Education › Re: Photos Of Kids In Public Schools In Different Countries Eating Lunch by BRATISLAVA: 9:00pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
tillaman: Crazy how they couldn’t put chairs in the class room and yet they serve these kids trash, they could have made provision for chairs first Ordinary caprisonne and biscuit better pass that sacrifice they put for those children front, no drinking water, they still give them banana wey no fresh, abeg is it by force to feed them this poison how sure r u dey hv anything 2 eat wen dey get home? It may not be gud, by it is smtin 2 doz in nid |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 6:52pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
crackhaus: You're confusing me and yourself. 
Let me simplify.
What is more prevalent today in western societies? Housewives or working wives? both |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 3:21pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
crackhaus: I agree with this, at least there'll be peace   the f***n*zi pill |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 3:18pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
makavelli80: well-done lol. I don't understand that one. To show off? The way some people reason |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 3:14pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
crackhaus: The west before the women's suffrage/rights movement took off, or the west after that? in both instances. Based on the premise that if you want the home dealt with, then that's a housewife's field. Generally speaking if you want extra income, then you cannot have the house wife, you can have the working wife. Just like working men aren't house husbands-except those who work from home. |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 12:34am On Nov 03, 2019*. Modified: 12:49am On Nov 03, 2019 |
crackhaus: Don't join in this gross misinformation which has become an anthem on the pages of the internet. It is a lie.
In the days of our grandparents and great-grandparents, women worked. There are more housewives today than it was in those days. Farming was the major source of livelihood and who do you think did the harvesting and selling of farm produce in the markets? Women. Most times it was even across villages miles apart, these women did those things and still handled chores in the home front when they got back. The men only cultivated the lands and planted, lands which were usually in their backyards.
It wasn't until the missionaries and colonial masters began introducing menial/manual jobs in the form of factories, railway building, construction, etc that men began leaving home to work for salaries.
Don't take my word for it, ask about your ancestral history and confirm this. I know things about my great-grandparents and great-great-grandparents from stories that were passed down. There was NEVER anything like a housewife in those days. now you are talking. Everyone was working. But what responsibilities lay financially on each party, if I may ask? And why is it that nowadays we hear silly things like man of the house and submission and emergencies and contribute and bring to the table if we all came from this equal ancestry? Men of the new age in Nigeria generally want to abscond their duties and the easiesr way is to insist that women are doing nothing and should work as they do, clean, provide advice, talk politics like pros, watch soccer, care for children, bring money to the table, while in return all the men want to do is go to work and bring money. Can you see the disparity? One person does all that whole another just goes to work and returns, occasionally helping when they feel they've been pandered to sufficiently. This is why the women don't want to do all that and still give respect and submission. What are modern men contributing to homes? Why is their burden the lightest while they preen like they are lords? The women seem to deserve some "upkeep" as the load is unfair. Or perhaps this ancestry shows us that men have been lazy and incapable for a very long time. They only planted seeds but women harvested and sold and maintained the home front. What have men been doing down the ages apart from creating imbalanced, unfair and ridiculous expectations from women? Women need pills and to find their own way  |
Family › Re: Should Working Class Wives Be Given 'Upkeep'? by BRATISLAVA: 12:26am On Nov 03, 2019*. Modified: 12:44am On Nov 03, 2019 |
crackhaus: Buka what are you typing? 
Western women more open to being housewives? Western courts provide for the needs of non-earning spouses from the earning spouse?
