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Politics › Re: Bonny: Oil-rich Island Where Moving In And Out Can Claim Your Life by budaatum: 5:41pm On Apr 06, 2019

Romance › Re: See The Problem Most Handsome Guys Are Having With Ladies (pics). by budaatum: 5:26pm On Apr 06, 2019
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Sounds like that's a good thing!
Christianity Etc › Re: Is The Jehovah's Witness Organisation Christian? by budaatum: 5:06pm On Apr 06, 2019
alBHAGDADI:
Typical of Jehovah's False Witnesses. They point a finger at you but forget that they have four pointing back at them.


Is what you are accussing Olaadegbu of not the same thing you guys do to the Catholic Church in your Awake and Watchtower magazines?
I take it you've said this to Olaadegbu too or does Olaadegbu have only one finger? Or is it that they point four at Catholics so are fair game for Olaadegbu's typical four?

Show me where you told him.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Atheist's Prayer by budaatum: 4:56pm On Apr 06, 2019
We seriously need to stop calling each other liar! Can't it perhaps be that we just aren't being patient enough to understand each other, or is each's intention to impose each's will on each other or annihilate one another?

It's clear to me we're all here to stay and not as neighbours but living closer in this face to face that Seun built that has no twitter or fb so posts we like can be posted on our feed and advertise Nairaland where we spend a lot of effort and time. Where the search facility is crap and we got to jump through hoops to privately talk to each other. No dislike button for stupid posts. Constant post laters, then that bloody spambot bots you for no apparent reason! I don't like face to face living. Too close to each other's business with little space to grow and poo with the sharing of the kitchen and loo. We must be able to evolve so everyone has more space to glow. Or do we like living in this tower of babel that we have created here? Forgive me imposing my will, I have no right, but those with ears be salts on earth, please.


To the face to face landlord.

Landlord, this your face to face needs to evolve. There must be a committee of us working on it for you since we live here too.

Sqand

Squatters Nairaland Association D
Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Is Good For Christians by budaatum: 3:59pm On Apr 06, 2019
TheArranger:
What do you mean 'two day ban'? You've been posting actively since the time of my last response to the time of your own response!

As for your bits, you brought it up. Then again, i probably shouldn't have mentioned you since you clearly have a problem with it. Thus i tender my apologies
Two day ban from my last response here. Got back and couldn't be bothered anymore. It's a silly thread, Arranger. Very beneath you, and mentioning me.
Christianity Etc › Re: I Need Your Help With This Question. It's Urgent. by budaatum: 3:47pm On Apr 06, 2019
Martinez39:
As I have said buda, I am not interested in any of our past discussions anymore. Let's agree to disagree. I know beans is beans regardless of who eats it and you have your own idea on whether beans is beans or not. Shikina.
I do not "agree to disagree" with people who refuse to use their brain but have the audacity to insult buda!
Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Is Good For Christians by budaatum: 3:45pm On Apr 06, 2019
TheArranger:
Yeah, it was a joke fam
You are very fortunate spambot got my response to you and gave me two day ban to calm down!

Don't joke with my bits Arranger, we are not animal!
Christianity Etc › Re: I Need Your Help With This Question. It's Urgent. by budaatum: 3:34pm On Apr 06, 2019
Martinez39:
I will. I need to attend to something. Space booked.
It's not that the space you booked on your very own thread would ever run out 39 but that surely you've had enough time by now considering how much of it you've spent "lying buda" all over the place. Besides, we'd get to determine once and for all if beans is beans or you're just blind.

Here's my question again, in bold so you don't miss it. If you need more time just say.

Please explain to me using the definitions you posted to show me how Muslim Feminist cannot exist?
Christianity Etc › Re: The Atheist's Prayer by budaatum: 3:06pm On Apr 06, 2019
Ihedinobi3:
You still are. What's the difference between one atheist and another when they are both looking at the Truth? None at all.
That's as untrue as saying all Christians see the same truth!
Christianity Etc › Re: The Atheist's Prayer by budaatum:
IAmSabrina:
Cc. Budaatum
He never met atheist buda. I think he ran away from me! And he doesn't accept theist buda. But we working that out.

