want your life to have spice, come to the Lord LORD.

The relationship with the Lord is master - subject one : and from there you will enjoy peace.
Know that, and have peace.

Everything is based on his terms, not on your's or what you feel.
Your way is not the way, He's is.

So don't come to Him with a mind of Him bending to your will, [ though He won't anyways], come to Him to design your life with His good will, being submissive to His commands.

Then He will begin to make something sweet out of your life on a daily.
Your life will be purposeful.
Not a life that jumps on every bandwagon.
But a life with definition.

How long will you keep having your way, when you've seen it didn't lead you to any meaningful satisfaction.
Must you die out of the rails, before you fall back in line?

A man truly having relationship with the Lord will not be a victim of suicide or depression, nor be a supporter of evil.
For their lives are spiced up, and not hopeless or empty.
They understand things.

A shepherd - sheep relationship is a master - subject one.
His definition of love/friendship is in doing what He commands, not on how many times you say you love him.
John 14 : 15
John 15 : 14

He is called Lord Jesus.
The Lord before the Jesus is not just a surname, but His position.
And the name Jesus is not just a first name but His mission.
The mission to save His people from their sins.
Align yourself in agreement with the Lord, and you will live freed.

1 Peter 2 : 25
Matthew 1 : 21
Matthew 7 : 21 - 23

I had a vision of a four sided transparent container containing cloves.
Praying further, I saw the apparition of a man relating to me that, if you want your life to have spice, come to the Lord LORD.

The relationship with the Lord is master - subject one : and from there you will enjoy peace.
Know that, and have peace.

Everything is based on his terms, not on your's or what you feel.
Your way is not the way, He's is.

So don't come to Him with a mind of Him bending to your will, [ though He won't anyways], come to Him to design your life with His good will, being submissive to His commands.

Then He will begin to make something sweet out of your life on a daily.
Your life will be purposeful.
Not a life that jumps on every bandwagon.
But a life with definition.

How long will you keep having your way, when you've seen it didn't lead you to any meaningful satisfaction.
Must you die out of the rails, before you fall back in line?

A man truly having relationship with the Lord will not be a victim of suicide or depression, nor be a supporter of evil.
For their lives are spiced up, and not hopeless or empty.
They understand things.

A shepherd - sheep relationship is a master - subject one.
His definition of love/friendship is in doing what He commands, not on how many times you say you love him.
John 14 : 15
John 15 : 14

He is called Lord Jesus.
The Lord before the Jesus is not just a surname, but His position.
And the name Jesus is not just a first name but His mission.
The mission to save His people from their sins.
Align yourself in agreement with the Lord, and you will live freed.

1 Peter 2 : 25
Matthew 1 : 21
Matthew 7 : 21 - 23

I had a vision of a four sided transparent container containing cloves.
Praying further, I saw the apparition of a man relating to me that, if you want your life to have spice, come to the Lord LORD.

The relationship with the Lord is master - subject one : and from there you will enjoy peace.
Know that, and have peace.

Everything is based on his terms, not on your's or what you feel.
Your way is not the way, He's is.

So don't come to Him with a mind of Him bending to your will, [ though He won't anyways], come to Him to design your life with His good will, being submissive to His commands.

Then He will begin to make something sweet out of your life on a daily.
Your life will be purposeful.
Not a life that jumps on every bandwagon.
But a life with definition.

How long will you keep having your way, when you've seen it didn't lead you to any meaningful satisfaction.
Must you die out of the rails, before you fall back in line?

A man truly having relationship with the Lord will not be a victim of suicide or depression, nor be a supporter of evil.
For their lives are spiced up, and not hopeless or empty.
They understand things.

A shepherd - sheep relationship is a master - subject one.
His definition of love/friendship is in doing what He commands, not on how many times you say you love him.
John 14 : 15
John 15 : 14

He is called Lord Jesus.
The Lord before the Jesus is not just a surname, but His position.
And the name Jesus is not just a first name but His mission.
The mission to save His people from their sins.
Align yourself in agreement with the Lord, and you will live freed.

1 Peter 2 : 25
Matthew 1 : 21
Matthew 7 : 21 - 23

I had a vision of a four sided transparent container containing cloves.
Praying further, I saw the apparition of a man relating to me that, if you want your life to have spice, come to the Lord LORD.

