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bellamafia:
Hello Romancelanders,

I am in dire need of serious, unbiased advice to avert making a lifelong mistake. Serious comments only please, no trolls, judgemental people, immature guys and girls, religious extreemists NOT allowed in here.

Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.

I'm at that phase in my life where im ready to start a family. I always imagined that i would meet a guy randomly, fall in love and get married, but that has not been the case. With age, i learnt that marriage is not a fairytail and that one must think thoroughly, and venture with the head and the heart.

I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.

However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.

Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.

I need advice please

Thank you

Flytefalls:
I'm not mad about cats, but my husband gets mad about cats (you Nigerians are so superstitious!)

Doing anything special?

Flytefalls:
Yo, is it really your Bday today? Happy Birthday!!

Do this:

"Ok Google"
"Sing Happy birthday to me"
*press play at whatever random video pops up*
From Flytefalls

If it's not your birthday, then eff you for wasting my effort!

searching4love:



ALL I SEE IS TWO SHAMELESS FORNICATORS WHO ARE NOT ASHAMED TO TELL THE WORLD THEY HAD KIDS OUT WEDLOCK. UGLY THINGS


Next!!!!!

vjsmiles:
SO THE MAN WILL DO SPIRITUAL...
https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-sex011.gif

Trippledots:
So i got an invite for the jumia interview going at their premises in ikeja. Right from the gate, a security guy was asking for the e-mail sent to us, as proof. As i made to open mine', (luckily i had been invited), a lady started handling with her phone, immediately the guy's attention was diverted, i saw this lady dissolve into the crowd just behind the security guy. wow, i thought. lol.....afraid hold me ni at her boldness.

Next, was where we were to enter our details _all still based upon showing of the interview invite and here was this same petit lady doing her thing.
all of a sudden she boldly went to pick the pen to enter her details. "hey, i don see your invite?" the man on duty said. "Yes now, i just showed you." she replied. talk of boldness and mother luck. So thats how she wrote her details.....

well thats the much i saw as i am now at one corner praying to my stars to shine down on me today.

Goodluck to us job seekers

pix aftr the cut....

NeduLuiZ:
spare which life .... Kill the abokii and lets face human rights later

dovelike:
Congrats sister. People like you are the answers to all Nigeria ' s problems

Not those people that say 21 million Nigerians are mentally retarded.

owobokiri:
After the world war, America took time to marshal out a detailed plan of rebuilding japan. The intention was clear, sincere and straightforward. The Americans took time to explain in practical terms to the Japanese that unlike timid cultures will think, war is not for ever. These policies created the feeling among many Japanese that the -Americans don't necessarily hate the Japanese because the Japanese are different, rather the difference was rightly pinned to the ultra nationalistic political structure in Japan before the war. So with Japans annihilation and capitulation, a new political class emerged. That political class was pro-west not just in outlook but also in policies. Agreements were signed for reconstruction and economic help as long as the Japanese remain in the western column. Japanese military was defanged in order to exorcise it of its hitherto pugnacious nature. . Agreements, treaties and understandings in place, a massive reconstruction effort managed by pro western politicians was activated by the US. . The outstanding success of that programme and the resulting massive improvements in living standards within a new Japan helped grow a pro-western Japanese population.

Compare that to say the Nigerian - Biafran war, where inspite of winning everything, the atavistic prehistoric cultural defaults of the winning parties grossly inhibited them from seeing the bigger picture. As a result instead of a well intentioned reconstruction programme to tame the debilitating consequences of that massive Nigerian genocidal efforts in the Biafran enclave, a starry eyed Gowon, his bunch of 15 century war commanders, together with his legion of clannishly bitter civilian evil accomplices embarked on an avalanche of diabolical witchhunts tailored to mesmerise, paupaurise and traumatise their supposed victims. Uptill today, the result of that brutish war has become a handy weapon used by the winning parties to jeer, taunt and endlessly insult the Biafrans. After a fake reconstruction policy under the 3 R, Nigerian governments seem to have settled for a systematic plan of annihilation of their victims in the east through a series of well crafted pauperisation policies that have succeeded in starving the east of any serious infrastructural build-up post war.. The result? A new anti Nigeria sentiments amongst a new generation of Biafrans who seem to loath Nigeria even far more than their fathers who fought Nigeria during the war.

masseratti:
U r not a man,if you love her too,you have to love everything about her please

Deltagiant:
Seun, even though your mum lived a life like this, you shouldn't have glorified it by showing a picture of her with indian hemp. It should have been painful to you seeing your mum looking this, like a.... Just wondering if you'd want your child to see his/her mum one day in that form. Most successful stars the world over have moved on and away from this mentality. Not cool.

