Romance › Re: This Is The Mentality Every Broke Guy Should Have!!! by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:02pm On Jun 28, 2017*. Modified: 2:42pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Curvinus: Crap. If your not handsome and you don't have money to compensate, end of discussion. Confidence comes from experience of previous success, not some mysterious self delusion. Again personality means fart to men and women if you don't have the good genes to get you noticed in the first place. Would you date an ugly midget because she is confident or has a good personality? Confidence is a default state... We were all born with it. Yes, ego based confidence comes from "previous success", but it's a weak type of confidence. And once you're in the presence of those who have achieved more than you - of which there are many - your ego based confidence will vaporize. You want your confidence to be based on self-esteem. Which is the stable, dependable kind. For a man, looks don't mean much. Despite your "looks", if you can walk up to the most beautiful girl you can find, completely relaxed, look her in the eye - without flinching - and embody what you feel. The effect you'll have on her will astound you. Finally, personality really is everything. I will put my money on a guy who is resourceful, bold, good-natured, focused and driven than on a fool with money. And trust me, so will many women who are looking for long-term mates. Women get married every weekend, are they all getting married to billionaires? Are all the girls with boyfriends also dating billionaires? |
Crime › Re: Woman Sacked By Her Husband For Moaning During Rape By Robbers Arrive Benue by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:17pm On Jun 28, 2017 |
Moaning is involuntary nah.
Except she added some kain talk on top. |
Celebrities › Re: Lilian Larkai: "It's Wrong For A Woman To Claim Equality With A Man In Marriage" by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:14pm On Jun 27, 2017 |
Deeypeey: I can only guess the man oiling ur engines is doing it really good....or how else can we ever get women to admit this truth.  I'm not sure they make a secret of it. Women just want to submit to you. The feminine yields.You only need be masculine and dominant - the way you are naturally supposed to. |
Romance › Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:39am On Jun 27, 2017 |
ChiefSweetus: I LIKED the post before checking the author. I wasn't the least bit surprised. Chief, Chief... |
Romance › Re: Ladies, What's The 'ideal Male Body' You Admire So Much? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:37pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
mecussey: wow...suprised no one likes the v shape guys...women brain are just mysterious. They like the chubby fat looking guys bc brain is wired to believe those guys are rich and responsible...haha....not there fault just evolution. ...and when we were younger, the baby girls made us believe they love 6 packs. Thank God I loved myself the way I was and not bother to trim myself to suit anybody. Perhaps your own mind is playing tricks on you... Girls, themselves, come here to tell you what they prefer, but because you are so smart you don't want to believe it. Aesthetics is a tiny fraction of what makes you attractive as a man. Doesn't hurt, but not that big a deal either. |
Romance › Re: Breakup After Being In A Relationship For 4 Years by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:29pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
valnelly: As I write this.... I'm filled with so much hurt and regret. My girlfriend whom I thought would be patient enough for me so I could get married to her has broken up with me. I met her while I was writing my final year project in Yabatech about 4 years ago. We were cool together and the distance between us didn't mean that much to me even though she stays in ikorodu and I stay in surulere. The problem started when I gained admission to Unilag due to my decision for self development. I'm 31 years old and she is 25. During the last 2 years I noticed she has changed drastically I notice that she now has stuffs like new shoes and new bags. Which of course ordinarily she wouldn't have been able to afford. The only time we see is on weekends and that's because she is still in Yabatech schooling and sometime when she comes like that she acts funny with phone calls. The way she talks to some certain people so suspicious. But none the less she always feels cool with me and always wants to be around me. Could it be because of sex?
