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izzou:
As at 2017, she was already texting someone that he irritates her, and she's tired of the marriage.

Yet, she still had the guts to initiate arrangeee marriage...No be manipulation be that?

For someone that disgusts you, he sends money, and you cannot tell him it was over. You cannot even return the bride price and call it off.

I agree that Roby was living in self denial, but she did everything to hurt that guy.

You say you no like am, but you chop him money back to back to back.

Why will Roby who saw the kind of bile and bitterness in tha WhatsApp convo ever agree to any arrangee wedding involving that woman and another man in far away America.

Roby himself didn't call it manipulation but stupidity because that was what it was.

izzou:
There's no justification to treat a man that way; Heck, a human that way.

Mayowa already checked out of the relationship as at 2017. Why not tell him it was over and move on?

To be honest, I am not against her getting married or all that stories he told. Why manipulate and deceive him until last week?

Yes, Roby sef need a loud resetting slap, but that lady can poison someone if she could.

Roby saw evidence she has checked out since 2017. She showed him different signs by her actions and inactions yet he played dumb further hurting himself.

I don't the lady did much manipulation sef, I think it was Roby's fear that made him captive inside the so-called marriage.

I am really concerned about the kind of friends Roby keeps sha. I believe ideally some of his friends ought to have tried to talk sense into his head if indeed they really love him sha. If they did and he listened, he would've long freed himself of his fears and walk away from the so called marriage. He had a lot of grounds to move on with his life but he just lacked the balls to do so.

raumdeuter:
blueraydick, emaprince, the answer you are looking for is here and it seems you guys are right.
See this part in the message he screenshoted

"He better go and treat himself and stop lying about not knowing"

Seems they both knew he was firing blanks otherwise why will the talk of adoption be coming up?

Also let me get this, He saw this message, never told the wife, yet supported her to travel abroad and do "arrangee".
Which man will read those messages and still believe he has a marriage to the extent of knowing your wife went abroad to live with another man

As HOW Nowwwww

Gehgeh, AGbaJohndoe, even disstroy etc go use this guy farm impression for months as a bad example

The guy didn't want to acknowledge the fact that he was firing blanks and women hate that thing especially when in-laws start seeing them as one with problem while the man is. The fact that the wife has high libido and Roby is average doesn't negate the fact that Roby may be infertile . The way the lady expressed herself in that screenshot showed how frustrated with his pretense and living in denial.

I was thinking instead of adoption talks he should've been talking about IVF with his wife within the first 4 years of their marriage if all was well with him down there.

The lady did bad by hanging around and cheating while the marriage lasted, but the guy sef na mumu for not being truthful with himself

TemporaryHansel:
Just saw a post from inibehe on x, the owner of that bread brand used police to detain the lady that made a video review about bread. Nigeria no follow mehn.

Weytin concern police with the matter? NPF don't seem to even know the difference between civil and criminal matters.

This is what I talked about the other day here, I don't know what exactly is the problem of the Nigerian police force, is it hunger or just plain illiteracy? As long as you have change to spare you can get them to arrest someone for just staring at you sef.

I saw it too. I don't think Nigeria police really know their work, they just feel once a person with power or money reports another citizen then they must proceed to arrest and detain without any reasonable excuse. They are controlled by money.

Emaprince:
Your second paragraph might be true.

When a man knows that he fires only blank, he wont have no choice than to Mello down and do the womans bidding. But person like me would rather support divorce so I can live a single life and adopt if I want to.

Staying under the same roof and letting the woman ride him was stoopid.

But the again...he is a simp. He already showed it by leaving calabar to move down to lagos

Him moving down to Lagos would not have been an issue if a ready made job was waiting for him here by the time he arrives.

The problem is he just left where he was doing really well to a more expensive city (where his wife is already established with a good job) without having any serious plan about how he will make his own income.

I wonder if the guy even had any serious talk about both of them future plans before jumping into the marriage sef. I believe typical intending couple would sit and plan how their marital life and financial life will be before proceeding to tie the knot.

Instead the guy was busy boasting about how he met and married his wife within 5 months ( I saw an old video in which both of them were interviewed).

The guy just has the habit of majoring in the minor things Sha

Emaprince:
Mr ekpo should connect with David wife..and be humping her. He needed to cause somebody pains too.

Is he ready to take full responsibility of David's 2 kids?

