airsaylongcome: I kid you NOT! I was shaking like a leaf in winter that day. If you are conversant with Admiralty, it was opposite Fidelity Bank. I still remember looking down the barrel and my mother's voice whispered to me "Na die you dey play with so o"
He was straddling both lanes and I honked and honked for him to pick a Lane. Apparently there was supposed to be some insignia outside that should have identified him as State Security. Someone later asked me if I didn’t see his wheels? That I should have known who he was from his wheels
What do these high-handed people hope to achieve? If they had killed you, what would be the gain; that nobody rubs shoulders with them? Even on roads? Public roads? No wonder there are so many killings by security personnel.
Civilians should be checking wheels, so that they don't drive neck to neck with armed people? Nigeria is unbelievable.
airsaylongcome: Very very believeable. I nearly faced the same fate last year. Somewhere on Admiralty, some guy pulled a gun on me for "daring" to honk for him and eventually trying to overtake him. He pointed his weapon at me which looked like a Tavor. Gun had a red circle on its muzzle. I immediately slowed down and looking at his rear view mirror, I saw that stupid insignia that DSS folks always hang on their rear view
DoingBetter: I think it's high time that something is done about the vitriol being poured on ladies here. Believe it or not, people are affected by what they feed into their minds. Day in day out, men hop on platforms like nairaland to insult women and talk about them like they're less than, objects without value. What do you think people take away from that? What kind of impressions does such hate leave in the mound of young men? Men like gidiredpillers and his ilk spend the bulk of their time fanning this hate for women. In the end, they've succeeded in creating a space where women are seen as disposable objects that can be used and dumped at will. Once you see someone as less of a human than you, you lose the ability to feel empathy for them. Now Nigeria seems to be a dangerous place for women. This lady didn't go to a man's house o. She didn't follow a rich bf to bill him or whatever justification some Gus like to throw about. No. She didn't even board a private car. She wasn't dressed provocatively. She did everything right and still fell victim to animals that decided to kill her. I'm tired. This story is heartbreaking. Everyday we hear stories of girls being kidnapped, killed and body parts missing. Some guys on this forum will still comment that Nigerian girls are useless and should be used for rituals. See that the nonsense you type can be taken seriously by a mad man. Be careful what you type out there. If you have nothing good to say and being neutral is impossible for you, then be silent. It is better than adding to the hate. We are telling young boys that because some girls use men, it is okay to treat all women as disposables. As objects. If you are one of those guys, please stop. Take responsibility for your own actions and your words. Avoid women you don't condone their lifestyle. Don't come online to teach people to hate another human like them because of gender differences. I don't understand how people can kill and hear their victims cry for help in terror and still strike. Lord may I never understand it. May the soul of this poor girl Rest In Peace. May God expose the men behind this acts. May God keep us safe.
Whoever you are, you have said nothing but the truth.
It's time Se un did something about the casual and deep rooted misogyny spread here. Believe it, some of the murderers and rapists we read of on the front page are still his nairalanders who have turned the place into the next FourChan hate site. Unless, of course, he shares the same views which may explain the reluctance to stop certain threads from getting to the FP. Clearly threads can be taken down, yet they never are. Not even the one where one guy confessed to poisoning his girlfriend and telling anyone who cared to listen how much he hates females.
I've been saying there's a red pill/misogynist moderator hard at it for a year now. It's been pushing any topic about women to cast them in a bad light and bring out the rape sympathizers and their associates to the fore.
Whenever something bad happens to a female, maybe a rape or murder, the first resort is to abuse and blame her, even if she is dead as a result of a mans wickedness. All females will be told how they deserve it unless they do this or do that. It's never a time to caution themselves (males).
When you point it out, they claim that it's you who had the bad experience with men, that they are not like that. Yet they are like that and ready to support their buddies who are like that. They will call you a simp and feminist, yet they are the future dangers to society.
