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It's sad! I have personally walked out on plenty jobs, abuse I will never take, once a place is toxic and I feel like not showing up at work then it's time to leave. Many bosses will go to hell because they are oppressors. But then, sadly not every body has that choice, or that will, some just have to endure and some don't have strong thoughts that direct their lives. Hence they stay in a bad situation.

A boss should be kind and considerate. The employee is equally rendering a service to you.

Yankiss:
Beyond the response and back to the topic: What Education did Genevieve really need? The point is clear. Men need to control themselves. The high incidence or rape is alarming. I think too that bad dressing accounted for a good percentage of that. But not all as can be seen here, as seen too in the rape of minors. Rape has become a continental catastrophe. The girl child is no more safe even in the hands of relatives. Something has to be done.

Thank you! I wish your post made it to the first page, because most comments on this topic sitting on first page were made by idiots. Rape is a growing sickening problem, its her bloody page she can block whoever! Men need to be taught early in life to treat females well and respect their dignity! Porn is one of the problems. Men and women need to play their parts well.

Ofcourse the cow shouldn't be eaten, it should be kept for sight seeing and world wonders! But did anyone else read the cows name is KNICKERS and it had a friend called BRA. Looolz! Knickers and Bra. Some names.

kayteajay111:
I called an officer and even sent the said message here to him, he said it's not real.

Hi. Pls did the person let you know when specifically they will release any new info or list?

stuffs4me:
Lol.. I can't stop laughing

See who's talking about self esteem. You went and got married to a glutton who eat herself to become a whale. How is that our fault.

You have low self esteem which is why you can't date and marry a young beautiful slim lady. Stay with your old fat cow and stop bringing your perssonal mumu frustrations online to disturb normal people in healthy relationships

and you are the normal people, insulting another without valid points, because all persons were created to be slim, abi? Because slim cannot become fat under ur nose, from children, from health issues, from life issues.

If you don't stop looking beyond the physical, you will end up more than frustrated. Pele Mister Self esteem.

Richdad50:
They both look like Childhood friends. I think they are happy atleast from the pics. Many young nairaland men do not understand the architecture of conjugation in marriages. They think its all the hollywood idea but fail to understand that happiness and sexual contentment in marriages is deeply rooted in friendship.

I laugh at these small nairalanders when they trash women of shapes and colors for their weight and stretches. I wonder what their future darling wives would be after three kids. Moreso, they forget they won't have total control over their wife's weight gain or loss or the stretches lined accross the stomach.

Low self esteem is often covered up in mockery and the desire to fall in line with a crowd.

#RichdadDarts

In an era when sense, logic, decorum is on an all time high low! Comments like yours are golden. Standing ovation for you. Ignore the nay sayers and sawdust brains, that's how they enter unions for the wrong reasons and blame others later. Now following you. Been seeing ur good posts.

Biguyman:
Afonjas no just get sense.

Only bleaching and rape dey sabi

Kikiki! Abeg na let's stop all these name tagging and calling a particular people this and that! It will be better for us that way.

Animalistic behavior on public display by so called celebrity! Femi Adebayo was just on Instagram doing same in name of acting. Nollywood and trash content!

els0nm0rali:
I wouldn't judge you harshly but the fact that you would actually pay someone to attend school for you tells a lot about who you are.

Bad luck doesn't just happen. Most often we attract to ourselves what we get.

The kind of women you've dated are the kind you find attractive and attract to yourself.

Good Nigerian women won't feel attractive to you. That's the truth.

I hope you'll find peace.

I will sleep in peace tonight, knowing that out there there are still people who are sane and actually think. I respect you so much for this,whoever you be! The OP poisoned my day with his toxic posts! Gosh!

mimimile93:
Brightgem

is that your child! Or what you hope a man like you does to ur child one day! Hope u have seen my comment under the sorry ass story you wrote about ur upside down life which you blame women for!

