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Kingsley123456:
I will be brief...

I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep,

Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her....

Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere....

We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn.

So, where is the daughter at the moment?
Does she usually come visiting?
If the daughter usually comes to visit, then you need to tell her immediately.
If the mother took the baby and left, and never bothered about letting you reunite with your daughter,, then assume that you also forgot about the daughter

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!



Do you know that my controversy with Jim iyke was one of the things that made the movie popular?

What is diswan trying to say?

OluwoR:
Sir, before I'd open a thread about this, you should know I must have tried all possible best
Sir, anything that has to do with sex, she just doesn't want to hear it
she had blocked me on SM on several occasions cos I tried to bring up sexual related matters

It still pains me that you lasted more than 3 months in a relationship with such a lady, not to talk of whooping 8 years.
A lady that wanted to trap me with the no-sex mantra, I told her straight-away that I am very good in sex, and that if she really want to enjoy the best of me, then she must allow things to flow naturally between us, and that means, sex should also come when the need for it arises., and that if she obstructs the natural flow of emotions due to the denial of sex, it may also affect the whole love, and that she shouldn't bother herself how I settled myself. That was how she relaxed and enjoyed every bit of the relationship, even without bothering whether I was going to marry her or not. She married before me though, and she continued thanking me for teaching her how to love and accept both good and bad while in love.

OluwoR:
brother, see, I understand You, but you think it's easy to just cut off 8 years relationship just like that ?

So, your problem is 8 years of bumpy relationship??
Oya naa.
Marry her.
You've already made up your mind.
So, why are you here lamenting?

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Oga, na you sabi..
..
My wife is the one turning me on.
And you're here fighting to have sex.
And you're planning to marry her.

Maynman:
Okay and Excess is not only about quantity. It is also Frequency and consistency too.

Okk

This is no more Gender Equality..
Women are winning here as far as opportunity for representation is concerned

Maynman:
Excess is not only about quantity. Frequency and consistency too.

Now, you're doing an excess of something here already..
And it had been quantified as excess.

Maynman:
Like, Having to sleep everytime.

Having to sleep everytime can be quantified.
Having to wake everytime we sleep cannot be quantified.

Wahalla..
..
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Ok naa...
Wahalla Everywhere.!!

Maynman:
Excess doesn’t have to do with quantity alone, it also has to do with consistency and frequency.

Consistency??
Like, having to wake up from sleep every time we sleep??

Maynman:
Only the person having the experience can determine that.

A strict person doesn’t mean he has self control.

We are saying the same thing.
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Those things you mentioned above cannot be quantified, and thus, you cannot know when it is excess or not.

Maynman:
Excess peace of mind.
Excess self control.
Excess happiness.
Excessively minding your business.

Peace of mind and happiness and self control do not have excess..
They are abstract phenomena that cannot be quantified in any way.
If you insist that they have excess, please describe their excesses for me.
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Even at that, someone that giggles too much at all times cannot be said as excess happiness, or excess peace of mind.
Even sef, a very strict person cannot be called excess self control.
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So please, describe all these conditions you listed above.

NasirudeenOla:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWsh-2zvSYQ

"You won burst my 5million Naira bum bum" - Tonto Dikeh reacts as her son King, slaps her bum

Ok..
Everything is very very wrong with this.
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The gesture of slapping a person's butts shows a type of aggressive and full ownership of the person the butts are on his/her body and everything the butts has to represent.
So, it is a very disrespectful gesture when done in public, even from a husband to his own wife.
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Now, a son performing such a gesture on his own mother??
Which kind of play is that.??

God1000:
I will soon announce my intention to run for local government chairman in oju benue state, wish me well brothers and sisters.
I'm working on my manifestos and blueprint, suggest one good political party for me

AAC...
At least,, picking the ticket is free.
You don't need any godfather.
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But you and your party will need DOOR-TO-DOOR CAMPAIGNING in order to get non-partisan people vote for you without having to rely on the party strength to win.
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And when I say DOOR-TO-DOOR CAMPAIGNING, I mean every single bit of it.

sojiboy:
Adesoji Gabriel (AngelGabby) Popularly known as Sojiboy on nairaland has been enlisted amongst the digital Communications team of the upcoming June 18th 2022 Guber election in Ekiti state.
Congratulations to him



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5983425948341469&id=100000223680706

My brother, more power to your elbow.
I did something similar in Anambra though, but for a non-governmental organisation.
I was the digital communications personnel.
And it was so fun.
I learnt a lot in the process, and I came to realise that INEC is really trying their best.

FutureIsFemale:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jui0a1dgMuQ

A Nigerian Socialite, Mabel The Goddess has revealed that she prefers sleeping with a dog to some men.

On Thursday 28th, April 2022, a video of a lady having s3xual intercourse with a dog surfaced online and it has been trending.

It was recently brought to light by a Twitter user that some Lagos girls are sleeping with dogs in exchange for N1.5M.
However, socialite, Mabel the Goddess has beg to differ as she reveals that she wouldn’t mind having s3x with a dog than with some men.

According to Mabel, some men are animals already, so she will prefer to sleep with dogs over them.
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc9-RUEIOBy/

So, you support ladies to sleep with dogs??
You're not normal oo

Dontleaveme:
People are fond of just making this statement. Is the skill free or you need money to acquire it?