I noticed that she behaves single at school and even on social media. We do not chat or use social media, we added each other but at a point I had to take her off because she doesn't portray any thing that shows we are actually dating...i took her off all platform of social media and she wasn't perturbed about it. I don't actually know what's going on in school or her place of residence but I have a very strong feeling that she has been cheating on me and some other guy have been buying her things I can't get for her. But on top of this she was actually looking for school fees and I was deploying all methods to make sure she pays this on time and that alone made me confused!. We had a heated argument on Sunday and she was yelling and talking back at me... I left the house for her in annoyance only for me to come back and she is gone. She left a note that says that she is no longer interested. Guys please what should I do. I love this girl so frigging much. I can't sleep or think straight right now. It's almost impossible for me to start all over again. I feel hopeless. Please guys your advice! In all fairness, a 25-year old girl shouldn't be made to wait for anyone... She is in the prime of her life after which it's mostly downhill from there. She might wait for 5 more years and after you've gotten a hold of yourself, hopefully, you will now find one ridiculous reason to dump her. The only advice I'll give you is to use this incident to fuel your fury to "succeed" - whatever that means to you. In relationships leading to marriage, our PRIMARY role is that of PROVIDER. There's no getting around it. So don't blame a girl if she gravitates towards men who can provide. And on a final note, you will still find lots of new loves. Truss me on that one... Way back in 2008, I thought girls were beautiful then. But right now in 2017, I see some girls and I am speechless. They are so beautiful in ways you can't even describe. The Universe just keeps outdoing itself. You will meet women you will love more than this one. Just take the lesson. |
Sports › Re: Asamaoh Gyan In Cheating & Sex Scandal; Accused Of Rape by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:50pm On Jun 26, 2017 |
Iloveafrica:
Bosses please i want to start blogging biz fully on July 1,2017 and i'm contemplating on which niche i should blog about between tech blog or entertainment blog.
Please, Which one can you recommend for me to start?
Think long-term. What will I write today that will keep bringing me traffic over the next 10 - 20 years? Entertainment and tech content have a short shelf life. Focus on evergreen niches. Content about training Rottweilers will still be relevant 100 years from now. BBA 2016, on the other hand, will not. When you settle on a niche, use Ahrefs.com to reverse engineer the content of your competitors. Choose the easy to rank keywords and write on them. You could hire writers too. Google is the king of traffic. And if choose low-competition keywords and write on them, Google will send you traffic. But bear in mind that this is a long-term endeavor. Read up content on sites like AuthorityHacker.com, Backlinko.com, etc |
Crime › Re: Kate Henshaw Reacts To Photo Of Policemen Posing With Evans, The Kidnapper by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:39pm On Jun 20, 2017 |
They are not flaunting their "association", they are posing with their trophy. |
Romance › Re: Average girl: I want to know where To Meet Guys Online? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:59am On Jun 20, 2017 |
Fresca: Hello, could anyone please recommend a good dating site to meet guys in Lagos.... down to meeting new people. Nairaland is not doing it for me.
Please if you're here to judge me, just mind your business and pass. I don't want negative comments or holier than thou people to come here and be giving advice. Download Tinder. You will be overwhelmed. |
Romance › Re: "I Love You" To A Girl - A Broke Dude Vs A Rich Dude (picture) by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:10am On Jun 14, 2017 |
Second guy is relaxed and smiling... |
Celebrities › Re: AY And Freda Francis’ Whatsapp Chat: Raunchy Version, Why Mabel Makun Was Angry by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:27pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
SalamRushdie: Chat clearly shows there is nothing going on between them and AYs wife just wrongly attacked a woman who was helping her husband out .. True, but na so play dey start  . Btw, them never settle your fatwa? |
Crime › Re: 2 Ladies Fight Publicly, Disgrace Each Other (Photos) by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:22pm On Jun 13, 2017 |
You're using the word "lady" very loosely here. |
Crime › Re: The Exploits Of Notorious Kidnapper, Evans by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:07pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Nma27: At least he doesn't kill his victims unlike some wicked ones.... What do you think happened to those who didn't pay up? |
Travel › Re: Man High On 'Ace Of Spades' Bashes His Car While Returning From A Club. Photo by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:12pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
kokoA: People are different sha. I drive better when I am high. You think you drive better when you're high... |
Family › Re: Viral Photo Of A Crying Groom & His Mother by BuddhaPalm(m): 6:37am On Jun 07, 2017 |
This is shameful and pathetic, on so many levels.
It's not like he's joining an army and being sent to the war front. |
Travel › Re: Pictures Of 3 Train Stations In Kenya by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:47pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
juman: More than three billion dollars was spent upgrading their rail system.
