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Candidlady:
Nothing gives me joy than seeing this gender roast

I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU?

enikl:
Personally I believe it isn't about when they should start using it.. The big question should be when they can start using it without supervision! The digital age isn't limited to any age group.. But proper supervision is the ultimate goal!

THE BEST TIME TO BUY PHONE FOR YOUR CHILD IN THIS NIGERIA IS WHEN HE/SHE HAS GOTTEN ADMISSION INTO THE UNIVERSITY; ANYTHING SHORT OF THAT IS DANGEROUS. THAT DOES NOT MEAN YOU CANNOT BUY A SMALL JAVA PHONE FOR HOME COMMUNICATION BELONGING TO THE HOUSE

[quote author=ANTIFA post=103759514]No boss, most of this women think because they are "women", they can treat a man anyhow. Am 18 but I can't take this. [/quo

FORGET IT AND WATCH GOD FIGHT FOR U. IT IS MORE NOBLE TO FORGIVE THAN REVENGE. THE POLICE CAN'T DO NOTHING, SHE WILL.BAIL HERSELF N THATS THE END OF THE STORY. BUT IF YOU IGNORE HER SHE WOULD RESPECT YOU MORE, AND GODS VENGEANCE WILL BE MORE THAN A MILLION TIMES YOURS

Clara16:
Just a few months ago, my younger brother beat my father not once not twice. What do you think I should do?
This will also help people are facing a similar situation.

Please sensible and godly advise.

He is a very angry person and has pride just because he was looking for the house key, and discovered that the key he was looking for was held by my dad. He started beating him. He has even destroyed some of our properties at home all in the name of anger.

WHAT RUBBISH TAKE POLICE PICK HIM UP TELL THE POLICEMEN WHAT HE HAS DONE, LEAVE THEM TO HANDLE THE REST. HE WILL COME BACK AS QUIET AS SNOW; I PROMISE YOU

Jethrosam:
Pls all prayer warrior of nairalander i need ur prayer.it make one year have been sick but god almithy have been by side.the battle that have been won in my life shall never resurect in jesus name.pls bro and sister pray for me.let god put all my enemies to shame and into grave in jesus name

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO GOD NOW AND MAKE HIM A PROMISE NEVER TO SIN AGAIN AND WATCH HIM TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE. IF GOD TAKES OVER YOUR LIFE YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS

Techguy96:
First of all im sure u dated her b4 marrying her, u knew she liked short dress while dating her u did not complain, u went ahead with the marriage. If u don't like women wearing short gown than u shouldn't have married one that likes wearing short gown it's that simple.

Secondly, if she insisted on going to the service u could easily postpone ur discussion to after the service.


Finally making her sleep outside for minor issue like this is totally wrong.

ARE YOU MARRIED AM SURE NOT. DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS WHEN YOU TELL YOU WIFE NOT TO DO SOMETHING AND SHE GOES AHEAD TO DISOBEY; THAT IS WITCHCRAFT

pocohantas:
Married men and young boys are sleeping around with girls, but your concern is that single guys won’t see decent girls to marry?

You are not concerned about the industrious wives of these married men.

You are not concerned about single girls that are looking for decent men too.

Abi is it women that are good to marry community penis?

Sorry o, everybody go dey alright. Thank God I imported husband from Cambodia. You can do same if Naija girls matter done tire you.

VIRGINITY IS FOR WOMEN NOT MEN. IF ALL WOMEN DECIDE TO BE VIRGINS, THEN THE MEN ARE CLEAN. THAT IS WHY GOD PLACED THE HYMEN WHERE IT IS. A MAN STARTS DISCHARCHING FROM PUBERTY

tillaman:
And so, just cause someone smokes doesn’t make them irresponsible, we have a couple of billionaires that are chain smokers, smoking or not the girl is a crook, she roofied the dude and knifed him multiple times while he was incapacitated/blazed
Based on the fact that the dude was an amateur boxer, she can’t possibly do it without pharmaceutical help, it was premeditated

Being a billionaire does not make you responsible. Being responsible is a decision you take not the status you attain. All are politicians are money men but nearly all are irresponsible

tunbosun002:
The supposed manager is no longer picking my calls so I feel there is something shady about the transaction. I don’t know how difficult it can be to check your records if you received money or not. Please I need help from bankers in the house and advise from nairalanders.

