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MariaLavina:
Lol
Good, bittersweet, evil

Rich , comfortable, poor

Male, hermaphrodite , Female

Happy, Vague, Sad

Yes, Maybe , No

Agree, Indifferent, Disagree.



Do you have anything else to say?
Once again life isn't always in black and white!

No. Do you?

MariaLavina:
Life isn't written in black and white.

It is. Sorry you just finding out.

Good or Evil

Rich or Poor

Male or Female

Happy or Sad

YES or NO

MariaLavina:
Lol... this is like asking me if a lady who decide to use the men's room a public place or a lady who walks chest bare on a beach. You see, some ideas, attributes, norms and attitudes are naturally fixed, these are passed from generation to generation until they are questioned, challenged and changed by people who don't see them good enough.But then change is a gradual process and sometimes not easily accepted, so it should be expected that for it to occur there will be chaos. There will always be contention, either caused by those against the change or by extremists who take things too far. So agent of transformation are people brave enough to accept whatever comes their ways, that I give to Op.


That said, I'm not going to say he did right or not, he felt the need for change in his girlfriend's orientation and he went for it overlooking the peoples possible reactions.

However I will like to make this clear, entitlement mentality is not a woman's thing but humans' thing, just like a man expects sex as soon as a lady says yes, or expect his girlfriend clean his room whenever she visit, or cook for him. Every being display entitlement mentality according to what he or she is limited to.

wow.

I didnt know "YES" or "NO" could be written as a book.

MissJoy29:
Maybe. Just maybe.

Aren't you one lucky chap then?

abi

MariaLavina:
I will try, one of our resident Alfa male (in poco's voice) went to his girlfriend's place to spend the weekend, when it was time to go he demanded for tfare from the lady which she found ridiculous and refused to yield to his request.
He in retaliation,decided to remain with his girlfriend until she gives him transport fare back home.While fighting for his right as he claimed, he opened this thread.


You will laugh hard if you read through the thread.

one question miss

do you think he dis the right thing?

MissJoy29:
Lol....you are not serious!

So you mean you mean to say you are the only Nigerian guy who hasn't met leeches?! Shocking!!
And please, tell that to the birds!!!

serious oo... i havent. maybe when they meet me... they study me and figure my personality and they dont show their leeching character

sowilli:
Eccl 9: 8 -10. 8 Always wear white clothes to show you are happy. Anoint your head with olive oil. 9 You love your wife. So enjoy life with her. Do it all the days of this meaningless life God has given you on earth. That's what he made you for. That's what you get for all of your hard work on earth. 10 No matter what you do, work at it with all your might. Remember, you are going to your grave. And there isn't any work or planning or knowledge or wisdom there.

hmmm.. words of wisdom

MissJoy29:
The girl and her female colleague are wicked. They are the type of ladies I advise my cousin and male friends to stay away from. These ladies are wicked, opportunistic, self-centered, greedy, selfish, stingy, manipulative, emotionally, psychologically & financially abusive. Above all, their love is never genuine. As a lady, these type of ladies utterly disgust me (part of the reasons why I have really COUNTABLE female friends) so I wonder how a man can stomach them.

for unknown reasons, I.don't meet this type of ladies. Is there a place they stay? I want to date one. Is that too.much to ask? Ladies if you are a leech and a liability please send a pm

What is it with rich men and white

I am making so many white senator

LilMissFavvy:
Oops.....I tot most guys here are always harsh and raw, dats why am always ever ready to attack. It's like few good ones dey o ......tanx. I wish you same.

There was so much hate in your posts. I have found love for God is LOVE

kenddys:
invest wetin

i will spend at least 1k dollars every day until the money finish

you will not finish it even if you live for another 100years

QueenSekxy:
Isn't it stupid that most of you guys whinning do not know this popular joke on social media.
You all are busy hating on the hole that birthed your stupid asses, cos hate has beclouded your sense of reasoning.

The op is trolling with this joke.
Wack and obsolence one at that.

why so much hate?

Something killing you inside?

Try to move on. He is gone for good

Palehair:
No, it doesn't mean you are gay, it just shows how adventurous you are with sex, you might wanna try something new, you may have a fetish for trans women, all in all, you are still straight, i'm gay and I took a sexuality studies class, so I know

how do you feel kissing a man like you

LilMissFavvy:
Keep your stupid cultures and traditions to yourself and stick to it. If not for western culture that came to erode so many babaric African cultures, I wonder if you would be alive, or have a phone to hold and type trash, what's your intelligent Quotient to dare talk about western culture? What have you contributed to Africa or the world? I don't give a phuck about your culture, I don't know the hole you live in, where you don't see that women pay children's fees, drive kids to and fro school, pay for rent, build houses, etc, what should I learn from your kind? Slavery, foolish ego and pride? Shut the phuck up, keep your dumbo views to yourself. What is filling gas? I almost laughed out.Not all elders have successful marriages, neither do all of them judge with fairness, so if you run from one elder to another, seeking for counsel, then you are simply doomed.

you will find love my dear

TheTourist:
How would he leave her in his house and go to work

he shock me too

Ogegod87:
Are you scorpio born? You just described me.