Edit!
Do note that my "Finally, you admit that the faith of the scientist is a different faith to that held by a believer, which is based on no evidence whatsoever", indicates I suffered from spiritual blindness.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Atheist's Prayer by budaatum: 2:53am On Apr 06, 2019
LordReed:
You, my dear buda, are a whetstone; I appreciate you.
Appreciate you too my Lord.

I found you better evidence. It's hidden in here somewhere.
Politics › Re: How ‘some Judges’ Delivered Onnoghen’s Resignation Letter At Aso Rock by budaatum: 1:33am On Apr 06, 2019
Shut the door please Onnogone.

Good riddance!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Another Nigeria Nab At Saudi Arabia. by budaatum: 1:26am On Apr 06, 2019
Wonder if the trial in secrecy is true. Couldn't find anything on the web!


Abike Dabiri, senior special assistant to the President on foreign affairs and diaspora, told CNN that Nigeria's ministry has been engaging with Saudi authorities for leniency in these cases but said they are shrouded in secrecy.

"These trials are done silently, and we are only told of the outcome after the execution," Dabiri said.

The Saudi Embassy in Nigeria said that Kudirat Adesola Afolabi,, the woman who was executed this week, received legal services throughout her trial and before the death sentence was carried out.
Celebrities › Re: American Celebrity Changed Sex From Man To Woman, Now Regrets It. by budaatum: 1:04am On Apr 06, 2019
At first I was giddy for the fresh start. But hormones and sex change genital surgery couldn't solve the underlying issues driving my gender dysphoria.

I started my transgender journey as a 4-year-old boy when my grandmother repeatedly, over several years, cross-dressed me in a full-length purple dress she made especially for me and told me how pretty I was as a girl. This planted the seed of gender confusion and led to my transitioning at age 42 to transgender female.

I lived as “Laura” for eight years, but, as I now know, transitioning doesn’t fix the underlying ailments.

Transgender woman for 8 years — time I can't get back
Celebrities › Re: American Celebrity Changed Sex From Man To Woman, Now Regrets It. by budaatum: 12:58am On Apr 06, 2019
Christianity Etc › Re: On Subjectivity And Objectivity by budaatum(op): 11:42pm On Apr 05, 2019
Martinez39:
tried, in all your arguments, to suggest that subjective reality is always the case and that objective reality is subjective.
I can't believe you say this with a straight face! How can anyone claim the subjective nonsense they cook up in their head is always the case? Do such people plan to completely ignore all the objective real stuff that surrounds them? And how can objective reality that stands all on its own be subjective?

Thankfully, you don't have to go far to provide objective evidence to justify your claim so if you got any provide it please. Just make sure it is not down to your own subjective inability to comprehend simple English Language.
Christianity Etc › Re: On Subjectivity And Objectivity by budaatum(op): 11:29pm On Apr 05, 2019
Martinez39:
Lying buda. Despite acknowledging objective reality and pointing out it's importance at the beginning, you then fervently tried, in all your arguments, to suggest that subjective reality is always the case and that objective reality is subjective. Oh yes, that has been your arguments so far. What is the photometer? Who or what is the photometric calibrator? I could dig out your posts to show that what I say is the truth but I have lost interest in this argument and other arguments between you and me. Let's agree to disagree and save ourselves precious time.

As for denying that you never said one can live out the principles of Engineering subjectively, here is a post of yours. Good night, lying buda.
You really have problems understanding English, don't you? I never said "one can live out the principles of Engineering subjectively". What I wrote was:

"Research into it alone is mind blowing. Living it subjectively is fascinating. Very enjoyable too. And it gets easy over time."

If you do understand English Language, you'd likely get that the "it"s above all refer to "objectivity", and not engineering as you appear to have misunderstood!

