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My ex-wife cried on our wedding day, a lot of people read meaning into it and said a lot of things. Somebody even did a detailed video analysis of her tears and sent to me.

Well Madam cried because he brother that was supposed to walk her down to the altar, was still at home waiting for me to send a car to come and fetch him, after I told them repeatedly that I am not sending any car for them, their house then was 3 mind walking distance from the Church and they thought I was joking.

I was even angry when I saw her stupid younger town's man wanted to do the honors, before an elder in the Church took over the duty

All of them minus Sugar cane, expect it was cut into small pieces

She brought her half naked daughter to love-vendor on an award show? GOD forbid!

Are you on any medication at the moment? Maybe the side effects of the medication

I don't add salt to my food while cooking, because I over do it! The seasonings are okay by me

Congratulations! Happy Birthday!

SOME OF US ARE MONTHLY SALARY EARNERS!


EVEN IF WE WERE BUSINESS MEN!


WE OPERATE ON A BUDGET



When “it” finishes now, you will be the first to ask “What was he doing with his salaries?”



The Month of April is coming to an end in few days’ time and I am grateful to GOD for life and provision and every other thing He alone chose to bring my way.


Thank You JESUS!



In this month of April I got 55 calls, chats and text messages for financial assistance, ranging from Urgent 2k to N500K.



Yes! I started counted them when they started becoming too much!



Now, I can no longer comment on a status, without getting a text for help! I don’t blame anybody, Nigeria is tough at the moment, but remember we are all in it!



Some friends, I am even afraid to call and check up on them, Why check up on them when you cannot elevate their suffering.


I keep wondering why these people think I have all this money! Even if I am super rich, I still have my own challenges.


I have not built a house for myself and for my family, which is one primary concern of every good man. I am not talking of my dream house, just a roof over my head that will cancel the yoke of house rent in my life forever.


A Wealthy Man Should At Least Have His Own House, No Tenant Is Wealthy! Every Tenant Is Struggling!



Any Tom, Dick and Harry can own a car, but A HOUSE! It takes an ODOGWU to be a LANDLORD or A LANDLADY!



I wouldn’t even mention friends that sells goods I will categorized as luxuries at the moment that gets mad when you exit their whatapp groups or when you tell them in your nonsense voice to stop bombarding your phones with pictures of things you don’t need at the moment, why flood my phones daily with more than 30 pictures and still flood your whatapp status with the same pictures and my phones automatically save all these pictures and videos on my devices, cluttering their internal memories.


We are all trying to survive!


I am cutting off some things in my life to enable survive Nigeria with the Grace of GOD!


I told a friend I have not switched on my generator for 6 years, he couldn’t believe me, he asked me why, I told him, I cannot be fuelling my car and my generator at the same time!


A kilo of chicken is now N6k, which is just one lap of a chicken Oooo! I have cancelled chicken from my menu.


I buy one crate of egg, which is 30 pieces of eggs, we go chop am for 2 weeks.


Still typing ………

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You will never finish knowing your spouse!

Elzazzi:
How did you evem marry such a woman in the first place ?

If she been born for you hope you done carry DNA tests on the kids?

I have a lot to loss! So I let her be

dkidd:
She's so bold... I for use her eyes see shege if na me. If she ever sees penis she go run. In fact she will become a full blown lesbian because of the experience

This make sense! Economic crime! Na serious offense

Na my ex-wife way!

During Covid and Endsars lock down na so, she dey pretend say she dey fight her papa, she disappeared for house for 6 weeks, came back to challenge me, if I be man make I come chop! True men dey welcome back their wives with sex.

Me na money I dey find, women dey rush us, no be we dey rush women!

Hmmm! You might be right, because he kept saying under his breath "I no go fit bear this thing any more!"

NPFLADMIN:
He cried, not because he was weak, but because he has been strong for too long.

May God help us.

Today I saw another man cry



Today I saw another brother! Another friend! Another man! Another husband! Another Son! Another Father sob quietly behind his office building for 20 minutes because he job was threatened! His only source of livelihood was shaken and he felt so helpless but to sob in agony.


This was not the first time I saw a man cry at his place of work, because his job was threatened and this might not be the last. Things that our fathers go through on a daily basis and most of us know nothing about them.

