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realborn:
The real deal from a leader that abhors bickering and long things.

Strategic planning and apposite response.

All we need to defeat Bh!

Terrorism cannot be defeated by force. It is an ideology. How do you kill an idea? By re education and re orientation. Using force will only contain it temporarily. Case in point. BH exist today because of the lack of quality education in the North as well as their orientation was and is phucked up. Why are southerners not part of BH? Because they know better and have been given quality orientation and education from birth. The trick is to get the north to see what the South sees.

dtermined:
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Breakup is mostly common nowadays, there are so many ways and ideas we tend to deal with breakup.

For most people, keeping calm and gentle when your relationship had just collapsed but some people do resort to some pretty rare things to help them cope with it.

So, when you have just found out that the man you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with is not the man that you thought he was.

Below are ten of the ridiculous things that you could do, but really shouldn’t.

1. Lock yourself away for a week
Turning yourself into a hermit won’t bring him back, but it’s something a lot of us do. Locking the door, closing the drapes, and hiding away from the outside world for a few days, does have some advantages though. At least you know you won’t meet your ex unexpectedly, and it gives you some time to get your head together again.

2. Give up on relationships altogether
Well, everyone does this when they are going through a breakup. You know the type of thing: I hate men, never again and I’m never going to find the right man for me. You make up your mind that this was the very last time you will ever let yourself be hurt and, from now on, you are going to become a nun! Until, that is, of course, you meet the next guy.

3. Get drunk and start texting
Getting drunk is a bad idea anyway; all you will get from that is a thumping headache and you will be up all night being sick. If you are getting drunk and texting, though, then you are really asking for trouble. If you are going to drown your sorrows, then at least hide your phone and laptop, before you open the bottle. If you don’t, you will live to regret all those angry tweets and text messages you send about your ex.

4. Try and get back with him
Whether he dumped you, or you dumped him, it is never a good idea to go running straight back to him. Once you are over the anger stage, you may well find yourself missing him, but don’t go back, all full of apologies and ask him to come back. It’s something that a lot of us have done before, but it rarely takes more than a few weeks for it all to go wrong again.

5. Start stalking him
Resist that urge to check up on what he’s doing too, it’s only going to upset you again. Don’t keep looking at Facebook to see what he is up to, or who his new friends are and don’t go to the places where you know he will be. Doing this will only make you mad and lead to even more ridiculous things that you could do.

6. Telling everyone what a swine he is
Of course you want everyone to know that it was not your fault and that your ex is quite probably the worst human being ever to have walked upon the earth. You will probably spend the next few weeks making sure that as many people as possible know how awful your ex is, but you could spend months feeling guilty about some of the things you said too. When you are angry, you might get a bit too personal about your ex, so be careful what you say to other people.

7. Hook up with a random guy
Another typical response to a breakup is to go out of your way to prove that you don’t need your ex, so you go looking for any guy to hook up with, and you make sure that your ex knows about it too. That victory that you feel won’t last for long though, and you will probably hate yourself for doing it. Have a quiet night out with your friend instead; it will make you feel a lot better than a one-off cheap revenge date will.

8. Go on a vandalising spree
You might feel the urge to take out your anger on his possessions and you wouldn’t be that first to have cut up his clothes and dumped all his possessions outside the front door in the rain. Don’t go in for the revenge approach, though, or it could turn really nasty and you might even end up in court.

9. Phoning up another ex
You might also think that getting back with another ex will be the solution to all your problems, but that won’t work either. You’ve still got to get over this latest ex first, so don’t complicate things even further by trying to reel in an old flame to keep you company and give you a bit of sympathy. It just won’t work out in the long run.

10. Hating everyone else that is happy
It’s not everybody else’s fault that you are not happy at the moment, so don’t hate every happy, loving couple that you happen to see. Just because you have been through a tough time lately, don’t take it out on other people. You will be back with another man in your life soon enough.


http://infogistz..com.ng/2015/10/see-ridiculous-things-that-most-ladies.html

Bro's, apart from number 8, men do the same damn thing. How old are you?

stop complaining. Start paying taxes and also demanding that your taxes be used judiciously and all these problems will stop. It is not by magic that the western world is so much better in almost everything. Taxation is a key tool for their being where they are right now.

metronaija:
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This fatal accident just happened few minutes ago along airport road in Abuja.... The cause of the accident and number of casualties could not be ascertained at the time of filing the report...See some photos from the crash....
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http://www.metronaija.com/2015/10/photos-from-tragic-accident-along.html

cc: lalasticlala ishilove

It is a proven fact that the most dangerous person in a vehicle is the back seat passenger. They usually don't wear seat belts and when involved in an accident, they are tantamount to a fired bullet in an enclosed space.