Lol  yes, the West is open to housewives. It's the pseudo westernized Nigerians who think women must bring something to the table, after hearing that White women work without getting the full context, and make a big deal out of it. You either have a wife who is a housewife or a wife who works. When you have both, you have a slave and not a wife. I noticed in this modern world that it is only poor men who expect their wives to work and fuss about it. The expectations are unrealistic. Most men need clay to design women because they're never satisfied |
Travel › Re: Important Tips Before Coming To Russia Federation And Everything In General. by BRATISLAVA: 7:17pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
homeboy232: Why Russia? are you coming strictly for studies or hustling by using student visa as a cover up any information about Russia life, visas, residential permit, etc...... just feel free to ask me any question are there scholarships to Russia? And are they full or partial? Did you get to Russia through a scholarship |
Celebrities › Re: Ibinabo Fiberesima Wears Swimsuit At The Beach by BRATISLAVA: 1:06am On Nov 02, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Ibinabo Fiberesima Wears Swimsuit At The Beach by BRATISLAVA: 1:02am On Nov 02, 2019 |
Ciaos: The family of the deceased forgave,what is your problem?. To err is human, forgiveness is divine.. proof that they forgave. |
Celebrities › Re: The Height On Eniafè Momodu And Adaora Ifeatu Soludo At Lagos Fashion Week by BRATISLAVA: 12:26am On Nov 02, 2019 |
Reminez: You are not a doctor but you thought it was right to misinform the unsuspecting public..smh I'm not a doctor too but a reader..You should read too  isn't the world full of surprises?  |
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Celebrities › Re: The Height On Eniafè Momodu And Adaora Ifeatu Soludo At Lagos Fashion Week by BRATISLAVA: 12:54pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Reminez: Which thyroid  When thyroid start to dey secrete growth hormone again..olodo rabata  I don't know why when I read your comment I knew you need intervention. Pituitary or thyroid. I'm not a doctor. |
Music/Radio › Re: Kanye West Releases 'Jesus Is King' Album by BRATISLAVA: 8:59am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Jordan97: The radical change in a man's life begins when Jesus is involved. Kanye West gave his life to Christ this year, suddenly turning sober and reflective of his past life and recognizing what Jesus did for him on the cross.
His album "Jesus is King" is already making waves as many (atheists and Christians) alike are really blessed by it.. With many making resolutions not to live in sin again.
Go to twitter and check out tweets..
WHEN GOD WANTS TO DO SOMETHING, NO DEVIL CAN STOP IT
Results: Christianity 10 : Atheism 0  you've forgotten Brittney Spears and R Kelly. They also had such claims when their careers needed a boost. |
Music/Radio › Re: Kanye West Releases 'Jesus Is King' Album by BRATISLAVA: 8:59am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Jordan97: The radical change in a man's life begins when Jesus is involved. Kanye West gave his life to Christ this year, suddenly turning sober and reflective of his past life and recognizing what Jesus did for him on the cross.
His album "Jesus is King" is already making waves as many (atheists and Christians) alike are really blessed by it.. With many making resolutions not to live in sin again.
Go to twitter and check out tweets..
WHEN GOD WANTS TO DO SOMETHING, NO DEVIL CAN STOP IT
Results: Christianity 10 : Atheism 0  you've forgotten Brittney Spears and R Kelly. |
Celebrities › Re: The Height On Eniafè Momodu And Adaora Ifeatu Soludo At Lagos Fashion Week by BRATISLAVA: 8:55am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Gigantism. He should have his thyroid checked. |
Celebrities › Re: Gar Warner: "Mompha Is A Top Ten BEC Scammer" by BRATISLAVA: 6:50pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
AMvanquish: Funny! Most of them know how to show off their wealth and material assets acquired but 99% never reveal their source of income. No factories/ industries/ company or how many people they have employed. Did the wealth just fall from the sky! They re all shady! Period! you will still see people supporting them, claiming they have sources of income such as bureaus de change. And they will tell you you are poor, and how you didn't ask the source of their poverty before. Well, the chicken has come to roost |
Career › Re: The Dos And Don’ts Of Business Email Etiquette by BRATISLAVA: 5:19pm On Oct 25, 2019*. Modified: 7:05pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
BrutusOj: Hello isn't a bad way to start a formal conversation, it's only here that bosses see their subordinates as their slaves. world over it reeks unnecessary familiarity. Maybe Google bosses allow that. Not other executives |
Career › Re: The Dos And Don’ts Of Business Email Etiquette by BRATISLAVA: 11:49am On Oct 25, 2019 |
yusufmurry: I once wrote my line manager, and I started with "Hello"...
