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Stargurl20:
In my write up, I never mentioned just mothers. I stated 'parents' all through. It takes mother and father to be parents, correct?
But because the onus of child training has been left to most mothers in Nigerian homes, why wouldn't u point out mothers?

The average Nigerian man doesn't see training his children as his job. But if they turn out well, he will claim them as his.

His job is to cheat, demand respect, act egomaniacal and generally irrational to prove he is indeed a man. His example to his children is negligence, anger, pride and insolence. Afterwards he will say the woman didn't train them right. She did. But what is lacking is any training whatsoever from their fathers. And that is why Nigerian men are largely dysfunctional. They never had a good example.

nifemi25:
When does popping a champagne at the back of someone else car becomes an achievement ?

Maybe because he feels the driver is thirsty and miserable doing his job, while he's destroying his liver for himself and by himself in the back seat?

Typical Nigerian testimony.

If they don't belittle someone, they won't feel successful.

If they can't mock someone, they haven't "arrived" yet.

If they don't insult and abuse others, they aren't intelligent or learned!

If they don't puff up and make noise in public, it means they aren't important enough!

lilvicky68:
If it's cheating that separated them, then she's the one that asked for the separation.

Why is she now pained?

After 4 kids, why would she be pained?

Maybe he abandoned them after cheating on her and rubbed it in her face. Nigerian men are fond of doing that. Hope you aren't one of them.

lilvicky68:
Since they are not together any longer..he's free to move on.

What separated them?

airsaylongcome:
I'm feeling you! I also feel for the fuel attendant

What are you filing?

lilvicky68:
The story I read I saw former partner( ex wife)

What's cheating here?

Former. Why former?

Hi, there.

Arielle:
Thank you. And all the " Team foreign women" people, better drop this nigerian men behaviour that is tolerated by your women and your society. A white woman can snap and kill your cheating mysogynist ass. They are very highly strung. So have an attitude change before you step out with a white girl. Some will love you, adopt your culture and even your language, as we have seen in some cases. But dare you cheat on her...you go hear am.

They never learn. They think they're wise.

AfroKnight:
Incoherent nonsense. Why is your head not correct? You ovulating?

You have just described yourself. It is you.

what a shame

Gloriagee:
You sound so unintelligent tbh. A woman who has 4 kids for one man can be deemed a common law wife, in some instances. Why she will opt for violence is beyond me esp with 3 of her kids in the same house with her ex. Yet, I think your statement reeks of immaturity! For you to link this heinous act with a lack of love of Women towards one another is truly mind boggling. Now, work on improving your mindset, your circle of friends and grow up.

Can you blame him? Anything to demean women.

But they will say you're generalizing if you say men are rapists.

AfroKnight:
Actually I don’t need to prove anything to you. If you have doubts that’s your personal problem. It’s like you’re slow.

You're the one who's slow that's why you're seeing your reflection everywhere.

Your male insults are typical and are actually slow. You can't communicate otherwise.

Prove it or keep quiet.

Timoleon:
The Russian Air Force is overrated abeg!!!
Some days ago, the Nigerian airforce rained down bombs on bandits and they all got burnt to ashes including their motorcycles. No single crater was created. Now look at this Russians, one bomb, see the big crater it left. Shior.

Lol, what are you trying to say? Are you the guy that was arguing about craters that day?

Germi9:
You guy’s dont even get do you? The trend now is women killing men

It's a trend men have enjoyed and secretly supported by asking "what did she do to turn him into a beast?"

Now everyone has turned into a beast. Let us be fair.

AfroKnight:
See this ignoramus. It’s 2022. If you can’t verify information independently, you should cover your face in shame.

Post it and stop making noise. After all, you're the one who needs credibility here.

AfroKnight:
Lol. See you making demands. Google is your friend.

Who would waste time googling red pill allegations? Give your source or keep the allegations to yourself.