FG budgeted to use N5.9bn to train 177 northerners on the skill of repair of smartphones..
Southerners, you guys are should sort yourselves out.

onojaintegrity:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CaWuzPs_UoY

Chief Ralph Uwazuruike, leader of the Movement for the Actualisation of Sovereign State of Biafra (MASSOB) on Saturday, led some South-East youths in a solidarity march in Owerri, Imo, in support of the 2023 presidential bid of Gov. Yahaya Bello of Kogi.

Uwazuruike who also said he does not believe in the president of Igbo extraction said the contest should be thrown open.

The MASSOB leader stated this when Bello, a presidential aspirant on the platform of the All Progressives Congress(APC), visited him in Owerri, Imo.



The youths, who started the procession from the MASSOB leader’s house in Owerri, marched through the streets, carrying different placards, with inscriptions such as “Power to the Youths, Support Yahaya Bello”, “Youths Can Also Lead”, and “Yahaya Bello for the Youths”, among others.

They made it clear that the only solution to Nigeria’s political quagmire was for power to go to the youths.



According to them, in this regard, Bello is the right fit for the position of President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Recall that Bello picked the APC Expression of Interest and Nomination forms at the party’s national secretariat on Wednesday.



Uwazuruike, who advised Nigerians and party leaders to shun zoning, as it had no place in the constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, said his group would support Bello to become the next president of Nigeria because he had the leadership qualities to lead Nigeria effectively.

He noted that power should go to the best in the race, adding that the Kogi governor remained the best for the job.


“All Nigerians should rally around the youthful governor. We are supporting Bello for this and no one else. That he has the capacity to solve the problem of insecurity and a host of others facing the nation is not in doubt.

“This is a crucial time in the history of the country. We must give youths a chance, especially one that has demonstrated uncommon capacity, in the person of Yahaya Bello,” he said.

Uwazuruike, who is also the founder of the Biafran Independent Movement (BIM) said f Nigeria’s sovereignty must be upheld, and the idea of an Igbo president should be discarded.

He said,: “I don’t believe in the idea of zoning system or Igbo president because zoning means sectionalism.

“If we want to talk about Nigeria, we must throw the presidential contest open but if you throw it open, it must be for the youths, not elders, because the elders have failed us.

Uwazuruike said his group would support Bello to become the next president of Nigerian because he is a youth with the leadership qualities to deliver the Nigeria project.

“The youths must be given power, the elders have continued to be in power without great result.

He urged Nigerians to support Bello, describing zoning or the Igbo presidency as a project aimed at promoting sectionalism.

Speaking, Bello expressed gratitude over the reception given to him by no fewer than Five thousand members of MASSOB/BIM who welcomed him in Imo.

Bello said he was prepared to deliver the Nigerian project if given the opportunity to serve as the next president of the country.

“I’m prepared to lead this country, I shall address insecurity, health system as well as the educational system.

“Nigerians must be very careful and be ready to make the best decision in choosing their next president,” he said.

So, the big question to Uwazuruike is.....
“Does Yahaha Bello now support Biafra For him to merit such a support from MASSOB and BIM??”
Or is it that he had forgotten what MASSOB and BIM is supposed to stand for and represent??

Let's see

dre11:
Intrigues as PDP presidential aspirants purchase guber, senatorial nomination forms






https://thenationonlineng.net/intrigues-as-pdp-presidential-aspirants-purchase-guber-senatorial-nomination-forms/


Lalasticlala

PDP is not being fair in saying that buying multiple nomination forms is acceptable. (If a proxy bought the additional forms on their behalf, it is acceptable.. But if they bought the forms by themselves, then it is very wrong).
It is as if the PDP already calculated that they would not win the Presidential Primaries, and then allowed their alternative options to stand.
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Thus, what would have happened if the person won both the Presidential Primaries, as well as the alternative nomination?? So, if the person declined/abandoned the alternative option, what happens to the candidacy for the alternative option which he declined/abandoned?? The aspirant that came second now takes over??

Akerele44204:
I have finally found an online discussion forum that I can use to connect to Ghana. Nice load speed

Too much of copy-copy is bad...

Shalommy:
The lady wanted to calm him down but he wanna go mad. Chaiii... Foolish man!

Is that the best way to calm-down a man whose vehicle just broke down??
Like, she doesn't have a workable solution to offer??

The main question is:
“What is it exactly that made him to think that he deserves such rights in a democracy??”

Googledman:
Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.

I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..

The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.

Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.

Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.

To you, the relationship had been sweet.
But not same for her.
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Don't waste your time on her.
Find someone else who values you

Not only him..
In fact,, they wasted him so that he won't talk.

WoundedLamb:
They're just trying to appease her after turning her life upside down in the blink of an eye. Conscience is a strong thing.

What if these are all jokes and make-believe??

Akwamkpuruamu:
Hmmm, this party no get population na

If you get popularity, you don't need population again.

echomanji:
its hard. I love her.

Then, it means that you are the main problem to yourself..,, and not the woman.
Stop complaining.

garfield1:
I think the inec report sealed uba's fate

Please which of the INEC Reports??
Do you have the link to the report, let me go and read it myself.
Thanks

guychidile:
What remains again

Nothing Again.
Game is Over for him.
Even for Senate Election, he won't find it easy sef.

CASE CLOSED COMPLETELY