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Kobojunkie:
I mean Cornish game hens... they are small chickens, about the size of broilers. Pigeons compare in size to some of those.

Never had those.

But when it comes to winged things, regular chicken/turkey/ostrich/bat is best. The little creatures don't sound filling. Especially eating pigeons. That is like eating cats. They're too close to humans. And too small.

Magnoliaa:
The first subject; I doubt. Na why I say e still dey tentative . It's the part of "shim" being in love with lilvicky I no get.

Why are you so certain buda is male? At what point do you know? If you can understand how Buda presents himself for a lot of people to still think he's female, you'll understand for Kobo too. Because if you say kobo argues a great deal "like a woman" and comment on the food thread, does buda not argue without ceasing too and talk about cooking? Kobo that said he wanna see the nekkid pictures of the Miss Nigeria contestants. There's also another reason I strongly believe he's male sha, but I won't say. And for the other two variables as well.

Love is universal.

But Buda is majorly S uspect. Likewise Kobo. Himshs.

YorubaKinging:
The end is near

We are really in the last few years before judgement will sit on earth

By 2030, many things would’ve shaped up

But for now , there will be war and rumors of war

The devil has accomplished an outstanding feat of deception

He has renamed the children of Israel

And has branded another the state of Israel

This is a great controversy as many will look to the fake mid eastern country for fulfillment of the prophecy

Yet it’s all going to happen here at home

Verily I say unto you, there will arise True prophets in the city of Judah who will teach the truth and the secret of Israel will be exposed

Few people know this truth but many have been deceived

Yoruba, the Tribe of Judah

Lol

Kobojunkie:
Don't be deceived abeg!

Ever eaten game hen? Well, pigeon get meat.

I never had flying game, but yes, I love game.

By game do you mean pheasants? Because those are bigger than these little hand sized pigeons. Which drumsticks would someone eat off them?

Farfalla:
Poor thing just lost its way while flying around the vicinity.

Damn!

You'd wonder what he actually picked off its bones. Skin? It probably doesn't have drumsticks.

BigBashiru:
It's really unfortunate and thank you for ur great comment. Certainly men can be and are wonderful creatures but we must not okay the oppression of the female gender; there is clearly a pattern of female murders going on especially from rape or from disinterest in a particular guy....

Why don't men on nairaland want to address it??

This shows there's a deeper problem going on of all men do is trivialise this.

It's quite simple:

Their economic woes have made them hate women so deeply that rather than accept that their mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins and nieces are facing a real problem of unprovoked murders, they would rather try to play the victim so that no proper attention gets to the women in need of it. They are trying to spite females by diverting attention to themselves.

It's a competition to them, to test their importance against that of females by playing at whataboutism. What about this, what about that. Yet the topic of the thread is conveniently skipped over. Exactly what the misogynists want.

Old game. New monikers of the old players. Same guttersnipe.

Don't be surprised the perpetrators are NL males.

Thread full of smelly male logic.

Truly dysfunctional males. On any topic about females they congregate like flies on defecation. Whataboutism. Barely concealed and blatant misogyny. Skew logic.

Pages of posts trying to trivialize the murder of women on a daily basis, even with fresh facts to look at.

The toxicland gutters are overflowing once again.

derecho:
Madam, did you hear me mention feminism? Whatever that word means,I'm not interested. Have a nice day.

Keep complaining about men dying in wars that they started by themselves and for themselves then. Keep on.

While at it, pretend that Nigerian men aren't butchering Nigerian girls, because you think the war in Ukraine needs more women in it to prove something to you. They are the reason why Nigerian girls deserve to be murdered.

If you don't divert from the topic and trivialize it with whataboutism, it means proper attention will be given to the matter. And that must not happen.

BigBashiru:
@Aish8, have you noticed how men have grown quiet on this thread?? If if was a female bashing thread, it would have reached 7 pages by now.... we have to take matters into our own hands and campaign for the results we want starting with Sex Offenders Register, Compulsory Sexual Harassment training for all new employees in public and private sector in lagos state.

Also the brt driver had access to seks workers....

Why the about turn on women matters? What happened to you?

kelvinjames01:
This agenda of trying to make women the victim will not work. Women are born with privilege to make choices and should be held accountable for their actions. On the other hand, Men fight their way to the top and are meant to provide for themselves. So OP, STFU and make the right choices. Men die too and have low longevity

Men shouldn't be held accountable for butchering women, is that what you're saying? You mean it's womenfolks fault that men all around them are killing and want to kill them?

That longevity would be greatly reduced the day women decide to pick them off the way men do, yet claim they are hard done by just by living.

derecho:
I'm only interested in the first paragraph. I don't understand the connection between what I wrote and "Did the women start the war?".
But let me oblige you a little. Need I remind you that wars have been started by/because of women yet men,especially young men, have become the sacrificial lambs?

Once more: is it men or women who commissioned the war in Ukraine that you mentioned? Who made them sacrificial lambs? Who told you feminism is about women going to fight in wars that men made for themselves? Since, according to you, women don't fight in wars made by men (another lie men love) it means they aren't being butchered by Nigerian men?