I don't know what the OP is talking about. Going by the Nigerian standard; it's not that bad.

xtremely9ja:
I am sorry this what is been done in Abia state as a concrete road is an insult on the civil engineering profession. My reason is as below;
1. There two main types of rigid pavement Continuously reinforced concrete pavement and Jointed Plain Concrete Pavement.
2. For a good concrete pavement the slump of the concrete should be between 0 and 60mm but what we can see in these pictures is a flowing concrete.
3. The sub-base should be of packed crushed aggregate (mixed material) of 0-20mm.
4. The concrete should not be below 30 Mpa i.e 30N/mm2
5. Because the road will be subjected to flexural stress rather than compressive stress, the minimum flexural strength in concrete pavement by standard is 4.5Mpa, considering a concrete that is not reinforced that should make the compressive strength be not less than 45 Mpa, since flexural strength by the rule of thumb is 10% of compressive strength of any concrete specimen.
6. There should be a prime course for water proofing but there was none in that picture.
7. For the Jointed plane concrete pavement, which it appears they are working on, dowel should be provided between 3 to 6 meter or the lesser of 20 time the depth of the pavement.
8. Tie bars should be provided between two lane constructed at different times.
9. Contraction joint should be provided at every 3 to 6 meter or the lesser of 20 times the depth of the pavement.
10. Curing compound should be sprayed for proper curing of the pavement immediately after surface grooving with broom.

We can continue on and on to show that the work is a failure on arrival. The painful thing is that the ministry engineers that are suppose to supervise do not know their right from left, archaic set of professionals.

I am busy now,I will still modify this comment after.

This man knows what he's talking about.

felucci:
Did you do a research? You can actually build good roads with cement.

My bad. you are right. Just that it's not commonly used where i am. And, i've never used it nor seen it used.

sanbells:
Lagos is an island so what did u expect? . Too bad though

What the hell does that mean? so, because lagos is an island, the streets should be flooded after every rainfall. Really?

menabadoo:
Good but not good enough

The term is asphalt. Not cement. You can't build roads with cement. At least i hope that's not what people are doing in Nigeria.

Spaxon:
yeah u right
when it snows ur car gets covered n all that.....
but it rains like hell in California...
how's the tax system in Germany?...

High as hell. Thank God i don't have to pay it though, else i would be in serious trouble. But, the good thing is their citizens don't feel it much because of their social structure. They have a way of spreading it around such that everyone gets an equal share of the benefits. It's not too surprising they have one of the strongest economies in the world.

urchbarbie:
Bollinger.....pls are u married?

Lol.....you are too damn funny.

cococandy:
Nice

Love me a man that can cook

Lol. . . thanks mama.

Had the worst possible news today, so, to cheer myself up, i decide to cook. Always seems to calm me down and or, cheer me up. It tasted absolutely fantabulous, just so you'd know. Take my word for it. Now for the single guys in da house who struggle with cooking. I like to pride myself with being an amateur professional cook and i'd like to spill the beans on some secrets most chicks keep to themselves in this department. Pit me against any female in the culinary arena and i promise you i'd slam her hands down, (no pun intended ). The secret to most dishes is the sauce, as in the beginning for your cooking. If you can get that right everything else is a breeze. Usually, it always starts with cooking the meat. Most people think cooking meat is all about throwing everything into a pot and voila, everything is good. Heck no. I like to slow cook my meat till it's soft, with not too much water. That is the only way to retain the flavor as well as give you a good stock for later use. A pressure cooker comes in handy for this to be effective, though not necessary. Next, preparing your pepper/tomatoes/onions. Apart from knowing how to mix the right quantity you need, you also need to know what kind of soup you are preparing it for. If it's stew, you absolutely have to boil the pepper till all the water evaporates and if it's just straight up soup, then, well, you can leave it as is. If you can get these down pat, you can pretty much just dump every other ingredients into your pot just as you would cooking edikaikong soup. Anyway, i hope this helps.