Definition of "Virtuous Woman" has been bastardized in this Generation
Don't be Deceived! No Home breaker or Husband Snatcher is anything Virtuous! A Husband Snatcher or Home Breaker is a Thief!
What of a polygamous man? Isn't that the new definition of a righteous man? Or don't you know that men will go to hell while you pretend their "sins" don't exist?
Atticusxsz: Same indisposed man wouldn't bulge to the aforementioned statement that he's sick as far as the presidential seat is still within his reach.
True. Ill people should give it a rest and focus on their health and private lives, not endangering the lives of millions to fulfill their agendas.
However, why mock his appearance when we already know he's ill? If he were in good health he would look better. Why the comparison?
remsonik: Wow happy birthday to you oga, wishing you many more years in good health. Obasanjo 85 Adeboye 80 Pete Edochie 75 Tinubu 169
Lol
Can you guys stop trolling the man? It's obvious he's ill, so cannot be expected to be in the same shape as his mates or those older than him. His memes are getting nasty. Illness isn't a crime.
The bikeman arrived his hut,not house cos it was built with mud with cement plastering, His room was wack and disorganized... I immediately changed from my soaked clothes into the dry ones he gave me and wrapped myself in his smelly blanket which my skin reacted to it by itching me so I unwrapped it and slept on his bed without covering myself
I gave him my inhaler and told him everything and how to use it just in case I turned and face the wall while he slept on the other side...it was still raining, I took out my phone from my where I hid it to prevent water from touching it, called the guy to tell him I'm fine and safe..he said I should give the phone to the bikeman, which I did
He gave me back the phone after few minutes of conversating in their dialect and lied down... the guy told me he has warned him not to touch me,that I should relax,he also apologized for putting me through all what I was facing and dropped the call.
Few minutes to 1am,I felt the bikeman touching me..(I couldn't sleep tho) I resisted him by adjusting a bit.,he shifted closer and held my boobs I jumped off and climbed down from the bed..he didn't follow...he lay back and listened to me trying to pursuade him not to do what he wants to do . The next thing was..he stood up and walked towards me ( I was actually leaning on the wall)he came closer, I could even hear his heart beat
The Nigga grabbed my neck so tight and whispered.."Hope you know I can kill you here and hide your corpse,nobody will know? So comport." He left me grasping for air..and pushed me to the bed...in summary,I was raped thrice brutally within the interval of 1am - 5am. The third one was so painful I had to fight him and tried pushing him off but he slap me hard and kept choking me that was where the asthma started.. He helped and did as I told him with my inhaler..I passed out NB:After the first rape..I tried calling the guy I came to see,he noticed and ceased my phone
I woke up to see I was already dressed,I got up and picked my properties..he threatened if I tell this guy..he will look for me and finish me I nodded with tears in my eyes and he drove off.. He stopped along the way, somewhere so bushy and removed my two sim cards for me and put my fancy phone into his bag, Ordered me to climbed down and drove off Omoh!!
Forgetting I'm a fine girl,I sat on the road and cried for what seems like an hour I didn't see any trace of even a bicycle, Moments later,a fine car stopped behind me. It was a lady,she demanded to know what happened,I told her everything. She gave me 10k cash and drove me off to where I'll see a taxi and advised me to go back to my state.it was like 11am
I stubbornly refused to go home and went ahead to beg passersby for a phone to insert my sim so I could call the guy. A young girl helped me and I called him He sounded happy to hear my voice...I didn't have enough time to tell him everything so I called another taxi and he talked to him and directed him...I thank the girl and hopped on the bike. Finally,I arrived at his house and then proceeded to tell him everything after eating.
