₦airaland Forum

itsmeurLady:
You seem to know much about Pastor Anita, all your posts are centered around her... Well like you said, she alone knows the reason why she didn't come for the wedding... Maybe she didn't want unwanted memories coming back to her, I can only take lessons from their separation, I do not judge her because only Christ knows what she tolerated and endured. It is Well, as long as the daughter understands, peace and happiness for both parties is what matters at the end of the day. Women should never be victims, women should not be the only one making sacrifices in the home, it goes both ways!

Hey Ma'am. Remember me? We talked on watsapp sometime back, could u send me a message. I lost contacts. We were discussing sexual abstinence...

LadySarah:
Move on sweetie,no time to waste time for book writers ,who will like TM claim they are writing it to teach others , whereas they are after money.
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Chai!,this thing will pain that Yoruba girl wella.
I just pity their son in all these

Gosh! Without knowing what really went on between them.... if u are really a lady, pls solemnly say an amen to have -"that Yoruba Girl's fate" since sense and common sympathy has refused to fall on you.

She is one of the best comedians. She is just so authentic and her acting is good.

While some people keep calling some people overweight, and be merciless. u dn't know their struggles, seems she has a health condition that makes her this way, maybe she is on some medications.

Plus she still works out. I hope people also know that a person that is called fat can be more fit than a skinny person, why? Because they work out and eat healthy even if not showing in their weight yet. They will have stable blood sugar no high blood pressure etc... While you are trying to disagree or agree just visit my blog sha www.yourhealthattitude.com Namaste!

Chigul! I love you and one day I will meet u. Aymen!

naijaoppotunity:
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I feel same way too because I’m a Nigerian too….but hey, like it or not, this is your country. No place like home.
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Looks good, but are you Making money from the biz or trying to sell us info on how to do the biz?

Emytini:
Please more light cos i can't see the groom's face

Wikid! My worry is he might stain her with his color!

buhariguy:
Pdp and gang-up,

Meanwhile it is tambuwal that is ganging up against the rest candidates.

Mike omere, thief wike guy.
Is this not a prove that thief wike is working for tambuwal, by appointing DG for tambuwal.

sorry which DG was appointed for Tambuwal

Same. Mail will come, in time.

Never watched the senseless show called BB Naija but how is wheel chair and others same to buying another lady a car just like that and going on to say African mentality so u think even a white woman would be okay with that? So many brain dead people! But then it's her marriage.

vingeophysicist:
I was just saying you didn't make any tangible point base on your comment in respect to the op's point and you decided to insult me and tag me as unreasonable.
I really don't want to reply you because I respect women.You are acting strong but I know people like you are very fragile. I will not insult you, because if I do....

well sorry, wasn't my own error, you apparently failed to see who I quoted, which my comment was referring to and not the poster. Besides your comment was in no way polite in the first place, even if I was referring to the OP.

vingeophysicist:
you didn't make any reasonable point.

Only the reasonable can identify reasonable points! Decipher that!

dairykidd:
That guys comment is way too harsh sha.. People keep forgetting everyone faces a particular type of challenge in life & trying to make one feel less of a human being isn't the best way to go about it.

Don't mind the silly rabbit, everyone's story is different. Ladies who support this too, whether married or single never boast about anything in life because it's not by ur doing, and things could change any moment.

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

Do you understand the fact somebody somewhere will read ur comment and actually feel it's time to end their life and do it? That makes you a what? A silent killer. Do you understand that there are ladies in their 30s plus who are decent, living honestly but it just happens to be their life trial that they haven't found a companion yet, especially because men who make comments like you exist? Do you understand what the tag evening newspaper is doing to women who didn't choose to be so? Do you know the concept of keep quiet if you have nothing good to say? You are just a waste of air and space meant for other human beings. Ladies stay strong and true to ur selves o. Love is ageless, u can always find who is true. Please don't settle.

So it's a dancing senator that should have been voted in. Davido needed his uncle to win o! Atleast he can finally buy her the private jet true true. Young man pls go and serve before they tell you no NYSC certificate to continue practicing as a musician cuz this is Nigeria.