If you build a bridge on or by the created in your head (which is usually what it is) subjectivity, it will most definitely come tumbling down, and that's if you get it off the ground to start with!

I hope that's clear to you now.
Christianity Etc › Re: On The False Doctrine Of Adamic Sin! by budaatum(op): 11:15pm On Apr 05, 2019
Ubenedictus:
Lol, let me suggest you read up ancestral sin from an orthodox/eastern catholic perspective, then read up original sin from an augustinian western perspective then add original sin from the catholic catechism and then total depravity from a protestant perspective...this will show you the different varieties and then u can critique them individually without mixing stuff up.

Do u believe in D adamic story itself?
I have read up on them Uben. They are not exactly new issues. And in fact there's not much difference between them all is what I found. Here's two references for instance (though take neither as the extent of my reading on the topic!).

Original sin is an Augustine Christian doctrine that says that everyone is born sinful. This means that they are born with a built-in urge to do bad things and to disobey God. ... Original sin is not just this inherited spiritual disease or defect in human nature; it's also the 'condemnation' that goes with that fault.

Original sin, also called ancestral sin, is a Christian belief in the state of sin in which humanity has existed since the fall of man, stemming from Adam and Eve's rebellion in Eden, namely the sin of disobedience in consuming the forbidden fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

I don't do belief, Uben. Especially where mythology is concerned, I seek to know and understand instead.
Christianity Etc › Re: On Subjectivity And Objectivity by budaatum(op): 11:01pm On Apr 05, 2019
Ihedinobi3:
PS.: Good subjectivity, of course, begins with objectivity and ends with subjectivity. By accepting reality for what it is, one can apply it in ways that are unique to oneself, but which do not violate the object or principle in question.
Thanks for this, ihe, though I think you might have taken 39's word that I argue for one or the other when the entire thread itself is about the equal importance of both.

Good living begins with understanding that which is subjective and that which is objective and knowing the difference between the two. Subjective thought is how we as subjects, impose our will on objective reality. Without an understanding of how things are (the objective reality), we cannot successfully impose our subjective will to make things how we might like them to be. In science, we first seek for an understanding of the objective reality on which we then create technology by imposing our subjective will on the objective reality we discovered by science. Essentially, we must understand the objective reality in order to successfully “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground”, or we labour in vain. Societies that get this tend to more fruitful on the whole.
Christianity Etc › Re: On Subjectivity And Objectivity by budaatum(op): 10:33pm On Apr 05, 2019
Martinez39:
Biggest lie of the century. You can't live out the principles of engineering subjectively. The principles are objective. Your language might be different but the observation and principles are objective and the same.

Edit: Here you admit recognising and making decisions based on objective reality but I later writings, you turn your back on this arguing for "pure subjective reality" for whatever reason known to you.
You like strawmen don't you! Is it an objective strawman, or a subjective one I wonder.

I never said one can live out the principles of engineering subjectively, 39. Nor did I argue for "pure subjective reality" either. If you can read English Language and understand metaphors you'd understand 'bridges that are not built on objective real facts will stand up as good as pie in the sky and come tumbling down'. And I doubt anyone would get very far if they intend to disregard all the objects that make up the objective reality that may stand in their path and expect to walk through some subjective imaginations in their head. Or do you think I walk through walls with total disregard? Here is two pointing out the importance of objectivity. It's unfortunately in English Language so you might struggle a little as you seem to have done here.

