Thank You JESUS!

Righteousness2:

Tell you friend that he is a stupid man! Period!

Demigod22:
So my friend have this girlfriend in 100 level, although he just graduated. They have regular and chronic sex. But the girlfriend is always scared of pregnancy.

The problem is that last night they were having sex and the condom burst and he poured everything inside. The girlfriend got angry and left. He advised her to take salt and water, Andrew liver salt, or any gas drink, but she ignored him.

My friend is angry with her because, she is always scared of pregnancy but will never take those things to prevent it, it happened yesterday and she is thinking it will lead to pregnancy. My friend is leaving school on Monday because he has graduated.

Although I have advised him severally to reduce the sex, but the deed has been done already. What is your advice to the girl?

Women! Women! Women! Your husband knew you have a health challenge and he still choose to marry you, in 13 years, just had sex 5 times, not his fault, but because of your health challenge! Madam! In all honesty will you marry your husband, if you knew he has fertility challenges!

Biko, see the good part of that youthful young man and correct your opinions about him joor!


What guarantee do you have that you will not die early before him!

Madam! Go and fix your health challenges with your husband! Na you dey push am away! In 13 years, sex just 5 time, Baby came by IVF, which is costly, you dont leave with him, but you want to punish him.

What is the color of your wickedness?

You need healing, both in health, physical, spiritual and psychological

That man is not your problem!

Fix yourself!

You have done your human best! You don't want to loose both your family and your daily income, which will be the worst my friend! At this point let GOD and Time! Heal your marriage!

Trust me, you need to put your self together! If you loose your job, this battle will be very difficult for you!

Keep praying, Keep making your money, Keep keeping your sanity together! You will need all of them.

God loves you, we all make mistakes and we are not our mistakes!

In anything please dont loose your job! Dont loose your sanity please Brother!

One Love!

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

Stop visiting ashawos and stop watching porn!

Get your degree, your parents have tried, then go back to boxing, one year is enough to achieve that!

There comes a time in every man's life, that you will learn not to throw a stone at every dog that barks, you just want t be at peace as much as possible with everyone around you!

You just want to be at peace with even your enemies!

Parrot69:

And you’re still condoning that marriage??
Oya clap for yaself.

So sad Bros! One of the problems I am having in my marriage is because I am a very tall and huge guy, marrying an average tall, very slim lady, who has a baby face. Everybody believes everything she says about, because of the huge gap in strength! But thank God she is not a good liar, the few times, I had to defend myself, people were screaming, and once she starts crying! Case close, she wins again.


Men are endangered species!

Thank You Jesus!

Thank GOD For The Holy Spirit! One Day I Nearly Lost My Cool! And I Nearly Beat Madam In Front Of Shopping Mall! Marrying Your Enemy Can Turn A Man Into A Beast!

Funny Enough his kids are one of the most well behaved kids I have seen, notwithstanding living in ghetto! Because at one point in time, apart from the little girl, the boys have worked for me, just like their father!

Kobojunkie:
Isn't it obvious from your story that there is no privacy in some of these cases?

I wonder instead of the psychological impact such exposure has on their kids.

Well I have a friend who once had a girlfriend, now turned wife as desperate as yours! We tried to warn him, but he refused, like he said "The Sex is good"

Now, he is regretting his marriage!

The only 2 things, he now enjoys in his marriage, when the wife decides to intrigue him is just (1) Sex and (2) Food that is when she feels like it.

And Oga wetin done! Continue pouring into her, hoping you are shooting blanks, your village people go come omugo for you

Thank You!

donolatunji:


Op kindly change the *copy* to *cope* in the sentence

I know it's a typo.

To your question, I think they'll cope by all means but the main issue here is that, may we not be broke for long...

I went to visit my laundry man, who has worked for me for 10 years, all those years, I have never visited him, to see where he lives, now his 16 years old son, works for me, every weekend, and he is such a hard working young boy and I am beginning to love him like my son, so I decided to drive him home, and to visit his dad.


When we got to the house, the man was surprised and welcomed me, he asked his son to quickly have his bath and go somewhere for him.

Wow! He stripped! Since the bathroom is facing where I sat, he went in and came in front of us. No privacy! Changed and went for the errand! As if it was no big deal.

When I was about to go, the dad asked to me drop him somewhere, which I obliged, and he needed to change into a better clothes. I wanted to step outside to give him the needed privacy, but the door was very difficult to open, he begged me to relax , wait for him to change, so he can open the door for me, that only them know how to open the door, just like him son, he stripped, but it took him longer to sort out his clothes, and I was wondering, is this what he goes through every day with his family (Wife, 3 sons - Oldest 25- Youngest 16 and a 12 years old daughter) And he had all his children in that one room apartment.

families that live in one room, how do you people cope with privacy?



families that live in one room, how do you people cope with privacy

Let her go! Thank GOD she did not kill you. Change the locks of the house! And let bygones, be bygones!

Just ask God in prayers to help you put it the right use!

First Thing First, before I forget!

Tell your mother to remove his door(s)!

Both the bedroom door and the toilet/bathroom door!