AfroKnight:
Women can take half the sh!t the dish out to men.

The man later died.

Small breakfast, this one has killed someone.

She didn’t care that her kids were in the house!

How did she even gain access? Who let her in?

Give your source.

thorpido:
After 4 children,why did he leave her?
It's right if he left her for showing toxic behaviour like this one.

If she was toxic, how did he stay long enough to have 4 children with her? Her private part was not toxic, right?

Clearly he was the problem. He thought he could leave her high and dry. Look where that got him.

Nigerian men need to learn fidelity and commitment. They think they can jump ship at any time and claim "I need peace of mind" when what they actually need is no opposition to their BS.

CHoccolaTE:
So he did not know she was a twerker that posts her private life on social media before he married her?
Mr man calm down and watch War Room abeg.

Seems more like a joke.

Very soon, even the Olympics will be a political field. Whatever happened to sports being neutral?

Coolis:
I can not say categorically that l dealt wickedly with any lady in the past.

About the Forex market, you are right. I have used my life time Savings in learning the risks and how it works as you rightly put it. Thanks

uote author=BRATISLAVA post=110863283]Did you deal wickedly with any lady in the past?

Why were you investing in the forex market? If you don't understand things, don't go near them, otherwise you will use your money to learn the risks and how it works.

Then you aren't under a curse.

You've simply invested wrongly and you need to stop and learn. It seems you are at the learning stage. What you do afterwards with what you've learned is what determines what happens next. Forex isn't something you do with your life savings. Risk is called risk because of its cost consequence. Forex is risky.

As for your personal relationships, if you go into them without learning or being willing to learn, you will tend to find yourself alone. Don't treat your relationships the way you treat your forex attempts. And whatever you do, don't deal wickedly with a lady otherwise she cries out and the universe helps her with revenge.

There's nothing wrong with being older and single. Everyone can't get married at 21 or have children by 25. Everyone is on a different life path.

Don't despair. You can still get married and have children. You're a man, aren't you? But first, focus on rebuilding your life. Check job boards, and leverage on friends and family for a new occupation.

Did you deal wickedly with any lady in the past?

Why were you investing in the forex market? If you don't understand things, don't go near them, otherwise you will use your money to learn the risks and how it works.

PrinceOfLagos:
Stop derailing
I will advice you create a thread to push your feminism campaign

Nobody ha talked down on women in this thread so stop saying what's not ..

Go back to where the conversation started, and stop projecting your hatred for feminism this way.

akanke79:
The men who sees all women as Oloshos suffer from narcissistic Personality disorder which is an epidemic in Nigeria.

I think they are projecting themselves on women. The only way they can feel good about themselves is to try and belittle women. Afterwards they give themselves pats on the back.

It's truly an epidemic. It keeps getting worse. They've lost their humanity to it.

pocohantas:
Pilot

As usual, there would be more male than female responses on a topic directed at females. By 2028, Nairaland would be one huge sausage-fest.

OP alone knows why they used a bunch of blacks with a bland background to represent female soldiers, and glam whites for the pilots. It's obvious nobody would want to be a soldier.

Klass99:
@ The first bolded, very typical of them. I am just weak from all you've shared about this guy.

@ 2nd bolded, I am not surprised. The international rapist even created a thread claiming innocence when some foreign based nairalanders made their own enquiries and found out he was a bloody liar. May he rot in jail and be sodomized by his fellow inmates.

The funny thing about that guy is that he sounds similar to lost child, the Christian misogynist incel, with his unending tales about hurting women. That's how the girlfriend poisoner wanted pity for doing evil.

@your 2nd paragraph, that was the most interesting thread on the forum. It exposed the thinking and permissiveness of a lot of people. And it also showed that what most males post is truly their makeup. He deserves no mercy.

GloriousGbola:
It is very ironic because when Seun was running Nairaland hands on, he had a feminist /humanist bent

Now he simply doesn't care. I think he has gone full zuck and made up his mind that what matters are the clicks.

