Crime › Re: NDLEA Operatives Storm Edo Forests, Destroy Hectares Of Cannabis Farms by bravehost4u(m): 5:34am On Sep 20, 2021 |
It's called weed for a reason.. Cut it down and it will grow again. Burn it down and everyone gets high |
Politics › Re: Obadiah Mailafia Was Hounded By DSS Till He Died - Sowore by bravehost4u(m): 10:38pm On Sep 19, 2021 |
We know the end, no more surprises.. Sowore when are you moving to APC |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why The Living Faith Church Salary Is Fine by bravehost4u(m): 9:12am On Sep 19, 2021 |
judedwriter: You are 100% right.
I notice for some time now whenever I soak myself in God's Word and power, I am favoured financially.
Even when I was poorly paid back then as an employee pastor, I was very frustrated and almost gave up my calling.
But glory be to God, God's blessings are not determined by our income. I love your last sentence |
Crime › Re: Video Of Soldier, Amos Adorable Sobosu Royal Motivating Pupils Before Death by bravehost4u(m): 5:52pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
Chidexter: He forgot one other thing.
I shall make good decisions in Life. By choosing this profession he made a terrible decision.
RIP comrade Don't forget that young men like him paid the ultimate price so that I can sleep with my eyes closed and you can hide behind your keyboard to type rubbish. I am sure you must be older than the boy. Coward |
Christianity Etc › Re: Son Of Pastor Who Married Member's Wife Posts Loved Up Family Photos Of Pastor by bravehost4u(m): 7:09pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
wahala no dey finish |
Politics › Re: UAE Designates Six Nigerians As Global Financiers Of Terrorism by bravehost4u(m): 12:01pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
rayvelez: The list is not complete if Isa Pantami name is not among the list. Muhammed Ibrahim Isa ... you can make research on his full names |
Celebrities › Re: Wedding Pictures Of Trikytee And His Wife by bravehost4u(m): 9:33pm On Sep 08, 2021 |
MadamVanessa: Congratulations to them.
Still patiently waiting for my prince charming, that will be able to do justice to my pusssy the way and manner i want it. If you can't go down and suck the hell out of me, then me and you cannot relate. Congrats, you have discovered your purpose in life |
Education › Re: Fumigation: Katsina University Expels Snakes, Other Reptiles From Campus by bravehost4u(m): 3:46pm On Sep 07, 2021 |
if you want to make front page, just write anything snake and voila you are there |
Family › Re: Christian Oluchukwu Nwodia Missing Person: Please Have You Seen This Guy? by bravehost4u(m): 3:12am On Sep 06, 2021 |
Try contacting his business to know if him actually got there. You can liase with the police to track down his last known location via his mobile number. Or last called on his line. From your explanations and his pic, it seems he is a POS agent.
I wish you the best and all the Grace you will need |
Sports › Re: The New Adamasingba Stadium In Ibadan (Photo) by bravehost4u(m): 10:49pm On Sep 01, 2021 |
Brown roof HQ |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Visited Your N-Power Physical Verification Centre? by bravehost4u(m): 5:47pm On Sep 01, 2021 |
Abeg when are they paying |
Travel › Re: "It Cost Me 2.5 Million To Live In Nigeria For Two Months" - Uk-based Woman by bravehost4u(m): 10:57am On Aug 31, 2021 |
Dorlarphor10: E dey pain you ni Hahaahaha, why e go pain me? Abi you go live forever? |
Business › Re: CBN Partners With Bitt Inc For eNaira, Shuns Nigerian Fintech Companies by bravehost4u(m): 10:56am On Aug 31, 2021 |
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Travel › Re: "It Cost Me 2.5 Million To Live In Nigeria For Two Months" - Uk-based Woman by bravehost4u(m): 9:43am On Aug 31, 2021 |
AlhajiBitcoin: There is serious difference bro.
The person living on salad and vegetables will live longer and look younger.
It was yesterday they said christiano Ronaldo has the body of a 22 year old boy and his diet was listed for us.
I'm going back to that thread to copy it. We all go die, Las las |
Travel › Re: "It Cost Me 2.5 Million To Live In Nigeria For Two Months" - Uk-based Woman by bravehost4u(m): 9:32am On Aug 31, 2021 |
AlhajiBitcoin: What we eat in Nigeria is not food.
Can the reader mention the last time he or she ate salad. How is salad better than my well cooked Egusi soup and better fufu |
Travel › Re: "It Cost Me 2.5 Million To Live In Nigeria For Two Months" - Uk-based Woman by bravehost4u(m): 9:26am On Aug 31, 2021 |
Hotel bill #25,000 × 60days = #1.5m Feeding in hotel= #2,500 per meal × 3 Square meal × 60 days = #0.45m Logistics and other expenses = #0.55m Total= #2.5m
That is some people 3 years salary and dem still dey ok...
