₦airaland Forum

TenQ:
How do you know that Judaism told a lie? How do you know who Adam was?

What is your own source of evidence?

Listen to you being Islamically asking for an hadith, lol, even after Christianity has taught you to be ministered to by a holy spirit.

It is a lie that Adam's eating of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil would kill him because in their very own book we can clearly see that he did not die after eating it!

A person who chooses to use their own brain would understand that depriving people of knowledge as that story suggests, would only make those deprived people slaves to those who do not deprive themselves of knowledge. After all, some in that same story must have been eating the fruit that Adam was farming but was forbidden to eat. Or are you one of those who have been made to believe that the Adam that was made from mud is the same creation in God's Image?

Thankfully, the story also shows how to free oneself from the ignorance of slavery and go on to live about a 1000 years and populate the entire earth.

The entire story is mythical, as in made up and never happened, but one must be aware of its potential to program your mind so your mind is not adversely programmed.

TenQ:
BTW: It seems you don't know that private interpretation of the Qur'an or Hadith is not allowed in Islam

Sorry TenQ, but from where I am looking, you are practising your own private understanding of Islam while insisting you are not allowed or that the understanding you have adopted is the only understanding allowed.

You have after all come across various hadiths by various people that contradict each other and therefore show private interpretation is very much done in Islam, and that's apart from the various diverse interpretations presented to you here. You're even likely aware that there are various different sects of Islam too, which is clear evidence of private interpretation. Or would you like to argue that the boko haram interpretation is accepted by all Muslims?

TenQ:
Why do you insist on believing a LIE ..

The lie is believing there is a hell that anyone goes to when you know the dead are put in a box and put in the ground and covered with soil where they rot and become worm food or are burnt and become ashes.

TenQ:
2. A pagan Arab would not be threatened with her daughter going to hell.

You must forgive buda for having a brain in head that knowing how to use it instead of letting ignorant others tell buda what is.

The pagan that one wants to convert from pre-Islamic non-muslim Arab and burying their daughters to Islam and not burying their daughters will be threatened with their daughter going to hell.

Judaism used the same tactic in making Adam ignorant and docile by lying to him that he would surely die if he ate the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. And that same reasoning is still being used today to keep Nigerians backward and servile.

triplechoice:
What consent does a mother need from her own child to find out if she has been molested if she suspects so?

Considering the toxic home she's cultivated where her own son is also doing the molesting, I'm rather not surprised she suspects. And if this checking is routine from age 6, I'm not surprised at the poor girls premature sexual awakening.

If the mother had focused on the 6 year old learning maths, she'd likely be cultivating a mind of academic excellence instead.

triplechoice:
There's no sexual or physical abuse. The examination ,from the way she described it, was done without any violence

The mother agrees with you. Those who do fgm on their daughters also do not believe they are abusing their daughters

I and many others here however do not agree that it is not abuse, and would rather such abuse not be inflicted on peoples' daughters even by their own mothers.

Your typical ignorant basic maths is racist non-understanding would arrive at your stupid idiot's conclusion.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/wisconsin-shooter-war-against-humanity/articleshow/116407685.cms

TenQ:
Secondly, only the pre-Islamic non-muslim Arabs buried their daughters. These would neither believe in heaven nor hell and thus, it is meaningless scaring them with hell.

This, is precisely why you threaten people with hell. Its in order to convert them from pre-Islamic non-muslim Arabs and burying their daughters, to Islam and not burying their daughters.

Judaism did the same thing in telling people to obey the ten commandments or they'd burn in hell, and Christianity took this on too by threatening those who didn't accept Christ with hell and damnation.

Its a religious thing to use the fear of something to threaten people to accept it, but since no pre-Islamic non-muslim is burying their daughter theses days, that's not exactly effective no more, though some Christians do still use some form of hell scaremongering where abortion is concerned.

Shows our inability to plan and organise!

According to reports making the rounds on Wednesday, December 18, the unfortunate event occurred at the Islamic High School in the Bashorun area, which was intended to provide 5000 naira to 5000 children.

TVC News reported that things took a devastating turn when the number of children exceeded the expected 5,000, leading to a struggle for entry.

https://www.legit.ng/nigeria/1631425-breaking-30-children-feared-dead-tragic-stampede-ibadan-funfair-gov-reacts/

constancefriday:
Give such reprobate folks the benefit of doubt with your bulletproof vest on and ammunitions on standby.

First, I should perhaps start by not calling others reprobates, and then I would not need bulletproof vest and ammunitions.

constancefriday:
Don't expect much from People who have chosen to be reprobate and are neither sober nor sorry about it

Except that I have no choice but to have faith in people since a book of the gods says I must love people as I love myself, which includes giving the benefit of doubt I give to myself to other people too.

Reprobates can after all sober up and be sorry and repent, I find.

Truvelisback:
Alright. I learnt that he has left the church to open his or have his church. Is it true?

This must be a lie then?

https://www.nairaland.com/8266565/bishop-abioye-begins-new-ministry#132868416

According to earlier reports, Bishop Abioye retired due to reaching the age limit stipulated by the Living Faith Church’s operational guidelines which serves as the church’s constitution.

