₦airaland Forum

@Odeku
   Thanks for the info.Funny that part never occured to me;the idiot never travelled to the USA and was probably the only Nigerian leader that never had audience with an American president(alongside his equally despicable successor{Abacha}).[b]He the gods will destroy they first make mad.[/b]This summarises IBB's present re-incursion into the Presidential race.

There's no point sweating ourselves out on this. This Bigb1 is obviously part of the grand scheme to launder the devil(IBB)'s image. The guy don collect gbemu for the job.He gas to deliver.Abi wetin im go say im take di money do if im no represent?
I believe say im for don collect hazard allowance join so let the bashing continue.
Nairalanders thank you jare,I love you all.

Alright we acquire nuclear weapons then what?
How does that solve the basic problems confronting the common man;that of abject poverty,unemployment, disillusionment,lack of basic amenities,even common human rights.
Countries like Canada and Switzerland are not on the list of nuclear powers yet can boast of impressive economies and near-ideal living standards.These are the ones we need to emulate not the Armageddon protagonists.

Never seen a more pathetic political disease like the person of Atiku Abubakar.
Never seen a more undignified character totally bereft of basic human dignity in such a vaunted position.
Can't wait to see him impeached n'his sorry ass dragged to jail.
As for OBJ,it's unfortunate but we still need him for this last phase of transition 2007.Moving against him now will do a lot more harm than good to the volatile situation the country presently finds herself in. We have a date with him come May 29,2007 after the handing-over rites are done with.

@inprecise
U daydreaming or sum'n?
After all the trillions of naira spent in creating the artificial city we should embark on another spending spree? D'you work for Julius Berger or some other multinational construction company?

@ TYNN2
May GOD save your soul.

@ amaka1
Chillax girl;U a black belt martial artist or sum'n?

lauryn:
ps> _{I fart to Kill}

@lauryn
That's some form of terrorism y'know?(suicide bombing)

  Got a NO SMOKING sign on your door?

LOL
Heard this joke someplace that ladies don't fart as much as we guys do 'cos they don't shut up long enough to build up sufficient pressure!!

OMG! This is so sad.
So what's the latest scoop on this guy? Wz he acquitted or convicted?

LoverBwoy:
At night or early in the morning

Verrry funny.
In some places in the S-West the morning version is called "Eye-opener"

But on a serious note it's wack.
If U can't talk things over,just ignore her.Hittin her only belittles U.

@Oracle
Thanx pal.

What U've just described is certainly not adultery(though it sure seems to be hangin in the air)
And why's the guy whining like it's the girl's fault? Wasn't he party to it all along?
Is he just realisin he's a married man?
Sounds like he knows what to do but is just deceiving himself.

@ tonyobj
E gba mi. Ds is the #1 problem in Nigeria.When did like=sex?
  The topic of the thread dt I can see is "If your girlfriend likes another guy" It cld easily have been titled ' If your girlfriend is sleeping with another guy"
  That is why I ended my contribution by sayin "it's what she goes ahead to do dt is the issue".

Simple-U AIN'T ALL THAT!!
Personally I have a principle-if we just got acquainted n'I ask for Ur number and U do not reciprocate/show any interest in asking for mine(usually goes for pretty girls who too feel )there is a 90% probability I'll delete the # immediately we say our"byes"-unless of course U really hit me in a special way. Wz ze point callin' sumn who go dey take U pose?.

The issue is not in liking another guy.That is as natural as the word natural can possibly depict.
Even as a married woman U are not immune to developing some form of attraction to another man.
Believe me nobody has a monopoly of desirable attributes.
The real issue wld be what she goes ahead to do about it,and the role the guy plays.Only then can the blame game begin.

Word.

IBB
 
  SAP
 
  Vatsa

  Settlement Syndrome/Institutionalising corruption
 
  $12.4b missing

  June12 Annulment/Cancellation(whatever)

  Ejigbo plane crash

  Gross Human rights violations

  etc;etc;etc;

Hausa. Just luv the language.

IBB is fit to rule only in Kirikiri Prisons as life president.
I vote Atiku as his able vice 4life.
Any seconder?

These are obviously the dividends of democracy- freedom to rubbish our President at every given opportunity n'feel cool about it . In as much as the issues raised are contemptible [b]PULEEEEEEEZ HE IS STILL OUR PRESIDENT!!![/b]Give him some respect if only for the office he presently occupies.
I'm 100% of the opinion the issue/argument raised in this topic is weak.Yes,leaders worldwide are known for their philandering proclivities(it is not the exclusive preserve of OBJ)but unsubstantiated verbiage like this is uncalled for.
Attack his expressed political ideologies if U can.Attack his governing policies (n' the aftermath of the same) if U must but leave his private life out of this.The same way we have no idea what U do @ 1am behind closed doors--n' guess what-IT'S NONE OF OUR FRIGGIN' BIZNIZ!!

@Havila
Again you spoke my very mind.
The decision is ultimately that of the individual involved.Others should only serve in advisory capacity.

