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I understand your anger with what he did that led to this present situation in your home. I have not seen or heard that a married woman bought land for herself alone. Family came in to try to bring peace between the two of you but rather than have peace in your home, there is instead turmoil in your home. From the write up it looks as if you make more money than him and if that is the case, I get your anger. You need to look inwardly to try to look for what makes the both of you happy which I might say is the well-being of your children. You have to use that as an anchor point to pardon him. You said you need a father for your expectant child, but I want you to understand that even the ones you have now still needs their father. You can also for the sake of love which brought you two together as one forgive him. I know that you are really hurt by his actions and inactions, but find a place in your heart to forgive him. I also know that you find it difficult to trust him again, but start first with forgiving him and gradually learn to trust him again. Sorry for your present hurtful feeling.

udofia234:
The sex thing was a mistake and only once and we both agreed and prayed to stop it and we did!! but she's still came up with sex and mouth action issue which we both had a serious misunderstanding.

OK I understand you now, but as I said earlier she has made her choice, so allow her leave by it. You don't need to attend the wedding as it will further break you down.

Ilamina:
Heaven is so much fun

IIamina whatever it is tell us so we can do the needful to help you.

Ilamina:
not everything is okay

Life sucks

IIamina what is troubling you so much that makes you think about hell? Spill it our so we can assist or advice where necessary. It will not be solveable if bottled inside, I can tell you have been feeling down for sometime now.

No matter of convincing will make her change her mind. She will follow her mother's instructions, leaving you behind. Allow her to move on and you also should do so, whatever is destined to be must be.

Emperorx:
The matter shock you it shock me too oo

My brother I wonder oh.

udofia234:
Its not proper as a Christian to engage in MouthAction!!! thats what I was thought from my youth

You were thought from your youth not to engage in mouth action, but that is not a biblical reference I asked for. What did they teach you about having pre-marital sex?

One thing you have to know and understand is that everyone is entitled to their own right and choices. You came here to complain about girls not marrying born again Christians centering on your ex girlfriend who is about getting married. The only thing that put me off in your write up is that you said that it is a sin to give mouth action. Prove it with Biblical references. How can you say such a thing? I am sure you must have had sex with her during your relationship with her, is that not a sin? She made her choice, then let her live by it..

BABANGBALI:
ok





Guys be careful out there, Most girls will pretend they Love u just for them to sleep with you and dump you.���

Very funny indeed, I thought the reverse was the case? It used to be ladies who were adviced such but now it is guys who are hunters that need to be careful. Indeed very funny.

Very old and strong torch light that uses removable batteries. If thiz thing touch your head you go understand say khaki no be leather.

Ladygbola:
Guys, I need to get answers am very horrny and I need a Dicck inside of me. How do I tell a guy I am horrny and he won't be offended with it. Pls can someone help me out am seriously over wet and have changed my pant for the 4th time since morning.

I don't know if you still feel the same till this very moment; but incase you still do, if you see a guy you like walk up to him and express yourself. He may be willing to help you quench your thirst (you know what I mean). If he is not interested leave him and go to someone else. If after all trials, you fail to get someone willing enough to help you, then you have to self service till you climax.

You are really funny oh I swear down. Why can't you research on Google what you want to know about Death.

From what you wrote, your cousin gave you a valid reason for doing what he did, using it as an illustration of what is actually going on in Ukraine. He didn't just collect the phone and power bank because he can but to show you in his own way what Russia is doing to them. The people saying that the West is waging s propaganda war against Russia, ask them why didn't the same west prevent the war or even send them arms and ammunition before the war started? Talk to your neighbor to mind how he talks about this war and if he is a die hard supporter of Russia and their offensive, he should volunteer as a Russian fighter and go over there to the battle field.

She went after material things that the eyes can see and threw away true love. I am sure she will abort the child as the guy responsible for it has abandoned her. Expose everything you saw to her before sending her packing.

Wittyglam:
exactly, someone people buy gifts to keep the other person in the relationship.

That reason alone doesn't justify love or show that love exists between them.

Wittyglam:
you did so well. I see a lot of people taking back gifts and it is disturbing to watch.

To me anybody that takes back any gift given out of love to their partner doesn't truly love that person.

To me a gift is a gift. If for instance I give my girlfriend a gift and due to any reason whatsoever our relationship doesn't work out again, there is no need taking it back from her. It happened to me personally a very long time ago, I bought a Nokia phone for my girl then which she didn't really appreciate and complained that she can't use the same phone with her elder sister. I saved up money again then took her myself to the market to make her choice. She chose a China phone and insisted on using both the Nokia I got her and the China phone. I deceitfully collected the Nokia phone back from her insert her sim card into the China phone I bought for her. In the end the relationship didn't work as she became too proud of herself and telling me and my friends that I cannot do anything in life without her. I ended tbe relationship and never took the China phone l bought for her despite our relationship been dead.

Ilamina:

This one you are creating random threads, hope all is well? Who said you are Jewish in the first place?

I believe that true love do exist, the only thing hindering it are the people who are involved in it. Most people don't truly love but lust. Majority of the relationships especially here in Nigeria is based on lust not love, that is why it ends pretty bad. If you find the right person for you, then and then only will you know that true love truly exist.