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Are you impoverished?

Kobojunkie:
Do you realize that what you are spewing here is the same exact reason why millions of families in Nigeria continue to wait for some of sort of magic to lift them out of poverty? They crowd churches that now line every corner of a country that is only about 1/3rd larger than the State of Texas, all waiting for magic to happen to them. This here is the reason why the vast majority — generation after generation — remain stuck in poverty in that very same Nigeria.

Oga my elder brother is doing great! He runs his own small business! And pays 3 staff. We give him money, because we are doing better and we want everybody to be on the same level ground! And he still lives in our family house!

Kobojunkie:
...But your brother, even after many years, and these rituals, remains depressed to this day? Come on... you didn't solve a problem. All you did was allow your pastors and mogs fleece your heads in the name of fixing your brother. If you had taken that boy with all that money you gave to your church to a good mental health treatment center, not only would the psychosis which had him at that point in time had been treated, he would have been able to get his life back again and even become better than all of you combined.

My Brother! it takes one person to lift his family out of poverty! Maybe the Op is the chosen one in his family!

Op did not tell us that the elder brother is troublesome!

He just told us that the young man lack drive and ambition!

There is nothing prayers cant do!

Why will his elder brother be a conductor for some many years and did not think of graduating to be a driver, or own a bus one day!

Is that not strange to you!?

I have been in Op shoes before! I know how it hurts!

Thank God! GOD made a way for the rest of us!

Op elder brother is a good man that has been psychological programmed to believe that nothing good can come out of his life!

That metal slavery needs to be broken!

VTJN:
Respect is earn, not demanded for. I'm glad your brother respected himself and stay on his lane which made you guys to respect him. It is natural to disrespect a liability at that age who wouldn't respect himself

You think it's easy for someone to be crying over his elder brother? Even the mother dey cry with his old age. Op is going through a lot in that family. Op is not responsible for the family problem but look at how he carried the family problem on his head, when himself never find him bearing. Will you respect such an elder brother who doesn't respect himself? Ofcourse if he respect himself, Op should respect him. But if otherwise, you know the rest

Secondly, if your brother is not a threat to your mother, you people can simply ignore him, like we did to my elder brother. He eats food when offered to him at home, when not offered he respects his self and not go near the kitchen.

He keeps to his lane! Which is sometime good!

Now some of us are doing better, we send him money from time to time, to help him keep body and soul together.

If he minds his business! Just let him be concentrate on your self and your other siblings, but please dont disrespect him!

We do not disrespect him!

We still respects him as the first born

Your elder brother problem is spiritual!

If you look around, most first born male do not do well in life, because they are supposed to be priest!

And when they are not, they are supposed to be redeemed by their parents in Church!

My elder brother was like yours

I took it serious when they called me that he was suicidal

As a member of RCCG we do first born redemption, MFM does that too.

Long story short, my parents, brought their gift (money) to redeem their son, he agreed, the pastors prayed for him and he no more suicidal.

He is doing ok just for himself now

May your life and the lives of your loved ones be ruined by drugs! May your future be stolen! Amen!

Peter Obi na human being, even Jesus slept in the boat

Where is your principal!?

Where is your father?

Karma knows your address boy! Amanda is punished by you, for doing the right thing! Life go show you shege! No worry!

Since October last year! May God forgive you! Last year I lost a friend around November, his gbola was bringing out pus and he hid it from everybody, till he fainted one day, got to the hospital to see his dick was almost ruined, we wasted N1.6M for the doctor to cut off part of his decaying p88k. And he still died! Continue hiding your d88k, but you were not ashamed to standing naked before a bush gir3.

Peter Obi does not need Atiku! So he should go and sit down including the OP that wrote this trash

Voice out to GOD your maker! No man can help you if GOD does not permit it

Acquire the skills first, start making money, nobody go tell her to come back to you!