The relationship with the Lord is master - subject one : and from there you will enjoy peace.
Know that, and have peace.

Everything is based on his terms, not on your's or what you feel.
Your way is not the way, He's is.

So don't come to Him with a mind of Him bending to your will, [ though He won't anyways], come to Him to design your life with His good will, being submissive to His commands.

Then He will begin to make something sweet out of your life on a daily.
Your life will be purposeful.
Not a life that jumps on every bandwagon.
But a life with definition.

How long will you keep having your way, when you've seen it didn't lead you to any meaningful satisfaction.
Must you die out of the rails, before you fall back in line?

A man truly having relationship with the Lord will not be a victim of suicide or depression, nor be a supporter of evil.
For their lives are spiced up, and not hopeless or empty.
They understand things.

A shepherd - sheep relationship is a master - subject one.
His definition of love/friendship is in doing what He commands, not on how many times you say you love him.
John 14 : 15
John 15 : 14

He is called Lord Jesus.
The Lord before the Jesus is not just a surname, but His position.
And the name Jesus is not just a first name but His mission.
The mission to save His people from their sins.
Align yourself in agreement with the Lord, and you will live freed.

1 Peter 2 : 25
Matthew 1 : 21
Matthew 7 : 21 - 23

SPIRITUAL SONG GIVEN TO ME IN A VISION :
Who is like Jesus( 3× ),
In the wholewide world?

Ponder and hymn along, shall we?

A stone cut without hands.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus( 3× ),
In the wholewide world?

He came, that even the sorcerers saw His star and came to worship Him, bearing gifts.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus ( 3×),
In the wholewide world?

He grew, that the greatest prophet born of a woman before him, the first to be full of the Holy Ghost from the womb, testified of him in the womb and at maturity, saying, he wasn't worthy to untie his sandal.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×)
In the wholewide world?

He came doing miracles and wonders on people to ease their burden in a dimension never seen.
And still doing that today.
For he is the same yesterday, and today.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×),
In the wholewide world?

He was killed unjustly, yet, he allowed that, for to free people of the death penalty of their transgressions. And pardon those who come to Him in repentance.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×)
In the wholewide world?

He went to hell, and disarmed the devil and his hordes singlehandly, lest not forget His name that brings terror to darkness?
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×),
In the wholewide world?

He resurrected from the dead, and through that, giving freedom to as many who will to be freed from their sinful addictions.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×)
In the wholewide world?

He is the bread from heaven.
That who so keep coming to Him, keeps getting satisfied, and unto everlasting life.
HYMN : Who is like Jesus, ( 3×)
In the wholewide world?

You may add yours.
And hymn along as well.
Who is like Jesus,
Who is like Jesus,
Who is like Jesus,
In the wholewide world?

JOHN 1 : 29
JOHN 14 : 6
JOHN 21 : 25
JOHN 20 : 30 - 31

Love you.

Mwah.

Nope, you were not rude.
You were asking questions.

Just cry to Jesus for help.

peacefull:
I think I understand little bit.

Thank you so much for your kind!
I appreciate you!!

And I'm very sorry for if I was rude to you about Jesus and Christian.
I apologies you.

Remember the manner of persons you were before you got to accept Jesus:
Many of you didn't fall into the category of a whiz, many of you didn't fall into the category of the mighty, not many were of noble steed.
1 Corinthians 1 : 26

But God chose you just for this very purpose ;
To humble the mighty, the noble, and the whiz of this world.

Why?
That through you, the proud in the world will get to respect God.
1 Corinthians 1 : 29 - 31

Now if you were weak and nothing before you met Jesus, do you think you will excel against the proud in the world and thrive, when you choose to not walk with Jesus, and not live from His words?
John 15 : 5

Jesus saying to his disciples, that without Him they could do nothing, implies that they were nothing in the world before they met Him, and their flourishing depends on living from Him.
To neglect that, is to remain as the nothing they were before encountering Him.
The reason many believers are on the bottom table.
They profess Jesus by mouth, but don't live by Jesus - the bread from Heaven.
And the other's who seem to thrive, flow with the tide of darkness by agreement.

Make the decision today, to find God's specific purpose for you, and with patience fulfil it.
If you think you are here to just birth, get a job, and die, you have lost your purpose.


SPIRITUAL SONG [ Given to me in the spirit by a choir ] :
We are a special people ;
We know God.
We've a special God.
In the name of Jesus.
From the Holy Spirit.