We should write Thailand Government about a potential nut case living in their country, and show them all his posts! But then we don't want you back in Nigeria! Remain there biko!

That said, I can't have you becoming obsessed with an awesome woman like me! This one you have started quoting me upandan! Hence this is the last time I will pay an you any attention. From this moment. You cease to exist.

milemimi93:
I learnt two lessons last month.


1. Certain things are not for everybody.

Relationship/Marriage isn't for me.


2. The more you harbor hatred, the more nightmares you have.

hmmm.... See where all his bitterness is coming from. In all these, u don't see ur own faults! Dude slept with a woman who was bout getting married! She is a prostitute but he is a not! Dude kept getting in and out of relationships after like 3 months and he couldn't see his life had a pattern all these years! It was always the women's fault, never his own fault. Even inside a scam, dude expected not to be scammed, wanted to get fake degree and was still shouting when he got scammed. Bush meat catch hunter! Dude saw so called chats that ex killed his father, but did dude ever wonder if maybe, just maybe friend of ex was lying! Ex told dude that he will die like his father if not careful, who says this kind of thing even during a misunderstanding? ! Yet dude still said she was good and he loved her till she showed herself.

A person who basically kept doing the same thing and expecting different results! A person unable to identify his own pattern! A person who is talking about 7year old love, like kids have sense at that age?! A person who has confessed to murdering another person! A person who thinks women should be raped! Ha ha! This is a dude that enjoys his own bitterness and we must let him, we don't preach, we don't advice! Keep hurting! Keep abusing! You are no different than the people you accuse! Or are u a Saint? An angel?

We just pray we don't cross paths with people like him. Amin! That's why I stay indoors more, do my work and get paid! Less contact with dysfunctional people like this! Daaaaayuuum!!

mimimile93:
Yes I have a problem. My problem is that the hoe behind the moniker @Brightgem needs to be gangraped in the ass for sayin it's ok for a hoe like her to use money meant for cookin to buy sharwama.

kikiki! Ur so bitter, so sad on the inside! What's eating up ur soul mind and body?! You were the same dude that said women are this and that you can't get married etc.. I even recall trying to have a sane conversation with you! You seemed a bit reasonable at the time. I even wished to win you over. You probably have a multiple personality disorder.

You think it's only u that had seen pain, some of us have seen worse dished out from ur own men folks but chose to live above it. To understand that there are good and bad people. Simple.

I am above all the ugly names you so want to nail on me! And I will never be a victim of such fate cuz I lived my life being decent, loyal honest... And more u can't comprehend.

If you can't understand that indeed there are women with goodness in them, and all u want to do is keep abusing them saying degrading things like this, that's ur problem. Its just a reflection of your own inner problems and complex. Deal with life abeg and let's hear word! Keep shouting over 2k shawarma matter! I thought you needed to picked up before but now I realise ur already a prisoner of your own thoughts and your own life. Hence I can only pity you!

mimimile93:
I think u are d psycho here if u supot a girl who uses money meant to cook to buy sharwama for herself.


Rape should be legalized please.

If rape was legal I think a lot of hoes will learn how not to fvck with em real nggas..

U messed with me, I rape u. We will settle it at the court of law..

As I said no one has been able to tell you, you have a problem! But thanks for dropping this comment! This is a perfect implication of yourself.

highqueen:
Lool. Nobi only abortion.

It's like you have paid several ladies to abort for your own child that you now think that every other lady is like your exes you have murdered and the ones you have killed because they have refused to abort for you.

Your mum made a terrible mistake by allowing you see the light of the day, that day you were born.
And as for your information, was not yet in school as at 2013.
There was an ASUU strike too.

Biko, ka chi fo.

Stop exchanging words with someone with sawdust for a brain! Some people can so drag you down to their level you begin to wonder where you are!

mimimile93:
On an empty stomach meaning?

Oh! Do u think im d one who will raped her?