Thanks for the response all the same. It's a wonderful show of how much you know of the terms being discussed if nothing else. Don't forget that response you got me waiting for please once you've finished "attending to something".
Christianity Etc › Re: On The False Doctrine Of Adamic Sin! by budaatum(op): 9:47pm On Apr 05, 2019
Ubenedictus:
Budaatum hope you are not attacking a strawman, there are different versions of adamic sin, ancenstral sin, original sin...etc. Which of the shades are you rejecting
I don't think I am Uben. I assure you that if my parents don't pay my school fees, buy me books, feed and house me so I can study, they are committing a 'sin' which I would bear the consequences of and therefore will gladly call it an ancestral sin since I inherit the hell burning they inflict on me through no fault of my own. But Adamic sin and original sin is mythical, to me.
Christianity Etc › Re: A Scientific Explanation For The Essence Of God by budaatum: 9:40pm On Apr 05, 2019
Christianity Etc › Re: Masturbation Is Good For Christians by budaatum: 9:14pm On Apr 05, 2019
I wonder why I'm mentioned here. Is op intending to masturbate with my bits I wonder.

I smh op!
Christianity Etc › Re: On The False Doctrine Of Adamic Sin! by budaatum(op): 5:42pm On Apr 04, 2019
ichuka:
For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.Romans5:19
When Adam disobeyed God,we all affirm to his decision because we where in him when he ate the fruit.
So,it's not what one does that makes him a sinner,No!but who you are.
Let's assume your name is Budaatom.
You didn't chose the name,for you where born (a) budaatum.whatsoever you do in these life you are a budaatum.
If you become the Pope,Doctor,President or an arm robber you are still budaatum.
Nothing can make you otherwise because of the issue of birth.
Since you are born a budaatum,it's only by death that can make you something other than a budaatum.
It's only by death that one is free from being a sinner.
That's the meaning of the above verse.
I can only inform you that I am not the buda of yesterday not to talk of a year ago or ten. And if I "become the Pope,Doctor,President or an arm robber", I would very definitely be a different buda to the buda of today even if my dna and name remains the same.

A different budaspirit manifests everyday.
Christianity Etc › Re: Benefits Of Reading The Bible by budaatum: 5:14pm On Apr 04, 2019
61. You'd learn how to read!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry & Meghan Sets Record With A Royal Sussex Instagram Account by budaatum: 5:07pm On Apr 04, 2019
They are a cool couple.
Christianity Etc › Re: Anything That Involves Thinking Is Banned In Islam. by budaatum: 5:05pm On Apr 04, 2019
Why now, op huh One single mufti forbids chess in Saudi Arabia and you ban it in the whole of Islam?! If its that easy don't you think he'd ban stealing or murder?
Christianity Etc › Does Your Photometer Work?? by budaatum(op): 4:58pm On Apr 04, 2019
It can be easy to rush through life without stopping to notice much.

Paying more attention to the present moment – to your own thoughts and feelings, and to the world around you – can improve your mental wellbeing.

You can check your mood using this simple mood self-assessment quiz.

Some people call this awareness "mindfulness". Mindfulness can help us enjoy life more and understand ourselves better. You can take steps to develop it in your own life.

What is mindfulness?
Professor Mark Williams, former director of the Oxford Mindfulness Centre, says that mindfulness means knowing directly what is going on inside and outside ourselves, moment by moment.

"It's easy to stop noticing the world around us. It's also easy to lose touch with the way our bodies are feeling and to end up living 'in our heads' – caught up in our thoughts without stopping to notice how those thoughts are driving our emotions and behaviour," he says.

"An important part of mindfulness is reconnecting with our bodies and the sensations they experience. This means waking up to the sights, sounds, smells and tastes of the present moment. That might be something as simple as the feel of a banister as we walk upstairs.

"Another important part of mindfulness is an awareness of our thoughts and feelings as they happen moment to moment.

"It's about allowing ourselves to see the present moment clearly. When we do that, it can positively change the way we see ourselves and our lives."

How mindfulness helps mental wellbeing
Becoming more aware of the present moment can help us enjoy the world around us more and understand ourselves better.

When we become more aware of the present moment, we begin to experience afresh things that we have been taking for granted.

"Mindfulness also allows us to become more aware of the stream of thoughts and feelings that we experience," says Professor Williams, "and to see how we can become entangled in that stream in ways that are not helpful.