ALL THAT IS NEEDED TO PROVE WHERE THE MONEY IS, IS FOR THE MANAGER TO GO TO THEIR BANK AND GET A PRINTOUT OF THEIR ACCOUNT STATEMENT FROM THE. DAY THE TRANSACTION WAS MADE TO ABOUT A WEEK AFTER. YOUR BANK KNOWS WHEN THE MONEY WAS CREDITED TO THEIR ACCOUNT THAT RESOLVES THE ISSUE

ONLY A WOMAN THAT MARRIED AS A VIRGIN SHOULD COMPLAIN ABOUT THE HUSBAND CHEATING. IF YOU KNOW YOU DID NOT MARRY A VIRGIN HOLD YOUR PEACE. THE BRIDE PRICE MEN PAY FOR A WOMAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE FOR HER VIRGINITY, MEN DON'T KNOW THEIR RIGHT THAT IS WHY WOMEN ARE SCREAMING CHEATING CHEATING. IF MEN DECIDES TO MARY ONLY VIRGINS THEN THE END TO CHEATING.
THE TRUTH MUST BE TOLD
IF ALL LADIES DECIDES TO BE VIRGINS THEN NO MAN WILL CHEAT EXCEPT WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.

[quote author=Riele post=86795925]You're also good at body shaming ladies here . Ugly thing ! .

As I typed before , who made it a rule that the pics on one's dp must be theirs ? .

I might be creating nuisance here but I don't go around ass licking men .

The guys here are broke including you [/quote
YOU JUST JUSTIFIED WHATEVER HE SAID: GUYS ARE BROKE EYES ON MONEY

ceeceeco:
This is exactly how touts celebrate. They're always known for their toutish lifestyle, they don't disappoint at all.

When will you celebrate
Joy killer
Cry me an ocean
The cup is now at Stanford bridge
A loosing team cannot celebrate
Only winning teams make noise both in and out of stadium

Bafanna02:
When a mediocre team like Chelsea wins a highly revered tournament like the champions league then every ounce of celebration is worth it

Which club in England has achieved what Chelsea has for the past 15seasons your just bias and a paid praise singer. Name your club. If you see good thing and despise it; you are indirectly attracting bad things rejoice with those who are rejoicing so that you turn will come
APC SYNDROME

AntiChristian:
This means you believe God had no plan for humans He created even before He created them.

In the story of Job according to your Bible, Satan had to seek help from God to destroy Job's. It was God that destroyed all he had but saved his life.

The time of death are as set by God and no other can determine this. Those who would die as miscarriage, toddler, infant, adolescent, youth and aged will die at their respective time. It's like a bus you alight anytime.
God brings calamity as well as prosperity according to Isaiah
45:7.

Please note that it is not God that inflicted pains on Job but God allowed the devil to inflict pains on Job. GOD CANNOT INFLICT PAIN ON ANYBODY BUT OUR SINS ALLOWS SATAN TO HURT US. but the case of job it was like a challenge from the devil that the righteous only worship God because of the benefits of riches and protection

mbaise1000:
[color=#006600][/color] Jehovah's witnesses believe and rightly too that satan is ruling the world now and will keep ruling until JESUS CHRIST come and take over, that is the simple reality, another reality is that we must face HIM before we can be part if HIS OWN rule, we have to qualify, are you ready?