No I am not

Michael820:
Hello, house.

Please, I need your advice on an investment decision. I started investing my savings in mutual fund(money market) about 6 months ago, this has been fruitful but I think I do better by using my investment to buy a car for uber and collect a weekly commission.

I have been able to save up to 1.5m in the mutual funds, I know next to nothing about cars or maintaining one this will be my first car purchase, I am confused on whether I should get the car or continue with my mutual fund.

I would appreciate a matured response and if you have tried this uber thing before I would really appreciate if you could share your story

Thanks

is 1.5m the profit? what MF gives that?

my busy mode spikes at uncertain times of the year.... during those times, i know those that want me too as much as I want them... During my free time, I chat and call.... When I am busy, I completely forget (even family) to call or message anyone.. This is when I know people I am not forcing myself on. And I have a weird wiring. Super easy to move on (except they have more money).

Its easy to save for anything when you don't live to impress anyone.... And you are not materialistic

rusher14:
How many hours a week does this doctor visit the health centre?

good question

I was working only on sat 10 to 3pm for 10k a day.. That's minimum.of 40k

Naija9090:
If only these people who spend 10 plus yrs in school understand how this world works, you will learn to work for yourself. How can someone live on 40k a month, with all that stress as a doctor and yrs in school? It's better to be a laborer nah, the ones I know make over 150k a month. Those tiny 10ft by 10ft Igbo business shops you see in the market you think are nothing, have over 20-30 million/yr in turnover, with excess 40-50% profit margin. I'm speaking as a fmr. banker because I know how much they deposit and collateral assets they put up for lines and loans; I personally underwrite these loans, visit their shops and warehouse to valuate these assets. After 5 yrs of seeing this as a banker and earning chicken change working 15 hrs a day, I sat down with of these Igbo businessmen, he linked me up big time with big supplier clients he has in South Korea. I quit my bank job and have been happy ever.

can you pleas extend the favor

ozy4christ:
stop fornicating around,its a sin. pay her pride price and she is yours,remain blessed

Virgin Mary. Mother of God. Pray for us sinners

biacan:
Useless boys instead them to[b] fight over women[/b] they are there fighting over dogs....spit8 on them

Women?

Why women?

AntiBrutus:
Anything wrong in no-sex-before-marruage?
I do not think it actually spoils things as much. If a man feels that connection, he would feel it even across miles.

for a virgin boy, its fine until he gets his first sex outside.. for a maniac, everything is wrong

AntiBrutus:
You would agree with me there are ladies you meet or see and you imagine giving them head, having them wriggle/moan at every flick of your tongue. It is not like you are a pervert, but there is just that sexual attraction/connection.

If you are with them physically, your manhood will know someone is close by. When you talk to them, it makes you feel one kinda way.

OP doesn't have that effect on the young man... SADLY.

Great experience you got there.

You have a D?

For how long have you hidden this from me

AntiBrutus:
Lol. I think she knows that already, she is just fighting with that reality.

please advise your no sex before marriage crew so be very smart....

AntiBrutus:
He doesn't struggle to suppress erèctions.

Please tell her she has lost him. If a guy loses sexual attraction with her every time... IT IS FINISHED. Nothing can be done.

SHes a sister

ehya

The connection is sex... Whats the difference between great friendship and relationship?

The difference to me is SEX. And that might be the connection missing

If you have had sex with him.. He is tired of it

Move on. Dudes got another if the latter is the case




Warning to all NO-SEX-BEFORE-MARRIAGE-CREW

Its a gamble.... You may or may not lose him.

trilobite:
Google the scholarship and learn how to apply on your own. It's pretty easy, you don't need anyone to apply for you. Start from now to:

1. Browse Chinese schools offering your course.
2. If the course falls under the scholarship or any other scholarship offered by the school.
3. Prepare your application documents.
4. Look for a Chinese supervisor (not mandatory but will help if you made 2.2) preferably before the year ends.

GET STARTED!!

You will seek help someday in any facet of life and you will be given solutions the way you gave op.

Vhhvvh454455:
Prove below

How do i play?

OgogoroFreak:
No, but when it has to do with sex, it does.

I don't think this will affect Churchill, despite these,there are a million girls who want their own stare of the 1 minute.