He apologized and cuddled me which led to sex..I told him to use condom which he refused,I stayed three days but had sex twice and went back. NB: he took me to hospital and got me ARVs and postinor 2 Some days later..he called me to say I gave him infection..I tried explaining,he got more angrier and blocked me
Omoh...I collapsed and went down on my knees and swore to God to strike me dead anyday I leave my state to another state just to see man...since then,I've not tried ohh He later unblock me and begged for forgiveness saying he didn't really get an infection...it was just a way of breaking up with me I said no problem but I'm done with you.. I'M STILL NOT HEALED FROM THAT HEARTBREAK SHA
You were raped brutally 3 times by a filthy man, you shouldn't have seen sex as a priority with the Facebook date. It's a common condition in rape cases, to still go ahead with sex afterwards without healing, feeling you owe it to them.
He wanted to break up with you from the moment you called him, he just felt that since you had been raped, he could collect his pound of flesh too. Once he knew you were raped, his mind was off you. He's an evil son of a gun. A normal human being would put off his desire for sex and put your well-being ahead of whatever he felt you owed him.
How old were you then?
Maybe you should share your story more, so that other young ladies don't fall into the trap of visiting men.
tensazangetsu20: No mind those idiots. My own beef is with the Nigerians abroad blowing us Lamba of bills everytime. In the UK, people choose to be on benefits rather than work. Someone with 5 kids will get benefits of 800 pounds per week alongside free housing, healthcare and education and the idiot Nigerians there will come and be lying to us about bills everytime.
The Nigerians are the most wicked not even the ones in Nigeria
This is a benefits documentary on the UK. One woman gets 66000 pounds from the government. She hasn't worked in 6 years. She just sits at home and gets free money. New Zealand, Australian and Canadian citizens in the comment section were also talking about how good their own benefits are. The woman was even given a solid mansion house free of charge and yet those wicked Nigerians abroad will blow us Lamba and tell us how Nigeria is the best place to be a billionaire. How many naira millionaires dey Nigeria. Not even dollar millionaires. Nigerians who get up to one million naira. How many are they?
You're right the important part was my own assumption, but what God specifically told me was that you're His daughter, so it's you that knows what He meant by that.
As for my platform for evangelism, this is just one of them but a very important one to God as I had realized.
DuBLINGreenb: No, equality does not mean give women more seats
It means giving them equal opportunities, equal chances to get those seats
Do men have special seats? I mean seats reserved for men solely because they are men, so therefore why should women have special seats
You people just want to create more offices for wife's and daughters of politicians, who told MR. Kukah that if those seats are given, it'll go to a young girl who would have been doing runs? It'll go to wives and daughters of politicians not the average Naija girl on the street.
The usual circular disinformation of men, and some myopic women.
When you go to a foreign country, do you ask who gave the white men those seats (jobs, positions, etc), when they were born with the privilege to have them because that's how it's been for a thousand years? To them it is normal. Yet you would want to be represented and have the same things they do, via the same quota system you seem to be against as a minority black person hypothetically living with them. Isn't that so? Because, otherwise, why should those white men with all the seats they inherited from their fathers, and their fathers fathers give you a black man a chance at having a seat at their table? If they deny you, despite your hard work, won't you call it racism and start protests? Or would you not ask why they have special rights to those seats that you don't have despite your ability to sit in the same seat while living there as a citizen? All they have to do is tell you that you can get what they have, but simply never let you have it. What will you do about it?
Some of you only know that people must have equality and fight for seats when women are involved. But you go to White men countries and expect to have what they have, from the same quota system for minorities, when you don't deserve it at all.
On a normal day, what makes you think a white person will even want you to be a citizen of their country that is theirs, something they made and have owned for so long? They could invent any means possible to keep you out. You are substandard by your color already. That is the approach of men to women.
You men expect to be given jobs in Nigeria when you aren't one of your elite, who will tell you that you are lazy and incompetent not to have gotten one of their privileged positions. Yet you know it's because you aren't from the ruling class. You want to be treated right when by their standards you shouldn't be, since you weren't born like they were. Of course, they will tell you there's equality and it's a democracy. Yet, you know the conditions for entry. That is the approach of men to women. False logic and plenty disinformation.
jesusjnr2020: May God help us because it is very very very important to Him more than we could ever imagine.