SATAN RULES THE WORLD THAT IS NOT DEBATABLE. HE EVEN GAVE JESUS TO WORLD IF ONLY JESUS CAN WORSHIP HIM ARE YOU READY TO WORSHIP SATAN? THEN POWER BECOMES YOURS

Amotolongbo:
Jonathan has proven that he isn’t such a politician who needs human blood to remain relevant.

Jonathan has been vindicated

GOOD BLESS YOU YOU WILL LIVE LONG

Righteousness2:
Chai.. cry ! Cry! Baby..
Sorry son! Very close Match!
Laporte was not meant to Finish that match!

This is Exactly how People are crying in Hell right now!
This is Exactly how People will cry after the Rapture of the saints!
Repent now o! To avoid crying and wailing ooo!

If people are in hell now what is the need for resurrection and judgement will they resurrect from hell please read your. Bible well the dead are sleeping waiting for resurrection they are neither in heaven nor hell 1cor 15:18
Then also those who have fallen asleep in Christ have perished.
1 thes 4:1
For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.

I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes

P.s I need you honest opinion ....

what you did was wrong but her curses will not affect you because she's a sinner, only if you have God by your side. if you're conscience is blaming you then go and beg her for forgiveness if she refuses don't border again you have done your bit then ask God for forgiveness and move on

orohbiro:
There is a guy I met last week at a keke who paid my tfair and beg me to have my number he send me money to subscribe that same day at night when he called, he has barbing saloon for males and females, he took me out for shopping 3days ago which cost him almost 50k, bug I don't like him I have a fiancée already and I pity him cause he us just a saloon owner I want to get rid cause is dressing sense is poor moreover is not good looking . I don't think he can cope with me cause I will wreck him. pls advise me on how do dump this guy is ugliness is out of this world.

.YOU POSTED THIS ON MARCH 30 THIS YEAR

Good day guys, I met this girl 2019 July on my way back from work I approach her ask her out and the rest was history. we began dating I fell in love with her though I never demand for sex until October last year wish she refuse telling me she loves me that this is not the right time to do it. this is the same girl I have spend almost 47thousand naira on her head even her pant I haven't seen since we have been dating, so yesterday she came to my place we were talking from there I touch her breast rub her lap i was really excited she was about to let me in but this girl told me it was not the right time, I plead with this girl almost on my kneels this girl still turn me down and worst still the idiot is not a virgin she told me she has had it just once. she left my house am thinking of putting drug in her drink so that I can have my way because my money I have spent on her can't go like that please I need your advise please. am loosing patient

Ayo13945:
I think whether life has purpose is more of
a Subjective experience.

If you say life has no purpose its because you
FEEL that way.

If you also believe life has a Purpose(I do);
It is also because you FEEL that way.

It is all About PERCEPTION.

I think the greatest problem is deceit from our religious leaders. God created the earth for Man to inhabit in peace and enjoy but the fracas between God and the so called evil has brought hardship and suffering to man contrary to the initial plan of the creator. God created an avenue to restore man back to his initial plan but our pot bellied clergy are telling us that there is another place aside from the earth where the death will go THAT IS THE BIGGEST LIE IN THE UNIVERSE. we have no other home but the earth and only the creator can repair it in its present form and hand it over to those who are qualified to inherit it. If you have that hope then life has a meaning. We strive to live a life that pleases the creator so that in due time we can inherit this earth. All those killing and stealing to amass wealth now are only fooling themselves because it is temporal, the earth will be inhabited by only righteous people forever BLESSED ARE THE MEEK FOR THEY WILL INHERIT THE EARTH

Auntyada89:
Lol.
Same with Women.
Human are to work on Earth and enjoy in heaven.

There is no heaven for humans, the home of human is the earth. There will be a new earth for those who merited it. Where most of this ills will not exist. Read your Bible

Righteousness2:
I Vividly remember how he was Bashed here!
It's quite unfortunate!

Anyway he is gone. If he died in Christ he is right now in Everlasting and Glorious Joy!

HAS HE BEEN JUDGED SLREAFY?

