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Notfogotten:
Please I have a question to ask.

I don't want to go into details so my partner doesn't trace this to me.

My partner came to UK before me, though still on student visa. I joined her with my 3 children one months ago.

I have noticed some red flags which never happened while we where in Nigeria and I was footing the bills alone.

Each red flag, I pretend nothing happened because I don't want to be thrown out like the man I read about on social media.

My visa is dependent on hers and we are still on student visa.

My question, in the event that we get papers to stay permanently in UK and one day she decides to send me packing or I decide move out, will I be asked to return to Nigeria because she is the main applicant?

Please I need urgent answers. I may not play the fool for long. We are very certain of getting papers next year.

Hmmnnn... I remember when I use to sleep in the office, and ladies will come around and be like no come to my place, from your essay you won't ponder before gumming the train. Hmn.. My question to you is, how do you feel comfortable hanging on a woman? Those red flags you're seeing are timed bombs. Your fears will come to pass if you don't bolt now. Bolt like Usain Bolt!!! Tell her anything, just Bolt!

Else, we're definitely gonna read how you were thrown out on the streets.

chokekachy:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7949890/shettima-governors-visit-president-tinubu

Eeeya.. Good one from Jigger!

Truths9ja:
Why I am still single at 41 - Actress Ini Edo reveals



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cN1iNcCUpr8?si=eqTdNhyyHjpW98PP

At 41 has she not reached the age of menopause Hmn.. Dont worry.

Anyways, from my experience with my boy has taught me a lesson, guys, do not marry any lady above 35 years old. Taking care of kids is not funny, a research to ladies who have done unthinkable killings to their own kids also reflect that they're mostly above 35years old.

The energy to take care of the house, dishes, kids, work and hubby is almost impossible for them once they're approaching 40 because the energy is not there like that anymore.

So if care is not taken, INI bae is in for a long ride, and the road is endless.😁😁😁😁

[quote author=ogododo post=127635171][/quote]Arrest them and hang them.

Chineloani:
https://www.quora.com/profile/Ike-Ani/VIDEO-Woman-Hangs-Herself-After-Killing-Her-Children-WATCH-THE-VIDEO-HERE-https-www-gistpark-com-ng-2023-12-vid?ch=15&oid=141781091&share=e45af9de&srid=EeHeq&target_type=post

This is the reason why I don't call men who leave kids with women sane men. Once they get frustrated, the unimaginable becomes obtainable by mother of one of dozens. I feel for the kids...

[quote author=Rubyjade post=127589826][/quote]I was able to know that truly indeed God answers prayers!!!!

BadMaster:
Some people don't know that there a reason why, in most families, you will find that wives live longer than their husbands. Women have a special talent in frustrating men, and this usually results in health deterioration, especially HBP.

The funny thing is, most of my friends, colleagues that are married are not happy. In fact, they're miserable. There's always one complain or the other about their wives. However, these same people never miss an opportunity to advice you to go and get married. Sometimes, it feels they want you to be as miserable as they are.

My family as an example. All the men including my dad is gone. As in all my uncles are dead, and their wives are strong. I sat down and just concluded ON MY OWN! Marriage cut shot the lives of men!!!

DyshApp:
A Nigerian man has become homeless in the UK after he confronted his wife for sleeping with her female best friend on their matrimonial bed.

The tweep who shared the incident on X, revealed that the wife had been secretly planning for her friend to come join her in the UK.

Narrating the heart-wrenching incident, he wrote;

“A man and his wife were able to secure UK VISA for themselves and their 3 children. It was a dream come true for them as they had been working on it for a very long time. They got to UK in 2022. Everything was smooth and sweet. The wife was schooling. The husband was taking care of the children and also working to support the wife’s schooling. The wife secretly started preparing documents for her friend from Oshogbo . She eventually went over to UK to join them. The wife would spend almost all her time with the friend and do almost everything together The husband started questioning her but she claimed her friend was just in need of help to settle in. She started calling him inconsiderate . Subsequent unfolding of events made the man grow even more suspicious. He installed spy cameras in his bedroom and realized that his dear wife was sleeping with her friend on his matrimonial bed . He couldn’t believe his eyes. He accosted her and she finally openly admitted that she is in love with the friend and wanted to be with her. It lead to a physical altercation and the police threw the man out The man became homeless in UK as at 15th December, 2023.”

Follow up with more Relationship Gist on Dyshus webpage

I am 45 years old, trust me I look 33 years old because I am just alone with my son. Most of all my age mates look like scrap metal because marriage in reality terms offers no peace of mind like when you're alone.