While I watched he cry, I kept asking myself, does this young man have a wife or a knife?

Does he have a companion at home, someone he would share his fears and insecurities when he gets back to the house tonight! Or does he have a knife that will strip him of his last dignity if he ever shows any sign of weakness.

Would he be loved at home or condemned too!

Well! I will never know! But my brother seems to be a fighter!

After sobbing for like 20 minutes, he washed his face, left and bought for himself a plate of beans and bread, plus two chilled sachet water, I would have asked him for one of the water if the circumstances were right.

After he finished eating, he washed his face for the second time, adjusted his tie, made sure his shirt was perfectly tucked in, with his shoulders high and his head raised up, he went back to his office as if nothing happened!



No matter what you are going through in Life, biko eat something my brethren



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Jeon:
But when will men rest with women's issues?.

Have you noticed, single ladies give the worst relationship advices

Have you noticed, single ladies give the worst relationship advices

Welcome to my world! Sex with my ex-wife was like WWE, I end up always been bruised everywhere possible

Almost all Lagos radio stations promotes gambling, buy a ticket of N500 and win N25k-N100k, almost all the Lagos radio stations. Why?

One of the biggest mistake I made in marriage was not to allow my ex-wife live for at least 6 months in my face-you-I-slap-you apartment in the ghetto.

She visited me there, I did not allow her to cook, nor bath, nor sleep over there, that's why she did not appreciate a bungalow in a gated estate. Where we have a spacious compound, clean borehole water and well. Better than average power supply.

If she had lived in the ghetto and fought some of those girls there, she would have appreciated GOD more the blessings.

Most young millionaires live in one room apartment, till they get married

I once lived in a community in Lagos, once a married woman is pregnant and about to put to bed, the husband will enforce that she declares who owns the baby or she will die in labor. My land lady nearly died, before she quickly confessed, some sacrifices were made, the baby died at birth. My other neighbor died because she refused to confess. One escaped because the husband decided not to enforce his rights, their first daughter looks very well like the wife's calabar ex-lover, even the tribal marks could not distort the resemblance

Losing a younger brother 19 years ago still hurts, imagine losing 3 members of your immediate family in one day! GOD! I might be hospitalized ! GOD Please take care of them! Amen!

But the mother is not complaining! 95% of women that have breast cancer later in life is because they did not breast feed their babies for long.

kindmman:
My brother, it was a matter of necessity. My boy was delivered via CS and the mother barely slept through the night due to his sucking nature.

Blacks are subhumans abi? No wahala!

I don't understand men stopping their kids from sucking their mother's breasts! It sounds awkward to me! I still don't comprehend it! Now you have stopped him, how many times will you suck those breast? Kids breast feeding prevents breast cancer! And it raises well behaved children not juvenile delinquents. Let the Children suck biko

kindmman:
So true, my boy nearly finished the milk in her mom's breasts until I forced him to stop. The boy didn't even know I left the breasts so he could have something to suck and didn't want to leave any milk for the one coming after him.

My ex wife best friend wanted me to marry her by all means and dump my ex, when it did not work, she helped the foolish woman to destroy her home. Now her best friend is married while she has no husband. And her best friend younger sister is flirting with me right now. Fear women!

Mansa

God Bless You! Happy Birthday!

Add more fresh pepper and crayfish and red oil

Oga take your son to see an ENT doctor if he breaths through the mouth a lot, that means his nostrils are obstructed!


Either the holes are too small and gets inflammated easily


I have had two surgeries to widen the opens in my nostrils so I can breath well through the nose, not through the mouth like I do some time

Oga there is nothing wrong with your son! Abeg dont give him any medication to grown fat! My late younger brother was like that! When he was younger he was very fat as he became a teenager he became very slim and tall.


I took an injection to make me add weight over 20 years ago, now I dey fight to loss the weight but no way, I cant do a lot of things because of my obesity.


Your son is good! Maybe you need to have a lot of Father and Son moments with him now!


Lastly my neighbor took her friends advise, and gave her two years old son some multivitamins to make him add flesh, the small boy became over weight and died of breathlessness before his 7th birthday.

So, your boy is good!

He just need more of your Father and Son quality time

You are Okay! There is nothing wrong with you