₦airaland Forum

makeitsoon:
So what do we really have to do here?

I have been thinking...

Is Nairaland worth it? Are we just here to talk about how yemi is fvcking phyno, tonto's new breasttts implant, looking at pictures, viewing gory images, read about how politicians are misusing us and telling us lies, reading every fake twitter post on front page? etc?

And coming to think of it, that we have alot of teenagers and kids on this forum, so are you developing them or still in the process of dumbing down the young ones? i really dont know what nairaland stands for?

ratatis:
well, not necessarily b'cos of her, but a phone may be stolen & fall in the wrong hand.

ratatis:
Thank for sharing, bro.

benardnwaorgu:
I met this girl some months back and we fell in love with each other. The love have grown to an extent that she can not stay a day without hearing from me and likewise me. But the truth is that each time i come in close range with her, my heart begins to pound heavily. I don't know if she have noticed it because i try as much as possible to hold myself as a man. I am scared to touch her, I've never kissed her though i wish to. I don't experience this with any other woman. Could this be love or is it just that we are not compatible? Please your advice is needed!!!

prettythicksme:
she looks cute tho#celebrities pls dress desently!

edwife:
This celebs are becoming more and more ridiculous...

charles009:
Hey guys,

I got married to my wife last December, we have been living happily. But last night, events took a bitter twist. She woke me up 2.09am today and started raining abuses on me. Be for I could talk, she smashed my phone on the floor.

The question is why is she angry? She read an exchange of sms between me and a certain girl. I stead of her asking questions, she went extreme.

I don't visit her phones and I expect her to do the same. Am still asking how she managed to get the password.

Though she has left the house this morning with some of her baggage, I am determined that I am never going to allow her enter my house again.

Now I ask?? Is it right for her to breach my privacy and get into my phone?

Missy89:
I am done with him. He sounds like someone who just got in. He is enjoying his honeymoon period. Been there.

Wait, whats with the BigHead?

Missy89:
I may will.

cc BuddhaPalm

Missy89:
People were asking why, So i had to remove it. That said, the date is still sacrosanct ** in jonathan's voice

akubudejud:
THE CHANGE SONG SHOULD GO ROUND FOR EVERY ONE!!
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WE NEED GOOD AND QUALITY EDUCATION IN NIGERIA

Flytefalls:
That's somebody's friend, behave

I agree with you. it is problematic to maintain this standard for only women. And there in I agree with you: society is partial and discriminatory in judging the violation, the way they can be with whites and blacks. But that's not enough reason to say the standard isn't right or logically consistent. The point remains that they uphold/expect a standard of Muslim/Christian intersection; and being a non-virgin makes you non-classy. What you should be arguing now is "men who are non-virgins are ALSO non-classy".
Yes, the virginity expectation has been used to oppress women but hell, everything has been used to oppress women - name change, shaving, dressing, education. From important things to non-important things. But we don't go about saying we want to scrap the obviously, generally accepted standards. What we go about saying is that women should not be worse off for breaking the rules and violating the standards of the society than men. They shouldn't be judged worse. Simple!

nurey:
I normally pick my niece from school and when she sees me, she just start crying and all the teachers would be looking at me as if I am one pervert it always pain me but after 10mins she stop crying and I bribe her with playing with my Tab. I am a sweet carrying adult so inorder not to sleep I always have one form of sweet lying around in the car as time went on she adjusted to sweet bribe so now everytime she sees me, she runs and hugs me infact all children in class will start hugging me after hugging and I don't want her to cry I have to follow this her order I WANT TO BUY if you don't follow that nah cry will make you deaf. She has never bought anything worth more than #50 everyday so sometimes when I am late or early warranty us not to wait in school I don't bribe. I know as time goes on she will out grow the brib

Funbii:
My younger ones wouldn't behave themselves, they won't stop pinching, squealing or shrieking unless I promise to give them money or buy them goodies... I make sure I "settle" them whenever we got visitor(s) so as to avoid embarrassment.

Last night one of them went to my mom to negotiate, like "if I get 100naira to make my bed, how much to set the table? What if I make my sister’s bed, do I get 200naira? Fine, u can take away 100naira for not brushing my teeth...."... seriously? I was astound

Most parents and child care providers have resorted to bribery, at least on occasion, to secure good behavior from a child. That's when an adult says, "If you behave in class and don't cause any disruption, then I'll take you for an ice cream afterward." So, is there anything wrong with bribing a child to secure good behavior?

Flytefalls:
I agree. A task that benefits your child is a skill/behavior that will in time prove itself worthy.

I am in agreement that rewarding good behavior should be tangible (at times) but why the need to attach significance always? I think it's fair that a child be able to challenge a parent who may be being unfair (it's so so important for a child to feels itself to be heard); I'd encourage that. But rewarding what I feel is for their own benefit, nah, not all the time. Plenty of hugs and kisses regardless,.

germainediva:
I usually fantasize during sex(thinking of a guy I admire or a romance clip).......if I don't most times it will be difficult to cum.......is there anything wrong with that

klark3:
I have no ounce of hatred for women.

The thread objective is literally to establish a razzle-dazzle phantasmagoria thalidomide, that will vitiately pulverise & rigorously revolutionise & ravage the man made cosmetic superficially synthetic reverence, that is arbitrary ascribe to the women folks, into a pukuapuku kpotokian macadam oblivion.

That's all...

Chinweblinkz:
-Am a young girl in my late teens,6.5ft tall and light skinned.
Although am not up to the 'great' twenty,i have had so many suitors but none of them fit my choice.
Its either they are too tall, financially inbalanced or not even Literate to my taste.