Immediately I went broke I lost my peace, she attempted stabbing me in front of a 7 month old boy and I recorded it without her knowledge and ran to the police station. This gave me an upper hand in custody. She first ran away with my son and asked me to come get him at 1.4 years old. I tried begging her and she said no!!!

Today, my boy is four years old, my eyes saw shege! But now dude wakes me up to pray in the morning and at night.

Now am happy than ever, simply because am alone with my son and any nice maid that can cook a ton😂😂😂😂😂😂

Totilopussylick:
This is a super story

a life of strife and sorrows😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Bayyajidda:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/12/20/borno-governor-zulum-excludes-christians-their-communities-nigerian-governments

If he truly did that, he lacks exposure and cannot be the President.

Islie:
https://punchng.com/tinubu-threatened-fubara-to-sign-resolution-ex-commissioner-alleges/

If Fubara understands that he can be assassinated by those who put him there he will comply and be a gentleman.

Ballzproblem2:
is he not a human being? na una type they push youths into crime

For Christ sake he meant you're a cleaner, you're not yet balanced, you're running errands, you have only school start, and you're still contemplating falling in love with a babe whose gone through the four walls of the university... Is he not stupid?!

The bible says to all we men to develop our business before we even build a house, how much more getting married.

That man's advisory Is the best advice in the world.

[quote author= post=127515112]Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/12/sabby-you-are-the-reason-for-my-death-man-commits-suicide-over-his-wifes-alleged-infidelity.html[/quote]You're an idiot! No ye not that we're in end times They're most doing porn now. You ought to have kicked her out, not to kick yourself out of this life. You're going to regret killing yourself when you wake up at the other side.

lamdbull:
Dbull on this one!


Ordinary pant I no see buy for my babe since I don dey do music for 15 years.

😭😭😭😭

Stop singing Nonsense😂

swaqq:
Atlantic grouper, these are the smallest specie. The larger species are about the size of a dolphin.

The,expression on the face of the last fish shows like despite living in the water, they weren't still safe. 😂

VinnyBaba:
Leave them to continue Deceiving themselves.

In the Bible, Jacob, Isaac and Joseph were Financially Bouyant before thinking of Marrying.

Can a man that hasn't eating have concubines? 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.

The word of God clearly stated, develop your business before you build your home. But people build their home before they develop their business. And this is the major reason marriages fail.

Oloshooos aside, those ones are already cursed. But in reality, go through the bible and see for yourself if Isaac's father sweet talked Rebecah's people. Check out the sturvs he sent, then ask yourself as a man if you should get married if you are still struggling to feed.

lomprico:
They have not had sex yet but the guy is already testing the waters by that statement. For the fact that your wife is exchanging selfies with him, she is into him already. It's just a matter of time. It will happen soon.

And for the amending of your wife's reply it means "No I can't have babies with you cos you are already married with kids, if you were still single, I will gladly carry your babies"

Matured translation!

Gasopanis:
I have been having some kind of pain in my ear for about 2 weeks now, i went to the hospital last week and i was prescribed this drug Augmentin, i was shocked when i went to the pharmacy and was told it costs 57k, i even had to ask the lady if she knew what she was saying, i had to google it and found out she wasn’t lying. I went to buy it today.. it has just 14 tablets. A friend of mine told me it used to cost about 6k in the past.

I’m fed up of the situation of things in this country

I hope revolution will not happen in this Tinubu's administration, things are really in a bad shape....

Jennyclay:
If the man can’t forgive her then let him go jare!! . He’s not a saint either!!

I’m sure the man is not really good in bed reason she visited her ex.

So many men are not just good in bed, especially Nigerian men!! and they won’t even care if a lady is satisfied or not!! Very selfish men!!!

Personally, if I’m not getting enough money, sex and true Love from my man then I would definitely look outside.

Look everywhere... We don't care!😂😂😂😂😂😂

BreakingNews21:
Maybe that what happens when communities are too comfortable with bandits, kidnappers, and terrorists living in close proximity to their homes and villages. The government has continued to urge ppl to report strangers and miscreants within their midst.

I guessed as much😕

ogododo:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/12/03/exclusive-tinubu-government-procures-used-mass-transit-buses-nigerians-despite

Buses from Romania of all countries. What a shame!

Islie:
https://leadership.ng/alarm-bells-ring-as-nigerias-refineries-collapse-by-92/

God will visit all those who were eating money all in the name of maintenance with untimely deaths from young to old, their generation will go extinct! And all that they have gathered will be taken over by strangers... Bunch of ticks!