The guy should go and treat himself and take his time to get another woman jare. Afterall, Nnamdi Azikwe was 69 years old when he married his young wife (Aged 26) after the death of his first wife.

Guess what? The younger wife gave him children that were graduates before he died in 1996!

Once Roby sort his fertility issues he should be fine. At least he claims he makes money now unlike the early days of their marriage.

pocohantas:
No, he wasn't celibate. Neither was she.
There are a lot of revelations on TT of their extra marital affairs. A woman posted how Mayowa was party to her divorce and had a longstanding relationship with her exhusband. Babes have also come out to say Roby is far from weak or a simp based on his record with women, before, during, and after Mayowa. So like you said, the guy dey fire, but e no dey score goal.

His fertility issue is what turned him into a simp. That thing fit put man for tight corner if the woman doesn't love you.

The part he cried on the podcast about not having a child to show for his struggles in the marriage and even outside wedlock already tells a discerning mind that he was probably firing blanks and it made him simp for her.

iamoyindamola:
Blueraydick he is back

Na wa o. Can't something be done about those scammers ni ?

This site makes it so easy for people to open multiple accounts.

pocohantas:
Either way, I am convinced Roby knows his manhood is not working. There is no way a woman will constantly quarrel a Nigerian man over his poor stroke game, add it no child in their years ofbmarriege and the man didn't impregnate another woman the second she left or right inside the marriage. He was too evasive of specific questions and he knows more than he is putting out. If Mayowa speaks, the revelation would be more embarrassing than it is. Mayowa only beat him to the game. They are both dangerous people and know specifics we do not know.

This is exactly my thought. The guy dey get erection and he dey cum normally like most men but baba definitely has infertility issues he is not willing to accept. He was even boasting no woman can come out to claim he impregnated her.

He can't tell us with bold face that for almost 6 years she was away he was celibate or was withdrawing from all the women he slept with during that period.

Methinks their marriage was faulty right from time and that he has fertility issues. That fertility issue would've been sorted if he was married to his soul mate whom they would've sought medical help together. If they were having a good marriage, they may have opted for IVF within the initial 4 years and nobody would've known anything about him taking concoction or sperm booster,

DissTroy:
Man, you don't understand the nature of women? A grown woman who gets pregnant for you does it consciously. There are hookup girls hopping from bed to bed without getting pregnant. You underestimate how much women know about their bodies and the number of times they talk about the lastest contraceptive measures.

Remember the case of Adam Nuru, the FCMB boss, 5 years ago who fathered kids with his secretary while pushing the kids on to her husband? She knew! She timed her cycle to match with her boss and likely took contraceptives when with her husband. The husband tôok his life when he found out.

Have you forgotten those days when you bed a girl at the beginning and she goes, "I hope you didn't cum?" She goes home to do something about it.
When she's melted into you and has chosen you as hers, she stops asking those questions after you orgasm in her. All of a sudden, she forgets how to calculate her safe periods, outsourcing it to you. She doesn't mind getting pregnant for you.

The ones who became single mothers are partly the ones who gambled, thinking they could hook their men with pregnancies and the men became irresponsible towards the pregnancies.

When your girl stops calculating her safe period, that's her way of proprosing. She chose you as her husband long before you bought the ring. You were playing catch-up, man.

Women know what they are doing but we infantilize them as naive. Very cunning.

I get that women are cunning and that Mayowa used Roby's head over and over again. But I really don't think she set out initially not to have a child with him.

Methinks Roby has some underlining medical issues he's not yet ready to wake up to its reality. She was actively suggesting concoction and different boosters for him until she fell out of love with him.

The guy's mistake of relocating to Lagos without having a job waiting for him put him in a bad place financially and that made it easy for the women easily fall out of love with him.

Shegzdave:
But he said he’s taken three fertility test, does that mean he’s lying or the tests results delivered to him were not genuine

Hmmmm....Just pray not to have to be going for Fertility test as a man after marriage. Some of those tests are not conclusive o.

I've had close family friends who have had to do tests upon tests before confirming the husband was the issue and had to start treatment to boost his sperm count.

Roby sounded too non challant on podcast about issues of child bearing. He was refrencing his pastor that had to wait for years in marraige in marriage to have a child.

That guy is a educated and even claimed he studied Radiography. If he is fertile as he claimed and with his medical background nothing stops him from doing IVF with his wife within that 4 years they were married before she travelled abroad. Instead he was talking about adoption.

