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WHAT IF YOU DECIDES TO HAVE ANOTHER AND IT TURNS OUT TO BE A GIRL ALSO, WILL YOU OPT FOR ANOTHER? OR HAVE YOU GOTTEN AN ANTIDOTE TO CONCEIVING A GIRL CHILD,

YOU ALSO TALK AS IF YOU ARE NOT PART OF THE HOME; YOUR HUSBAND SAYS THINGS ARE HARD ARE YOU NOT FEELING THE HARDSHIP IN THE COUNTRY

THE COMMANDMENTS OF GOD IS FOR OUR OWN GOOD
GODS COMMANDMENTS DOESN'T APPLY IN HEAVEN, IT IS TO ENABLE US LIVE A SANER LIFE HERE; EVERY SIN HAS ITS CONSEQUENCE BARE YOURS. IT STARTS FROM LUST TO FORNICATION FROM FORNICATION TO MURDER AS IN ABORTION.

Mercychen:
No amount of money is ever is ever enough because the more the income, the more your expenses and the more you'll want to improve your standard of living. All these end up gulping your finances, making your income insufficient at the end of the day. hence the need for a higher income. That is why the rich still hustle despite all they have.

Money is never enough at any level you find yourself.

SO. WHAT ARE YOU SAYING?

THIS IS RUBBISH BROTHER ONLY YOU CAN TIE YOURSELF.

JACOB TRICKED HIS FATHER TO TAKE ESAU'S BLESSING BUT WHEN ESAU WENT TO VISIT HIM, JACOB ARRANGED GIFTS AND ALL TO GIVE HIM, BUT ESAU TOLD HIM. OGA I DON'T NEED YOUR GIFT I HAVE MORE THAN ENOUGH. ESAU HAD 400 BODY GUARDS WITH HIM WHEN HE WENT TO SEE JACOB.

EVEN IF YOU ARE BLESSED AND YOU REFUSE TO DO SOMETHING YOU REMAIN A MEDIOCRE.

ONLY YOU CAN CURSE YOURSELF THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS

IF IT HAS BEEN LIKE THIS FROM THE BEGINNING, AND YOU CLAIM YOU'VE TRIED SOME REMEDIES STILL NO SOLUTION.

I WOULD ADVISE
GET HIM 50MG VEGA PLUS AND OBSERVE THE EFFECT IF IT HELPS HIM THEN LET HIM USE IT ONCE IN A WHILE; LIKE 2ICE A WEEK. IF HE HAS WEIGHT LET HIM TAKE 100MG. BUT PLEASE THE FIRST DOSAGE SHOULD BE 50MG.

IF THIS DOESN'T WORK, THEN LET HIM STRENGTHEN THE MUSCLE THAT CONTROLS URINE; BY
NOT RUSHING TO WEE WHENEVER HE IS PRESSED
WEEING SLOWLY WHEN ITS TIME TO WEE AS IN ALLOW THE WEE TO FLOW THEN HOLD IT, ALLOW A LITTLE MORE THEN HOLD IT, CONTINUOUSLY, I BET YOU HE WILL START IMPROVING LITTLE BY LITTLE, UNTIL YOULL BE BEGGING HIM TO COME DOWN
THEN FOR YOU MONITOR HIS EXCITEMENT WHEN HE IS INSIDE YOU, STOP ROLLING YOU WAIST. AT THE BEGINNING TELL HIM IF HE FEELS LIKE EJACULATING, HE SHOULD STOP THRUSTING AND PULL OUT SLIGHTLY NOT COMPLETELY, WAIT FOR AWHILE AND CONTINUE. IF HE CAN PULL OUT ABOUT THREE TIMES THEM HE CAN STAY FOR ABOUT 30MINS
TRY THIS

Righteousness2:
What a Sad one.

Life is a Gift From GOD and you have no right in the name of any Circumstance to take it. It is Self Murder.

It is a One way ticket to Hell and Destruction. Take Note! There is no condition here on Earth that can be compared to what Hell Fire is.

HELL FIRE FOR HUMANS THAT GOD CREATED? PLEASE STOP MAKING MY GOF A MONSTER AND A SADIST. PLEASE UNDER WHAT CONDITION CAN A GOD THAT CREATED MAN FOR HIMSELF THEN TURN AROUND TO INFLICT EVERLASTING PAIN ON HIM; THIS IS THE BIGGEST LIE OF THE DEVIL.
ROMANS 6:23 THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH NOT EVERLASTING TORMENT.