I will pay the whole boys in the hood to do the job while I watch.

They will rape her till she bleeds..

somebody should find this guy or whatever owns this account and arrest it! Nairaland just has no regulations! This is a psycho on the loose! A mental abnormality! Seems u don't know what rape means.
You are not okay but nobody has told you yet.

As for the topic that girl might be able to cook well, but it Could be what she really means is she wnt do wifely duties for some man! Is not by cooking and washing for all these babies that say they are men! Like this potential rapist that wants to die because of 2k.

SweetBuns:
A retired olosho meets a mumu nice guy...
Which decent woman tattoos her legs?
I just pity the man.

what are you even saying! Birds of a feather are attracted to each other! Nice guy my foot! Since ur judging her by looks what makes him look responsible? That hairstyle?! If he is nice guy, tell me why he is attracted to her?! They are same. Stop pitying.

Between, those who bring their wedding or pre wedding pic to NL... I just wonder! What are you trying to achieve... With so many foul mouthed people hiding behind phones to spew poison at others! Everyone here is a guilty of that at one time or other.

Kessykelly:
I know our ladies will not read this

we read it and even doubt the authenticity and facts herein presented! Hence more research needed!

TheGreenLand:
Not everyone is like you guys, that cannot be disciplined to keep your little John Thomas in your trouser!
Shameless peeps!

Haaahaahaha! Good to know some guys are disciplined! This sounds like a story! But man or woman should not sexually harass the other! This one even using it as blackmail, threat! Pay him his money! Shameless woman. More people should start learning when to utilize their phones to capture activities like this! Don't carry big phone and no sense!

mamatwiny:
I know the feeling. But she shouldn't have announced it.
No lady wants an ex ( that broke ur heart) to be better than her. Fact. The guy must have been hurt by the AS news and probably not happy.

She is happy the guy is tasting unhappiness that was dished to her.

Korrekt!

Abeg celebrate weh weh! They say ur bitter, haven't moved on! Beht how many of them know ur pain, that you are just human. That unlike some of them who a relationship its just like another plate of indomie, they can order another one, you valued ur relationship and ur pain is also valid! Karma is sweet. That is all I know. When someone does u bad! Karma is sweet! But then it's a twitter story. We dnt believe those people!

So can be bitter and angry sometimes, but working on moving on. Working on healing so Y'all should shattap and stop telling a hurt person how to react!

desiregold:
Useless girls who got pregnant by useless guys.

Issue of contraceptive is not just a one gender thing. we all owe it to ourselves to play and stay safe.

The hypocritical nature of Nigerian guys its just annoying. Are those girls getting pregnant by themselves?

You come to Nairaland to insult only girls.., and i ask you to swear with your life that you have never had unprotected sex before?

Ask them o! Ladies are hoes! Ladies are baby mamas! Who is the sleeping with them and giving them belle? Ladies like money, when all you have to offer is money! These men don't seem to understand they have a big role to play in making society better.

Josh44s:
Useless girls.

kikiki! Let's agree some of them are useless, cuz u dnt know which one is rape or real reasons for the abortion! But then? Abeg na who dey give them the belle wey them dey flush out? Men! So all those babies killed, their fathers have a share in the killing whether they know of the baby or not. Since they couldn't practice common abstinence or protection.

Brunosamel:
Let me be frank with you Life has tought me lesson especially relationship.... Thank God you are finally saved, you need to thank her for being honest with you... Who even told you she is the best omo fashi! You will meet another that will beat her hands down in all aspect but mind you need to be careful brother with the way you going about with money in your relationship is not good for young guys like us.... Look for decent girls with good background and home training they are many of them out there, fall in love with there character and make her to fall in love with your qualities and pontentials, brush her up to your own teast and I swaear you will be a moving train I swear to you brother you never in your life regret it...

