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Joshmodest:
sensible girls like this are very scarce ....to think that young guys on this platform are so in support of this marriage...and making it seem all young fine boys are broke , is really laughable....
it's better to be with a young fine boy, who has a little change that can be enough to satisfy and make you happy, (if you're not the extravagant type) and has prospect for a brighter future ....than marry an old pot bellied , rich man who has 4 wives and would prolly , marry 3 more ....and doesn't have time on his side !!
At the end of the day it's her choice!! in my own opinion a very funny one !!

The problem with this marriage is that the babe in question is very pretty and young. Why is she so desparate is what I dont understand? she can find a good looking with a great job in the right places easily...

safarigirl:
old enough

You sound like you are either in your teens, early twenties or just 25.

A great percentage of ladies marry who is available not who they love.

safarigirl:
I don't need a rich man in my life...I just need someone who is doing okay. My father wasn't living in banana island when he met my mother, so, what am I using a rich man to do? So, there are no decent looking men with decent paying jobs around?

Life isn't about extremes. What can Regina do with this man? The kind of bondage she has entered, no kind of money can make up for it. I can never punish myself like this, there are still young men out there doing well for themselves. If na room and parlour we go start from, no wahala

If I can't find one that will like me as I am, then, I stay alone, but I can never put myself through this kind of imminent loneliness and bondage because of something as fleeting as money. Never

How old are you?

Being an employee forever-


Some people are very complacent. Its sad

odigbosky:
You don't need to hear my response. You have already judged and condemned me in your heart. I don't have the strength of correcting that.

No. Your conscience judged you. The golden rule is "what you dont want, dont give it to others"

[quote author=odigbosky post=77818965][/quote]Oh please,


I need to hear your response. I see a lot of other guys are giving you likes,hails and praises

odigbosky:
Yahoo yahoo. Yahoo this, yahoo that. I know boiz who this money has helped and changed their family stories. Not all yahoo boiz throw away money doing useless things. Some are big time investors. Yahoo dn put food for table. I had a dude who finished from the university and bro struggled to finish sef. After service better suffer hammer am, na him babe add money give am make him take go GH go hustle. Baba first month for GH he picked 10k doz.
Baba dn buy land dy build house, him babe dn open make up studio and she dy sell weapons. Truth be say boiz dn do things with yahoo money. The country hard make we talk truth. To survive here is hard. You go do home lesson tire and come still do teaching job, you no go fit accumulate 20k at the end of the month. How do you expect boys to survive in this country. No job at all. Everyday people are begging for menial jobs to even eat. The street has put food on the table of many. It is paying for the skool fees of many others. It has also prevented many girls from going into prostitution.
If not for the street, dem for dy thief complete human being for broad day lite.

But na the price wen boiz gat pay so that our sisters no go do ashawo work. So that our younger brother no go dy tink of to go thief or do agbero work. Na the price after we tink of how mama and papa take suffer train us go skool, so we go come use 10 years take find job. Na wen dem an take enjoy us. No be say we dy proud for d hustle, we dy low key but we no fit deny the hustle as na wetin dy sustain us be that.

I know many old folks here aren't happy about it, truth is that, for una time life for this country still better and whatever we are doing now is a consequence of a failed generation of leadership who couldn't plan for us. In those days na only 45 years old men dy drive motor, boys dn break that jinx.

To every hustler out there trying to put food on the table for his family, Osanobuwa bless your hustle. May Osaghioduwa continue to uplift you. Keep hustling.


One love

I cant believe this. You are unbelievable

What if I play a fast one on your guys and your family?

The lands, cars and investments are lost in this scam.. Remember I will be doing it to put food on the table for my family and Osanobuwa will bless my hustle enough to scam you of your earnings and life savings


Thats fine, right?

You ok with that, right?

suremoney15:
sure

you have sure odds for me?

kollinzgee:
you see what am talking about?

your,parents even give you 5k shut up nigga you got no excuse.
did you pay your skul fees yourself ?
did you pay ur acceptance fee yourself ?i did all that ]just because you sold kerosene we no go hear word.if i had someone who is willing to do all that for me i would have graduated by now but who am i to blame ? if you were in my shoes i bet you wunt even be in skul talkless of graduating just be grateful to God you are even priviledged to have parents capable of sponsoring you and stop ranting shiiiit.

you are getting emotional.... keep wallowing in your excuses... bye

kollinzgee
you comment is so full of hate and envy

Whats there to hate and envy?
That you have more gf than me or that more teenage girls flock around you?

Ask someone else, you have misplaced priorities. 25 is a time to reflect on one's life esp for a guy.

you may be a botty who doesnot understand life

Me? Botty? How manage?

I struggled through school. Was selling kerosene to students so I could fend for myself. My parents did give me allawee. #5000 a month. If you are thinking this was 1987, I wouldnt blame you. This was in 2011. I was always broke, I had to start a kerosene business with one of those 5k... Bought 10 litres 1700 and a the keg 500. This was how I survived in school.

i sponsored myself right from my jamb form purxhase all fingers are not equal learnt that now or learn the hard way

Stop this self pity..