"This lets us stand back from our thoughts and start to see their patterns. Gradually, we can train ourselves to notice when our thoughts are taking over and realise that thoughts are simply 'mental events' that do not have to control us.

"Most of us have issues that we find hard to let go and mindfulness can help us deal with them more productively. We can ask: 'Is trying to solve this by brooding about it helpful, or am I just getting caught up in my thoughts?'

"Awareness of this kind also helps us notice signs of stress or anxiety earlier and helps us deal with them better."

Mindfulness is recommended by the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) as a way to prevent depression in people who have had 3 or more bouts of depression in the past.

See the NICE guideline on depression in adults.

How to be more mindful
Reminding yourself to take notice of your thoughts, feelings, body sensations and the world around you is the first step to mindfulness.

Notice the everyday
"Even as we go about our daily lives, we can notice the sensations of things, the food we eat, the air moving past the body as we walk," says Professor Williams. "All this may sound very small, but it has huge power to interrupt the 'autopilot' mode we often engage day to day, and to give us new perspectives on life."

Keep it regular
It can be helpful to pick a regular time – the morning journey to work or a walk at lunchtime – during which you decide to be aware of the sensations created by the world around you.

Try something new
Trying new things, such as sitting in a different seat in meetings or going somewhere new for lunch, can also help you notice the world in a new way.

Watch your thoughts
"Some people find it very difficult to practice mindfulness. As soon as they stop what they're doing, lots of thoughts and worries crowd in," says Professor Williams.

"It might be useful to remember that mindfulness isn't about making these thoughts go away, but rather about seeing them as mental events.

"Imagine standing at a bus station and seeing 'thought buses' coming and going without having to get on them and be taken away. This can be very hard at first, but with gentle persistence it is possible.

"Some people find that it is easier to cope with an over-busy mind if they are doing gentle yoga or walking."

Name thoughts and feelings
To develop an awareness of thoughts and feelings, some people find it helpful to silently name them: "Here's the thought that I might fail that exam". Or, "This is anxiety".

Free yourself from the past and future
You can practise mindfulness anywhere, but it can be especially helpful to take a mindful approach if you realise that, for several minutes, you have been "trapped" in reliving past problems or "pre-living" future worries.

Different mindfulness practices
As well as practising mindfulness in daily life, it can be helpful to set aside time for a more formal mindfulness practice.

Mindfulness meditation involves sitting silently and paying attention to thoughts, sounds, the sensations of breathing or parts of the body, bringing your attention back whenever the mind starts to wander

Yoga and tai-chi can also help with developing awareness of your breathing.

Visit the Mental Health Foundation's website for an online mindfulness course or details of mindfulness teachers in your area.

Is mindfulness helpful for everyone?
"Mindfulness isn't the answer to everything, and it's important that our enthusiasm doesn't run ahead of the evidence," says Professor Williams.

"There's encouraging evidence for its use in health, education, prisons and workplaces, but it's important to realise that research is still going on in all of these fields. Once we have the results, we'll be able to see more clearly who mindfulness is most helpful for."

More tips for wellbeing
There are other steps we can all take to improve our mental wellbeing. Learn more about the 5 steps for mental wellbeing at the National Health Service.

Notes: Photometer
Christianity Etc › Re: On Subjectivity And Objectivity by budaatum(op): 4:49pm On Apr 04, 2019
I've brought this here because it deserved quiet consideration, Sab, where no gifs no brains don't enter.

IAmSabrina:
I think distinguishing "subjective realities" from "objective realities" is a worthy pursuit that brings simplicity to our daily endeavours. It may be difficult but Sabrina enjoys it smiley
Enjoy it enough to be a scientist? Engineer myself. A make things happener. Structures built on subjective foundations don't bother Babel, they just come tumbling down. And yes, a very worthy pursuit. Research into it alone is mindblowing. Living it subjectively is fascinating. Very enjoyable too. And it gets easy over time.