Awww! Thank you for believing there are decent girls out there! Not all these nairaland boys with fish brain that wnt stop insulting and degrading women! The good and decent ladies hereby give you a standing ovation.

hahahahahaha:
Why do you still love someone like her? How can you not tell that she only loves your money? I feel really bad for you OP; but I must tell you the truth, you have no self-esteem. The only thing that gives you confidence is money, and you used that money to buy what you thought was love, but she didn't love you after everything; she only wanted your money. If you ever bounce back, please don't go near that vacuum of a girl. Find a girl that loves you and can pay her bills; they exist.

After reading this comment. I realise you have said all there is to say! OP better move on thank ur stars and also change ur mindset. It seems u are looking for validation and confidence through her love! Keep begging and she will continue to abuse you! No love here! Go on and make a good life for yourself... Better forget her, we all have that one person in our lives we almost beg to stay with us, but when we move past it we see how stupid we were. LET HER BE! Grow ur self for now.

Praktikals:
9/10 African women dont treat their step-children nicely. Dont argue with me if you are not from a polygamous home. As for the 3rd leg that is only active on the bed, 9/10 is an exaggeration. Lets just say 7/10. And please dont blame us, na una dey tempt us with all the packaging

Yeah! Yeah! Keep trading and shifting the blames! Apparently you don't like the fingers pointing at you! Now who is the responsible for the polygamous homes?! Ha ha! Men again! And many men who are from polygamous homes and know these things still end up in polygamy. Untill men go back to taking responsibility and understanding their natural role to lead! They shd stop crying abt what women do! Men want to sleep with a cheap, naked and available woman but want a decent wife! Double standards.

jaafree:
just as how girls like u used their puna to think rather than their brains this days , ohh! talking about an oracle, I would rather ask your Puna, how about that

Standing ovation for confirming your stupidity. Go back to your mother, get on your knees and beg her to give you a better training! Or maybe she trained you well you just choose uselessness as a lifestyle. Your daughter will only think with her private part all the days of her life for having a useless father. Amen. Done here!

EliteBeautyBlog:
The Menk should brush his teeth first, sorry

Oops..

See my beauty secrets HERE, think he could use some beauty tips..

Beauty secrets and u dnt know what braces are? I think its just hate. Calm down!

Sirdesmond:
There is something we Nigerian students always miss in our lifes and that is independent thinking and creativity, their are lots of problems that are yet unsolved I'm our schools but we don't take our free time to think out the solution, in other to cut the story short. I just came up with a solution to a problem, which will be of very paramount importance in our Nigerian universities and that is meetinschool - meetinschool (http://www.meetinschool.com) , it's a site created to aid students sell or buy goods in any Nigerian institution, let me give you all this secret, you can be the top seller of used phones in your school. How? You could just sign up to meetinschool and start posting goods online for free
Sign up is school based, that is you select your school when registering, when one wants to buy something he/she can search by school.
I think this is one of the things we should be doing during our leisure time

Thanks

Welldone jare! Write people to sponsor or donate to ur idea and make it bigger and reach more people. Many students are doing business in school

Good post! Beht grammar sha...! It's alarming the rise of betting this and that. Get rich quick schemes all the time, die quick!

AryEmber:
Don't tell me you think every lady in that age gap gas had an abortion before

Ignore her. She has saw dust inside her skull calling it sperm. They think everybody opens leg like them. What a stupid statement.

Praktikals:
The guy is right. Where you find a characteristic in 9 out of 10, stereotyping is allowed

yeah like that stereotype that men mostly only think with the thing between their legs hence we are having plenty baby mamas, and an increase in rape cases. So can we all agree then that most men are quite useless! Since it's like 9 out of 10.

sexybaby22:
Not all women ooo.

Its just that sometimes adults tend to pass their life frustrations on little vulnerable kids like this. You know say naija hard. Though some people are naturally not nice.

Oh no, please no justifying this. A child is a child! Innocent and needs protection and love! U don't even transfer aggression on an adult. Let alone a child.