WE ARE PRESENTING THE CHRISTIAN GOD AS WICKED AND HEARTLESS.

AS A TRUE CHRISTIAN IF I DISCOVER IN THE BIBLE THAT GOD PLANS TO TORTURE THE BEST OF HIS CREATION, I WILL STOP WORSHIPING HIM

EZEKIEL 18:4 THE SOUL THAT SINNETH SHALL DIE.
SO DEATH IS THE PUNISHMENT FOR SIN NOT YOUR FALSE DEVILISH DOCTRINE OF HELL.

WHEN ADAM SINNED GOD TOLD HIM I MADE YOU FROM DUST SO YOU WILL RETURN TO DUST.
WHY DID GOD NOT TELL ADAM THEN THAT YOUR FIRE AWAITS HIM.

FOR THE FACT THAT A DOCTRINE IS PREACHED BY ADEBOYE, OR OYEDEPO OR IBIYOMIE OR WHATSOEVER THEY CALL THEMSELVES DOES NOT MAKE IT CORRECT. GET THAT INTO YOUR. HEAD.

FINALLY I CHALLENGE YOU TO LOOK AT YOUR BIBLE BACK KJV SEARCH FOR THE MEANING OF HELL. HELL MEANS WORLD OF THE DEATH LITERALLY GRAVE

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OverCalculating:
Hi Everyone,

I took a loan from a Microfinance bank sometime in 2019. The loan was N600,000 and I was asked to pay back on a monthly basis for 8 months. I had actually requested for 1.2million naira loan to get an important tool/machine to enhance my business but I was only offered 600k. With 600k I could not afford to get the tool, so I diverted the money to another business. After repaying a portion of the loan for few months, the business failed and I could not afford to payback afterwards. The business was meat distribution to households and offices. It failed because of inadequate structure that gave way for customers to receive products but not pay back. Debt killed the business. I have been struggling to survive since then.

At a point, I called the company early this year, when I got a new job that I know the months of my repayment have elapsed but I am ready to start paying a percentage of my new salary, but they insisted I should pay in full since my repayment is overdue.

Recently, I have been getting several threats from the company asking me to make full payment or else the case will be reported to the police and I would be jailed for absconding with the company's money. I know I am indebted to them but I can't afford to refund all the loan now since I am only managing to live with a job that I am doing now which I earn 40k salary. My concern now is that I need clarifications from the legal practitioners, IT experts and public prosecutors in the house on the following:

1. Is this case truly a criminal case as they constantly remind me or is it a civil case?

2. Can the Police actually track my location to arrest me as they threaten? Please note that I use a small Nokia phone and I am in a remote area outside Lagos.

3.What is the worse thing that can happen; so I can get ready for it because I am not financially buoyant now to cough out 600k now.
Thank you all.

YOU SAID YOU'VE PAID SOME OF THE MONEY HOW COME ITS STILL REMAINING 600K

Mercychen:
Shes battling such in her life, instead of seeking solution to her problem, she's busy sleeping in a guest house with a man.

Let her get bornagain first. Then go for deliverance because sometimes it's could be a spiritual cause.

Secondly, take her to a very good hospital for proper diagnosis and treatment.

YOU DON'T NEED TO BE HARSH ON HER TO WIN HER OVER FOR CHRIST, FIRST THINK OF HER FEAR AND HUMILIATION FOR ALMOST 23YRS; SHE DESERVES LOVE AND COMPASSION. YOU NEED MEEKNESS TO WIN PEOPLE FOR CHRIST

Mercychen:
Your marriage was obviously not built on trust otherwise both of you would not subscribe to swearing which is not good especially if you're a Christian who is well versed in the word of God.

Your wife may have refused to swear because it is a wrong thing to do or because she had cheated when she suspected you were cheating. All these boils down to lack of trust for each other.

Any relationship not built on trust is not worth taking to the next level ( marriage) because it will be suspicion all the way which will eventually lead to divorce.

Do not swear, no matter the situation. Be a man and woman of integrity. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Swearing sometimes does not really a proof of ones innocence as some people can be guilty and still swear without fear.

YOU SAID YOU'RE NOT MARRIED BUT YOUR COMMENTS ALWAYS LOOKS LIKE THAT OF AN EXPERIENCED N MATURED MOTHE N WIFE. I THINK YOU'LL BE A GOOD WIFE N MOTHER, ASK GOD FOR HUSBAND THAT SUITES YOU NOW

Mercychen:
Lol.. you won't understand.
Man no dey hungry me again .