Do you think I have it all? I am very far from having what I want but I am never going to comfort myself that all fingers are not equal and as such I shouldnt strive to become better. Thats a lazy mans excuse.

I am really appalled that at 25, your problem is teenage girls.... I feel like spanking you again...

Its unfortunate we are in Nigeria. At 25, you are supposed to be man (in the west).

if you feel offended, i am sorry for you

kollinzgee:
Am a student in one lagos prestigious polytechnics am 25 am currently processing my admittion into the university.but here is the problem fresh students are here and they are quite younger compared to my set.am actually the funny type and lively plus am playful i believe this is magnetic part of my personality

As i speak right now this teenage girls(16---19) especially the ones from my department wunt let me rest calls,visits and some of them are literally throwing themselves at me i enjoyed their company 5 years back when i was younger but i dont now . some of them are looking far bigger than their age as a man it grace of God to resist this girls .and worst of all my friends are pushing me to give them what they want but i dont want to do that coz i got a very jelous girlfriend and respect their age .

I pity for you. Just see your problem. You think there's a bed of rose waiting for you outside school.. Concentrate on your studies and your future dammit.. if you were my younger and you told me this, i would have spanked you.

At 25, I was already a doctor and my problem was to see the first 7 digit... Your problem at 25 is teenage girls....

I am so angry with you.... you better focus

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TiredOfFighting:
Lol.
I miss this setting.
Communal eating, survival of the fittest.
If na rice, no spoons allowed, if na indomie, no forks allowed, no rolling too.

I rep Uniben

So reading tru, some people have referred to my post as Poverty,
Well

Lol call it whatever, usually, stuffs like this happens and most people are low on cash and food stuff.
Members of same room would at that point have to contribute what they have to make smtn, called concoction.
Those moments are usually the best moments for bonding and is even most memorable.
It's not poverty.

I remember one particular day in my room, most of us had ran out of food stuff and had just little fragments left.

One person had rice only, another beans only, another only a few tubers of potato, another like 2 fingers of ripe plantain and another had spices and oil but no ingredients, another had nothing but volunteered to cook.

We mixed everything and made it into one dish.
I can't really remember the enjoyment times I had in school but this memory is still fresh and funny to me .

Call it poverty that's ur business.

You brought back memories. I stayed in hall 4 during my early days.... And it was beans and bread...

Our anthem was "who get beans, I get bread"

We would go round the hostel shouting this until we find our match....

some would say "who get food, i get stomach"

AntiBrutus:
Ehn, her nyash is generous na.

Which kind wahala be this?

You are wicket.

EVILFOREST:
How do you mean...??
I meant her BACKSIDE is highly loaded with Morals alongside her senses....

magnanimous means kindness,generous etc

MissRaine69:
What is the purpose of this forum?

To find faults?

EVILFOREST:
My WIFE’s backside is more magnanimous.
But I married her because of her SENSES.

They are always intact, discharging sensibilities.

Guy u don fuvk up

MissRaine69:
1. One cannot stfu where written speech is involved
2. It is wasted, if he missed basic biology to the point that he asks the most ludicrous question then yes he deserves the wrath of Khan
3. It’s not a simple question it’s a reflection of the quality of education that exists
4. You can’t do jack to me so suck it.

why do you always find faults?

Are you without one?

shege45:
lol why u dey take am personal na

Guy.... E pain me... I am very confident e mama nor get wrapper... E siblings don tire to ask whereas one girl way dey fvck school bf dey chop this guy money scatter.

Why do you all train women in school?

You have to obligations to your family?

What do you expect to get out of this training?

A certificate?
A degree?

It shall not.be well with u if you don't show equal responsibilities to your siblings and parents.

Divay22:
You get the time for story. No owanbe today?

owambe ke... no time for that oo

placeofallure:
I have 6 of it
Black (2) brown, grey, pink and a patterned one.
Apart from the fact that it's affordable, it's easy to wear. You don't need to iron it. The skirt comes mostly in plain colours so you can match it with any top. Before now, I am not aware it causes rancour among the male folks. I just like the simplicity of getting any fringe thing to wear. I'm going to the rehearsals now, I'll wear the pink one and go wink @ our choirmaster

see them.. they haf come. destiny killers.

Alejoe:
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has anyone contacted you from nl

Divay22:
Tell me something

oya bring ya chair... the tori go long

The black one is a killer

One day you will wish to have her troubles once again

Ifesinachi22:
Until your legally married, do not live with a man.
Give yourself some worth.
Visit and go back so that others can visit.

I repeat, Visit and go back so that others can visit

philip0906:
Like someone was killed because of Okada? The highest the bike would sell for us 400k...Does this make any sense? Are we sure it ain’t cos of something else?

400 what?

Nobody will pay 180 for that bike.

AntiBrutus:
Because you automatically start to judge who fine and who gather pass...

that's not the point.

I think their beauty is enhanced collectively as a group. They will also look good to an observer. Maybe its just me.