As with practically every occult(and the totality of satan's devices at that)they present a harmless, social,maybe even altruistic front but in reality are devilish and guarantee the perdition prescribed for the enemies of GOD,angelic and human.
Majority of the members end up hating themselves for ever joining and would do anything to rescind the decision to join and reverse the covenants made at the initiation rites but unfortunately have to cower under the threats,intimidations and sanctions such action would elicit from their master(the devil) and their"brothers".
Anyone with an iota of sense and morality will flee this satanic contraption.

@segeloh
   Sorry O!D tin pain U reach that?Just swallow 2 tablets of Piroxicam stat!Some Prozac would also do you some good.
My dear Havila,U have spoken well.Please do not dignify him with a response.

Coco29:
all this in the land where not going to church is a sin. Nigerian have religion but not god.

GNature:
Quote from Coco29
all this in the land where not going to church is a sin. Nigerian have religion but not god.



@Coco29

All you do is bash Nigeria. Is that why you signed on to Nairaland ? To just keep bashing the country indefinately ?

I mean this is just ridiculous.

Abi O GNature!Abeg leave her.The girl obviously has issues.I guess wherever she lives the crime rate there is zero.I want to believe rape is unheard of in London--the land where they have religion and have God. Nonsense!
Why not just get ur act right with whatever god U serve(if any)and do away with Ur prejudiced mindset.Whatever U say/feel about Nigeria and whatever issues may presently bedevil our country;Nigeria remains a beautiful country with beautiful people and those of us that love her won't ever stop loving her.End of story.

Let's just abide by the law:start learning by 16;start driving by 18 and even then on condition that he/she exhibits commensurate maturity.

Of course it's possible to find!What a question?When there are virgin graduate men and I happen to be one.
The problem with most men is they've done so much dirt with women that their perception of them is completely marred n'tainted.
I have been friends with several and one major characteristic that I notice cuts across board is THEY ARE PRINCIPLED.Believe me it's not going to be easy getting them even after discovering their virgin status because they've stuck to their moral principles so long they definitely wouldn't want to lose it to just any jerk.
MARRIAGE is always their prerequisite for any bedroom antics.

I'm 31,a graduate(medical doctor by profession),very much a virgin and proud of it.I don't blab about it everywhere but I sure believe it's a big plus for me(self control-wise) unlike most of the crap I've read on this thread.
My reason:I want to share it with just ONE WOMAN in my life.That is my heart's desire.It may sound ridiculous to U but hey!it's my life.You live Urs anyhow U choose.

fredsmith:
distance doesnt mean a thing, its both of u that is important in it, as long as you understand it, distance something sometimes even makes it stronger, experience has shown it makes u miss the person so much u want to have him or her

Distance don't mean a thing? Well U're on your own on dt one mate! U guys saying such obviously live in "Lovitopia".
I have personally experienced(and challenged) the commitment of 3 different ladies(at different periods in my life) who were into such-2 had their fiances overseas and one had hers in another geographical zone of the country-and in the 3 instances their allegiance shifted! It took principle on my part not to take advantage of the cosy atmosphere that was subsequently created and mar what they already had going on.And I'm talking about decent,intelligent,rational ladies here.
Believe me most(if not all)women are emotionally vulnerable-I've seen that too many times-dt is what some of us men misinterprete as being gullible.Women need(and crave)that closeness;that'being there'more than U can imagine.
For ze men:How many can keep their 'U know what' zipped up while their chicks are away?Hey how many do it even when the hapless girlfriend is next door!
Pple get real! I'm aware situations do arise dt necessitate couples to be apart and I believe the following recommendations might be of help in this regard:

  1.No long distance relationship before the relationship is 6months old-hey!U guys barely know each other.         
   2.Daily verbal communication(in addition to SMS,e-mails n'what have U)
   3.Via the internet, maintain audiovisual contact- splendid use of this technology I must say.
   4.Please find a way to see each other at least every 4months.If this proves impracticable then send tangible physical and emotion-inspiring gifts--believe me this will go a long way.
   5.Above all PRAY!!

  Further comments  and additions to the above recommendations are most welcome.

Seun:
Ask her. If she admits to not having feelings for you, then, well, I don' know. Just ask!

Again I'll go with Seun on this one.Why not just ask her?
It's obviously either of 2 things here:
1. Your worst fears're confirmed.U're just a transient thrill for her.An interlude.Somethn to excite her(a Love Machine of sorts[sorry] )till the alpha male comes along
2. Her so-called "friend" is envious of what Ur girlfriend has(U!) and is just hating. What makes U think U can take her word to the bank?
Whatever the case,treat Ur girl with respect cos there sure was something 'bout her that attracted U to her in the first place.

Prob'ly works for some but definitely not for me.
What becomes of the glow in her eyes? Can lengthy telephone conversations make up for the fragrance of her perfume?the soft feel of her every touch? Just holding her hands and watching the smile that lights up her pretty face. What 'bout the thrill of seeing her reel with laughter @my jokes?the mock shock on her face when I get a li'l naughty? How 'bout the", oooh stop being mischievous,I'll stop coming to your house"which she'd prob'ly have said a hundred times--
Naaaaah!!Long distance relationships aren't for pple like me.