Borrowed money from china. There's nothing wrong with borrowing if it's used for what was intended. We would have squandered it. Then Uncle Jonah will go and buy locomoto. |
Romance › Re: Man Refuses To Pay Lady Her Money, Says I Only Romanced (Video, Photos) by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:35pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
IhateAfonjas:
I support the man
Why would the girl collect money for what God gave her for free ??
She looks like a baby elephant, what did she do with all the money she's been collecting from men ??
I bet her ogunfe smells like rotten fish mixed with bad decisions By taking her home you prevented other people from patronizing her. I am 99% sure that guy will pay up, maybe not in full. |
Family › Re: Woman Dumps Her Husband After He Lost Bank Job by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:44pm On Jun 04, 2017 |
Well written, but certainly fiction. |
Family › Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:52pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
MisterGrace: Wow! You are wicked with a demonic heart. Really? Pragmatism man... So you'd rather have a home broken, a man emotionally scarred for life, and a remorseful woman disgraced - just to satisfy your sadism, concealed behind morality. |
Family › Re: I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:28pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
A confession is pointless and will yield nothing.
Your mind is playing tricks on you.
The most important thing is that you've turned a new leaf.
The person you should ask for forgiveness is God, not your husband.
Mistakes happen. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Juventus Vs Real Madrid: UCL Final (1 - 4) On 3rd June 2017 by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:29pm On Jun 03, 2017 |
modath: Aswerigod Zinedine Zidane is the luckiest man alive.. No one can convince me he is that great a coach... 
Cc seunmsg..  "The moral is to the physical as three to one." ----- Napoleon If a mediocre team like Leicester could win the league with the right motivation, what is great coaching really? |
Romance › Re: The South African Twins That Are Married To One Man by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:17am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Boss. |
Family › Re: 11 Secrets Man Should Never Reveal To His Wife by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:05am On Jun 03, 2017 |
Your challenges, complaints, etc.
Gripes go up... |
Nairaland General › Re: See The Big Scorpion I Killed In My Office This Morning. ( Pics) by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:48pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
You should have put something beside it for scale.
Your foot or a bottle... |
Politics › Re: Ex Corper That Converted To Islam As Vowed If BUHARI Wins Renounces Islam by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:47pm On May 31, 2017 |
chukwuaustin: ...I have escaped 7 assassination attempts by Muslims... Either the assassins are extremely incompetent or you now have 2 lives left. |
Celebrities › Re: Bewaji Folashade Escapes From Her Kidnappers In Commando Style (Photos) by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:06pm On May 31, 2017 |
Smart & brave move. |
Romance › Re: A 20yrs Old Ghanaian Lady Sets Boyfriend’s House Ablaze For Cheating On Her by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:54pm On May 28, 2017 |
decatalyst: Wait is she mad?
Her family better be preparing to build me mansion at location of choice or I sue her, the family plus including her ancestors! Guy, nothing will happen. Girl wey no get money burn your house, your house don go be that. |
Family › Re: Viral Picture Of Mother And Her Daughters. Can You Spot The Mum? by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:13pm On May 27, 2017 |
Mum is number 2.
Time has told on her.
She's also the only one "trying" to look hot. |
Celebrities › Re: Floyd Mayweather Replies Sexy Lady Who Attached His Name To Her Hot Photo by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:30am On May 27, 2017 |
Came: You see the insult she brought upon herself by dressing indecently... You are indeed addressed by the way you dress. Insult ke? |
Culture › Re: Canadian Lawmaker In Nigeria To Invite Ooni Of Ife To Canada. Photos by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:37pm On May 23, 2017 |
sunnysunny69: Kabiyesi o, even obasanjo bow before him as sign of respect. Chief, I find your culture interesting. Will OBJ, as in the attached pics, prostrate for other Obas? Oba of Lagos, for example... |
Politics › Re: Governor El-Rufai Spotted In Economy Class While Travelling From Abuja To Lagos by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:17am On May 22, 2017 |
BlackDBagba: He sat there because more important people had occupied all the seats in 1st class!  You do realize he could hire one...or even purchase on behalf of his state? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Sitting On Ooni Of Ife's Palace Highest Stool (Photos) by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:34pm On May 19, 2017 |
thesicilian: That's his position as the representative of God on earth. You're also God's representative. |