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Fineman2:
I'm sure she's regretting her action now, but it's too late.

We must learn how to control our anger


Dear people, before you do anything, please consider your family and loved ones

Yeah, anger control but those boys are useless

Really?

Yeah, depends on what you are doing with your life.

Una go just dey talk wetin God no tell una....
Shey na God talk this one too or u just dreyreason on ur own?

Yeah, relatively true but pen robbery is going on, heavily I guess

Good

Clueless Gold digger

Nobody mocks God and survives it....
Even Men of God are not more powerful than God; He blessed whosoever He deems fit, u n I don't have influence on that

She mocked God and now she is, barely a month after

Ok

There's no how we won't see such in this kind of country but the best they can do for themselves is to try to be contented with their personal income and have understanding as may be necessary, most especially where needed

adaperry25:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

Trying foreign ladies might not be a bad idea.

Make money first, they will kill your battery

Thebadpolitican:
They didn't meet anyone there Benin were the first to occupy the area and open it for trade inshort the Europeans and the Benins where the first to set their eyes on the inhabited lagos island both Benins and the Europeans agreed to setup a trade centre at lagos island which soon took place, the then Benin capital in lagos was still in Badagry before it was later moved the island

. You should know that population wasn't much in the past so people tend to conglomerate in one place under a larger population for both protection and everything

The Benins only had 3 people occupying lagos
As noted by a Dutch ethnographer who took account but that of Badagry was occupied by people Before the arrival of Benin it was there the Benin and aworis war took place

Thank you so much for this account, it's so detailed and I've always hoped for this...something different from what some quack historians have been saying here and still f**lishly bragging on (I'm not saying everything u dropped is accurate tho, just appreciate the fact that u could put up a logical story of the topic).

Now, u mentioned that they didn't meet anyone in the Island part but later.moved to badagry side where they met the Aworis

Another clarification I will like to get is, the war between them and the aworis, were they conquered by the Aworis?

Then, were they chased out of Island too, after the conquest,.if they had been conquered by the Aworis?

Thanks and God bless as your prompt response will be appreciated

Nawa

Thebadpolitican:
Do you mean the aworis occupied every space in lagos, haha before Benin moved the capital of lagos from Badagry to lagos island, Lagos island was completely virginated, Benin were the first to settle in that area and soon trading began that brought in even the aworis benin controlled every part of lagos including ikeja

So aworis alone do not own lagos, they own a large portion does not mean it's for them only

May be the ancestral Binis settled in a part of Lagos island as reflected by all the reports we have here, even your own account affirms that.

My major concern and how I think we can fix this is, when the ancestral Binis migrated to Lagos Island and settled there, did they meet anyone or clan in the land?

He tried, got admitted at the age of 16

Procashtips:
Stop jumping around, you claimed the Benins conquered who they met there, so I'm asking, do you have any evidence of a war between the Benins and the people you claimed they met on the land they later named Eko?

Bro, all these stuff are claims and counter-claims. None of us existed then but are both reading history - don't get aggressive.

Mw, in situations like this, we judge/decide via logics and common sense....

An established truth is, the ancestral Binis migrated from Benin to the acclaimed Eko (a part in today's Lagos) as claimed by all the historians, Oba of Benin, Akpolopolo inclusive.

My enquiry is, did they (the ancestral Binis) meet any existing soul in the 'founded' land?

After all, the Oba of Benin has not refuted this claim by the other historians

Procashtips:
War with who?

Do you have any evidence of a war with anyone in the land before the Benins named it Eko (camp)?

Did ancestral Binis meet anyone in the land when they went there, before naming it Eko?

“War historians will describe what happened as seizure by conquest. That is a relationship that does not align with Oba of Benin’s claim of founding Lagos and of Benin being its source. You don’t wage a war against non-existent people. The fact of Lagos’s existence provoked the attack and subjugation from Benin forces.

This is logical and reasonable...thank God civilization did not allow portugal and UK to lay claims on Nigeria's ownership/foundation🤔🤕

The fact of Lagos’s existence provoked the attack and subjugation from Benin forces.