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni

I've been writing about certain tricks players use in getting women to bed. Today, let's examine The Marriage Trick

These players are aware that many ladies are desperate to get married and that they would do anything for it to come to pass. So, they positioned themselves to make the lady believe they have a long-term purpose and plan for their relationship, and that it will end with marriage. Some of them don't even mind introducing her to their family and friends (and vice versa) just to make her rest assured that they are serious. Then, they employ all manner of tactics to make the lady sleep with them, and he breaks her heart by breaking the relationship afterward.

My Counsel: In this part of the world, society has configured the minds of ladies to feel worried and inadequate if they are not in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage after they pass a certain stage.

But I want you to know that it is a sin to idolize marriage. When, in your quest for marriage, you go against God's Will, it means you are practicing idolatry, which God hates vehemently. Always remember that marriage was made for humans; not humans for marriage. In other words, you aren't meant to be inadequate simply because you are not married.

Now, I know it is not enough to just say these things without speaking along the lines of positioning yourself to attract and marry God-fearing men who will wed you without defiling the bed. Thankfully, there are still lots of God-fearing men out there who themselves are honoring God with their bodies. These are men who are submitted to the LORD and are serving God in spirit and in truth. These are the type of men you should associate with. Unlike the "bad boys" out there, a born-again Christian won't regard you as a mere tool for bodily pleasure, but will even contribute to your growth in important areas. Like I've said earlier, a sure way to enjoy your marriage is by marrying a genuine born-again Christian, where the foundation of your home is built on Christ. Such a man, who himself is Christ's bride, will know how to please God by treating you as the queen you are meant to be.

It is not enough to say 'I want a God-fearing man'. You must be a God-fearing woman yourself. A born-again Christian will want to marry a child of God like himself, and won't go for a lady that lives carelessly anyhow and do things contrary to God's Will. Hence, to attract a God-fearing born-again Christian man, you must be a genuine child of God too. It is true that God won't give any of His true sons to just any kind of lady that will ruin his sonship. Hence, after committing your life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, you must also be committed to living a life devoid of sin and iniquity, focusing on serving God in spirit and in truth. I can assure you that, God knows how He will connect you with a responsible God-fearing man who will ensure you have a joyful marriage

You reading this right now may be worried that you are getting older and still single (and seeing many of your mates are already married). But, never compromise your purity stance. God is about to do something great in your life if you will continue holding to His Word. Perhaps you keep coming across guys who dumped you because you won't allow them to mess with your body, and you are almost fed up. Well, actually, you are facing those things because the devil already sensed your greatness, and he is doing all he can to hinder you from being the great woman God has destined you to be.

Finally, to get a God-fearing guy easily, then you should constantly be around where they can easily notice you. Imagine a lady saying she wants a God-fearing man, but is always clubbing and partying. Get closer to God, be busy with God's works, attend church services, dress responsibly, etc.

https://www.instagram.com/p/C0U2iJOobbf/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Thanks. But what is your business with this matter?

JOhnnyfreash:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ljcuvQAISk

You too, wetin make you fall in love with Albino😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

EcoBrick:
https://punchng.com/anambra-landlords-protest-killings-destruction-multiple-levies/

Is that area in Lagos State? Or is Tinubu's wife's land...😎

nlparrot:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6j4L46TUn8?si=o76tAeVmL7ZT9w8K

Nigerian Singer Portable slam actor and media personality Yhemolee for allegedly assaulting Lil Frosh.

What of Lil'kim and Pako'Lin😤.. Hey! Be on the media for something positive. Not all this Lil stuffs. Me self I be Lil'PeF😂😂😂😂😂

Helpfromabove1:
Will the court also stop the effect of flooding

Tactical question.

ceejay80s:
Oga na lie
Present day Nigeria...U cant withdraw from a bank account that is not it's and the woman isn't foolish enough to have a joint account with the husband...
Nairaland cooked story just to get richer with traffic

And let us assume he wants to get traffic is anything bad in it.😂😂😂😂😂 By the way sounds real. 😕

Beremx:
it's her choice to leave the kids with their father, good luck to her. If na me, I don pack my children waka. No time

If na me I go help you pack their belongings😂😂😂😂😂

Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/11/automation-of-passport-application-99-done-to-go-live-next-week-minister/amp/

All hail Tunji Ojo!!! The minister of power too is doing wonders.. Umahi the great is also a mega star, Wike is making the FCT to become where we travel too for holidays. I Can score Tinubu's cabinet with these men 75/100...