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OP does your husband provide for you and the kids?

Dignity of Manhood,
No longer Two,
Becoming like Jesus,
Living with Eternity in view,
Why sit we here?

All by Gbile Akanni

22yrs:
At 22yrs of my life, I have witnessed women respecting, and regarding their Pastor more than their Husband’s who married them, and provide basic things of Life.
Even our so called men of God are not left behind, some even prey of the married women weakness. (Take a look at the Ghana Pastor who murdered his Wife, I know some women in his church would hold him to high regards than their husbands at home)

I've come into conclusion that, any day I find out my future wife gives more regards to her pastor than me, that is the day she'll marry her pastor, and also bundle her way out of my life.

I'm not talking about an Abusive Household, even a home that is peaceful..

Women why give more regards to your pastor then Husband?

The day the Husband takes up his spiritual responsibility, his wife will look up to him rather than the "Pastor". Every man is the Pastor of his home. The home is the first church before any other place. The wife and the children should be able to see that their father/husband is capable of taking all their challenges to God in prayer!

The same goes to the children who will always remark, "My aunty said..." ie referring to their teachers in school. It should rather be "My father said..." or "My mother said...."

naija4life247:
Yes we are.

Now look at this. Before now, Southerners do not wish to work in government ministries and parastatals because the pay has always been poor. Only Northerners who are almost half educated loved to work in government ministries and parastatals and earn peanuts because Northerners were not so money conscious like us Southerners.

This is the same reason why you will notice that most Judges in all the states of the federaion are Women or Northeners. It is because a brilliant Southern male lawyer is not ready to work in government ministries and parastatals and earn peanut. A Southern male lawyer knows that what government pays in five years, he can make it on a single case. But a Southerne female lawyer is comfortable with the little that government is paying, as her husband is most times the main financier of the family.

This is one of the reasons why there are less Southerners in government ministries and parastatals .

Another reason is that Southerners work gainst each other and even witch haunt their brethren when they find their selves in postition unlike Northerners that once you speak Hausa, you are favoured. So, should we blame the North for this?

However, some things have changed all over the years, as unemployment inceases day by day, anyone is ready to do any job includingworking in government ministries and parastatals and earning peanuts with the wrong believe that he will be in a position to steal government money.

I wish i could give a 100 likes to this comment. Though it may look bad on one hand but looking critically you will observe that many of the top ranked personnel are from the North and you will definitely not put a junior Southerner above them.
Just like you said, many Northern elites in these organizations favour their people irrespective of the northern state they come from but the Southerner will insist their kindren pass through all the employment processes while at the same time assisting the northern colleague with his own candidate.

Etrusen:
it has become something that most Nigerians don't really notice that some cities in Nigeria is becoming more known in the world than the state they really fall in example of some of those cities are listed under base on their popularity.

1) BENIN CITY_ EDO STATE

2) PORT_HARCOURT_ RIVERS STATE

3) CALABAR_ CROSS RIVERS STATE

4) WARRI_ DELTA STATE

5) IBADAN _ OYO STATE

6) ONITSHA_ ANAMBRA STATE

7) ABA _ ABIA STATE

8 ) JOS _ PLATEAU STATE

9) MAIDUGURI_ BORNO STATE

10) UYO _ AKWA IBOM STATE

11). ZARIA_KADUNA STATE

12) ILORIN_ KWARA STATE

13) AKURE _ ONDO STATE

14) IFE_OSUN STATE

15) ADO EKITI _ EKITI STATE

16) ABAKALIKI_ EBONYI STATE

Please modify the topic to read, "Cities that are......" and not "is"
Thank you

Faller:
but you know that most Ebonyi guys that comes to Lagos, their primary aim is to sell gala

Chai!! You are not nice oooo

Its not. Even lagos highly populated with all the business, ports, and more wealth than any other state cannot on its own have a viable airport. It is an international airport so everyone in Nigeria uses it some extent and that is the reason for its profitability.

Ebonyi state has no business building an airport with tax payers money. In fact no sane government in this century builds an airport with tax payers money. Its a business and better left to business men to run.

This is just a front to siphon billions. the only reason stupid Nigerian banks will lend money is that they will deduct their repayments at source. which giving the dwindling revenue of the FG, Ebonyi will be in a position of sub-zero allocation as their allocation will not be enough to service those loans.

They will be smart not to use the airport as a collateral as they know its a white elephant project that will neither generate money or easily sellable. it will be worth shit to creditors.

Thanks for this! He would have pointed out his arguments in a civil manner and facts rather than pour invectives on people who are trying to make an honest living and do not even know their state is engaged in an airport project.

OVB123:
Who will use the airport at the end, the people that are selling gala on the major street in many cities in Nigeria.

This statement is so shameful coming from you. Nigerians travel abroad and do all manner of chores just to survive, so we should respect those who do same here in Nigeria. There should be dignity in labour.