Someone please explain to me why this is on the front page again after two years. The mods are running out of ideas.

FtLawi:
u will not die early. no one cares to ask what the guy did.

Even if the guy stole, is that the way the law is set up to deal with criminals? I swear, Nigerians think with every faculty except the one that matters most.

Then why does she need bail?

powerfulsettingz:
But wait do this so called Nigerian army derived pleasure in doing this to people? Absolutely insane in an insane country

And on this same forum Nairalanders are hailing soldiers for doing the exact same thing. Nigerians are the most s.tupid set of people on earth.

https://www.nairaland.com/2653029/soldiers-brutalise-police-sergeant-friend

OAMMB:
How do we identify the authentic dollars or pounds....Someone onces told me if you try to scan a real dollars it will come out blank black with no Image
Can people share more so that people can be aware.

Just use a lemon green marker on it. If it doesn't hold the color of the marker then you know it's fake. Most stores do it when you present big bills.

Dennis07:
What is the fuss about this? Are there not people living in sango?




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The fact that you don't see what the fuss is, shows how much you have been raped psychologically to the point that really phucked up shiit is absolutely normal to you.

Spaxon:
lol
a friend invited me to California last week
and I just love the state .
I mean its not totally different from Illinois..

u really enjoying the good air in the German countryside

I don't think i can live in Illinois ever again. . . .that fhucking snow and that wind? No freaking way.

shiinihost:
this is not about being emotional. it's about strenghtening our national institutions.

And the way to do that is by letting whomsoever is in charge to perform his/her duties to the best of their abilities without interference. All these armchair pundits need to stop.

Lol....."THE HUMAN'S"

Nigerians are just too emotional.

Spaxon:
wow
I've actually never been there b4

I think it's probably the most organized city in Europe. I like the country side more. So clean and picturesque. I wouldn't like to live here permanently though. I miss the good old U.S of A.

Spaxon:
aiid
how u enjoying those Nazi heads

Lol.....Not a bad place to live. Really clean country.

hinwazaka:
Only a foolish and insensitive individual, would have made such a ridiculous and ignoble promise. Useless president.

Only a foolish and insensitive individual, would believe such a ridiculous and ignoble promise. Useless people.

Reminds me of the colleges in the U.S

TonyeBarcanista:
Neither GEJ nor the Army brought him back! The court of Appeal acquitted him of the charge brought against him by LASG. The Appeal Justice order for his release. He was NEVER retired at any time. So it was natural for him to return to his service after he was pronounced innocent.

So, basically he has be on AWOL status for fourteen years. Nigeria i hail thee.

safarigirl:
First off, I want all Nigerians to forget about qualifying for AFCON 2017, it won't happen with this rift.

Oliseh was wrong on all counts in this rift. The last player you should ever attack is the pillar of the team, the head capo, ask Didier Deschamps what Anelka did to him. Why pick on Enyeama? Enyeama has loyalists in that team that can and will rebel against Oliseh until he loses that job and they prove he was never meant to be a coach. Oliseh is displaying an arrogance he hasn't earned considering he's won nothing of note as SE coach.

And making Musa captain? Who will take orders from Musa? Is it Mikel, Emenike or the ousted Enyeama? Does Musa look like a leader? Apart from his scrawny nature, how old is he? Someone who can't even speak up when he's wronged, how will he speak on behalf of his team mates?

The only place Oliseh's myopic decisions will take he and that team is down. I just want him out ASAP cuz he's apparently not The Chosen One to bring sanity to our football.

What rubbish is this one spewing?

jaymejate:
Musa the captain?
It's not going to be possible at all.

I don't even like that guy

And you know him so well.

Deltagiant:
The truth is that such a city or country can never emerge under the hegemonistic, feudalistic, nepotistic, parasitic and quota-systemic grip of the Hausa-Fulani. Let every region be free and pursue its aspirations, then a country like this can emerge from the ashes of Nigeria. Or better still break the nonsense contraption up!

Daaaayyyyyyuuuuuuummmmm!!! such eloquence and logic. Bro's if more of us can come out and stamp out the I.diots on NL, the forum will be a better place. Kudos.

dearpreye:
The most important thing is the MESSAGE he sought to conveyed. I've confused between BEEN and BEING in times past.

So you would say that at a job interview. "the message is more important than the means of communication". Ok. Good luck with that.