Stunner1:
are u a buddhist?

Stunner1:
Lmaooooo dude looks funny tho

bukatyne:
Bros,

Let's imagine the tens of millions of women all want it... (which in reality does not hold water

In Nigeria alone, we have about 170million people, say about 40million women .... now imagine the population of women worldwide

What percentage of women like S & M compared to the world population of women

UjSizzle:
The age of freedom. I think everything culminates in just that word: Freedom.

yuzedo:
GOALKEEPER
Oliver Kahn (Germany)

DEFENDERS
Japp Stam (Holland)
Roberto Carlos (Brazil)
Paolo Maldini (Italy)
Alessandro Nesta (Italy)

MIDFIELDERS
Zinedine Zidane (France) (C)*
Austin Jay-Jay Okocha (Nigeria)
Dennis Bergkamp (Holland)*

ATTACKERS
Rivaldo (Brazil)
Ronaldo Luís Nazário de Lima (Brazil)*
Thierry Henry (France)

SUBSTITUTES
Vincent Enyeama (Nigeria)
Fabio Cannavaro (Italy)
Edgar Davids (Holland)
Ronaldinho (Brazil)
Lionel Messi (Argentina)

* = Denotes Most Respected/Absolute (All-time) Favorites in the team. The most brilliant, most technically gifted, game controlling/changing maestros I have ever had the pleasure of watching.

Personal Rating Indices: Ball Control, Vision, Set-Pieces, Shooting (Power and Accuracy), Team-Work, Decision-Making, Influence.

Pweetyradiance:
Just feel like sharing this story with you,please if you were in my shoes what would have been your reaction?

Two days ago I went to the bursary department in my school to have my course forms signed, when I got there the bursar was busy attending to other students so he asked me to sit which I did, while he kept on attending to them. He was done attending to everyone I met inside the office and was about attending to me when someone else came in, he left me to attend to that person with an excuse that she is the Secretary to one of the HOD's in the school, I kept waiting patiently little did I know he was up to something. when he was done attending to the young lady and she left I gave him my course forms to sign, he took them, looked at them for a while then stared back at me and called my name. I answered, he asked if I will like to be his friend( deep down in my heart I was like, see this old cargo oh wetin him want sef) then I gave him an abrupt answer "yes" I felt he would do the needful and let me go but the next thing I heard was " can I have your nums" (for my mind I shout say Kai! e don set for me oh) God so bless I wasn't with my phone, this was what I had tried hard to avoid for the past 3yrs I had been in skul. I almost lied that I don't have a phone but had a second thought,so I gave him a wrong nums,that wasn't okay for the mugu oh he signed the course forms thereafter he stretched his hands to touch my breast* shy* I had no option than to slap his hand so hard. I stood up and left his office, he kept shouting "we will talk on phone"

the problem now is :should I keep it to myself or let the school authority know about it? I will sincerely appreciate your opinions.

UjSizzle:
It's weird the kind of things we glorify in this age. Lack of respect. SM (?). Bad behavior accompanied by excuses.
Or the date a bad guy and try taming him hogwash. That's nonsense.

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MiCarino:


I swear. The dude might just be an actor. Earning millions, housed somewhere in California

Icon4s:
This Shekau is nt the same one that was killed last year. This is an impersonator including the one killed last year.

Below are pix of the 1st, 2nd and 3rd Shekaus respectively. Check out the difference.

oloyolo:
Even if shecow died or lived dose it change the fact that their time is up
Buhari will come to power kill shecow arrest GJ terminate boko haram and chang nigeria for good so his days ar number and so is GJ's

Sai buhari