I know what happened to me when I decided to take a break from here 2 years ago... No be small thing wey I take my eyes see before nobody tell me, I rush come back.
As for your question, I have been praying for you ever since that day I first told you I would.
You seem important to God also, because He said you were His daughter, so perhaps it's up to you to ask Him what He'd have you do.
Have a blessed day sis.
Lol @rushing back. I guess this is your platform for evangelism. More grease to your elbows.
I would doubt that being important part and the next one.
Maybe I should've said: when will you see for me, prophet?
Revolution2022: All this students are from rich homes.Their parents who are politicians stole funds meant to upgrade our educational institutions and enrolled their children into foreign universities.
If you had a lot of stolen money, would you go to Ukraine out of all the other available countries in the world? Have you been there before?
These are likely students on a scholarship. Hardly anyone chooses Ukraine for the love of studying there.
jesusjnr2020: The Important Message God Sent My Neighbor To Give To Preachers
In a dream two weeks ago, God sent my neighbor to warn all those who ought to be preaching and telling people to repent, because Jesus was coming soon, but weren't doing so, that He's not happy with them because many were perishing as a result.
She said that while standing on the road in the dream, she heard a sound as of an earthquake, and saw the ground divide into two, and many people were falling into the middle of the opening.
So God told her to preach the Gospel and tell men to repent, that Jesus is coming soon, so that they would not perish.
She had been under severe spiritual attack to the extent she couldn't walk, but was crawling on the floor, among many other things she's suffered in the hands of the wicked, but God delivered her towards the end of last year.
After she told me her story earlier this year, God used me to give her the motivation she needed to start carrying out the assignment He had given to her, after He told me she was important to Him while praying for her for the first time. I told her what God said about her, and she said she took it seriously because it wasn't the first time she was hearing such.
The assignment was to preach the Gospel, and to tell people to repent, that Jesus is coming soon. It wasn't easy for her, but God gave her the courage to do so, so from following someone else to preach, she was able to start doing so on her own.
But on a day early she was meant to go early last week, and had woken up early because of it, she began to feel very weary and reluctant and wanted to back to sleep, but God kept telling her to go and do as He instructed her and not go back to sleep.
She went back to sleep regardless, that was when God gave her the dream, and told her that she would have been in the grave if not for Him, so she has no excuse not to do as He says and tell people to repent because Jesus is coming soon, so they would not perish.
Also He told her He's not happy with those who ought to be telling people to repent but weren't doing so, because many were perishing because of them.
God bless.
The great commission. Few do it consciously, but it should be a way of life. I think we're too caught up in life to remember some of these things.
FalseProphet1: I see putin attacking Finland, I see the world reacting, I see WW3 kicking off, I see nuclear weapons and bombs dropping like knockouts, I see deaths, I see the male survivors inheriting the females and riches in Earth, I see bride price abolished in Nigeria.
This I have seen.
If you weren't so gender biaa, you would be funny.
luminouz: All the men you mentioned have something in common....they make their wealth for their wives and children.. I don't see the wives divorcing the husband's because of ill-gotten gains, do I? To make matters worse, it's the greed of the women who drive their men to ruin...all in the name of love.
So, if you like playing the blame game, let's go. [s]Men don't make money for men alone...just for women but I'm not sure that's the same for women. Your money is yours alone naaa[/s]
Where is it stated that they are traveling to Libya for women? Isn't it to enrich themselves with the illusion of untold wealth in Europe?
Aren't your politicians robbing you and the rest of Nigeria for themselves? Who told you the primary motive is women? All the mansions in the UK, it's for women, right?
The guys killing people for money rituals, is it for women or for themselves? Is the money not to make themselves rich? Or since birth is that what you have been getting money for? For women?