16 years is still fresh! We can save him by tough love!

My 21 years son, just started locked his room, which he has grown up to not lock, just because he is now an undergraduate! Some I have to show the good boy some respect! But before then, I his daddy needs unrestricted entrance to his room at all time. I dont have a girl, but if do, it will still be the same thing

DjBigMoni:
No other reason, she even had to threaten my life again after my mum incident, wanted to pure me hot water in the presence of her mum all because I said I'll still deal with her after all the pleading. she still begged for forgiveness that night

Make this wife no go kill you for us Oooooo!


I no know understand her vexations!

Where we dey see all these wives we dey marry? Madam fight Mummy in-law! Maka Why? So E no go one day become mummy in-law? All these wives must collect Oooooo!

Please let her go! The worst thing to do, is to live with An Unhappy Spouse! And why did he allow his wife unmarried friend to come and live with them. When I started having issues with my wife, the first thing I did was to warn her friends personally, when they visited for lunch, never to come to my house again in their life time! They left my food for me and never came to the house again. They are part of the problem! I had access to madam phone then, and I read all their horrible chats!

The grass is always greener at the other side! But na person dey water the grass!

Let her go, before she go kill you!

Badboibipo:


Sup g, I’m fine o. Just been busy it’s all, appreciate the love bro

Good To Have You Back!

More Blessings!

JooEeL:


What if someone is sleeping with ur wife while she's away from u?

Doesnt that disturb u?

I dont let anything disturb my peace! Thou Shall Not Be Caught! That's My Own! Caught! And You Are Gone! Period!

What nonsense is that? Let the pastor help them now! Just like my useless neighbor came last night to ask for NEPA bill from me, for 3 years he did not pay the a dime for light and owned house rent, till he was kicked out! Now he had the audacity to come and ask for NEPA Bill!

Be careful Boss! People are evil! For them to report you to a pastor, na God wan expose their evil plans, biko be careful!

GOD go help us Nigerian Husbands Oooooo! Na so madam carry our Family Feeding Money ATM Card, give her people, they went crazy internet shopping with the ATM card - or My ATM because na only me dey put money for that account for family upkeep. And she refused to apologize or see anything wrong in that!

omonla10:
that was 12 years ago. It's d other way round now. I can accommodate d 4 inlaws now sef.. But my mum and wife just won't gel.. Na forced friendship dem dey do

What's the problem with your wife? Will she not become a mother in-law someday? Will she like to be treated the way she is treating your mother, and for you guy, for not putting your feet down, you go collect as a father in-law! What nonsense!

(1). Thinking I have well connected Uncles and Aunties in the society, that employment will not be difficult for me, and going to University is just to fulfill all righteousness. I wished I knew better, I would have taken my studies seriously.

(2). Waiting for that NNPC job my neighbor promised me, that I missed The Nigeria Breweries Job they were begging me to come and collect.

(3) Borrowing money to some people

eazzzy1:
I know you and your wife’s aunty do not like yourselves, and you are allowing it affect your relationship with your wife. Your wife lived with her for 18 years, she practically raised your wife and can be referred to as your mother in law.

Treat her with respect as you would treat your own mother or let your hatred for her remain your hatred for her, stop forcing your wife to have issues with her, don’t put her in that position where she has to choose between her ‘mother’ and you, it’s unfair to her.

I dont think you are married Sir! Am in the same situation with him! Some Aunties and Big sisters do not know when to let go! They are manipulative

Welcome to my world! My wife said she would rather leave this fucking marriage, than curtail her association with her divorced aunty that brought her to Lagos, her evil elder sister that has refused to marry and her friends.

Every day new wahala!

Bros there is not much you can do, than to put your feet down like I did!

I dont want them in my house! I dont want them, If I come back and see they came, I call them and warn them. Thank God the boys and the men are by my side, I will call the boys and the men to warn them too.

Every place will be on fire for a while!

Finally she will ruin your marriage like they ruined mine, but dont worry, if she is your wife her eyes will open.

Madam, even this evening called, was bagging me, to come and take her back, to the house, but I no gree! Make she enjoy their company very very! She don stay one year with them now, my plan is that she will stay two years with them. I learnt tension is getting high over there! If they no fight, I no go come carry am. Period!

After while we are going to relocate very far from them

Reading about Sylvester Oromoni Jr’s death makes me very mad, because it was a very possible preventable death.

So, the parent knew he was been bullied to the point that he was afraid for his life and they redrew only his sister and left him “The Indestructible One!” there.

Now he is dead!
https://jesus.bingo/2021/12/04/reading-about-sylvester-oromoni-jrs-death-makes-me-very-mad/


And now,I am very very pissed with his parents!

How can a parent that pays one million naira school fees per term, be so, full of inferiority complex!

Tufikwa!

Rest In The LORD Son!

It is a pity you have to pay the prize for your parents’ negligence.

11 bags for N1k, Sangotedo Ajah, Lagos

No mind her! That's how my own and her friends were planning M3million wedding, while I was working with the 300k I have! Thank GOD for coming through for me.