If u ask me, something doesn't add up about his fertility matter.

cc: Disstroy

Shegzdave:
I think she has a daughter from her first marriage

If indeed she has a child from a previous marriage then maybe Roby is not fertile but yet to come to terms with the sad reality.

iamoyindamola:
Watching this full video, i am losing it this guy is a proud simp
He deserve all he got and will continue getting

The more you watch the video, the more pissed you will get .

The guy just didn't know when to count his losses and move on. He waited till she used her full mouth to tell him he was useless to her

DissTroy:
You know what? It's like you are stubborn so we will add Vic O to the trade so you guys give us Banky W fully in exchange. Last offer.
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When I post about simping and not letting a woman dictate terms for you as a man, it's labeled overdosing on redpill. These are the issues.

My bro, u have my full permission to overdose on any color of pill going forward . This Roby don too shame men in general abeg!

His simping cannot be explained away no matter how one tries .As at last year he was still holding on to a marriage that should have ended 2017.

I imagine the ex-wife during COVID-19 was in full lockdown with a full grown asss man without going anywhere in the cold American weather. Chai! . The number of time dem don knack his "wife" while he was holding on to the "promises of better life " lasan !

izzou:
Abeg, with Roby saying that his wife did "Arrangee marriage" to get green card, will that not land her in trouble?

Initially I thought he had a rightful claim to mess her life up by reporting her to ICE as per the arrangee marriage; until the weyrey say na traditional marriage they did before she travaled abroad.

From my own personal opinion he may not be able to 4ck her life up since they didn't do a civil/registry wedding that has document backing the marriage up. They had a traditional marriage which may be binding in Nigeria but not necessarily binding in the US.

The girl really used his head.

All that being said, I want to believe if Roby is vengeful enough and wants to take advantage of the anti-immigrant stand of Donald Trump's government, he may stir a serious controversy by sending his traditional wedding picture to US Embassy/ICE and petitioning them to rescind Mayowa's green card because she used fraudulent means to get it.

But that Roby wey I see no get that kind bad mind like that. If Roby is given an option to either spoil Mayowa's life as it is now or reconcile with her; Roby will definitely go with reconciling with Mayowa

iamoyindamola:
3 men will simp for same toto
Na I don't agree

1. We don't know the story of the first husband.

2. We know Roby's story and we can conclusively agree he was a simp even by his own confession.

3. The new guy David has 2 kids in naija with his ex-wife here before he travelled to the US where he jam Mayowa. For now we can't conclude whether he is a simp or not because he just got married to Mayowa a green card holder and a homeowner in the US. Na time go determine what he is but for now he seem to be winning.

So I just watched a video that says the new husband of the lady ; David Ayuba is a drummer in his church. He was once married to Tolu who is in Nigeria and their union is blessed with two kids. The David guy had a kid in 2019 and another kid in 2021 with Tolu before he moved abroad.

After stewpid Robert Don hang on to a false hope for so long, she sent him a WhatsApp message literally telling him she doesn't have any emotions for him. She gave him enough signs but guyman no gree read the room.

So the new guy David left his wife and 2 kids to be with Mayowa. Telmabout wetin mayowa wash put for her Congo meat 🤷‍♂️

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Akinlot:
And another man still thought a woman who has been divorced twice and has never been pregnant is the best he can get.

Sometimes I wonder what goes on in the head of these men.

The new husband might just be like Roby who was told she was married before but didn't bother to ask questions about circumstances of her previous marriages.

abduleez1:
The guy knows he's a proper clown.
Even admitted his colleagues and comedians used him for jokes material — as the first time they heard a man relocated to go meet a wife to adapt to the new marriage lifestyle.

Premium weakling.

Imagine leaving Calabar, with all the connections and brand he's built to come to Lagos. Left the government gigs he was getting regularly to start afresh for a woman he paid bride price for.

Make I go check twitter. Dem suppose use this guy for better meme and his shedding of tears.

I think the biggest mistake he made which later resulted in a chain of reaction gbag culminated to the marriage collapse was leaving his comfort zone in Calabar (where he claimed he was a making cool money and living like a king) to relocate to Lagos all in the name of love.

That relocation affected his finances. He struggled to make money in Lagos as a nearly wedded man which was bad for marital life.

That period he was struggling it appears the wife was the one doing the heavy lifting of the bills in the house. He was not the provider in the home for that period and on top of that, he was still womanizing (which explains the wife's complain about the "small small" girls he was chatting on phone).