Msnbcny:
Goat , chicken and turkey all the way, y'all are dirty for me to be eating beef.
Me and my house hold don't eat beef because of y'all stinking dirtiness. When I'm outside the shore we eat it, but seeing y'all dirty things always makes my tummy to purge, yes do us a favour and stop bringing beef in south .

We should take a decision not to eat beef just three months an you'll see humility from the rearers. I proposed boycott of beef in 2018 I was insulted by some now see the outcome. Beef is unhealthy of all the flesh we eat beef is the worst. Banning beef consumption in the south will improve our economy because many people will venture into animal husbandry and improve their lives n those of their family members; above all reduction in high blood pressure and its companion diabetes. My family stopped eatiing beef almost ten years ago. I only eat beef when it is presented in church occasions I wouldn't reject such but I keep campaigning against beef consumption.

Ecbatana:

I've been married for more than 20yrs peaceful I would advise you to move out of his house go rent you apartment and stay but don't break up with him. Tell him to come marry you officially. After that he will know that it is his responsibility to take care of a wife
Women are only helping us it is not a woman's responsibility to bring money home. But the hardship in the world has made it look like it is. A woman is a helper not the one to shoulder responsibility. Mind you am not saying my wife doesn't contribute to the family upkeep how she does it is strictly her choice. I pay house rent children school fees and virtually every bill. Most of her money goes into clothing for the children, herself and occasionally me. I don't ask her to give me anything
Recently as things changed from the covid era, she now allows me to know about her salary. Now we
are planning to take loan with her salary account to put in my business. JUST BE WISE N ASK GOD FOR DIRECTION YOU CAN'T MAKE A MISTAKE IN MARRIED IT WILL BE DEADLY. YOU TALK AS A GOOD WIFE MATERIAL. GOD BLESS YOU

Sensitivity of the penis I doubt if any dug will solve that. Will suggest you look for MAN AND WOMAN CREAM The original it was common some years back what it does is to deaden the sensitivity of the tip of the penis to enable the man last longer I think it will help him immediately: it should be about 200 or 300naira now it is a very small cream in a plastic container. Just apply it to the sensitive area allow for about one to two hours before sex, when ready for sex wash it off with only water then use it, the sensitivity will die down completely and it will add extra pleasure to the woman.

sinkhole:
I understand your point, but how can my mother and my father bring me to this world and my father then abandon all the work for my mother? A family consists of a father, a mother and at least a child. I hope I am right?
A father has the utmost responsibility to take care of his family, no matter what. If he feels he will not be opportuned to take care of anybody then he should not father such a person, it is better to be childless than to be a father to a child you can not take care of!
I appreciate my mother, even though she could do very little to see me through my University years and I could have achieved more if my father had contributed I could have achieved more, even though I am not regretting what I am now!

Even the western world we talk about most parents don't even train their children as far as college most stop at high school. Only the very rich among them train their children in college n universities others are on loan which you pay back as you start working. But in Nigeria if you give student loan the person will run to another country after graduation most times we are responsible for our suffering. If you are up to eighteen please don't expect from your parents you are up to the age of producing. Your parents have tried to fend for you from the womb up to that age. Calculation shows that it takes about #10M to train a child from conception to 18years on average, richer parents spend more

duro4chang:
Cow meat is not a must. To hell with your cow meat.

I ADVOCATED BOYCOTT OF BEEF IN 2018 AS THE ONLY SOLUTION TO HERDSMEN KILLINGS BUT I WAS REBUFFED. I KEPT SILENT BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IF THE WEST, EAST, N SOUTH SOUTH DECIDES TO BOYCOTT BEEF FOR A MONTH I MEAN A MONTH ONLY THIS RUBBISH WILL STOP. BUT WE LACK THE WILL LIKE HE RIGHTLY SAID.: FOR YOU TO ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN LIFE THERE ARE PRICES TO PAY. DONT WE HAVE GOAT, CHICKEN RABBIT, FISH ETC WHICH WE CAN EQUALY DEVELOP N IMPROVE THE ECONOMY OF THE SOUTH. WE USE OUR MONEY TO BUY GUNS FOR THEM YES WE BUY GUNS FOR THEM BECAUSE WHEN YOU PETRONIZE THEM YOUGIVE THEM MONEY TO HURT YOU.

