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Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:41pm On Nov 14, 2019
8k2nuts:
I know a guy who married a girl that 3 other guys have confirmed before.

They have 3 kids now and going on strong. Two of the guys who nacked are still nacking girls up and down. She married with kids now.

Last last na your hand e dey. If you dont give a Bleep then marry her if you are someone who's easily swayed by public opinion or perception free her.
how do you know they are going strong? Have you lived with them, or do you only see what they want you to? They're struggling to prove a point to all of you who know their past. Doesn't mean it's real. Maybe the children are the last bit of glue remaining.
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:40pm On Nov 14, 2019
8k2nuts:
I know a guy who married a girl that 3 other guys have confirmed before.

They have 3 kids now and going on strong. Two of the guys who nacked are still nacking girls up and down. She married with kids now.

Last last na your hand e dey. If you dont give a Bleep then marry her if you are someone who's easily swayed by public opinion or perception free her.
how do you know they are going strong? Have you lived with them, or do you only see what they want you to? They're struggling to prove a point to all of you who know their past. Doesn't mean it's real
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:33pm On Nov 14, 2019
Pafoma:
Unfortunately,i wont and cannot be dating her and date someone else, not even have a side chic. it is either i am in or out.

I am way passed the age of childishness or youthful exuberance. Many of the people commenting here are saying she is cheating, but in my original post, i am sure i mentioned these things were in her past and she is working on herself.. i see the obvious changes too although she is not there yet
if she has changed as much as you claim, then why are you here perspiring about her matter? Deep inside you, you know the truth. It's not your friends you're worried about. It's your mind that came up with these things, because it's what you think of her. You want to be with her because you think you can save her and that she will change for you. You are doing so because you're scared of goodness.

Don't marry her simply because you're scared another guy will have her.

Don't think you can change her.

Don't get angry any day and recall her past if you insist on marrying her.

Embrace any guy who has been with her.

Don't get suspicious after the wedding bells.

Don't complain about her reproductive health.

Don't pin anything on her, whatsoever, if you will marry her.
If you do, you will remember your reservations and wish you had listened to your mind.
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:24pm On Nov 14, 2019
ModelX:
The irony be say many of these celebs and entertainers are nowhere as promiscuous as we the viewers like to think. All na for show.
There's this BBC TV show - Nakêd Attraction, where people all get nakêd and choose a partner based on attraction. Now, ordinarily, you would think that people that can go nakêd on television will definitely fûck that other nakêd person whom they finally choose. Surprise! When the show calls them in after a couple of weeks to find out how things are, the majority never fůcked. Just drinks on that first date and maybe texts.
But our third world women will be fůcking up and down like dirty hogs without home training every chance they get, and then expect respect and marriage! Countless girls/women have lost their chances at marriage and will continue to lose because no man wants a whöre for a wife. Then they will come with that nonsense "we all have a past". Well, none of that floosie, some of us don't have that kind of a past.
the rough ones always want to tell us we all have a past, and that the saints are worse than them. So that what? We will all go after these diamonds in the rough? Their justification is weak
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:23pm On Nov 14, 2019
safarigirl:
the insecurities that come with such knowledge alone is massive, for any gender.

Girls can't even stand their man having platonic female friends, imagine you know a girl he dated and you see her on occasion, the torture!
it's not torture. It's the society we crave. We want sexual freedom for men and women, well, we must live with the consequences or pretend they aren't issues
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:16pm On Nov 14, 2019
safarigirl:
people should not be punished for their past mistakes.

She's obviously someone who was desperate for love, hence, her involvement with so many deceitful men that only wanted to hit and run. You can question her judgment, but she shouldn't be punished for falling for idiots.
if there's no punishment, there will be no deterrent to crime. And it is a crime to fall for anything with a baritone and splay ones legs for it because she was "desperate for love". What if she has a problem and love is never enough for her?
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA:
Akhazeme:
Dear Sir,

I think I was in a similar situation when I wanted to marry my wife but mine is that she has dated my friend before and was even the person that deflowered her. Try to talk to her about it and let her know you ain't comfortable with the whole thing and let her give you her word of total change.
If you love her please you guys should talk and make it work...
so what happened when you wanted to marry her? Did you still marry her? Have you uncovered anything about them after marriage? How did you cope with knowing your friend had been in her and that she enjoyed it?
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:08pm On Nov 14, 2019
great664:
My exact situation right now, though not my circle of friends but I have known some of them and it's disturbing... She cheated on me with one time with one too and since then I believe she has changed as the family was involved...