You shouldn't read beyond the first paragraph as the rest would make you think about why it doesn't concern women. And you mustn't do that.

derecho:
You dey mind dem.In Ukraine,Ukrainian men between 18 and 65 were not allowed to leave.But women were allowed.

Did the women start the war? Or you want women to not only have children for numbskull men who start wars, but also fight in their wars?

What exactly are males on the forum asking for? Is that supposed to be smart? Ukraine this, Ukraine that. Did women start that war or do you want to blame them for actions of the usual bloodthirsty men?

The price of a penis and guns made for mens hands will not change overnight. Men will begin and end wars by themselves.

If you think feminism is women dying for mens wars, you will quote all the wars your bros began and women and children will still get priority while men keep playing at whataboutism while paying for it.

Don't address women being used for rituals. Keep beating around the bush while you look for how men have been hard done by whenever such topics come up.

Boric acid comes to mind.

lusid:
you sound like sb from aluu or okija

Where's that?

Your guesses are wrong. I told you you wouldn't know the suburb, and you've assumed it's wherever you think it is.

It's different from what you think.

lusid:
ikwerre?

Did I tell you I'm from Port Harcourt or you've assumed I am?

Lol.

Think of somewhere entirely different. Very different.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
U are angry with me for what? Am I the one responsible for the fact that children tends to take after their parents? Go ask nature please!

Oga I comot hand from your matter completely. See me walking away after washing my hands.

If u need more evidence look at the toxic people littering nairaland, they are either mostly from broken/dysfunctional/abusive homes. They are just only giving out what they know, have experienced.

Abusive home/parents made you who u are today? That is wonderful

Okay u know what? I give it to you. I will just agree to disagree.

There's no need for further arguments. U win

Very true, they come from broken homes with dysfunctional members. It is all they know and it is all they can think of when placed in such situations.

Abusers will give birth to abusers. It is the same reason why poor people keep living in poverty. Their environment has a role to play in it.

lusid:
where are you from actually

You won't know the suburb.

lusid:
Bratislava, I know portharcourt babes like money and you can't be an exception

How did you conclude I'm from/live there? Or are you the one who is actually there?

lusid:
he has money. will you date him? don't lie cos I know you as a sincere person

How do you know I'm sincere? And if he has money or not, how does that affect me liking him or not?

He's unattractive, but these pics make him look relatively good. Compared to his usual.

First time he's looking good.

Francisanointed:
Pardon my grammatical errors
A lot of people who regretted getting married to their spouse can attest to the fact that they saw the "red flags" but they insist on continuing the relationship and getting married.
Why do people do this ? Married men/women, single ladies/guys,what make/made you to think of marriage even after the red flags
A girl continues a relationship or marry a guy that beats her often,cheats on her unrepentantly,abuse her and disrespects her.
A guy continues a relationship where he sees the girl cheats,lies and disrespect him. Sometimes you know there are things you can't naturally tolerate but you tolerate them in relationship and eventually when you get married,you want those things you tolerated in your marriage to stop. That is impossible!
I know you can't marry someone that is 80 percent a version of you. But you must know what you can cope with

Why do people get married with someone they saw "red flags" ?

Sunk Cost Fallacy.

And thinking they can change another leopard.

And desperation.

And tolerance.

Funniest thread all day.

Nicely written. Very enjoyable.

[quote author=Magnoliaa post=110976208][/quote]Fair reports would work better.

Right now Mr Zelenski is mysteriously silent. The mayor of Kiev isn't in combat gear any more. No news on that heroic part.

Whatever happened to Ukraine? Putin must be crying, though. Things must be very tough. We are very intimate with his suffering, yet his "victims" are mysteriously silent.

It is what it is.

Magnoliaa:
So, let me get this right. You believe Nairaland is:

- Pro-Ukraine and therefore anti-Russia?
- Anti-Trump and therefore pro-Biden and the the liberals?
Basically, Nairaland is left-leaning? Nairaland is pro-West and backs American ideals?

(Wait, wait, wait. Are you pro-Trump and also pro-feminism?)

IF you believe these are what Séun and his mods stands for, do you think it makes sense for them to still be anti-women and pro-redpillers and misogynists?

Threads that promote women-hating make it to the front page back to back. BUT threads against the Taliban also make it to the front page. I don't see nobody complaining about him then that he's anti-Taliban except for the backward-thinking lowlifes. There are so many pro-Putin threads and comments I see on the front page. Nobody is being banned o. And their comments aren't getting deleted. This dude must have obviously done something and he's here crying wolf.

When threads by Sio-fra and Sapph-iere and Iya-ebe and Princess-80 makes the front page, do you think Nairaland, Sèun and his mods are being anti-male?

My point is that everyone can find threads that are pro- or anti- what they believe to support their beliefs on here. Even Ubu.nja threads do not make FP, but some feminists' threads make FP. So will you say Nairaland is pro-feminism or anti-women because misogynists are left to crawl around?