Perhaps that was what made him not do anything about that 2017 chat he snapped on her phone. Nigggga was financially incapacitated which also explains why he consented to her relocation to the US and subsequent arrangee marriage abroad.


There a whole lot of lessons to be learnt from this guy's experience sha.

abduleez1:
The guy knows he's a proper clown.
Even admitted his colleagues and comedians used him for jokes material — as the first time they heard a man relocated to go meet a wife to adapt to the new marriage lifestyle.

Premium weakling.

Imagine leaving Calabar, with all the connections and brand he's built to come to Lagos. Left the government gigs he was getting regularly to start afresh for a woman he paid bride price for.

Make I go check twitter. Dem suppose use this guy for better meme and his shedding of tears.

Banger boys and bloggers will use his content to feed well for at least two weeks. Agenda go begin fly up and down both on Twitter and tiktok.

I trust them

abduleez1:
I swear this guy needs serious koboko.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around it, how he never got any lady in Nigeria pregnant or something over the years she was away. As per Calabar boy.

He may be having fertility issues that needs to be investigated and treated with the support of a caring partner.

But since he married wrongly and the wife also being more experienced in the way of the world, he fell into emotional dark place while not having time to think of his own possible inadequacies.

The guy can obviously not swear he has not had unprotected sexxx with another woman since he's been in the enstarnged marriage except he just wants to deceive himself.

abduleez1:
Guy, you know wetin dey make this guy matter dey pain even more.

It's the 10 years this whole thing spread out in happening and the dude never realised he's being played for a f00l. A f00l at 40.

Since 2017, he saw that bile of a message and still had the heart to continue.... Omo, na to rum for your life and safety after reading that shite bro. How he manned up and remained in that house with her without fearing for his life is beyond me.

2017 to now na almost 10yrs so this guy JuJu strong pass 6G, fibre and satellite connection combined at once.

Dude is a mature version of a premium s!!mp.

Even heard his wife was getting knacked by the supposed room mate at some point and didn't end things.
There's so many things wrong with this guy's head that you just find very difficult to fathom.
Even the worst of worst s!!MPs dey learn for where this guy dey.

She bought a house he didn't know. Brought a flatmate for knackademus and Baba still put him mind there. She did BBL and dude didn't call it quits.
She had serious issues with him having tattoos and complaining how she hated it and yet later he found out she got a big spine tattoo on her back.
The dude she's getting married to is said to also have a tattoo.

She married before, dude didn't ask any single questions.

Maaaaannn, this dude is stewpid and his story is even very annoying when I watched him speaking.
Person dey mumu sometimes ooo, no one is immune to mugu especially when they've put the partner on a huge pedestal, but this dude's own unfolded in a decade. What!!!


Dem suppose flig this guy for market square for steewpid!ty of epic proportions. Cos na him do himself. He saw signs but chose to ignore and see wonders.

The guy's mumu dey shame me!

SIMPing na bad thing Sha o.

The guy that was originally doing MC of corporate shows and high profile celebrity even hosts had to start taking children's birthday gig just to make money to send to his wife who was cohabiting with another man abroad 🤦‍♂️

Disstroy this your guy need better drilling o.

Amigoos1:
Seriously as a man never take knacking your wife to satisfaction for granted. Also never marry someone that you are not compatible with sexually. A nympho marrying someone that finds sex boring will always run into problems.

The guy only married her because she was his spec and she was bold enough to toast him first.

At the start of the podcast he confessed she sent him DM first on Instagram which pique his interest. Then he said she was his spec because she was slim and has boobs.

Na the only reason he met her may, proposed in August and married her in November. The guy didn't even know her like that beacuse between that time line between their meeting and marriage he was staying in Calabar while she was staying in Lagos. They saw few times before he jump enter the marriage. They Most likely didn't even have serious talks about their future as a couple

abduleez1:
Werey "dey knack o" but na ONLY two rounds him fit give him nymph0 wife and na twice weekly strength him get.

Him trust him shooting capacity as per Calabar boy, still dey take concoction wey him wife bring give am to aid him shooting potency. 😂😂😂

Premium weak man.

That guy say tests show he is potent yet in the same vein he's saying he didn't get any other woman pregnant. He just dey shout ". I be Calabar boy, we dey knack o ", yet no evidence after taking concoction.