Simplep:
E pain am o,,keep on ranting wailer,i dnt hv ur time...i already told u u got my last quote,eleribu

Sure you don't know ur father? Do you? Like I am certain u are a baby factory product hence your half brain. I hope you finally looked in the mirror and said to yourself "I am stupid, and senseless, I don't know my worth as a woman and until I do I will continue to remain stupid". Let's keep at this, little girl.

Newmanluckyman:
...if truly you are a woman I am very much impressed with your reasoning faculty. You are very much intelligent.

Lolz! Yes I am truly a woman and thank you.

Jozzy4:
Tanks for the advice, I will.

That's why it's in quote , so it can never be quoted .

Oh I see. Lolz! In any case this is Nairaland, to be on here one has to have thick skin.

Jozzy4:
No, am a man ... Well, that's what the world has become , am glad reading your comments which shows at least some conscience are Still functioning , I like having morally sound ones like you as friends , , Keep it up .

thanks. Do take ur number off NL tho. Not safe

highqueen:
and you later dashed out your number after screaming like a bulldog, reason i hate hypocrites like you.
We have seen you.
And dont even qoute, i wont go down to your level of hypocrisy.

who are u quoting? Seems ur confused! Too quick to comment. High queen, what are u high on?

Daeylar:
OK then.

How do they get away with these acts though? Isn't it when people refuse to call them the same names they call ladies and instead give these men passes for no other reason than their gender? Just like you tried to do tbh.

Once again, Tagged hoes by who? It's human beings that give them these tags, Won't it stop if people just stop tagging them ONLY as hoes and instead give the tag to all genders or to none at all?

But I don't think all these girls came to you to complain about their pregnancy or abortion, or put their "burden" of pregnancy or abortion on you, though, sooo.... Why are you bothered?

I got your point but I have issues with it

Was just wondering why you cared about how many people a lady has slept with, it would only make sense if you are gay or bi, or pan and have a specific lady as a partner and you are interested in that specific lady's history, then it would make sense

This is cool,

Cool also

Will answer you best way I can. The tags are just still a reality of our society we must live with, it isn't appearing to shift soon, tags used to subdue socially and even politically in the bigger picture.

Why does who gets pregnant or is having an abortion bother me? We live in a web like society don't we, like the human blood vessels, all interlinked, so tell me how what is happening to one part doesn't affect the other. You don't see the multiplier effect of these actions on us all. I guess because u are coming from the what is ur business angle, well I am concerned for a woman destroying her body and sending babies to death because she kept opening her legs, that's troubling. I am troubled at the increasing number of babies without present daddies or mummies, who sometimes grow to be the gangstar that will come and stab someone I know in the streets or rob them or get married and be unstable because they had a shaky upbringing. I am disturbed about bringing my own kids into this kind of society of wanton abortions and pregnancies. I am disturbed because we are destroying the family unit with things like cohabiting, baby mamas, wanton sex and abortions. I am disturbed that there are people who think it's not my business so what's ur own. To me that is the bigger picture. Excess freedom is exactly how we are securing our undoing.

Jozzy4:
The lady is not wise, the problem with the set of women in this generation is their thinking is too dull, which is why men easily use them as sex objects

Hi, you just made my morning awesome. Because sometimes I get depressed wondering how men and women could be thinking like this. I wonder if there are still sane and morally upright people left anywhere, worse part is a person spreading their ignorance with so much confidence. I thought ur a guy but I guess from ur posts ur a lady, right? But anyways, we'll all learn somehow from life. Ladies should just stop letting a men abuse us.

DaddyNimo:
so it's wrong to cohabit cos it might lead to sex, but it's not wrong to live apart and have sex regularly abi? what's the difference btw the two? knack and stay or knack and go and come back.

All wrong DaddyNimo! There is a lot that could be said about cohabiting beyond sex, I can't be typing long thing. Relationships do exist without knacking, and people need to stop thinking abt only sex morning and night abeg. Later same people will come and insult Nigeria and Africa, when they always channel energy and though into the wrong things. I digress, none is right morally speaking. Shebi it's cohabiting we were asked about not premarital sex.