She immediately called me to her office and warned me that was rude say hello.
I learned that but just avoided her with that anytime.
I think the best is to know what beat for your organization because many flag red some of what mentioned that's what the poster is saying. Don't use hello in formal emails, because they aren't your buddies |
Romance › Re: "Wear Your Shirt Back" - Lady Advises Lady Who Tries To Entice Guys by BRATISLAVA: 8:41am On Oct 25, 2019 |
froshroy: A hypocrite. you don't know how much I hate seeing "an" hypocrite. And they're all doing it |
Education › Re: Share Your Most Embarrassing Moment On Campus by BRATISLAVA: 11:46pm On Oct 24, 2019 |
Here for the comments |
Events › Re: How Do You Feel When A Billionaire Speaker Makes Very Short Speech At An Event? by BRATISLAVA: 8:39pm On Oct 24, 2019 |
Don't you know a lot of the glitz and glamor is all lies? When a billionaire needs to to buy tickets to his speech then you know he's not really a billionaire but a shady infopreneur. |
Politics › Re: Ministry Of Communications, Digital Economy: Communication Ministry Changes Name by BRATISLAVA: 9:02am On Oct 24, 2019 |
valentineuwakwe: Nigeria and big name, what has this got to do with the poor services most telcos are giving Nigerians. .. it's for the purposes of tax, not Telco services |
Education › Re: My Experience Teaching In Zaria by BRATISLAVA: 7:05pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
dominique: He was not assaulted was he? Some Southerners could have assaulted him if their kids come home to tell them that they're being taught about same sex marriage. Is it not in the same south that gays are striped naked, beaten up and paraded on the street? That's not barbaric? We lynch petty thieves down south while the Northerners hand thieves over to the police. Let's remove the logs from our eyes before removing the specs from the eyes of others. The op wants to make the northerners look uncivilized but he failed woefully actually, they chop off the arms of thieves. It takes a lot to be a thief in certain places. |
Health › Re: Always Sanitary Pad Removes Feminine Logo To Accommodate Transgender Men by BRATISLAVA: 5:09pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
AryaSand: How can a trangender man who does not have OVARIES have period? Please educate me. because he was born female |
Crime › Re: Undercover Investigation At Ikoyi Prisons By Fisayo Soyombo: Sodomy, Pimping by BRATISLAVA: 2:45pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Sex for marks Ghana lecturer supporters in the house, over to you. |
Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 11:08am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12: still not a good place to be sarcastic tho ,just saying. perhaps not. But the people quoting me to insult me will still have to carry their words. I don't see why people can't read and understand. |
Science/Technology › Re: Escaped Kano Lion Eats Ostrich As Zookeepers Mull Killing Animal (video) by BRATISLAVA: 10:50am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Why is it that they never had an emergency procedure for the escape of a dangerous animal? |
Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 10:45am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12: this is a sensitive issue ,you cant blame anyone for not reading to the end. but you read. Even as it was sensitive. Reacting before the end is the cause of most issues. People bring hurt to themselves by being impatient. When I don't read, I don't comment. |
Family › Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 10:39am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Duggedised12: this is not the time nor the place for sarcasm shuo ,na was for you o  lol. But people should've read to the last line before reacting |
Romance › Re: Nairaland Guys Are Damn Hyprocrite!!! by BRATISLAVA: 10:02am On Oct 21, 2019 |
Pettyprincess: I also will like to appreciate these monikers that commented on that thread without insult or taking it personal or defended me in one way or the other. grandster,Mstick,Funmmyastic, You're welcome. Don't let insecure little minded black boys who adore white ladies and marry the great grandmothers for papers make you feel that you cannot be desired and loved by a white man who has good intentions for you. Do you. |