Think and meditate on this post and on the song.

Remember the manner of persons you were before you got to accept Jesus:
Many of you didn't fall into the category of a whiz, many of you didn't fall into the category of the mighty, not many were of noble steed.
1 Corinthians 1 : 26

But God chose you just for this very purpose ;
To humble the mighty, the noble, and the whiz of this world.

Why?
That through you, the proud in the world will get to respect God.
1 Corinthians 1 : 29 - 31

Now if you were weak and nothing before you met Jesus, do you think you will excel against the proud in the world and thrive, when you choose to not walk with Jesus, and not live from His words?
John 15 : 5

Jesus saying to his disciples, that without Him they could do nothing, implies that they were nothing in the world before they met Him, and their flourishing depends on living from Him.
To neglect that, is to remain as the nothing they were before encountering Him.
The reason many believers are on the bottom table.
They profess Jesus by mouth, but don't live by Jesus - the bread from Heaven.
And the other's who seem to thrive, flow with the tide of darkness by agreement.

Make the decision today, to find God's specific purpose for you, and with patience fulfil it.
If you think you are here to just birth, get a job, and die, you have lost your purpose.


SPIRITUAL SONG [ Given to me in the spirit by a choir ] :
We are a special people ;
We know God.
We've a special God.
In the name of Jesus.
From the Holy Spirit.

Think and meditate on this post and on the song.

You don't have to be a Christian to be helped by Jesus.
Just as you don't have to be a Nigerian to be advised by Nigerians.

peacefull:
I'm sorry, this is very difficult to understand.
I'm very sorry.

Jesus is not God of Christian?
Sorry, Who?
Someone told you to give me peace?

You don't have to be a Christian for Jesus to help you.
Just as you don't have to be a Nigerian to be counselled by Nigerians.

peacefull:
I'm sorry, this is very difficult to understand.
I'm very sorry.

Jesus is not God of Christian?
Sorry, Who?
Someone told you to give me peace?

You don't have to be Christian to be helped by Jesus. He said come to me and I will give you peace.

peacefull:
I was really confusing when I joined this website .
My feel was really really negative when I wrote this topic.
But I didn't write it for divorce with him or ruin our marriage.

I'm sorry, I'm not Christian.
But Thank you so much!
I appreciate you!!

Let her take the case to the top authority of the state Church.
And if she can get the top most, the better.

It is no issue.

Tell your wife to tell her mum to be calling you everyday too.
You are her son too.

Read your story.
All I can say is that, Jesus now is the only one that can tell you where you really stand, and where your future lies.

So go to Jesus everyday.
Tell him to help you, and tell you where you stand and how to move on.

Because He himself said that those who come to him, he will not in anyway push them away.

John 6 : 37

peacefull:
I'm sorry, What do you mean?
Why I should dump him?

Yes, I have a kid before I met him.
I was a single mother without marry with anybody.

Nigeria suppose get.

We don cut them down, build house instead.

I just love the response from my wise sisters.

Them give me joy abeg.

Put wisdom before beauty, you men!

Be nice, but be wise.

Innocent as a dove.
Wise as a serpent.

Start applying that.
Second, let the Holy Spirit in in your extravagance.
For the world is evil.

Travicon:
Hello Nairalanders,
I will try as much as possible to make the write-up short.

I am a 21years old guy at a Russian university with two Nigerian roommates (In the hostel though). We averagely get the same amount of money as an allowance monthly, but mine always finishes first.

I don't spend unnecessarily on myself, and we cook together. I discovered after two months of staying together that they care less about buying things that we generally use in the room. For instance, I always buy food season, detergents, and cooking oil (quite expensive).

I cook most of the time. Anytime I decide not to cook, we always go hungry and I can't cope with that. This has made my cash always run out faster and I can't stop them from eating my food or using the things I buy.

There was a time also I lend the last money with me (100k in naira) to my best friend then in Nigeria because he claimed his dad was sick and promised to repay by month-end. I didn't have anything to take me through the remaining days of the month but I gave it out because he was a close friend. Month-end, I couldn't get money from my sponsor because of some issues. I contacted my guy but he stopped replying to me on WhatsApp. I managed to get 20k but the rest is probably history now.