I am confused cuz I can't start afresh again as I am ready now and secondly, going down with her is very confusing for me right now. Won't I regret it? That question keeps popping out all time.
if it happened before, it's likely to happen again. I don't understand men going after commodities that have passed through many hands, getting seduced, then scared to drop commodity only because they are jealous someone else will pick it up. Not because they truly want it
Romance › Re: Indecisive About My Fiancée That Dated People I Know by BRATISLAVA: 4:04pm On Nov 14, 2019
baby124:
Indeed. She could be wifey to 5 other guys and may have even gbenshed your uncle. Fear women, we are like cats. You never see a cat gbenshing but cats get pregnant. It’s only a woman that is honest with you that you can boast of.
speak for yourself.Youre all over the place to keep trying to make him settle down with someone overused. He's not comfy. Let him dump her. Not everyone will betray their friends for a woman. When she was hopping from bed to bed, thinking it doesn't matter, she should've considered the rarity of a prostitute finding true love in Nigeria
Science/Technology › Re: I Saw This Snake And I Didn't Kill It. by BRATISLAVA: 7:47pm On Nov 13, 2019
PrecisionFx:
Yea, dogs kill 85000 people yearly grin
Have you ever been near a snake bite victim? No. You just repeat that they are harmless because some 1st world people go hunting them and told you so. Tell that to communities that suffer snake bites. Forget a tattooed snake hunter looking for a show that will make viewers give him cash. He can say anything to keep you hooked. Just looking at him you'll know he's a hippie. I wonder why you people live on TV and expect your reality to be that. He doesn't live near snakes, he just comes on TV to be near them from time to time. You paid to watch him live unrealistically
Health › Re: What Is This New Sickness In Town That Causes Severe Itching by BRATISLAVA: 3:55pm On Nov 13, 2019
doctokwus:
"bishan ampiclus" indeed!
Do u even know what scabies is and what causes it?
That's how u people will just be spreading your ignorance and harmful views with confidence!
Someone that doesn't even know the proper name for "bishan ampiclus",would definitely not know jerk about a far more serious issue.
Pls confine your annoyingly ignorant views to yourself.
bishan grin
Health › Re: What Is This New Sickness In Town That Causes Severe Itching by BRATISLAVA: 3:48pm On Nov 13, 2019
Rockyrascal:
try out bishan ampiclus first! A sachet should be 900#
Beechams Ampiclox! Before you make people kill themselves with some other OTC product.
Health › Re: What Is This New Sickness In Town That Causes Severe Itching by BRATISLAVA: 3:47pm On Nov 13, 2019
freemanbubble:
Wait o
You are talking to me as if am infected

I said my uncle who is a pharmacists said that people are complaining
lol!!!
Science/Technology › Re: I Saw This Snake And I Didn't Kill It. by BRATISLAVA: 12:35pm On Nov 13, 2019
PrecisionFx:
U are quite wrong with these assertions u develop in ur head, that isn't reality.

On the contrary, It is humans that are destroying the habitats of snakes and other animals everyday and build houses, roads, bridges, Parks, etc there, this is the only thing that leads to confrontation between man and animals.

Snakes aren't dangerous animals like Africans make it out to be. Out of all the over 3000 species of snakes on earth, only 25% of dem are venomous and most of those venonous snakes do bite with only their fangs and intentionaly dont inject venom because its a waste to pump venom into something they cannot swallow.
don't let tv fool you. Snakies are dangerous, just like dogs
Science/Technology › Re: I Saw This Snake And I Didn't Kill It. by BRATISLAVA: 7:55pm On Nov 12, 2019
Draught:
Snake are very shy animals, they don't go around looking for human beings to kill or eat, they go for prey that are generally smaller than their body size..

The most reason they would attack humans is if we invade their private space and they would feel threatened and bite or spit

This bleeping serpents are scared of human beings

Stop this bleeping miseducation
they're so scared they come to where people live. And all they do is bite. Even in the wild they bite things they won't eat and move on
Science/Technology › Re: I Saw This Snake And I Didn't Kill It. by BRATISLAVA: 7:52pm On Nov 12, 2019
PrecisionFx:
Snakes do not attack humans.

Except in self defence. It a humans that keep attacking n killing snakes
back this up with facts. Most snakes are a nuisance who crawl into spaces occupied by humans, then lash out. Who is at fault? The intelligence of reptiles isn't that high. They just react by attacking everything. Even Whites kill snakes. And they live in developed cities, why wouldn't they be thrilled to find a snake. Why spare these ones that live in bushes near houses looking for whom to prey on? They're so shy they come right up to where people live. Why can't they stay in forests? You don't find lions running amok in cities like you do snakes. And snakes kill a lot of people. They should be culled
Science/Technology › Re: I Saw This Snake And I Didn't Kill It. by BRATISLAVA: 7:43pm On Nov 12, 2019
bluebay:
Snake doesn't hurt people unless it feels threatened... Most people always get bitten
either when they steps on snakes or gets too close to the snake..
I don't think you've encountered a black mamba before. It will jump at you first. I hope it has consideration for you.
Gaming › Re: Wwe Games Are Now Nonsense by BRATISLAVA: 8:51pm On Nov 07, 2019
crafteck:
Pls am I the only one that sees wwe games the past 6 years as nonsense, it used to be so captivating, I played overnight, now I can't play for more than 5 mins
esp glitches
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 1:11pm On Nov 07, 2019
BluntBoy:
Technically, it has been forced down your throat. There is absolutely nothing anyone can do about it, except go violent. And should the law catch you, you go hear am!!!

