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Doing Introduction, doesn't mean you are married and you should not have impregnated her just because of that. Now the problem with what you have done is that if other suitors come for her the can't marry her anymore because she is now pregnant. Both of you are responsible for your present predicament, as I am sure that she might be regretting allowing you do it without protection. Your worry now shouldn't be her rejecting your advances, but looking for another means to pay her dowry as soon as possible to remove the shame from her. If you had paid her dowry, and left with other rights, it is a matter of what the custom of her people are or arrangement with her parents. So as I indicated earlier look for means to pay her dowry which is very vital.

A clear and concise history of my town. The Op was very tactical in his writing and for that I am very happy.

How did he remove a scrotum from the sac? The story is not complete.

Thanks sir, but where can I get dry weed leaves?

I noticed today when I tried masturbating to porn that my erection was not as hard as it used to be. I am worried and do not know what to do, I am about to get married this year and this just happened; sincerely speaking, I am scared. Any doctor or urologist in this forum should please come to my assistance and guide me on what to do.

He has to pay so as to make her business grow.

I served in Osun State, Ede camp then my PPA was a Primary School ( Vico Hope International College) from 2011 to 2012. I taught the students there Business Studies and Financial Accounting. It was a real fun experience, I traveled to Osogbo regularly and even back to Ede. After my service the principal of the school appealed with me to stay extra 3months with them, which I did. All in all I had fun all round from Ede camp to Iwo. What I want them to look into is the clothing they give to corpers, it is never your size from the cap down, you have to start looking for who to exchange with. I had to produce another one for myself while in camp. Everything from Orientation to camp fire night was lovely. I wish I had time to visit other places but time and resources were constraints.

Follow what the earlier person said, I believe it will serve you better.

The only place I will talk about is Saturday which turns out to be Saturn's day. The days of the week were named by the Roman empire after each of their God's and the planets. According to the Bible the Jews worship on the 7th day of the week, so linking Jewish day of worship to Saturn is not a right analogy.

Why do you want to be left alone in your state of mind and way of thinking. A problem shared is a problem solved.

Tradition demands that bride price be paid before any lady is married off. Whatever she has been doing before then falls on her as whatever the repercussion of her actions are, she will surely face it.

Leviticus 15 vs 19 - 28 explains what you are talking about, since you say you attend our church, it should be very easy for you to understand. My best advice for you is to seek medical attention to stop the menstrual bleeding, after the bleeding must have stopped, you have to stay extra 1 week without going to church or any church gatherings.

You are right in your decision to cut ties with your rude younger brother, but I want to appeal to you not to abandon your parents at this age. You can be doing things for your parents without them knowing, even as much as you want to maintain steady communication between you and them, you have to make do with the way he responds to you. As for your brother, you have done more than enough for him and will not kill yourself for him. He thinks he is acting right and there will be no repercussion but that is not the case. He forgot that what goes around comes around.

You that blames your father for your present predicament, make sure you achieve what he couldn't achieve before talking of marriage, else your children won't only criticize you, they will attack you head on.

Thank God that you escaped from such a person, how can she be angry with you because you helped her friend that was sick? She never intended to by your wife, after all the money is yours and you worked for it. You do not need to apologize to her because you did not do anything wrong to her. She is angry because you did not tell her, that is laughable. Oga move on with your life, look for someone that will appreciate you for who you are and not what you are.

This is fake news, the person that was burnt alive is a thief and not a Sit At Home enforcer.

IamDora:
Oh, I see

Yes of course, generalizing will make all of us look bad.

IamDora:
Good day Nairalanders, without boring you all, why do Nairaland Men Bash Ladies on this Wonderful forum day-in day-out, yet, they claim Redpillers, calling us all sought of Unprintable names,

Yet, you get Countless PMs and Follows every blessed day? Who are now the ones sending it? I thought we all agreed to be Redpillers and Alpha-Males?

LOL!

Good morning to you Dora, not all guys on this platform are "Redpillers or Alpa-males" or even Simps but most of us are level headed and cool. I am speaking for myself and a few others who are like me.

My brother you are not over-reacting. You are the head of your family and your father is the head of his family. Your mother has no right to change whatever instructions or discussions you have with your wife. She is a third party and should focus on her own home and not yours. You have the right to be angry at her and even your wife for going against what the two of you agreed only because your mother said she should do so.

Have a sit down discussion with her and understand her reasons for changing her mind.

Personally, I will have 5 children ( 3boys &2 girls).

I believe offer A will be good for him looking at his present location of residence. Transportation being the key element, if it will cost him about 3k a day both to and fro, at the end of the month it will be 90k. He still has 110k to himself. Option B if it cost him about 2k a day for transport, by month end he has only 60k left for him. Option C offers accomodation, how will it be deducted from his salary? My advice is for him to go for offer A.

It is not compulsory that a man will do house chores. Normally women do not allow their husbands carry out chores in the home, they see it as disrespect to the man. There are types of chores the man may want to do like washing of dishes or clothes or even the toilet, the wife will not agree to it. There are some other chores that he might volunteer to do and she will agree to it, like helping out in the kitchen, picking kids from school, etc. So it is not a compulsory act that a man must carry out home chores unless him and his wife agree.

EFULEFU1:
I beg your pardon?

What is the question bothering you?

There is no question here .😡😡😡

Hendrixky:
Never

Those married women are the best


You can't
They are not dramatic
They give peace of mind
They decided when to get pregnant for you
They take care of lot things by themselves
They act like mothers

To you they may be the best but to me they are not. The repercussions that follows being caught is not worth it. Anything you think they can offer is limited. Even if you make them divorce their husbands for your sake, you will still abandon her. So what is the need of going through the trouble?

I am proud to say that I can and will withstanding any sexual attraction from a married woman no matter how hard she tries.

Virgin or not, it is not our custom to kneel to propose marriage to ladies, It is a borrowed custom. It is also not compulsory to propose to her publicly, you can do that privately as it is the two of you who are to get married and not the whole world.

You married an ungrateful woman, you need to end that union or you may not survive it.

As much as I am not in support of doing such a thing, I want to talk on the subject of calling white garment churches each time you see such a thing, are they the only people that use candles to pray? Calling them each time such things come up doesn't solve anything. People seem to forget that water or seas always brings out dirt that was thrown into it to the shores.

Shalommy:
That guy want you as his partner.

He was mistaking and apologized.