kennydotkom: My wife has always deny me sex with her, though I know that whenever she is not in good mood, she won't allow me, but this had become frequent with her. Note that I work in anoda state but I come home every weekend in which I have all the privileges to have girls because I leave alone. I can decide not to come home on a weekend jus to attend to other girls but I didn't. many people often call me a pastor because my neighbor where I work has not seen me with girl friend with all the freedom I have. sometime she jokingly says that I so much like sex that she doesn't want to grow old fast because of sex with just 2or 3rounds am OK til next weekend oo. HOW TRUE IS THIS?as for me I get satisfy whenever we have fun togeda such that I can wait till next weekend when I will return home from work. She is not a working class type, so she does her business at home, no stress except to take care of kids. at time she complained of headache, tiredness, or even if I wake her up at around 4am when kids have slept, she will complain that why did I wake her up when she was dreaming. And if am forcing her, she will being to make noise that can wake the kids up. Here in my place of work in abeokuta I have all the reason to sleep with other girls, in which I have told my wife herself that my conscience cannot judge me if I do, because with little time I spend with you, u often turn me down and mostly she never initiate sex with me except she is extremely happy but very rear. I don't know who to report her to .i just don't want to flirt around because of fear of God and love I have for my kids. We can go a month without sex, she is very OK with that, I told her that she had turn herself to just roommate.
FAMILYJA: I wonder why cattle rearing should be a problem to the country when we have pig rearing, cat rearing, sheep rearing, goat rearing and even dog rearing and these never gave us issues. Why cattle?
We also need nationwide Nkwobi settlements for goat herders.
babytoun: Now Busola has thrown it back at him to prove innocence ....Busola seem to be saying "You are a rapist ...live with that tag ...if you disagree take me to court " ....
The path is now very tricky for the pastor ...even if he tries to clear himself of rape...it will be very difficult to prove that he did not have sex with her ...and if she proves that she was 17 then when sex happened ...it's up to the laws of the land to interpret what that means ...
Sorry, proving one's innocence is not how it's done.
Imagine if the police arrests you and says you should prove you aren't an armed robber...
Where you do even start.
I'm sure you've heard "Innocent until proven guilty"
GraGra247: 1. Her story simply didn't add up. Reno Omokri logically broke it down.
2. Why did she wait this long to come out. Ese Walter saga should have emboldened her to speak if she was truly raped.
3. She claimed she was raped multiple times. This was her biggest flaw. If the first one was rape, the rest wasn't as long as she wasn't living with the man. She was at least 17 and can reason.
4. Why didn't she report to her parents. At least to her mother if she was shy.
5. How could he rape her in her own parents house with relatives present and there was no ruse.
MY CONCLUSION:
She wasn't raped. She "unwilling" allowed him to have sex with her multiple times but she was disappointed with him as a so called pastor.
It haunted her and she felt so ashamed and chose a rape claim as escape route.
She probably "came clean" to her husband about her past, recently.
And the only version of the tale that fits her current image of a virtuous wife is where the guy raped her.
Erediauwa: When he was the president, you never called it RAPE, rather, he was presiding over your Gambia drainage pussy, now that things has gone worse for him, you've now found your voice.
Some Women ehn!
This one is kinda understandable.
She could have disappeared if she spoke up when he was still in power.
heskeyw: By abandoning them @ Nnamdi Azikiwe airport means that the federal government actually paid for their return flight. They should be left stranded in France, their citizenship should be withdrawn. The lucky ones should find their way to Mali and become prostitutes.
ImpregnaTor: 500 sugeries and only 46 daeths?? he not that bad we can still manage him. afterall the country is being being run by mediocres and mediocrity is the other of the day in the shit-hole; so what's the difference??
My oga, this na 10% failure rate.
Not including people e go don rearrange their insides.
Emarvel: is it possible to travel by plane from Nigeria to Ghana and return by bus from ghana to Nigeria. I'm asking because of the passport, how will it get stamp? Someone told me if it's not stamp for return, then i can't use the passport again to travel to any other destination.
Please, i need your candid advice, i have stayed more than 4 months
There's immigration at both points and they'll likely bill you for the one month overstay and stamp it.