God has since stopped creating new human beings, instead what is happening now is recycling or rotation. Most children born today are reincarnated people who died many years ago. Your cousin is your reincarnated grand father who was given another opportunity to return to earth in a baby's form. Me myself I am also a reincarnated person. Whether people believe it or not, it is real.

Aguiyimba:


Onyem sorry

No problem brotherly.

Aguiyimba:


How are you sure she's telling us the truth? Comrade before judge hear from the both before thunder fire you there. Onye ala

Nwannem Aburom onye ala. I am not judging only reacting to what she wrote as I am not a judge. Sincerely speaking even if she may add salt or sugar to it, there must be truth in what she complained about.

Marrying a new wife because your current wife is misbehaving doesn't solve anything. The only thing I will add to what you wrote are 2 things, firstly when she misbehaves badly and it annoys you so much, you can try a little silent treatment in which case you don't respond to her greetings and talkings. Secondly you can also reject the food she cooked, no woman who truly loves her husband will be happy if her food is rejected. You can give her money to prepare the food but not eat it, she will look for a way even if it is in the middle of the night to talk to you, apologising for what ever she must have done to offend you. Immediately she does that, don't hesitate to forgive her.

Without mincing words I will tell you straight forward, this guy doesn't love you at all. Where I saw the first sign was when you said your mum had bad feelings towards him. He has a very bad character and is very arrogant to say the least. I am sure you didn't date him for sometime to know his true character. Thank your God very well that he didn't want to continue the marriage because you would have surely regretted it. Don't feel to bad with yourself or feel dejected over this, instead be very elated that God showed you who he truly is before proceeding with the marriage. You will surely get your own man, I can assure you that. That type of person is not ready for marriage at all, it must be his parents pressuring him to get married.

AirstarKane:


Pls I need it urgently

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You have to inform her on what you saw and the action you took to correct it. She and her husband are to blame for what is happening to their son, I believe that he must have been peeping at them when they were making love and it has happened several times. They should take the necessary action.

You went to church on Sunday and a brother gave you a packet of sugar to give to your pastor and also gave you #10,000 for yourself. You went to see your pastor and gave him the packet of sugar given to him by a brother telling him also that the guy gave you #10,000. Your pastor refused collecting the sugar but insisted on collecting the money instead. You went home with the sugar and maybe after one week opened it only to find a parcel containing $15,000. Out of joy you went to church to testify and later the pastor called you to return the packet of sugar, what will you do?

AirstarKane:


Thank you I really appreciate and I sincerely want to get it back.
I'd try to, God help me.

I know you will get it back, just put in your best and be confident that you will get it. If you need someone to talk to seek out your good and supportive friends and family for solace. If there will be any need to talk to me let me know so I can forward my whatsapp contact. Best of luck.

She is the best thing that happened to you. This is what you feel now but do you know what the future holds for the both of you? My little advice for two of you is to pray fervently about it pleading with God to help the both of you and reveal to both of you the truth about your union.

I find it difficult to get what you are saying but I have to tell you this. Try to forgive yourself and also forget as you already said, the deed has been done. Wallowing in self pain, frustration and unforgiveness will lead you no where but to more harm. Whatever you were told to do which you didn't do is now in the past and you have to let it go. Do whatever you can to make yourself happy again and not condemn yourself further.

How can you tell that you were poisoned? Unless if it was true and not a lethal type. What did you vomit, was it the food or blood?

leofab:
you mean they will be doing it secretly ?

There is every possibility if it were children but toddlers don't do anything in secret as their brains haven't developed to that level.

Prism:


This is exactly what my sis in law told me.
Hmmm. This matter has really got me thinking

She told you the truth and it is a well known fact. By the time they remember that mummy or daddy will cane them, they will desist from doing anything that might cause it.

Every child or in this case a toddler has their own size of cane and the way you use it on them is different from the way you use it on child above that age. If you don't start on-time to correct a child or toddler, it may be difficult to correct them when they grow.