Everything is not all that clear-cut. I used to blame Sêun, and the mods too for a lot of things going on here; not that I still don't think there cannot be some changes and stricter enforcement of the rules, but then you know when that happens, there'll still be people complaining? About how he's censoring speech and turning here into a one-man thing.

I believe now Nairaland isn't expressly PRO- ANYBODY, ANYTHING, ANY COUNTRY, etc. It is the users giving it its face and reputation. And then the mods and the owners themselves are entitled to their perspectives, but I don't think the topics that make it to the front page can be stripped down to bias and discrimination and nothing more.

Even righteousness' and jesusjnr threads make FP, and that doesn't mean Séun is pro-Christianity.

If any group of people feel like their perspective isn't being shown enough, I'm sure it's because there aren't much topics they've created to begin with as far as NL is concerned. If there are topics, it'll get to the front page. On any subject or ideologies.

What do you believe?

You will agree that topics on conflicts here tend to push only one side of the divide.

Topics that hit FP on the current invasion tend to have only one slant: pro-Ukraine. It's not about a group of people who feel their perspective isn't being shown, because there's only one perspective being shown. They were ready to push propaganda about the mythical bravery and heroism of Ukrainian soldiers on an island and insult anyone who dared think otherwise. It's the battle of Thermopylae every day the sun shines for more of the Ukrainian propaganda.

Similar to the male vs female threads. The Trump vs Biden threads. Christian vs Muslim threads. Mods can delete and prioritize threads, and they are doing so. Always have, always will.

It has less to do with if I support Russia or not. Or if I support Biden or not. Or whatever you or others support. Or if people are feminists (and thus cannot be pro-Trump because that's a leftist TERF crime against humanity nevermind politics). We could all be anything. And, really, there's no box to that. But the OP voiced something which appears to be true.

The observation is that the reportage is grossly lopsided on several Ukraine/Russia matters and it's clear what the agenda being pushed is. Many users know that.

Iyaebe:
Ladies marrying soldiers try ooo,soldiers are very very promiscuous and have secret children everywhere. Hml

Not to mention violent and murderous.

Gentlerespect76:
Who else have noticed that Nairaland MODs have taken a side in the war between Russia and Ukraine? It is in my right to comment in support of Russia or even Ukraine if I choose to. Why delete my comments when they are not inappropriate, insulting or abusive. Nawaoo!!!

I will not stop my support for whoever I want to support. I believe as a person that the young should respect the old, the weak, the strong. Simple. And peace reigns within and without.

Clearly the lines have been drawn.

The forum is obviously pro-Ukraine, resulting in lopsided news and information exchanges among members.

And pro-Ukrainians are terribly insulting believing themselves to be the only source of benevolent yet dictatorial worldly wisdom. They are probably the ones after your posts.

A similar media war emerged when it was about Trump. They would paint him black scathingly and never had anything equitable to balance the vitriol they released through topics.

The forum is under control. He shouldn't displease his bosses.

What you can do is simply observe. And enjoy.

Kobojunkie:
Sure, and here I decide to go with whatever you decide.

Lol.

Kobojunkie:
Meaning you can think of me as either male or female ... whichever makes you feel the most comfortable to in our discussions.

But it is you who decides what gender you are, not us.

Kobojunkie:
I'd like to remain gender-fluid - have been that way since I signed up back in 2007.

You? Gender fluid?

Stargurl20:
Infact, my family is living example of this. My brother did something so painful to my mom one day and my mum was calling my dad to at least man handle him coz he doesn't fear my mum anymore and despite the fact that my dad doesn't discipline him , he still dreads my dad ( u know na as per man wey him be). Could u believe that my dad couldn't even utter a single word to scold the boy and my mum started crying that my bro himself should take a look, that if he become someone in future that my dad will be the first to brag but God forbid if the reverse is the case, he will even deny he is his father.

Imagine that.

Fathers need to play a more active role in the lives of their sons. Most abandon their families for women to do everything, not realizing they are depriving their sons of fatherhood and how to be fundamentally good men.

Afterwards these same deprived sons will undergo male indoctrination in which they will begin to normalize their fathers negligence and call it "being a man", since they are now "men" and need a place in their dysfunctional world where all of them were brought up by negligent men and need to keep it going in their generation too.

A cycle that will only be broken when men decide to be men and not hiding from emotions that they have, and their families. Nigerian women are not in wholesome relationships. Their men are frauds.

So don't be surprised at the type of males on the forum. They are dysfunctional, broken, twisted and don't even know it.

Kobojunkie:
Mothers need to train their kids to recognize these traits for what they really are, even at that.

Mothers can only do their part. They are victims of their untrained husbands, who were equally untrained by their fathers and down till the first caveman. But why mothers some decide to propagate such patriarchal destruction remains a mystery. Too much internalization of men's failures in the home and beyond.

lilvicky68:
Maybe you said. You are not even sure

I'm a Nigerian man I don't know about the cheating part unless you want to test me..

Maybe= very likely

Lol. I didn't test you last year, yet you expect me to test you this year?