YOU CAN ALWAYS GO TO AFGHANISTAN OR IRAQ OR EVEN NORTH KOREA . I SOMETIMES WONDER WHEN PEOPLE WILL BE PROUD OF OUR COUNTRY.[/quote]Please, proud of what exactly?

Juanmike:
He has already come out to clarify things, he is a man of character, he is only interpreting a role, the backwardness of those terrorists up north and their hate for igbos can never be overemphasized, much more people from waste land.

As much as I love Pete, I still recall him condemning Olu Jacobs for playing the role of an Igwe, saying an IBO man would have done better!

Madibah:
How the fvck can u compare gulder ultimate search with bbn ..

There's nothing educative on bbn
Bbn contains porn activities and indecency

Im really missing ultimate search

Someone using the "F" word is actually condemning big brother because of "porn activities and indecency". Nigerians I hail thee.

buzorcharles:
Aware of what happened to gana he too may be wasted b4 we know it.

This was so prophetic!

desiredhome:
Stop comparing Jesus with mere motals/pulpit bandits........
Kiss the Truth when you see it

The just shall live by his faith but there should be respect for each other''s beliefs

ThothHermes:
What are the "heresies in Oyedepo's prosperity gospel"

I actually was looking forward to reading that part too, cos there is no where the Bible condemns one being prosperous. I have realized that many people who condemn what they term prosperity gospel being preached by Oyedepo have never listened to him preach or read any of his books, how much more read the Bible.

BigJoe29:
Not every man is like your rapist father, sorry for your experience

You should have passed your comments in a civil manner. That was rude.

saaphiere:
Don't entrust your girl child to a male. Whether he's her father or blood brother.
The way men are abusing women these days is worrisome.

Are we free to entrust the male child to a female? It doesn't follow like that my sister.

northvietnam:


The lord is good .....

All the time .

Evangelist thatbis under the Enchantment of Konjinus

He is not an Evangelist, he is a RAPIST!!

Samunique:
Twitter users called her out for not criticizing Muslim authorities who sentenced 22-year-old Kano singer, Yahaya Aminu-Sharif to death for blasphemy, only to find her voice when a Pastor did something she considers wrong.

This is why they are called hypocrites !

Always beholding the beam in others eye while theirs is covered with weeds.

That's what you get from the people of pieceful religion !!!

It was this same Jadaria that was enjoying and laughing when Seun Kuti was lambasting Jesus on a live TV programme 9https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pofmBCqs75s) while keeping blind to the many atrocities in the North. Shame!!! She is a big time hypocrite.

AndSunGorilla:
Babalade babwire is dead Great defender!!! Scored some fantastic free kicks for Sooting. Adieu Aji baba.

Collins Ebitimi (late also) was actually the barbwire.

November1857:

These two pictures should be made to trend on social media. See her face!

But OP!!! You said they are cheap na!! Haba!! 35million. God answer us ooo so we can patronize this OP!

Made4naijalove:
Reading these peoples' terrible English really hurt my head. Pls kindly take care of your health young lady...it is well with you

I pray one day we will go back to the era when people knew the difference between "I'm" and "am"; "It's" and "is". So terrible reading posts and messages these days.

What type of nonsense is this?

God just delivered this brother from a bad mannered woman!

It's either you made up this story or you are pretending to be "stupid"

satelliteDISH:
That road is a death trap for travellers. Anenih with all his federal might could not use his good office to bring down the federal government to dualize that road.

Even oshiomole could not also do same. Shame on all Edo heavyweight politicians. As these affected families mourn , you shall all know no peace.

We know the roads are bad. We know our politicians are wicked. Yet it is still our responsibility to drive responsibly as only the living can complain about how good or bad a road or government is.

ArewaWife:
Exactly. Look at her saying 'I am the wife of a politician'. Wife of constituted authority.

Even when people are trying to play down on the pomposity and pride while the man was in government just to allow him rest in peace, this woman will not allow sleeping dogs lie. "I am the wife of a politician" doesn't make you the politician. Awon "I don't pick unknown numbers" gang.
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Nice job! I need to ask. At what point of building construction does this concept come in. Foundation, Lintel, so that one would know when to engage you.

Arsenal was even better when they had players coming from their youth teams not now that they have to start getting already established players from bigger clubs.

Donald3d:


The way people think sef, and their disgusting entitlement mentality

Coming from a woman who doesn't work .

So if he pays the 120k, who would fend for the home ?

120k is almost his salary for 2 months .

Instead of her to be fighting for him to save and be prudent to better their lives, she is making unreasonable demands.

Your bride price list alone took about 8-9 months of his salary, not to talk of the other wedding expenses

Can you just imagine. My guy worked like Jacob to marry her and they still want to milk the guy.