Wow! Thank GOD for your life! We can make an action Nigeria movie from your stories! Thank GOD for victory! Amen!

You have yourself to blame! The first thing I did when madam left, was to change all the key locks, that is why she cant come back and raid my home! I like food and I was afraid she can come in anytime and poison the food! No big deal in changing your locks.


Your wife must be from Akwa Ibom! Na them dey feel entitled to their inlaw's wealth

Sorry Ooooo!

You are not a bad person! And you did the right thing, if it was 1 child I would have said you should please reconsider and accommodate the child, but twice, the same months with your baby, I wouldn't want any of my children competing with their cousins!

But helpless children bring good lucks to homes!


If your wife is ready to adjust economically and financially no wahala!

The 3 babies can change from baby formula to Pap (Mainly the ones with guinea corn and millet)

Bought, soaked and sieved by her

Your wife should be ready to start using napkins not pampers.

This is not something to give you attitude for, this is something, she should humbly beg you.

Maybe your miracles are tied to you helping those babies.

But if you dont, it is still not a crime

You are not a bad person! And you did the right thing, if it was 1 child I would have said you should please reconsider and accommodate the child, but twice, the same months with your baby, I wouldn't want any of my children competing with their cousins!

But helpless children bring good lucks to homes!


If your wife is ready to adjust economically and financially no wahala!

The 3 babies can change from baby formula to Pap (Mainly the ones with guinea corn and millet)

Bought, soaked and sieved by her!

Your wife should be ready to start using napkins not pampers.

This is not something to give you attitude for, this is something, she should humbly beg you.

Maybe your miracles are tied to you helping those babies.

But if you dont, it is still not a crime

She is messing you up psychological! You have got to fight back! Start praying die! Die prayers whenever she's at home! Start praying all your enemies must die prayer! All the enemies of you daughter will die and watch her reaction. And please stop sleeping with her for the mean time!

worriedhubby:
I have been married to my wife for 10years now. My 1st child (7 years) has some health challenge. My daughter's challenge was diagnosed at age 3. Same year, I came back from work to see my child having crisis. I asked my wife why she didn't take my DD to the hospital. She responded, "no more hospital in this house". I tried calling a friend to drive me an my girl to the hospital, she got the phone from me and ended the call. Her words were , " if you are aware what is causing your child's illness, you better let me know ". I kept focused. Got my girl the needed medical help. Next day when I got home, I asked her, she refused answering. I later told the priest that wedded us, who later spoke with her.

In 2020, I got a call from a church in Port Harcourt, that someone brought my picture to the pastor. That I am the evil man causing my wife's and daughter's illness. The person that took my picture is my wife's brother. I was mad! But family and friends helped me to keep calm. A month later, my wife wouldn't UnCloth in my presence. If I entered the room while she is dressing or the bathroom while she is bathing, she will quickly cover up. When I confronted her, she told me it is because she believes my "hands are not clean ". That she was told that I am occultic before she even joined me. That because I am "hot tempere","don't pray certain prayer points ", she believes that I have some dark powers. I did my best to refute her claim in a calm way. But was deeply hurting. I reported her to a Pastor at Mountain of Fire where she now worships. She changed and told the man that she believes I am a child of God.

Just few weeks ago, I picked a paper under our bed where my wife wrote to someone how her brother had a dream in December and was told that I am my wizard causing my child's illness. In that write up, my wife also claimed she had her own revelation that I am in some occultic powers. When I showed her the paper, she tried to cause a scene, but I left her. I only asked, "are all these true?" "Why are you bent on labeling me what I am not?"
Later that day, she came up with lies, that the paper was just some prayer points she was putting down.

Just yesterday, someone called to inform me that he was with a certain owner of prayerhouse when my wife called to tell the woman why she believes I am occultic.

I have tried to ignore her, but I am gradually getting worried. What is she really up to? She doesn't believe in the medical diagnosis for my DD, hence, she won't give the child the necessary medication if I am not home.

