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I have not exactly taken the time to go through the replies on this here thread, but IMHO I perceive postsmokers420 as dumbiums , they look dumb, they smell worse than skunk, their breaths stink, heck they wobble around lazy doing nothing except looking for another opportunity to purchase weed around the street corner. They also drop at least 1 IQ point with each joint they toke.

Weed ke? Weed is 4 weedheads, no? We no be weedheads.

bluespice:
i dont care much for what ever it was u said after the bolded part
who is ashanti?

I don't care much for someone who doesn't care about what I say either.

Anyway, SeanT we can continue our conversation later in the day

Hmm,

Depends.

you have cheated on your husband emotionally and a little bit physically. That poor guy does not deserve to be treated the way you are treating him.

Thank you o my sister.

If you keep the spirit of wine with you at all times you will never go wrong.

Trust? Someone is gullible.

Snooping can destroy relationships, and snooping can save you from a world of trouble. Depends on how you look at it. Glass is half full or half empty. Feel me?

Snooping indicates a lot of things.

There are many different explanations as to why people cheat.  Take this one for example
You just got out of a 4 year relationship that ended pretty badly with the guy cheating on you.   You later realize that this person dropped hints along the way that you should have picked up.  In this relationship, you want to avoid the same thing happening to you so you pick on every little detail that goes on.  If this new guy you are with starts acting in a way you find suspect, your curiosity heightens and you kinda sorta want to make sure everything is fine.  Instead of asking him, you are afraid he might lie to you like your ex did so you go behind his back to find the truth yourself.
LOL


If someone gives you a reason to feel suspicious, you are not imagining it.  
I would encourage you to follow your gut instinct.  It's usually accurate.

Depends on where you put the guy. I could never understand these games people way. Whatever happened to being open and honest with one another. Why even bother to attempt to love at all if you have predetermined that you will only half-ass it?

Nice analysis.  Being in a relationship is no reason to lose your individual space.  


I am all for snooping.  Some people have found out that their husbands had second lives, by snooping.  Suspicious behavior gave it away.  You could never be too sure until you actually have proof.  Even if it hurts.

you are nasty

I think the loss of a loved one is the most painful experience you can possibly have.

I think if it doesn't kill you it can only make you stronger.

don't be silly it's a damn joke

get it . . .

LOL @ you haven't been unlucky enough to get involved with a guy that would hurt you. They are there and it would happen. Don't even trip.

She says "move on" like it's some sort of light switch.

moonshine, na wa o. this your own analysis get angle. how was I all up in our face? we had a heartfelt conversation about the inappropriate thoughts in her diary, and she apologized.

we both agreed that supreme honesty is the best way!

topup, I would think she suspected me of hiding something and tried to find out about it. maybe she felt i would lie about it if she asked me directly.

Stop crying Ebony. That story did not have a damn thing to do with topup. You are just bitter for no reason.

you are jealous. topup could take that the wrong way you know.

Please share.  Isn't that the purpose of the threaD?

You are right about the psychological effect.  It almost feels like one is being left for dead.  You start trying to connect the dots, looking for an explanation, you hold on to false hope. . . gaaaah


ebony,
quit being a homer.

LOL @ Ebony - am I hurting your feelings?


SeanT, one funny quote deserves another.

“Show class, have pride, and display character. If you do, winning takes care of itself."

“The truly proud man knows neither superiors nor inferiors. The first he does not admit of; the last he does not concern himself about.”

topup
You are such a darl. I knew you would understand.

It's just this weird thing about [b]staring into her eyes and giving her cuddles at the time. Most times, we hardly even have any conversations cuz all I can think about is how gorgeous she is and how 'beautyful' her smile is and how innocent her heart is.

Omg, I think you might be bent.

mmm good question. i mean if all you did was just fu*ked them, then it didn't really matter that you were in a relationship. it was no strings attached fun with someone you didn't care about. might as well be friends with benefits, right?

if you got separated from someone you truly cared about you would understand what this means. maybe the reason you decided to just start fu*king them is because one of them did you wrong in the past?

Such an ass.

Wetin, na fight

I cannot. I have my pride & ego to protect.

Because your "relationship" was never taken seriously by the both of you.

Sisterly Instincts . Good one! That just about had me ROFLMAO.

Maybe you are bicurious. Tell her how you feel.

SeanT21:
U are wrong for reading her diary.END OF STORY!! If she can not tell you the truth to your face then U guys should not be in a relationship.You should stop living in denial because its definitely not love.

sorry.

That's a lie 'cos u made a comment about it.

Reminisce because moving forward doesn't come easy. Look at topup for example. She got out of a bad relationship and she can't help it.


In fact I can't wait for topup's insight. Please topup where are you?

NOPE,U do not have to date a person to find out If U have a future with them.Do U have 2 date a Muslim to find out If U will marry him in the future??If U love slender girls,do U have 2 date a obese lady to find out if there is really a future??

Haven't you heard stories of those people who found love when/where they least expected?
I don't like your analogy. Muslims and Christians get married all the time.

I can know If I have a future with a person just by talking with them for a few minutes.

This is an enormous lie. Ever heard of pretenders?
Maybe you have never been taken for a ride.

I was at work 2 weeks back and I had a boy come up to me by the name of Anthony.We started talking and he asked for my number.I give it to him telling him we can only be friends.Later he told me that he had a baby on the way and a girlfriend.He said he was afraid 2 tell me at first.Later in the evening and the next day he kept on texting me.I ignore it.So do I have 2 date him before I can see that the future is bleak NOPE!!

This one story does not prove that you are miss Cleo.


Ebony continue liaring to yourself. I give you 5 years, you will be carrying my handsome baby after I knock you up for good.