Shugavee:
u know nothing about life!!! Shiiiiiiiii

Thank you, and you that has the perfect formula for life, let it work for u. You need not tell me what to know about life, our narratives could never be the same. Bye!

EfeJay:
As for me. I'm not doing wifey shet for any body I'm not married to. Cohabit kor. Cohabit ni . You've not heard of 'due process'

Epp us ask them o! U know ur value jare!

Premiumwriter:
hanty,

The question is, is it wrong or right

Hunku! I was buying land na! Point expanded now.

Simplep:
Are u minding dat dumby?,babe was jst fuming at me as if I'm d cause of her frustration

Searching for supporters. I can actually sense ur own frustrated vibes cuz that's what is pushing you to plan cohabiting! Desperation and frustration! Cuz I dnt knw how a woman meant to think highly of herself and see herself as a queen will stoop that low, even after men here quoted you telling you what cohabiting means for them. I dn't knw why u can't also explain why many people, celebrities cohabit for years, yet can't stay married for a year. Since ur theory is for u to know each other and see if u can live together. You can't even validate what u are saying with facts, just emotions. Lass lass na you be dumby.

Simplep:
Compete?..who is competing with u?...all dis holier dan thou girls,u people do worst tins behind closed doors,i have neva lived with a man bt i dnt see anything wrong it as long as they as they both are grown ups....its a harmless post,drop ur opinion and get out,nt attacking people

Just the way men like to use Feminist to shame ladies for having an opinion or a voice, people like you like to use holier than thou to cower people. Now Open ur ears, I am not forming holier than thou. I am saying what I think and believe in, I don't do anything funny behind closed doors or outside. I am not also trying to prove myself to u either, but understand that there are people who mean what they say and practice what they preach. Please, by all means, feel free to cohabit when the opportunity comes, cuz believe me experiencing a thing is always berra. In school, u are taught a lesson then given a test, in real life you are given a test that teaches u a lesson.

Daeylar:
Where is your anger and sermon towards the men? Aren't they hoes too?
Aren't the men dumb asses too for sleeping with the ladies too?
How many girls will these dumb ass men sleep with in the name of cohabiting before they marry lass lass?
And Why the hell are you interested in how many people someone (who isn't your partner) has slept with in the first place?

what you have said I have addressed countless times all over NL even under this thread, I can't begin repeating myself. I am sure u also address things as they arise and give a particular angle in that moment. So I may not talk about men here but I always do, in the end they are the real problems but fact is they get away with these acts, while ladies get tagged hoes, or get pregnant or have to abort, so who carries the bigger burden? Hope u get the point. As for ur last question, I dnt understand what ur asking. However personally I dnt want to end up with someone with a ridiculous body count, like has slept with all his female friends, neighbors, married friends etc. Abeg, I can't be trying to be upright and end up with that kind of male hoe! So it matters to me, I dnt mean u have to begin telling how and where u did what but that kind of history of excess can't be hidden. If I know I will rather shift.

Simplep:
Ur opinion,,,and does cohabiting means sex to u?,u don't hav a point,so get off my mentions,i know of a lady,she married a virgin and she stayed with her hubby for 6months bfore dey got married,nt all men are sex starved,cohabiting with ur man is necessary especially when u are really matured(25 upwards) like i said bfore,nt for babies...dats my opinion, so deal with urs

haaahaha! Cohabiting doesn't mean sex! Standing ovation for you! I can see your wisdom. Even from the way you type, your maturity is way up there, I can't even begin to compete.

Impregnable101:
As for me, i don't entertain it. U can not come spoil my bachelorhood for me

Man gats wipe many girls before marriage

Guys can get away with saying things like this, without being called male hoes, so what are you? The community ***k? If you think it's okay to wipe many before marriage, what will stop you after marriage. Just be entering differ evil spirits till u can't recognize urself in the mirror again one day.

Twoclans:
Its a capital NO for me,not because I am morally upright but because I love my space

so u are not morally upright? And if u love your space how will u now still marry later and share the space?

odinga1of:
Everyone shouting "Wrong" so who are those lodging girls in school and my neighborhood??

Naija girls and hypocrisy

The ones that don't do it, never done it and never will. So make them no talk? You can't just assume every one is a hypocrite.