Thank GOD for saving me from that behavior! I once had a kind hearted flat mate, but who complained a lot about his work! Our of pity I started fabricating all kinds of lies about my work, to show him that the problem is universal! Till I started hating my job! I took God to separate us! And the same thing is going on in my ex-wife's home, all her siblings will sit and complain about everything till that thing is destroyed, including marriage

In the stream by an older lady, she came out from the bushes around the stream, when I was almost cum, just looked at me, hissed and disappeared into the other side of the stream

I have started seeing men wearing waist beads, mostly bus drivers!

I have boys and I don't have issues with nudity! Not that I walk around unclad, but if you know you are coming into Daddy's room, you will be sure that there is a high probability he is not putting on clothes! And we are okay by it!


And what about families that live in one room!?

As a guy I hate it, never enjoyed sex with my ex wife, because it was more like WWE than love making session, I always needed up with bite marks and finger nails scratches all over my body! My lips mercilessly bitten and chopped like kpomo! Breathless and afraid the gbola might break one day. I see sex run!

10k

Because he stayed in Canada for 13 years without coming back made him a prodigy son? OP repent!

Run! Brother! Run!

Your evil plans will not work in Jesus Christ Name! Amen! Devil!

I just asked an honest question, no need to call me name naw!

uthlaw:
See question, you should have called your house maid instead of wife...when common sense is not common,you behave like agbero!

Is it right for a married man to flush the toilet by himself after using it when he has a wife?

Mosquitoes bites! If I sleep on the floor in my house, I see same in the morning!

When I was little I fought very hard to be loved more by my mum, sadly I learnt, you can not force a person to love you more than he or she is willing to do so.

I think my stubbornness made my Dad to love me more. One day he said to me "Oga continue! You can not make me hate or dislike you! Rather I will love you more. When you are tired you will meet me here waiting for you" that day I was very very angry, I thought to myself "This man is a simp!"

Thank GOD today we are best of friends! Every time he gets his monthly alert, he will call me to say: "Thank You for the pension!" and we will laugh over it.

Thank GOD my Son is stubborn but not as much as I was as a teenager

If you have not married her, please dont take her to Canada! Marry her first!

We all went through this phase in life! Mine was worse! At a point I did not remember the faces nor the ladies I toasted or slept with! That made a lot of them mad, cry and hate me! Dont worry, you have not met the one!

See Question?

Bros! Na Only She Sabi!

I dont care

Though It hurts some times, but I am better off single, too much wickedness and bitterness in some marriages

Datikwerreboi:

Why did she leave

I pray you get the job!

Rubbish post

Rubbish post!

Na so I see am Oooo! No Kids!

Datikwerreboi:

Your wife left too? Do you have kids together ?

Sapa never hold her!

But what will your Dad do? Destroy the happiness of his daughter?

newbornmacho:
I wish my dad was still alive

Oga! Wetin be your own?! Abeg free the young girl! Na you go marry your sister! How many men of her age are ready for marriage? Am in my forties, if I see a 17 years old that will love me like your sister loves that man, am marrying her straight away!

In fact! How old are you? Wouldn't you marry somebody younger than you!

Abeg! If only his age is your concern, free the young girl!

One Love!

Just two months! Madam came back after two month and said: "Oga come make we Bleep" Now she has gone for one year, I have changed all the locks! Saw her last night in Lekki, thank God I did not run her over with my car!

Can we exchange wives? You dont know what you have got!

You dey mad

Just wasted my time reading this!

Some of us are "Stand Alone Husbands" When our wives go on strike, we cover up and let them know, our world will not standstill because of their stubbornness!

Your brother can wake up and dress the kids for school! Take them there and figure a way for them to come back in the afternoon.

if he was a widower, wouldn't his children be going to school!

I have seen men do that!

Madam, am a married man with experience, if a man or a lady does not want to marry you, please, let them be, you cant force a man to marry you, and stop bringing God to this matter! God did not give you permission to fornicate with Victor!

You might end up hating this guy if he does everything you want!

Marriage and love are by choice!

The mistake has been made

If you love him, like you claim, dont block his access to the child

go on and improve yourself

Time and chance have a way of healing us and bringing us happiness

Uche1993:



If I did not love him let me die, I was literally obsessed with this guy like he was my everything, my only friend outside my family, my only boyfriend. I am my family’s responsibility, I am not his responsibility. From today we don’t know who he is, he doesn’t exist to us and I don’t exist to him, let’s God’s will be done and let him fight for me and my child. If we did mister victor any wrong I will publicly apologize and own up to my mistake but if he is the one that lied to me and is still lieing here let God fight for me.

She's manipulating you! I hate manipulative people! Dare her to go ahead with the pregnancy without you, lets see what will happen in 6 month time! I dont think she really loves you!

Call her and ask her! When I newly got married, I had to block my Mum! Because she was always calling and asking if my wife had taken it, and it was bringing a lot of problems to the young family, so I had to block her, but I did not tell my wife, but I told my siblings, just in case!


My cousin a lady had to block and stop her mum from coming, because every time the mother came, she kept pointing out her husband flaws, so as a sensible wife, she did the needful.

Some of my friends blocked and ban their mums and siblings from reaching them, because they refuse to understand that them are married now, that attention has to shift a little bit to the new home and a new wife.

This december, my baby cousin did not travel with her husband and children to the village, because, she needs to avoid her mother-in-law, not that it is good, but for her sanity. She said, her mother in-law lives very close to their house, and she deprives her of being with her children. Her mother in-law picks her kids from home to school, brings them back from school and keep them in her house till her son, comes back for them, every friday, they pack their clothes for the weekend to grandma house. She hardly see her children nor play with them, grandma has taken over them.

So, all I am saying is that your wife must have a reason to do so, talk to her, find out and resolve the issue and let peace reign!

badoh:
Though I'm yet to confront my wife on this as I need to gauge public comment if this act of her is tenable. This is how it goes.
My mum called me last week to know how we were doing( myself, my wife and our children). In such greetings, she will pray for us on the phone and wish us well. However, she told me she has been calling my wife's line for a couple of days but the number always returned busy. I never attached importance to this cos I thought it could be network issue. This week again, she called me to extend her greetings and told me to inform my wife that she has been trying to reach her on phone but her number is busy.
I was curious and wanted to know what actually happened. Around 10pm yesternight, my wife gave me her phone to charge for her as she was already feeling dizzy. I collected the phone and remembered what my mum told me. I went to check if my mum number was blacklisted on her phone, alas, my mum's number was actually blacklisted. I can't really comprehend why she would do such. I'm so disappointed in her for what she did. I had to snap the blacklisted part in case she wants to deny it if I eventually confront her. My mum is not the troublesome type, very calm and kind.
I dont know if I should confront her on this or I should keep it within myself. I can never think of doing such to her own parents.
Has anyone experience this before?