I won't be surprised if the woman comes out to claim the guy was shooting blanks for years especially if she gets pregnant for this new husband.

abduleez1:
That guy's stup!d!ty_ ehn needs to be studied.
The lady sent a message to a friend about how she hated him and had checked out of the marriage in 2017... He snapped the messages and never confronted her about it and her complaints about sexual unsatisfaction. He never brought it up or told anyone until late last year he was showing a friend. The guy matter too funny I swear.
We dey 2026 and Baba still dey hold on to the marriage like his dear life needed with all that bile and hatred she spilled out in that message.
A sane and normal human being for don give up after that brutal revelation.
He never even brought it up to her and kept it all in all those years and was thinking probably if he leveled up and made more money, be more responsible, she'd come back to the fold.

The guy handicapped himself and I don't really have no remorse for him cos he was damn stoop!d all through the way.

2021, she came back from the US and he made plans and preparations to welcome her at the airport even with friends and camera man, she didn't even hugged or kiss him for a person she hasn't seen for years. Her own husband.
Baba even talk say dem no even knack or rub body sef when they eventually got home.
No spark. Nothing.

The guy na bollo I swear. All these years and these things were happening and Baba still dey sponsor her dey send money. Lol.

The guy's head no correct at all. He went into the marriage at the age of 37 which means he was a full grown matured man at that time. Not like he was some 23 year old drunken on love who got married to his first love.

The lady showed him severally how she wanted out long before she even left naija but he was hanging on.

I think the fact that his parents died early contributed to how long his mumu lasted. I want to believe if he had at least a parent alive they would've at least speak sense into his head and make him see things with clear eyes. I mean which parent would watch their 41 year old son agree to send his wife abroad and agree to an arrangee marriage?

Apparently his two brothers don't have any influence on him Sha.

Like I said earlier he ignored the signs for over 10 years , and now he has seen wonders.

Amigoos1:
Even from their pre wedding pictures you could tell he was a mumu man.

The guy was 37 years old here o 😂

Emaprince:
omo....I watch the video reach 30mins.. Chai.

This guy really fall him own hand o. After seeing that msg in 2017...thats when he should have walked away.

Me in that situation will not sleep under the same roof with her from the day I read that chat. I will even be scared of losing my life. Cos that was a desperate mind set and undiluted hatred from the wife

That was where he messed up.

Instead of moving on with his life that very moment, he continued in the marriage that was already toxic, consented to her doing arrangee margiage to relocate and even consented to her cohabiting with a male house mate.

The guy head no correct at all.

DissTroy:
We had a meeting last week. We resolved to dash him out to you guys in exchange for Banky W. Thanks for your attention to this matter.

😂😂😂

We no want.

Una supposed bring all those scary masquerade out make dem flog sense into his head first before anything

Emaprince:
omo....I watch the video reach 30mins.. Chai.

This guy really fall him own hand o. After seeing that msg in 2017...thats when he should have walked away.

Me in that situation will not sleep under the same roof with her from the day I read that chat. I will even be scared of losing my life. Cos that was a desperate mind set and undiluted hatred from the wife

I think he was hoping she would bring him to America after getting that green card. That was the only logical reason he could've agreed to the arrangee marriage in the first place.

Unfortunately for him, she had already fallen out of love with him and she didn't even hid it from him. But he was as blind as a bat and didn't read the room at all.

The full podcast.

Disstroy this Margaret Ekpo grandson really fall Una hand for Akwa-Cross o.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lG8HffYOWt4?si=AFHDO0Qwh27fRzHf

Roland17:
Baba, this guy reeks of a man that is lacking in self-worth. It is such a sad story but I have no sympathy to give this man.

The signs were ominous and I can bet you, he has friends and family members who warned him but e no gree. He was thinking with his stick versus his head.

Make e no shock you say 2-3 years from now, this same werey fit reconcile with the woman.

He desperately needs to see a therapist to address his lack of self-worth and confidence. Otherwise, another woman will still manipulate him in the name of love.

He actually lacks self-worth for real, yet he gives himself nonsense accolades. He kept saying "I be calabar boy o.... We dey knack o " while trying to prove he was sexually potent and refute claims he may not be satisfying her sexually.

It's unfortunate he married at 37 yet married wrongly. He was sounding like someone who is weak mentally and can't take a firm decision that concerns his own life.

Someone in the comment section of the podcast said " This guy is weak, men supposed bam am " 😂