The church policy, often referred to as the “Liberation Mandate”, was reportedly revised to set the retirement age for pastors at 58 from 60.

“I did not attend Shiloh 2024 because Shiloh without Bishop Abioye is somehow,” Melaye said.

“I can’t understand why Bishop Oyedepo, who is older, is not retired, and it is Bishop Abioye who is younger that should be forcefully retired. God did not retire Abioye, only Oyedepo did,” he added.

Can you see the double standards?

Bishop Oyedepo had previously advised critics to refrain from questioning the church’s decisions.

Be mindless sheep and pay your tithes!

To be honest, I'm not surprised this woman's home is already infested with sexual abuse, and I can't help wonder how she was checking her son's virginity that made him sexually active so young and on his 6 year old sister!

One of my daughters (6 years old) said;

“Mummy, na my brother and him two friends dey fuçk fûck me every time!”

SiIver:
Sounds like another rivers state drama.
But unfortunately for them, the LGA Chairmen doesn't have their own power, despite the Local government autonomy running

We shall see after the courts decide.

triplechoice:
FGM is child abuse and not child sexual abuse. You don't seem to know the difference.

Hopefully you'd refrain from both.

triplechoice:
And you failed to answer directly if doctors who examine their patient's privates, just like the woman, are also involved in sexual molestation.

Was this woman examining her consenting patient's private part?

I would think you'd go to a doctor as a patient to have your private parts examined because you have an ailment and not because some woman wants to check for you.

triplechoice:
And it cannot be true that a female child of 6 who's already used to her mother.....

Jesus Christ! Are you going to check at 7 too, and all the way up till when she's 16 because she's used to it?

triplechoice:
Please in your next reply which I expect, don't forget I said I'm not I support of the mother's action.

Why are you not in support of it if it is not an abuse of the child's, specifically, sexual bits, along with her general psychology?

triplechoice:
She acted ignorantly. That's all .If she were sexually abusing her daughter,she wouldn't come to social media to describe it

Indeed she acted ignorantly and did not know she was sexually and physically and psychologically abusing her daughter, but I do wonder why you'd expect me to be ignorant like her instead of telling her how ignorant she is and what damage she would be doing to her daughter.

If I want you to appreciate new born babies and not bury them at birth in 7AD, I'd tell you you and the baby will go to hell in order to deter you.

I'm aware it wouldn't work in 2024AD though, and would think you were being absurd if you still thought there was even a hell for you to go to.

Lifestone:
Bro, don't get me wrong, I can never condone the ineptitude and corruption prevailing in our current system. What I don't agree with is the thinking that by shouting it to the whole world, there will be solution. Nobody has provided an empirical evidence to show anywhere in the world where insulting and calling your Country names have solved such problems.
The solutions are in our hands, we need to hold our leaders accountable, we need to stop selling our votes to the highest bidders, let's make bad governance have consequences. It's in our hands, and not out there.

No one is shouting anything at any world, and I am not insulting or calling my country names! There are people who call their country a zoo, and I remind them they must be the caged animals.

The solutions to the problems in our country can only be found once we accept we have problems, and not by hiding our problems from ourselves because we are ashamed some world might hear us.

oldguyman:
The Lagos State government should go and remove the banner, lock the mosque and arrest the Imam for trying to incite violent and cause public disturbance in Lagos State.

I must agree

Next is a church will put up a banner claiming Mohammed is not the only prophet, and war will ensue.

Lifestone:
Yeah. We all learn. I have given valuable advises to so many Europeans and non of them felt little or less from listening to me. I'm a proud and confident African.
My point here is that hitherto, I was like you, shouting the ills of my country up and down. We had a discussion and she showed me the serious corruption in their system and asked if these are headliners. Every country has problems but when you advertise yours rather than dealing with it, you make a mess of yourself as Davido did to himself.

If you know the British society at all, you'd know what the purpose of select committees are in government, and how they help the British society reflect and grow, unlike some who'd rather hide their inadequacies and not change their ways.

You can not deal with problems in society or in your own life that you hide and are not willing to talk about!

There's a verse in a book that teaches the same thing but I guess it's not read by some.

QuestLINKsPrpty:
Isn't ranching better than grazing? 🤷

That's what's been argued, that ranching is better and more profitable and requires a lot more knowledge than grazing does.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKhzHyX-9_s?si=rK0tQUJKV2cHGth2

Lifestone:
I was once like you until an English Woman, told me to stop it.

I guess it's okay for you not to use your own brain because an English Woman told you to stop using it.

Just know that we are not all like you.

triplechoice:
Sexual abuse is when one intentionally tampers with the sensitive body parts of another without their permission in order to drive sexual pleasure from it ,if not, doctors who examine the privates of their patients are also sexually abusing them.

Really? No one derives pleasure from female genital mutilation neither, likely not even the doctor, nor is permission of the mutilated sort, so would you also classify that as not sexual abuse?