There are so many laws we may not like but which we have to tolerate because it is the law of the land.

For me, I don't like full-time senatorial job nor do I like bicameralism. Does it mean because I don't like bicameralism, I can go to the House of Representatives building and destroy it?

No. If I do, I will be in trouble because I have broken the law. So, you see, the law forces a lot of things down our throats, and there is absolutely nothing we can do about it without getting into serious trouble with the law.
the law cannot make you love them. As much as they've shoved it down your throat. Except you always loved them
Romance › Re: Traditional Wedding Photos Of Lynda Ebigwei And South African Husband by BRATISLAVA: 6:56am On Nov 07, 2019
shocked
khiaa:
Of all the black men in South Africa this nasty whor.e married the oppressor. SMH undecided. Kennyswagz2 mii4u
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 6:43am On Nov 07, 2019
YungMillionaire:
Okay - what is your understanding of what I said?
everyone understands that you made a hasty generalization, as if the West is a gay Paradise. I was helping refer to some countries that fall under what you said.
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 6:41am On Nov 07, 2019
justbusy:
BRATISLAVA, you're speaking in parables! I couldn't fathom that statement!
lol. That they made a law for gay marriage doesn't mean they could make a law to force people's minds to embrace them. Which is what many people don't seem to understand. more Nigerians support gays than westerners because they think that the laws over there mean that the citizens support gays , but it's only allowed them to get married. It can't change people's orientations. Nice signature you have there.
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 6:36am On Nov 07, 2019
BluntBoy:
What is your point exactly.

Gay relationship is legalized in South Africa. It means gay people have rights to have their relationships. So, even if you don't like them, you cannot go violent on them based on their sexuality because the law recognizes their sexuality.

Once something is legalized, you are expected to respect it.

Beating up gay people in a country where homosexuality is legal is tantamount to break a law of the land.

Even if homosexuality is illegal, no one has the right to take the law into their hands.
right to be married doesn't mean they've successfully forced it down everyone's throat and that everyone lives under the rainbow. Huge difference. So people should stop acting like they are surprised by this. You wouldn't react like this if it was a bestiality practitioner in love with his animal.
Celebrities › Re: Deborah Oguntoyinbo Arrested For Stealing Identities Of Over 20 Women In Canada by BRATISLAVA: 10:01pm On Nov 06, 2019
sotall:
Deborah Oguntoyinbo spoiling naija's name
her lips are so close to her chin.
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:56pm On Nov 06, 2019
grandstar:
Many churches are notorious for promoting homophobia. This build up hatred for gays amongst congregants.
so they should support homosexuality? Read your Bible, please. you should also know that it's not your duty to bash the body of Christ in the name of correcting it, if at all you are correct. Shall we say you are promoting Christophobia? What do your actions speak of to other people watching you, the self-righteous Christian?
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:55pm On Nov 06, 2019
samorobo:
What is this suppose to mean
I mistakenly made two of the same post. The post for you is in the next one below it
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:49pm On Nov 06, 2019
BRATISLAVA:
there have been a lot of marriage busts of gays up North, it is rampant. Sometimes you see them walking and holding hands. I didn't mention any tribe fingering them as gays. It was an example of Nigeria gay weddings
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:47pm On Nov 06, 2019
samorobo:
Wtf ..you mean to say there is a tribe in Nigeria that support homosexuality...

Abeg Fulani herdsmen go raid that cesspool.....
below please
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:36pm On Nov 06, 2019
YungMillionaire:
how? Is SA= US or UK?
Because what you said applies to the US and UK.
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:30pm On Nov 06, 2019
Danielphatboy:
I wonder why people dislike gay people so much when they don't really disturb anyone, I don't have a problem with them though, they should be allowed to express them self



pedophiles defile under age children it different from two consenting adults doing what they like with each other, how does two men or women banging each other in their private space stops u from eating breakfast
same goes for pedos. What they do in their private space doesn't stop you from eating or drinking. And it will be legalized just like the gay absurdity. Once more prominent people are pedos they will lobby it down people's throats. Pedo-philia is an orientation of love you cannot stop. If gays have rights, they should, too. Or you think they aren't functional humans occupying top seats, too?
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:27pm On Nov 06, 2019
justbusy:
But, the SA Govt ratified gay marriage.
did they ratify everyone to love gays against their will, too?
Crime › Re: Bobo: Gay South African Man Beaten To A Pulp For Being Gay (Photos) by BRATISLAVA: 9:26pm On Nov 06, 2019
YungMillionaire:
I don't understand what is like to be gay. However, any society that maltreats people like this because of sexual identity is a cursed society. It means that you have no value for human life.
you must be referring to the US and UK.

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