[quote author=Manoftheyear post=97977104]Honestly, some friends I have related this to said I should tell my brother[/quote

IF you don't tell your brother it means if you see poison you will kill your brother. You must tell him because the girl is killing your brother slowly and God brought you to reveal it, your brother may not be as observant as you TELL YOUR BROTHER NOW

mikezuruki:
I have noticed that adults in this part of the world perceive that to be insult.

They feel belittled and disrespected.

Why?

If an adult is sick you can ask how are you today sir; but not a healthy looking adult ie your senior what do you expect him to answer you, such questions it is believed are asked by someone who can solve your problems.

Eight years ago, with tears in my eye, I held his hand, begged him to stay with me that we will struggle together and succeed, but he refused. He walked away living me pregnant. Now, he's back without anything.

We were friends from the University, I graduated before him because I was studying a 4years course. The very first time, we tried to take our relationship serious was after my graduation. We had s.e.-x for the very first time and I became pregnant.
The truth is, the guy have always been good to me throughout my stays in school.
I remembered that day he sacrificed his school fees for mine so I could be able to do my final clearance. But when I became pregnant, he walked away after convincing me to keep our baby.
I went through everything all by myself.
Since last year, he has been apologizing on phone, so last week, I asked him to come. He traveled down to my place. Without being afraid of anyone harming him from my family, he believed in me and came. He's around in my family house, staying in my brother's room for the past 3days.
He has opened up everything to me, my family members and have apologized.

now, I'm so confused with my life.

He couldn't graduate, he had problem in school after I left and all this years, he has been struggling, but now he wants to take responsibility and be with us, but he had nothing. No certificate, except diploma which he later did from another school, no job, no place of his own to stay. He had nothing. He wants us to get married and have a family.


I feel I'm about to add more burden to my already stressed life.
The only positive thing here now, is the excitement my son is having seeing his father and the relationship they're building.

A part of me wants to see this guy have a great life and have direction and not see him live like this, even if I don't settle down with him. because when I meant him, he was kind, a good person, he had dreams, vision and good plans.
But living us alone all this years, with all his explanations, I'm not contented.

Another part of me is confused, afraid and I feel ishould push him away and let him go back to his life and keep moving with my son because I don't have the strength to shoulder all these.

Please matured mind in the house, what do you have to say? This is my life and it's getting more confused.
What would you advise? What should I do?
I don't want to make more mistakes.

Sorry for my lengthy write-up

8yrs in a womans life is long my question is why have not married another person all these years?

Madam the greatest error you can make is to think that someone is after your husband, no body is attacking him. The truth is that as a man we have our elastic limits, he has tried several things which failed he now thinks he cannot succeed in anything that's his problem, all he needs now is motivation. You said he's intelligent and hardworking so help him learn a trade, tailoring, gen or auto mechanics plumblng etc anyone he likes, let him learn it. Thank God later. Above all be sinless so God can answer your prayers. This stage now is when you are supposed to stay closest to him that is what marriage is all about

[quote author=jesusjnr2020 post=94357159]I haven't yet found the kind of church in the book of Acts yet.

I'm still searching... Maybe one day because that my kind of church, my kind of mindset, my kind of commitment, my kind of focus, my kind of Word which is the Words Of Jesus!

I hope to find one soon, if I don't find one, it means I might have to start one.

But in the meantime, I'd keep preaching the Words of Jesus and i'm doing great because God's with me so I don't need to be in church building to feel His presence.

God bless.[/quote

Can we start one? what are you looking for in Church gathering?