I guess you can define sexual abuse however you want to when you are sexually abusing others, but I'd strongly advise you consider your daughter's feelings and her eventual reaction when you subject her to this sort of humiliation.

JagabanBorgu:
So it's ok for certain businesses to demand payment in dollars in Nigeria right?
And it's ok for staffs working in Nigerian establishments in Nigeria to be paid in dollars.

Tell me which business demands payment in dollars in Nigeria please.

And tell me which staffs working in Nigeria are so lucky that they are paid in dollars.

No one listened when Buhari proposed this.

budaatum:
Open grazing must be banned! I support ranching and wish Buhari had been supported when it was proposed.

budaatum:
I wonder what they've been waiting for. Bet they never supported the Livestock Transformation Development Plan that many derogatively called Ruga though that would have forced cattle rearing on to a ranch and out of the hands of the cattle rearing Fulanis.

budaatum:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOOPUKvG208

Livestock Transformation Development Plan

The Fear of Fulani Herdsmen and Cows!

Cattle Ranch 101

She reminds me.

Devouring Mother

The “devouring mother” is a psychological archetype that describes a mother who is overbearing, controlling, and manipulative towards her children. This pattern of behavior can have a profound impact on a child’s emotional and psychological development, often leading to feelings of guilt, shame, and low self-esteem.

Characteristics of the Devouring Mother
Over-nurturing and smothering: The devouring mother is excessively attentive and caring, but in a way that stifles her child’s independence and autonomy.

Control and manipulation: She uses guilt, anger, or self-pity to control her child’s behavior and decisions, often making them feel responsible for her own emotional well-being.

Emotional dependence: The child may feel obligated to care for their mother’s emotional needs, rather than developing their own sense of self and identity.

Lack of boundaries: The devouring mother may disregard her child’s boundaries, invading their personal space and privacy.

Fear of abandonment: Her children may feel anxious about leaving her or becoming independent, fearing that she will not survive or be happy without them.

Examples and Illustrations
Literary examples: In Tennessee Williams’ plays, such as “A Streetcar Named Desire,” the character of Blanche DuBois exemplifies the devouring mother, using her charm and manipulation to control those around her.

Folklore and mythology: The devouring mother archetype appears in various mythologies, such as the Greek myth of Demeter and Persephone, where Demeter’s grief and desperation to reclaim her daughter lead her to withhold the earth’s fertility.

Real-life scenarios: The devouring mother can manifest in everyday life, such as a mother who refuses to let her adult child move out or make their own decisions, or a mother who becomes overly dependent on her child for emotional support.

Therapeutic Insights
Co-dependency: The devouring mother’s behavior can create a co-dependent dynamic, where both parties become enmeshed and unable to function independently.

Guilt and shame: Children of devouring mothers may struggle with feelings of guilt and shame, believing they are responsible for their mother’s happiness or well-being.

Therapy and self-reflection: Recognizing and addressing the devouring mother pattern can be a crucial step in healing and personal growth for both the mother and child.

Key Takeaways
The devouring mother archetype is a complex psychological pattern that can have far-reaching consequences for children’s emotional and psychological development.

Recognizing the characteristics of the devouring mother can help individuals identify and address this pattern in their own lives or relationships.

Therapy and self-reflection can be essential in breaking free from the devouring mother dynamic and fostering healthier, more balanced relationships.

JagabanBorgu:
You can't buy or sell in naira because it's not allowed, but u are making it sound like it's bàd for Nigeria to implement such terms here.

No one disallows the buying and selling of Naira in UK. The reason you can't find it to buy is because no one is interested. Even Nigerians travelling home would rather bring their pounds home and convert it, because its less bulky and you get more favourable rates.

Nigeria should not implement silly unimplimentable policies.

Sonnobax15:
Omoh,see as mothers were dragging their daughters to come out but none of the wereys came out cuz they knew what they had down there were express roads and they'd be disgraced if they had dared come out

So, you think they should have come out to be subjected to sexual abuse because of scholarship, and in your own opinion, the reason they didn't come out was because of "express road"?

Please don't bother having children! Sounds like you'd want them to sell their souls to the devil.

How Can I Write To Big Brands For Sponsorship?

You first write and do a project titled, how to get brands like Aquafina, Malta Guinness for sponsorship, and when you complete doing that project you then use what you've learnt to get brands like Aquafina, Malta Guinness to sponsor you.

Think God. He had a project to create, so first did the research by letting his face hover over the waters, such that when he presented his project of 'Let there be Light', there was light, and that part of the project was complete. There were six stages in total, note.

JagabanBorgu:
Nigerians repatriating funds back home from other countries are paid in naira?

Should they be? Is Naira the same as dollar?

You can't even buy or sell Naira in a UK bank, so why would one be paid Naira in UK?

richmond500:
many online companies and Nigerian Upwork work pay in dollarz

Those don't sound like Nigerian companies to me, and they'd likely keep paying in the currency they pay in despite this bill.

richmond500:
If u work in Nigeria for a Nigerian company and earn in dollars, then the bill will affect u.

Name one company in Nigeria where one earns in dollars please.