Nikrose:
Hmm you also have a valid point here! I pity most ladies that bleach their skin just to satisfy men!

Yes I pity them too as their reasons for bleaching their skin most of the times are not attained, thereby leading to regrets and had I known. My sweetheart wanted to go for breast enlargement because she has medium size, but I discouraged her from going, telling her that I love her the way she is and that I have not for once complained about it. Supposing I didn't stop her from going and due to any reason I tell her I am no longer interested in her, she would have regretted why she went through all the stress and pain just to impress and please me then I break her heart.

You have a point there, but not all men prefer fair ladies. Some prefer a mix of dark and fair while some prefer Dark skinned ladies. Personally I prefer the mix between fair and dark. Girls who bleach their skin all because a guy who may not be her husband prefer fair skinned ladies are doing so at their own risk; it the same thing as a girl going for breast augmentation because her boyfriend complained that they are small. He will still leave her for one reason or the other . Beauty isn't the key but character. Most men marry because of her beauty and end up regretting it.

To me there are two ways out of such situations. It is either the man leaves the bed for her to sleep (enduring the no sex) and sleep on the floor with a blanket and his pillow (in this case, when she wakes up to ease herself or do something else early in the morning and sees him sleeping on the floor because of the trap she set, she might out of love reconsider or ignore him). Another option is to leave the bedroom for her entirely so as to avoid injury when he roles on the bed (again enduring the no to sex) to the sitting room with his blanket and pillow (in this case, if she wakes up first she will be wondering of his whereabouts (maybe thinking negatively if they have a maid), will search for him only to see him fast asleep in the sitting room (she might decide out of love to reconsider or respect his choice).

Kobojunkie:
prior to age 12 or even 13.

So what you are telling me now is that you will expose sexuality to a children between 5 and 10 years of age, what are they doing with the information especially boys? 0

Kobojunkie:
Pre-teens.

Pre-teen is no age range, give me specific numbers

Kobojunkie:
1. Regardless of you bible version,the fact is the major audience of that written in the much of what is written in the Old Testament is directed at those who have the blood of Jacob coursing through their veins and nor those of gentile descent who are instead meant to focus on what God said instead.

2. I learnt of sex long before my teenage years, not through my parents but through watching smut film. However, fortunate for me that didn't drive me into the act until my late teens .

Fear shouldn't be reason enough to want to deprive children of necessary information.


P.S. I quoted from ESV not KJV.

By children in your write up, what age range are you talking about?

Kobojunkie:
1.
... this the same God who cursed childbearing in Genesis 3 vs 16 all but ensuring that all children born of woman are born into a cursed existence.

The children of Israel, of whom Solomon whom that particular Psalm is attributed to, were promised a heritage in the land by God. So for them, their children were considered part of their heritage from God - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20 .

2. Again, where does this conclusion of yours come from? I am not asking for mental fart but evidence-based information..

I use Good News Bible and you are using King James version. It is matter of knowledge and understanding. From more understanding use Good News which is a simplified form if English.

What evidence do you need to understand that exposure of children to sexuality at an early age is not advisable. You as a man, when did your parents introduce you to sexuality and all about what to avoid and what not to avoid? Were you told about it as a kid or as a teenager?

Kobojunkie:
1. Psalm 127 vs 3 refers to children as an inheritance and this in connection with those in the land of Israel and rightly so given God's promise to the seeds of Jacob in Deuteronomy 30 vs 20 - 20

2. Why do you assume this of children?

1) Psalm 127 never mentioned anything concerning children as inheritance but as a gift from God to man. If you don't understand the Bible pray for knowledge and understanding. It is a simple sentence that has nothing to do with the promise of God to the Israelites. The only thing promised to Israelite women is that they will give birth safely. You can read that particular portion in Good News Bible.

2) Early exposure of children (under 10 years) to sexuality is not a safe practice. Take it or leave it. The word tendency if don't understand the meaning is probability, which may or may not happen. So as I said earlier, it is not a safe practice exposing children to sexuality both in the home and at school.

Delight2014:

They don't practice such thing now unlike before

Well I am just saying because no guy is ready to collect more than 40 strokes of their koboko in the name of marrying their daughter.

Kobojunkie:
1. Where did the "Bible" tell you this?
2. What do you mean it puts them in more danger?

1) Go to Psalm 127 Vs 3.

2) The danger I am referring to here is exposing sexuality to children under 10 years of age. There is every tendency that they will want to explore and find out if what you are telling them is true, thereby exposing the to paedophiles.

MrInformation:
I ask again did you read the post?

Yes I read the post from beginning to end and what is written there and what I wrote are similar. That question is a very delicate one which needs to be answered wisely. You answer the question based on the age of the child asking.

It seems you are not satisfied with the responses you are getting as you have posted this before. I still stand by my response telling my children that kids come from God who is the creator of all things. The Bible made it clear that children are a gifts from God. Exposing to your little children who are not in their teens about sex and sexuality will put the in more danger.