I am really bothered because the Internet is shaping the minds of the youth. What effect will all this bile have on boys in their formative years?

When my son says something even mildly chauvinist, I jump on him, because I don't know where its coming from.

The feminist/humanist bent mod is a million times better than the angry, hateful red pill misogynist type that has overrun the forum. Evaluate the things feminists post/sanction versus the sort of things misogynists post/sanction and you will see that the latter is the real problem.

Just hope what he says doesn't come from the sort of male rape and murder sympathizers found here. Their hatred is the dangerous type and will only make him loose valuable people in his life. They are the sort who become incel killers, rapists etc.

Klass99:
So she died from the poisoning? My goodness!

Majority of people who use this forum are sick and evil. You can even tell the ones who belong to this category by their posts.

Yet, they keep claiming my posts are not a true reflection of who I am offline, yen yen yen. In an anonymous forum where no one knows you and you have free reign to take off your mask and be yourself, they'll still be claiming that is not who I am, I am just catching cruize.

I keep saying this, when people show you who they are, you best believe them o! Their online personas are an indicator and true reflection of who they are.

She died and he seemed rather happy about it. It was all about his revenge and hate for women. Afterwards, he went about as a wounded guy and some dumb females were trying to console him and "convert" him to loving women again. His Bros were in full support of what he did.

The truth is that most of the posters of such things are supporters or doers of what they support. If you see them in real life, their feet would probably be black and filthy. These people act as if it's jokes and catching "cruise", but to consistently spew such hate means it's an internalized issue already. It means they actually think so.

Many male posters need to be investigated by law enforcement. Their online person is the real person they are. They hide behind anonymity to reveal the dirtiest recesses of their minds. Anything they can conceive here, they can do or have already done it. They are the men who are so filthy that they see every woman as a olosho, every girl as deserving of rape and murder, and everyone is just as worthless as they are.

It's alleged that the killer of Hinny Umoren was a member of this forum. A notorious international serial sodomite serving 3 life sentences in the US is also a member of this forum. Of course, they can argue that it isn't them. Yet it is. It isn't butterflies or fairies committing these crimes that they always say aren't from them.

joyandfaith:
If she had not raised alarm before her death , some useless men and even women would have called her olosho. Most olosho understand law of streets, they rarely get killed in this manner. Most of girls who are being found dead, naked with or without intact organs are actually innocent girls who are random victims of ravenous men.
The truth is that government doesn't care about security and lives. What will it cost government to have cctv installed in BRT, patrol vehicles, motor parks and other public places and even make it compulsory for owners of public facilities to put cctv in place.
Well, government wouldn't do that because in retrogressive society like ours government officials, security agents and criminals are perfectly aligned.

They don't like such things, because they thrive on these killings.

Klass99:
Pls do you have a link to that thread? I missed that one.

I can't remember when I first read it long ago, but it was by a notorious woman hater mimimi.miles98 or something like that. He told us how he crafted the poisoning and death of his girlfriend.

And there were members sympathizing with him.

airsaylongcome:
And the DSS folks seem to be very quick to draw. See how they gunned this one down. Thought they were supposed to be elite in their operations and behaviour

Thought so, too. Aren't they supposed to be the FBI of Nigeria?

Watch them get triggered all over the place.

Preshieben:
you're right

It took me months before I realized that,
That's the reason I didn't let him back when he came begging

I was 21 then

And I don't know which platform to share this life threatening experience so other girls can learn

I'm glad to see that you eventually healed.

You were just a child and inexperienced, and even adults who are raped have the same reactions. Thus you need not dwell on it.

Maybe you can write about it on Okada books or any women's publication. You can start by joining a women's advocacy group. Other girls need to hear it from you. Because in years to come, some will still fall into traps and may not have known it could happen. They need to hear it, parents, brothers, sisters, uncle's and aunts— your experience can save them.