₦airaland Forum

majamajic:
the hotel after the bridge u turn right , don't wan mention the name , it's 4k with a fine beautiful girl included all night ,

majamajic:
a cheap 4k hotel would have saved them all these stress , it's like they slept inside the cars too from bachelor's eve .

too bad non suggested for a hotel , boys !!

HORLADSTAR:
Actually not me but a distant cousin of mine,he died and the wife abscond with their two kids including my cousin properties.He died a natural death though or so we thought, WHO KNOWS.

vibre:
Timi is busy posting pictures up and down when he should be more concerned about why his son resembles Fatoyinbo

SluttanSlayer:
Anytime a crime involving an Igbo person is announced, Yorubas will rush in and condemn the entire Igbo population as criminals but when a violent barbaric act is committed by Fulanis, yorubas will be the first to rush in to exonerate and defend the Fulani criminals.

Why?

Even Tinubu used Evans as both a diversionary and avenue to attack Igbos.

The case of the abduction of Olu Falae by Fulani criminals saw Yorubas on this forum denying that Falae was kidnapped by fulanis and even said it was a welcome development if he was as Falae as they claimed benefited from corruption.

What kind of people are these Yorubas?

Natoski5:
Forget about regina daniel...see that lady in front, na so person mouth suppose be..

Abef make una no attack me, I no well

Leonbonapart:
shut your epileptic fingers and let reasonable people talk.
Dindirin

needful:
Am gonna talk about this flogging using myself as a case study.

I came out from a family of 9 and am second to the last. My dad is a very disciplined man who beat at a slightest mistake. Being second to the last born, i did something wrong one day and he immediately rushed to flog me with his belt and I quickly screamed " Dad wait" and he suddenly stopped. I asked him one question that touched everyone" dad why do u deserve joy in beating ur children at a slightest mistake, what happend to correction and advice without beating. Dad did u even bother to ask me why I did that before beating me up. My elder siblings u had been beating right from small, has their life turned any better or change for good?. My dad quickly ran back to his room and was so afraid to even face me as a father for days, did I tell us that I was just 9yrs old then. That was the end of beating in my house. I grew up with my younger sis and one of my bro without dad touching us for one day and I can authoritatively tell u that our lives are different. We grew up and got married all of us, one xmas, all of us came back home. Dad was watching our parenting, he realised that I never touched my kids and they behave differently and ask lots of questions why things are done the way they are, the ones he beat hail out of their head beats at a slightest mistake just like him and their kids already got used to the beating and sees nothing wrong in it.

One evening, a brother was asking me why I do not beat my kids yet they hear whenever I say stop, i told him because I had different way of punishing them , so they cant predict what ever punishment I might give, he screamed, no wonder, my kids already got used to his beating and doesnt fear again. My dad called us one morning and guess what his advice was? , he apologised to the elderly ones over his beating and told them that it was a very bad parenting to flog ur kids and advised them to copy my method of parenting. So why we are at home, I discipline one child that belongs to my brother, ask me what I did. He did something very wrong, and I simply bought a chocolate candy and gave to everyone without giving him, he cried for more than 30minutes over that and at the end, once I said, dont, everyone will keep quiet because they cant predict what i can do. Morale of the story, flogging ur child simply make them brave to withstand any hard treatment thereby believing in violence and this is the reason why naija kids are used to flogging and it doesnt stop them from committing any evil on their mind.

Angelfrost:
You see what I am talking about... That picture you chose to put up was done by the father of that child in the confines of their home.

Teachers are trained to apply discipline within lawful and sensible limits... Except you are talking about untrained teachers in mushroom schools...

Like I mentioned, some kids are naturally mild mannered and submissive, making it easy to raise them on words and light spanking... But, some are naturally stubborn, and sparing the rod will bring forth catastrophic results in future... I am not writing fiction, I write from experience. A lot of successful people actually confirmed they would have gone astray had their parents been unduly lenient with them.

Well, what works for you won't work for everyone else... If you feel the "American white style" of raising kids will produce model citizens, then go for it... But, don't conclude that to be the standard. When I see parents negotiating with kids as young as 3 or 4, I just shake my head... I warned my aunt about this with regards to my cousins then, she asked me to shut it... Well, today she has fraudsters and delinquents to deal with.

...And regarding my signature, there is no irony at all... Disciplining my kids within the moral, humane, and sensible boundary is not messing with them. Please, don't try to be deliberately misleading.

Ugosample:
your last paragraph is wrong

my mother pushed out many babies

and she smacked us at intervals

better smacking

my paternal grandma gave birth to many
and she smacked well well too

so that point of "pushing baby bla bla bla" is invalid

that said

I am somewhat on the fence when it comes to smacking kids...
only parents should have the right to smack kids (that is if you must smack)


and moderation is the key when smacking

because Nigerians have abused smacking and its now transferred aggression
there has to be some regulation in place against such

But the good ole smacking your head with newspaper (my father favourite then ) a knock on the head and other soft targets etc is not out of order if you ask me.

Angelfrost:
Our mothers went through all that and more, even had 4 to 6 children, and never spared the rod... Children were taken to teachers and school principals for proper discipline. This pattern of making light of old school discipline is what brought forth Bobrisky, Tacha, Invictus Obi, and the millions of rising criminals across the country...

Have you not heard that even the Boko Haram insurgency and high fraudulent activity among young ones is due to poor parental guidance?.. The facts speak for themselves.

Some kids can be raised without the need for flogging or other forms of strict punitive measures, but that will never work for all... Asking teachers not to flog kids in schools, and even threatening to attack the teacher is the worst form of parenting I have ever heard in my life.. Damn. You actually sound like an enabler.

...And please stop that emotional rant about conception and child delivery. No one compelled you to be a mother...

kayusely70:
Makinde the dynamic governor of oyo state- the pacesetter state- setting the pace for clueless ones. Oyo state has blazed the trail with: Speaker 32, Assemblyman 30, Commissioner 27. All in oyo state, worthy of emulation!

Simplyleo:

At least he has never held any appointment in any of the eastern states or even federal government. He is from the sw and his public service appointments have all been in the sw. But the s/westerners aren't complaining of him, so why are you crying more than the bereaved?

Meanwhile, your people are more comfortable with lagos than any of your 5 eastern states even though your leaders don't don't steal.

TooMuchStuff:
Festus Keyamo deserves a full minister of Justice or Police affairs. This embarrassing position is not cool for a very loquacious irritant of his calibre.

Why did Buhari picked 2 Muslims from kaduna, 1 Muslim each from Kogi, nasarawa, adamawa and Taraba where Christians are the majority population of those states??
How would Kano double ministers all be full ministers while most southern states got mere "minister of state"?

This religious imbalance is injustice and provocative.
Imagine FCT with less than 30% Muslims is having 2 Muslims ministers? Same for Agric?

Haba mullah buhari!!

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
Edo including Bini and Esan are very lazy but the ijaws are more industrious and the reason Edo state is doing great is because of the ijaws who have been marginalized by the binis