₦airaland Forum

McStoic:
Follow your spirit. Age is just a number

Thanks

tydi:
Can you date a man as old as the last level of candy crush game

LOL... You're not serious

Ishilove:
Early 20s will mean you're between 21-23 so let's see here... 21 + 12= 33/35.

Aunty, the Uncle is ready and ripe for marriage . The person not ready is you, which is why you created this thread. Free the Uncle so he can focus on someone who is ready and willing. You are still discovering yourself

Noted

stanliwise:
You should be asking if he has what it takes to make a good husband.
You didn’t ask that

He has what it takes tho, except for the social life, yunno the fun of life, he has it zero

LadyTiannah2:
I've been in this situation before. He was also 12 years older. Although, he was nice, caring and all that, it felt a bit weird sometimes cos It seemed like he was living out some fantasies of being a dad through me.

You have to decide what you really want out of the relationship tho, in order not to waste his time. Some things I noticed about dating an older guy, is that being with an older person might make you want to act in a more mature way, to learn more in order to hold meaningful conversations, to be more social (in case he's the type that likes going to fancy places and you're an introvert like me, then there's the fact that their libido might not be as high as yours all in all, its yours feelings for this man that matter...not potential reactions from friends or family. Live your life for YOU, not for others.

Thanks for this... I will always put it mind

SlimmB:
Hey, don’t let anyone lie to you, age is never just a number and that’s why it called “age”. Tho being in a relationship with someone that’s 12 years older than you is very much reasonable...

Very much reasonable?
You think so?

Does age really matter in a relationship? I've been getting different answers to this question as some will probably say age is just a number. This man in question is everything a lady can ever ask for, caring, supportive, prayerful, and kind. My fear is just his age, he's 12 years older than I am, I'm still in my early 20s. I'm scared of taking the relationship too far and giving him false hopes of marriage because that's exactly what he wants..secondly, my family might not accept him because his looks already shows off his matured age.. I like him very much tho...
I need suggestions.

Thanks for this topic op

neyohh:
The guys here no dey answer correctly

Why and when did naija girls become so useless.

What happened because it wasn't like this before

I guess the economy is so bad that some girls only think with their pussis

Men will always embarrass you

It's my Huawei for me pls... Infinix and mtk chipset, I pick race... Oso..

Some girls can be very useless
God forbid... She intentionally had in mind before taking the Uber.. Tueh....

Cumtroller:
I'm sorry but your mum is intellectually retarded with a backward, archaic and myopic mindset.

She needs mental emancipation. I won't mince words, your mother is a destiny killer.

Are you okay?

uncleck:
78 and you're bearing candy crush? Abeg change your moniker

Whatever.... I ain't changing shit

uncleck:
What's the highest level you've attained?

Level 78, i was nt consistent at some point
Busy wt other things

uncleck:
Do you just love playing candy crush or you're so good at playing it? Just curious

Just love playing it, not so good at it tho
I don't care how many times i fail, still gonna come back

uncleck:
Street has taught me a lot more than school ever did.

You sound intelligent too
Nice to meet you

uncleck:
Bro, before I advise you, let me clear your head about certain things. First, there's a huge difference between being a trader and being an entrepreneur. Less than 2% of Nigerians are actually entrepreneurs. Forget about being an entrepreneur if you do not have strong economic or educational (not to be confused with academic) background. Secondly, flee very far away from motivation speakers at this age of your life if you want a happy future life.

Now my advice:
1. If you still want to go to school afterwards, save that 60k and keep saving more while you learn your graphics design. You will need money to buy laptop, flash drives, printers, modem etc if the skill you're learning now will be useful to you when you gain admission. Starting a business now will 90% likely drain this little change you have or significantly distract you from this skill you're learning.

2. Forget about school for now, think of a physical trade like welding, auto mechanic etc and use that 60k to enroll for apprenticeship. Don't allow motivation speakers to lure you into going the 3 - 6 months route. 3-5 years will be your best bet.

3. Look for a big trader that has a track record of settling his boys well and enroll as an apprentice. If you chose this path, make sure you have a large heart to accommodate insult.

If you start either 2nd or 3rd advice this year, by the time you turn 30, you must have become a landlord, bought your own car and have a family.

This advice should suffice if you're from a modest background

Shalom

Are you a counselor cos you sound like one
I like your sense of reasoning..

This energy should have been put to sth more useful... Big try anyway, but nw u have got answers u want

After a one year relationship, he started acting weird and strange.. Then i started sensing breakup, i decided to confront him on 14th Feb this year, he told me to my face that he's tired and wanna be alone, no longer in the mood for relationship, blahhhh blahhh... E pain me sha
But we meuvee

Pharaoh94:
I met a girl and we dated for like 3 years, we were best friends before we started dating. I went for NYSC 2019, she made me promise not to leave her. I told her,'i love her'. And i wasn't going to leave her even without a promise cos i intended to marry her. I was working vosa plans in secret for me and her. 2020, babe enter NYSC, i visited her August in apartments i rented for her. December 30th,2020, Bae said she can't date anymore. She is tired of dating. Just like that no fight, i trìed my best. She stopped picking my calls. I found out 24th Febuary, she is getting married in May. I wish her well sha. But loving another go hard for me for a while.

Chai
Thats really bad
So sorry about that

Billyonaire666:
Why are you ranting when you know EFCC website to copy their number ?

omoo

I'll be all alone, in my room sleeping and eating

Ottyn01:
I no understand

Let me coman pay and marry you

I can't ever..no matter how the love shark me

Ottyn01:
So myopic reasoning Instead of banning them from driving cars inside the school, the management should utilize the opportunity and build a car park, place security there and collect parking fee of #100 or #200 thereby creating revenue for the institution.

How much is your groom price again

Women can be senselessly stupid and foolish
How does one even have a strong mind to take away life she can't create
Good abeg ooo

Brendaniel:
cause all the guys who quoted me said I'm not

But I will still report you

Brendaniel:
But generally why do people think when someone is going to the hotel it means he is going there for something bad, personally sometimes I just like going to a good hotel to relax, I feel when I'm married I might do it a lot, not because there is problem in my house, but sometimes I just love being alone to relax and enjoy myself alone, though I don't think I will be letting my wife know when I'm doing it, I will just tell her I'm going for business meeting hope I'm not being selfish sha...

You are ....

femi4:
You wet

I'm cold