IAmSabrina:
I'd like to add to that warning and say that people need to have a proper understanding of objectiveness, Buda!
Yes I very agree "that people need to have a proper understanding of objectiveness", and it is very difficult. But how do people get an understanding of objectivity, where do they get it from? How did you get it Sab?

IAmSabrina:
Whether Buda likes it or not, Sabrina's rectangle is Buda's rectangle. We observe shapes exactly the same. My eyes see the exact same thing yours do. Just a little sharper and maybe slight nuances in the colors but the overall picture is identical.
Not quite. Sabrina please do not be lazy! First, we take our photometers to the photometer calibrator who calibrates them then we ensure we are on the same measuring scale on our photometers and are both measuring from the precise same points to the same end points. Still, forgive I see a rhombus!

That "little sharper and maybe slight nuances in the colors" (I presume its not in the picture) might be of more significance than you give, is my point. It's enough to make the overall picture appear different to either of subjective us if not objectively measured. Is it in fact not a different picture since only one of us has "little sharper and maybe slight nuances in the colors" of their picture? Or do you see them too?

IAmSabrina:
Eyes are not subjective, Buda's square is not Martinez's circle, and neither are Sabrina's! We hear things the same way we might interpret them differently, but the sound produced in our heads are the same. Some people can understand objectiveness and some people simply don't have the brain power to do so. If we couldn't understand objectiveness we wouldn't be able to understand math. Punctum Supremum!
How are the eyes in my head not subjective to subject me who's head they are in? Are my eyes in some other subject's head too, Sab?

We hear things the same? How so? Does your brain power not determine what you hear to begin with? If you don't have brain power can you understand maths?

You're going to have to clean this for me, I think I misunderstand. There's a lot of people who have not learnt maths out there, by any objective measure.

IAmSabrina:
If we couldn't understand objectiveness, Sabrina, Martinez, Buda, Lord, JJ, Michelle,.... we'll all be helpless! We wouldn't be able to build a single thing because what were building might not be that. Beans na beans no matter who chop am....

Cc. Martinez39 / Martinez19
Helpless? Stop overdramatising Sab, it can't be that bad, or can't it. It's not as if we understand objectivity now to be honest, though we don't build much on here either, just constant tearing down. I put my beans in a pressure cooker with lots of onions, dried fish, panla, ede, salt, cowtail, water, cook half an hour pour in pepper, tomato, oil, simmer half another hour. You must know some people like theirs agoyin! Beans is not beans, Sab, who chop am matter!


I don't know what "Punctum Supremum" means so I went looking and found this:

The punctum points to those features of a photograph that seem to produce or convey a meaning without invoking any recognizable symbolic system. This kind of meaning is unique to the response of the individual viewer of the image. The punctum punctuates the studium and as a result pierces its viewer. To allow the punctum effect, the viewer must repudiate all knowledge. Barthes insists that the punctum is not simply the sum of desires projected into the photograph. Instead, it arises from details that are unintended or uncontrolled by the photographer. Photography can be distinguished from painting or drawing in that its apparatus visualizes the world automatically rather than being wholly informed by the interventions of the photographer. The theory of the punctum speaks the indexical nature of the photographic medium. It also accounts for the importance of emotion and subjectivity in interacting with photographs.
Christianity Etc › Re: On The False Doctrine Of Adamic Sin! by budaatum(op): 12:32pm On Apr 04, 2019
solite3:
humans can be taught how to walk because the trait is there in the first place.

children can be taught to walk but no body teaches them how to commit sin.
sin is an innate nature in humans. If you say people are taught how to lie for example, then who taught the first people who lied how to lie?
Which first people, solite3?
Politics › Re: NJC Dismisses Onnoghen Assets Declaration Petition by budaatum: 4:03am On Apr 04, 2019
chozzy:
Each time I wake up to the reality of another Buhari 4yrs,
I feel pity for Nigeria
Each day I wake up to the reality my bubu is running Nigeria, I'm delighted crooks tremble where they are.

For the next four years!

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