Only in the red pill world does that imagination of men working for women exist. Because you think you buy women.
If you don't blame women, what will you claim to be accountable for?
Rawhumper: You must know a man and woman are not the same.
Girls are unique in the sense that they play a vital role in procreation and upbringing of kids. If a lady lacks in that capacity,don't you know that the world is finished.
These yeye politicians u talk about failed as a result of mothers because mothers naturally are closer to the kids than the fathers. Thanks
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What about all the men crossing the Libyan desert because their desperation is out of this world? The ones drowning while crossing into Europe daily? The desperate ones selling drugs all over South Africa?
Let's not talk about the ones killing and maiming people all over Nigeria because men's desperation and greed are just out of this world.
Or men that keep a nation of 200M+ people in poverty while their desperation to make wealth by all means is out of this world.
No. Those don't desperate men exist. It's a misguided little girl who made a bad decision that has desperation out of this world.
A man and woman aren't the same, so when men are desperate we should pretend that they aren't and excuse them? Explain.
As for mother's raising children, what do you mean? That men do nothing in their homes? Or that they've taught their sons to be just as destructive and noon committal as they are by example?
CatANDratTHEORY: The desperation of most ladies is just out of this world. Some are willing to hook up with a man who they know little or nothing about.
They might have turned this one to a sex slave and threatened her with all sorts of charms.
I just pray for her safety.
What about all the men crossing the Libyan desert because their desperation is out of this world? The ones drowning while crossing into Europe daily? The desperate ones selling drugs all over South Africa?
Let's not talk about the ones killing and maiming people all over Nigeria because men's desperation and greed are just out of this world.
Or men that keep a nation of 200M+ people in poverty while their desperation to make wealth by all means is out of this world.
No. Those don't desperate men exist. It's a misguided little girl who made a bad decision that has desperation out of this world.
Baitullah: Anyways, she has proven that women can do it alot better. She even had the guts to share it online which is rare for men.
Rare? What are child abuse and porn rings made up of? Isn't it men trading such images and videos on the dark web internationally, or have you decided to lie to gullible people on the forum that it's rare for men to commit sex crimes on an hourly basis?
Today women are better, yesterday and tomorrow they aren't worthy of seats in your parliament. Anything to push your agenda.
Ayinke93: Slave traders like you in positions of authority is the reason the country is the way it is. So even if you've not slept in a year, are your workers going to get the same money you are getting from that project? if you have a stiff deadline, are there ways to properly rotate and schedule your tasks without burning out your workers? I'm very sure you don't even pay them livable wages. nonsense
Boniwhite: Nothing for women. This is africa so that nonsense ferminism wont fly here. Am happy that NASS Voted against the bill, shows our fathers didnt raise weak men! If you want power&position then fight for it!!
How many men have fought for what women have had to fight for to get a place in society? Why must women fight to vote, fight to read and get an education and fight to get seats in Parliament, when men get it without lifting a finger just because they were born with a phallus? Are men that lazy and inconsiderate? Or are they so weak they rubber stamp anything from men and reject the ones from women?
Half of you talking about women fighting for things have never fought for anything similar in your lives. After all, as men your job is to turn down everything about women.
L1TTLE: I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.
Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.
not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.
Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.
Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.
aikyg: How you didn't notice this while you were dating is a big question. Divorcing him may not be an easy decision, since you have a baby coming. Since he doesn't physical abuse you, I'll suggest you both go for counseling
If she asked to see his account while dating, it's still the same guys like you who would come out to say he should trash her, that she's a gold digger and an entitled leech.
It shows in your stuupid and illogical arguments where you are waiting for girls to pat you on the head that you are a "Real Man".
Simping is a mental health problem! So it is your thinking that has been damaged. You can't think logically because you are desperate to ingratiate yourself with women to get their approval.
Crime › Re: Soldier Peter Shot By DSS Dies In Lagos (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 10:46am On Mar 08, 2022