#itiswhatitis |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Npower: Deployment Have Started, Please Check Your NASIMS Portal by bravehost4u(m): 7:36am On Aug 27, 2021 |
Confirmed |
Career › Re: N15,000 Salary In Ibadan Or N10,000 Salary In Osun? by bravehost4u(m): 2:12pm On Aug 25, 2021 |
If she gets tips on a daily while delivering her job, then she can survive. For me I will suggest she chooses Ibadan because of more opportunities |
Crime › Re: N50k For Anyone Who Can Get This Criminal Who Uses Charm To Burgle Cars In Warri by bravehost4u(m): 11:02am On Aug 25, 2021 |
just get a big Caucasian shepherd and a Rott, then we go know whether jazz dey work |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: N-Power: How To Check Your Shortlising/selection Status Using *45665# by bravehost4u(m): 2:26pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
KingAttitude: https://chat.what sapp.com/JslYcEmBQEcDhnxmW2lqlB `Join the WhatsApp group above for Npower updates as it unfolds✓ . NOTE:: Don't forget to remove the space I left between "what" & "sapp" before pasting on your browser joined... thanks |
Education › Re: 2020 PTDF Overseas Scholarship In France, Germany, China And Malaysia by bravehost4u(m): 4:06pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
Velv: Please if I have Canada school admission letter, can ptdf sponsor me? My brother, i dont have an answer for this question. I am new in this too |
Education › Re: 2020 PTDF Overseas Scholarship In France, Germany, China And Malaysia by bravehost4u(m): 1:48pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
onispark: I’m a PhD applicant and didn’t get an invite. I’m really sad because I was relying on this. It's OK to feel sad but understand that there are better and more opportunities for you out there. So don't give up |
Education › Re: 2020 PTDF Overseas Scholarship In France, Germany, China And Malaysia by bravehost4u(m): 1:41pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
Finally the wait is over, I did not get any mail. Congrats to those successful, I tap into your blessings |
Travel › Re: A Northeast Travel Guide For The Unhinged by bravehost4u(m): 6:12am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Thanks for this wonderful story.. Reading it actually took me on the same journey. Based on my experience in the North I can relate well. I wish you can finish the rest of the story |
Car Talk › Re: Want To Buy A Car, Experts Should Advice Me Pls. by bravehost4u(m): 5:46pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Barbsamiin: Hello! experts in the house good day to you all,
I want to buy my first car, And all of the cars in naija its only mercedez impresses me. is it ok to buy 1.5m c230 or i should save more and buy foreign one.? Please experts in the house should advice me cause i don't want mechanic's friendship, Lols. hope you have the muscle for maintenance. My Friend that got a Naija used Benz has virtually turned into a Mechanic. Go for Corolla or Camry and experience peace |
Food › Re: This Breakfast I Gave My Husband by bravehost4u(m): 4:48pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
This is Sacrifice |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Buys Hair With Money Given To Her By Boyfriend To Start A Business by bravehost4u(m): 8:49pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Her looks is her business and she needs to sell her market well to get better pay... please wetin una wan hear again? |
Education › Re: 2020 PTDF Overseas Scholarship In France, Germany, China And Malaysia by bravehost4u(m): 7:42am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Please sorry if may sound this way, but I thought PTDF would get admission for those qualified, or do we start now to process the admission on our own in anticipation of winning the scholarship? |
Crime › Re: 10-Year-Old Bello Abdulkadir Ado, A Vigilante Member In Katsina Carrying Gun by bravehost4u(m): 9:29am On Aug 04, 2021 |
And a useless policeman was there watching |
Education › Re: 2020 PTDF Overseas Scholarship In France, Germany, China And Malaysia by bravehost4u(m): 9:51pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
Can we know our fate already? I am tired of these wait |
Forum Games › Re: ~<<The Last Person To Post In This Thread Wins>>~ by bravehost4u(m): 6:32am On Jul 28, 2021 |
Ok |
Family › Re: Well, She Called Off Our Wedding. by bravehost4u(m): 10:10am On Jul 24, 2021 |
don4real18: Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story. ______________________________________________ Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.
Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.
Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.
We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.
I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.
Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.
I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.
She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.
We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.
We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.
She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.
I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.
I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.
God bless us all. Congrats brother as you have been delivered of an impending mistake you almost made. Let her go!!! Do not put yourself under pressure over wedding ceremonies besides it is not our culture. White Wedding is the white man tradition, I am sure her so-called pastor would have advised her to do what she did. Believe me bro, you are just one lucky chap... You guys were strangers before you met her and you were doing just fine. Who said you cannot be perfect strangers once again. |