First, my brother accept my condolence on the death of your father. I want to ask you some questions, does your father not have a brother? If he has then inform them on what happened and the instruction your father left behind before passing on. Also inform your mother's people on the death of your father. Your uncles from home will hold meetings and plan on how to bury your dad. Do not forget to inform the church your father attends and also your towns meeting people. Whatever meeting that will be held must involve you as first son. If you are not the first son then make sure he knows of it and plays active role in planning on how to bury him. It is during the meeting that a date will be fixed and the people (church and in-laws) will attend.

My brother oh don't be discouraged by her insults. A day is coming when water will pass garri and she and your whole family will read the hand writing on the wall. Just continue correcting her. Sorry to say but your mum is a bad mum who supports evil.

Olu bekee I have a question for you. Are you sure you do not have a spiritual husband or in any spiritual marriage, as this will stop any man from going beyond talking to you and maybe being in a relationship with you but never marriage. Another thing is how do you dress as most guys are attracted by what they see. You don't need to kill yourself over this. You can go home to your mum after confirming that you are not in a spiritual marriage (the way of knowing apart from praying is; do you have sex in the dream, if yes then it's a clear indication that you may have a spiritual husband.) plead with her to pray for you by herself and when going buy her something she likes.

You need to throw more light on what happened so we can understand and console you.

It is natural to be afraid of learning how to drive a car but once you determine to learn it, you will. If your dad or family has a car, once in a while take the keys open the door and start the car. You do not need to move it. Just start it and allow it to work for like 5 to 10 minutes, then turn it off. Do it at least once a week, it will boost your confidence. After feeling comfortable with that go to a driving school and learn how to drive, learn for like 4 to 6 months. You then seek the hell of someone who knows how to drive in your family to be with you in the car while you drive carefully till you are very confident to drive on your own. That's all.

What do you want us to tell you? Alcohol is good but too much of it can cause problems for you. Now you have seen the outcome of the over alcohol intake. Try letting her know that you didn't do it intentionally but it was as a result of the over alcohol intake.

I am not discouraging you from trying to achieve your goals of getting a job before settling down, but I want to ask a very important question. Don't get me wrong and don't be annoyed oh, but do you have a boyfriend or in a serious relationship? If yes, what is he talking about marriage or haven't you discussed the future with him? If on the other hand you are single and searching or not searching, you need to ensure that suitors are coming your way. My reason for saying this is so that you will not regret your decision or get gainfully employed and not been able to find a good home for yourself. Thanks.

Not everyone on this forum is rude or display nonchalant attitudes, there are most people on the platform who respects themselves and others.

Good evening, tell your friend who came for advice to go ahead and get married as planned by the younger brother, it is glaring that his younger brother wants to get married too but refuses to do so because his elder brother is not yet married. He knows it is not right for him to get married before his senior brother. He should forget about what people will say or his fears of future insults from his brother. Tying somebody's daughter for 8 long years without paying her dowry is very risky. If anything happens to her and she eventually dies, it is then he will face the worst problem of his life. Telling his brother to give the money to him is killing more time and also it not compulsory that a business you started will yield profit on time looking at the current situation of Nigeria. He shouldn't waste time to make things official whether he is sponsoring it or not.

erinzy901:
Thank you, boss
I won't hide anything

Good.

Very long story and narration but still ended in the same way. First, the said bestie she has is not a bestie at all but a side guy who must be giving her more than you are giving or what you are not giving her. You said because of her and your relationship you didn't have female friends, but she didn't follow the same example you laid before her. You needed attention and she wasn't ready to give you any due to her said "bestie" and went for another person who is readily available to give you the attention you need, she eventually finds out and I am sure must have gone home crying and when asked, would have said you broke her heart which led to her family inviting you. I will like you to go there with an open mind, expect much reconcilliatorial talks. Make sure when asked what transpired, you do not hide anything.

Your blood pressure is very good at the reading you got. 105/85 is "Optimal" which is below normal. Your heart beat of 80 bpm is also good as the normal bpm reading is between 60-100bpm. Did she check your glucose level also? If the reading is too low that is when you will follow her advice of increasing your glucose level. You can ask your doctor or go online to see normal glucose level as per age.

Rather than shame my brother or friend I will cover very well for him.