MrInformation:
Please did your read the post?
And if you have children do not tell them that, they will hide anything sexual related from you whenever they get to know...

Why many people get pregnant is because of the lies sold to girls as Kid, that when a man touches you, you will become pregnant...

Then men go ahead to show them that is a lie, which leads to recklessness towards sex and some end up ģetting unwanted pregnancy

Before introducing your children to sexuality, they have to be in their teens. You cannot tell a kid of 5 to 10 years anything concerning sex and they are still kids. Exposing such to them at an early stage might lead them to explore the possibilities of what you told them, exposing them to more danger.

virginprincess:
Are you saying men shouldn't believe what their wives tells them.

To my own little understanding, it is not about not believing our wives and trusting them to always say things the way they are, the only thing there is that there are some things she might say to us concerning someone else which we do not need to react negatively to without first investigating properly before knowing the next line of action to take.

What killed her? Nairaland and lies.

It's a simple answer, Children come from God who is the creator of all things.

As a guy I can't go and buy sanitary pads for my girlfriend, sister or even wife. She knows her monthly circle and can guess the time of the month when they have their flow. Preparedness is the key, she must have gotten some for herself before the due date. The only thing I can do is if the money for it isn't readily available, I can provide that. Aside from providing the cash I can't go and get them for her.

zyzywizzy:

That’s the most painful thing.. requesting my bank statement from me..
lol oga o

She is not your investor or even guarantor and is not looking at adding any value to your business; instead she is looking at deducting from your reserve so as to satisfy her selfishness.

To me I believe the reason why southerners are afraid of marrying northern girls is due to the amount of koboko they will receive from the northern elders during the wedding ceremony. No body wan collect body pain because of babe

You have done your best and even beyond, by taking on responsibilities that you are not even supposed to be taking on. You are playing husband role for her, investing your time and money also carrying her family. I believe where the problem lies is that she associates herself with people that are advising her wrongly and she is playing the role perfectly. What happened to the phone she is currently using, must she change it? Telling you to show her your bank statement is an insult to you as she is not doing any business with you.

She is been straight forward with you concerning one of your target which you have for yourself, put in effort and get something doing so that you can achieve it. She believes in you, you have to believe in yourself.

Glory be to God for a safe delivery. Congratulations are in order.

Nwatulee:
exactly my thought her friend was the spoiler ... Maybe I got weak or can't control my emotions... But I bleeped up and has learnt my lessons... I was so scared the night because her family knows she was in my place... But I allow my emotions take over me

That not withstanding, she ended things by herself and not you. You need to focus on yourself for the time being, put your mind at rest.

From what I just read, I couldn't find anything bad that you did. She understood your present financial situation and obliged to see to some if the expenses. You wrote somewhere that her friend she came with was not happy with the fact that she was supporting you financially, there must have been discussions among them in your absence that has to do with you which led to the attitudinal change you noticed. You did everything within your present capacity to make her stay comfortable but due to their discussion in your absence she felt you were tired of their presence in your house and talked about moving out. You event went as far as kneeling down (which is humiliating) to make her stay the night before leaving in the morning but due to her lack of understanding what a joke is and what an insult is, she opted to move out that night taking the risk. Supposing something happened to her that night she moved out if your house, you will be part of the people to be blamed for that but thanks to God she arrived get destination safely. Rather than cool off and call or text in the morning apologizing for her actions, she allowed anger to make her send you that text. I am happy with your response to her, you need now to focus on how to help yourself by starting another business or vocation.

A guy knowing how to cook is a very great advantage as you can eat whatever you feel like without help from any lady or woman. As for me I know how to cook very well thanks to my mom, it came in handy for me while I was in the University I never needed anybody to cook for me. It is a good thing to learn as a guy that doesn't know how to.

Before answering your question, I have mine to ask you concerning your situation. Currently as you are dating her, have you encountered any battle spiritually I.e have you been attacked spiritually since after the deliverance exercise, it is based on that that I can answer you.

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Fuckaniza:


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This particular thread was copied from another poster and reposted word for word. What do you gain from such a thing?

You can try to ignore her as you said she is not your girlfriend but a married neighbor. It is not of her business if you make #1 million or # 10k monthly. She should focus on what concerns her which is her family.

Some guys refuse to listen to advice when given to them. You have good intention towards your girlfriend which is making her your wife, but must you copy what everyone else is doing? You know the type of lady you are dating and I am sure you must have spoken of marriage before, what stops you from proposing to her within the comfort of your home? Why must you make it a public proposal, must you even kneel before her in order to propose to her? All this things are not our culture, but copied from the Western world. Each time a guy does this thing and gets a negative response it affects him emotionally and is also a disgrace to the guy as he wasn't expecting such an outcome from the person he says he loves.

To be sincere with you, she doesn't want a relationship with you. The more you push for it, the more she will think your life depends on it. Since she personally asked for a break, grant it to her.