May be because Lagos is the only greater land they founded

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Shikena:
Exactly, he is definitely not that close to Kanu Nwankwo or his Benin seniors like Victor Ikpeba in age.

Yeah, he should be in his mid 40s, my gives me the comfort to assess him better...he wouldn't been that much more than that
But he's definitely not up to 50

Shikena:
Exactly, he is definitely not that close to Kanu Nwankwo or his Benin seniors like Victor Ikpeba in age.

Yeah, he should be in his mid 40s, my gives me the comfort to assess him better...he wouldn't been that much more than that

Kingozymandias:
He looks 51. That is the problem with Nigerians football = age falsification

He doesn't look 50s...
He looks 44/5 tho

Good development
This is what those selfish reps are supposed to invest in while procuring their wasteful SUV but never! Their brain will never work positively cos they know that their padding secret may not be safe with a Nigerian company

Awon ika

Can u imagine?

The challenge is not even the cost nor the value of the items but the time spent to earn the money....shocked to the bones!

Any job / business that gives you N15k net per hour Must be a multimillion naira job...N37.8m per annum

Must you have 2,3, GFS in this economic instability, face a relationship and enjoy your life with your simple income.
Must you date girls instead of girl?

Now we no go hear noise

Brokendad:
I got into a relationship with a 22 year old girl who's turning 23 by January.

Along the line, she got pregnant. We kept the pregnancy away from her people until after four months.

I have already made a visit to her family to register my interest in marrying the girl and have asked for date for introduction and traditional marriage.

But when she told the mother that she's pregnant, the first question the mother asked her is if she had told me.

When she said yes, the mother was shouting at her that why did she tell me. The mother didn't know that I was with the daughter when she made that call.

Few days after, the mother asked her to return home. A day before the girl left, I have already registered her for antenatal. But I remember when I was paying for the antenatal, the girl asked me not to waste my money.

I didn't know that she has already agreed with the mother to kill and remove a four months old pregnancy.

Immediately the mother learnt that she was pregnant, she asked her to cut all communications with me or she will lay a curse on her.

So, every other communication we were having, the mum didn't know about it.

She left Lagos on Wednesday and today, the mother called me that the baby in her daughter's womb is dead due to stress that the girl was going through while in Lagos. That no one was attending to her, bla bla bla. Not knowing that I have been taking the girl to the hospital all along. She said that they are waiting for a doctor to evacuate the baby.

I feel so terrible right now. This girl is the first daughter and the first to have anything to do with marriage and child bearing. The mother has the gut to kill the first unborn child that was coming into their family.

The mother didn't know that I have all the evidence with me. That I have the test results and the scan results. The baby was doing very well as at the scan we did a day before she left.

I told her that I am willing to take responsibility for her and the child. I am capable. I am willing to marry her. Why then does the mother still go ahead to terminate a 4 months old pregnancy?

The mother attends mountain of fire church. So, I don't know if it's the shame of what people will say about a supposedly murderous Christian home.

I told her that she can remain in Lagos until she delivers if she doesn't want anyone to know that she took in but no, the mother wants to soil her hands in blood.

From my chat with the girl, she's preparing to undergo the abortion. So, it's like the mum called me ahead to inform me that they are about to take the child off her womb. Somebody that a baby died in her womb wouldn't be strong enough to be replying me WhatsApp messages.

I am tempted to take a legal action

All of you, as in three of you, the mother, yourself and the confused girl are all criminals, in sane society, all of you would be in net by now
Is that how to start up a family? I'm asking you.....yes, you.

Which work are you doing?

What is your age and your income?

Una no go worth having a girlfriend, na family creation you go run go start...na so dem deu start family for ur village?

Lance008:
Most of us don't believe on spiritual stuff till some event that made us believe it's exit
Mine was when a pastor die days after fighting the gods in the community

What of Mohbad that died days after fighting his friend at a show? Was he killed spiritually too?
Prove it

This comes with different reasons and circumstances;
Some are just cheap while some are victims of circumstance.

To me, it may be the best form of s*x you might be exploring, in a lifetime so, why not?

For you to text this aloud, you still care....

If none of you is married, get to know HIM, if he's cool, try out something, if not discharge the whatever distraction....

Fav

Ok