Whenever people talk about their problems, I always feel for them to the extent of giving out my money even if it's the last cash on me. I have never had a girlfriend, but I don't always have the strength to reject if a girl asks for airtime or money from me (including my mum and sisters though)

I always try to go to any length to see people happy even if it means borrowing money from another person for them. I'm that foolish. Generally, I'm too soft-hearted and nice but I don't know how to solve this problem. Someone advised me I should get a girlfriend who should always be angry with me if I'm being too nice to people and that will help me solve the problem to some extent but I think it won't.

I'm not from a rich family, not even from an average family. I'm even from a polygamous home so I know what it means to have suffered as a Nigerian. I was on the street and I guess that's what is making me this weak emotionally. I'm a simp all-around in my life and relationship with people. People are always cheating on me, taking advantage of who I am.

I NEED genuine HELP, please.

Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation.

When you see yourself dream or have a vision that, you were walking/running alright, and you slipped or fell into a ditch ; it is a call to pray that you don't enter into temptation.

If you dream/ see that while walking, you branched into a place/act of sin ; it is a call to pray that you don't enter into temptation.


A fall of a man can be planned out.
Traps can be set :
Through wave influences and through demonic human agents.

The essence of being watchful in prayer when you see your spirit showing you dreams/ visions scenario I listed above, is to make you powerful not to be flow with the orchestrated plan of the enemy to make you fall in your walk/race of faith.
And the Lord shall deliver you from every evil work.


1 Corinthians 10 : 12 - 13
2 Timothy 4 : 18
Luke 11 : 4

Saw written : The project is not from you.

Project in that context meant a planned undertaking.

The Lord is like a military general who gives weapons and dispatches people to their respective regiments.

The weapons are gifts.
And the regiments are specific callings.

You don't just wake up and assign yourself.
You have to be empowered and dispatched to your company.

The project is not from you, it is from the Lord.
You are to find your place and wait there.

Having a sweet voice doesn't mean you are assigned to be a minstrel.
Ability to speak oratorily is not the go ahead to occupy the teaching office either.

Because your voice could be used for cornflakes adverts or chocolate adverts.
Your oratory ability could be used to influence the community or society into meaningful ventures.
For example, teaching children in school.

You get my point?

Let your pursuit be God's plan and purposes for you.
Not what you see others do.
Or what you presume
Be you in God's plan.
Not a clone.


Matthew 25 : 15

Saw written : The project is not from you.

Project in that context meant a planned undertaking.

The Lord is like a military general who gives weapons and dispatches people to their respective regiments.

The weapons are gifts.
And the regiments are specific callings.

You don't just wake up and assign yourself.
You have to be empowered and dispatched to your company.

The project is not from you, it is from the Lord.
You are to find your place and wait there.

Having a sweet voice doesn't mean you are assigned to be a minstrel.
Ability to speak oratorily is not the go ahead to occupy the teaching office either.

Because your voice could be used for cornflakes adverts or chocolate adverts.
Your oratory ability could be used to influence the community or society into meaningful ventures.
For example, teaching children in school.

You get my point?

Let your pursuit be God's plan and purposes for you.
Not what you see others do.
Or what you presume
Be you in God's plan.
Not a clone.


Matthew 25 : 15

She needs a lawyer to fight for her.

Where are my lawyers seething for justice?

Begin the day before anything else with the bible and prayer.

The skin is reacting to the pink lips cream.

Others might not.

Ladies oil your lips with vaseline, or glossy whatever.
I mean the lower lip.
It looks great on you.

Not trying to amplify the devil and his minions.
But those bunch are intelligently deceptive.
They can plan two weeks or a month ahead, and work it all out, to just make a godly man stumble.

Think about it.
When Jesus comes back to earth for a thousand years, with His saints that lived holy in Him; the devil being loosed from his chains, still deceived multitudes in the earth against the Lord and those saints.

When you have a revelation that you fell or stumble while walking or running.
Just go to God in prayer, telling him to lead you not into temptation, but deliver you from every evil work.

Look at Peter.
He was marked, and he did not even know it.
If He wasn't prayed for by the Lord, Peter wouldn't be among the Apostles of the Lamb today.

The Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptations.
It didn't say, the Lord knows how to deliver the sinner out of temptations.
It said, the godly.

Think for a moment why that is.

2 Peter 2 : 9
Matthew 6 : 13
Luke 22 : 31 - 32