How does someone believes that the hubby is occultic, and wants to harm her, yet still tries to initiate s3x with the said husband? When she had a surgery last year, I was the person cooking for her till she could get back on her feet. Why did she not refuse the foods? Finally, who knowingly get married to someone she believes is occultic, then start running to prayer houses for deliverance?

Could it be my wife is mentally sick? Or she is projecting who she is on me?

It is called Delayed Ejaculation! There is nothing wrong with you! I use to have! And ladies loved that, apart from the one I paid her dowry! It is not a medical issue! You just need a lady that is open minded

I hope you married a good industrious woman? And what does she do? Both of you can put heads together and achieve a lot! If madam is like a lot of women out there, you can start investing in lands

Sowiki:
If making it in life has much to do with someone's background, somebody like me may never amount to anything worth mentioning. With zero connection, it has been struggling upon struggling. Struggled really hard to graduate from school, even upon graduation, I was still sweating my ass out from one 30k teaching job to another. A really depressing kind of life if you asked me. A life you can't plan marriage on, you can't help family members, you can barely feed well. I knew it deep down that, that wasn't the life I would settle for.

The only job experience I had was in teaching and I really hated teaching. After two years of struggling with teaching, a friend linked me up to a Telcom job where I worked as a sales executive on contract basis. Though the salary was not much, but it gave me a big relief from teaching.

I garnered experience from that job, and my confidence increased. I got married while on the job even though the salary was low. I added the job experience to my CV and started applying for bigger jobs. Barely a year into the Telcom job, I got another job that paid times 2 of what the Telcom was paying. That was how i left there. Exactly 9 months into this new job, I got another one that paid times 2 again. That's about 500k monthly, this was something I never believed possible in life, i don't know how I found myself here. I used to envy my friends when they tell me they got a job of 100k, ota was a far-reaching dream to me. My definition of making it in life was getting a job that would pay you 150k per month. I was a very poor boy with no connection at all.

Now, I'm not used to my present status, i still feel very insecure. I get really scared of going back to square one. I really want to sustain this status. My life has adjusted to being comfortable i easily buy things i want, I'm never short of money. I just made my first million in life this month. Before now, i have never had 200k cash in my 30 years on earth.

To the experienced people here, how can one sustain success in life? I believe life offers everyone a chance. I don't want misuse this

The Volume Loud Oooooo!

ahnie:
I was at my business place,then saw these abokis selling carrots n onions I say make I test their microphone see welda wetin dem dey sell go loud .


So I bought carrots #200 and onions #200
E plenty abii?
Abii the aboki cheat moi?

My points too!

ronalmagic10:
If the deputy governor has a problem with how the military men do their work then he should go through the right channels and not grandstanding in public

With the level of insecurity in Anambra, it is not surprising to see the military mounting roadblocks along major roads to try get these criminal elements lurking around

If I were president buhari, I would issue a order for all military and police men to evacuate the south east and let them secure themselves. There's no need risking your precious lives for people that do not appreciate your efforts but buhari being a reasonable man would never do so

You'll never see them condemn the nefarious activities of ipob, esn and other criminal elements but they're always quick to castigate police and other uniform men

And buried!

sharpwriter:
What, you mean the guy is now dead

I wish it was! I lost a dear friend!

Bamrems:

Tell me this is a joke, right?

Very unfortunate! dead and buried

Octopusssy:
Very unfortunate fellow

Only to his family members it was revealed to!

Dshocker:
What is the name of the infection?

He did not survive the surgery! He is dead and buried now

Sensiblerealist:
Omo this na the worst news of the year oooo.
Unless your guy go turn gay make dem dey enter am from behind.
Guys, just be careful out there or ABSTAIN. You Noor go die ooo

Yeah! Dead and buried now

sharpwriter:
What for real

Yeah! He's dead now! Went into coma and died

NohurryInLife:
You mean ahm??