Seriously, I don't fancy men any longer. I see them as additional stress in my life.

Am a male n married; I would advise you to change the attributes of the men you fancy, go for the intelligent ones I mean the highly intelligent ones; they are more humane and considerate.

chatinent:
Sorry about your loss.

I believe we'll see them again.

YES AT THE RESURRECTION; BUT SOME WILL RESURRECT TO DIE AGAIN

OKOATA:

Bros we share the same DNA with monkeys, do you want to keep it as a pet? I guess no. I'm so sure you will eat the poor thing after and I do hope it spreads a disease to you and your community cos of your gluttony, I take God beg you abeg free that animal.

YOU SHARE THE SAME DNA WITH CHIMPANZEE AND YOUR BEGGING IN GODS NAME. IS IT GOD THAT CREATED THE SIMILAR DNA. WE ARE CONFUSED

freshboi88:
My humble self with the aid of other Bible believing christains have become a thorn in the flesh of the hypocritical and lying JWs.

They now know better than to twist scriptures in the presence of my humble self and others. Worthy of mention are: Emusan, Achorladey and others who spend time to engage these liars with scriptural truth, using biblical references.

We do not hate JW. On the contrary, we love them, they are our brothers and sisters. We just don't want them to perish that is why we take the pain to use scriptures to wash the indoctrination from their eyes.

Turn away from man made doctrines and rules and follow God's words

One Love

Freshboi88!

I ATTEND THE RCCG BUT I KNOW ONLY THE JWs PREACH THE TRUTH ABOUT GOD. MAY I REMIND YOU THAT THE ROAD TO GOD'S KINGDOM IS A NARROW ONE ONLY FEW CAN FIND IT. FORGET ABOUT ANIMATION AND DECEIT OF OUR GOs AND PASTORS THE PREACH FOR THEIR BELLY. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE THAT THE PENTECOSTAL CHURCHES ARE ON THE PART TO GODs KINGDOM; IF THEY ARE THEN ONLY A FEW WILL EMBRACE THEM MAY I TELL YOU THAT LESS THAN 1% OF PENTECOSTALS KNOW AND PRACTICE THE TRUTH. I WOULD ADVISE YOU DON'T BE THE PAUL OF THIS ERA, REMEMBER PAUL THOUGHT HE WAS.DOING GOD FAVOUR UNTIL HE LEARNT IN A HARD WAY. A PARAGRAPH IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

JovialJune:
You see, this is how a balanced healthy family life should be, where both couples join heads to make it work no matter the setback any is facing at a period of time, I tell people that the marriage problem and high rate of divorce we see today is cos one is lording himself/herself over the other, when couples see each other as equal partners, everything will fall in place, even the bible says "two become one" as in same in body and everything.

THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOME SO THE BIBLE SAYS
THERE IS NO EQUALITY IN MAN AND WOMAN IN MARRIAGE; THE MAN IS THE HEAD PERIOD. JUST LIKE CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH

Akintundexxy:
Sometime ago, someone testified that she was asked to fast for 14 days before her wedding because some evil forces are trying to harm her in the course of the wedding or marriage.
She did, probably as a result, her two siblings died within the 14 days of fasting.

This has really made me to be confused, some people do say we should pray for our enemies while some say we should cast fire on them. Which do we follow?

Someone who's against your progress in life, and you're praying to God to bless him/her. I'm still getting confused.
How will you achieve what you want in life if someone is hindering you spiritually? and the person is still breathing fine.

Pls enlighten me,
Someone who called himself my loved one and hindering my progress is not my loved one...Should I continue to pray for them

THE WORD PRAYER MEANS ASKING FOR GOOD THINGS OR FAVOUR. AS LONG AS IT IS GOD THAT ANSWERS PRAYER NO NEGATIVE PRAYER CAN BE ANSWERED BY HIM
NEGATIVE PRAYER IS FOR DEMONS AND WITCHES TO RESPOND NOT GOD

Workch:
The Bible is not evidence, it’s a claim.

Miracles are not evidence, they are claims or products of ignorance.

Creatures are not evidence, we know how a lot of them got here.

Bible and Quran passages are full of lies and unsubstantiated claims. Their stories directly oppose reality and sometimes very laughable and can never be proven to be true, all lies and no single evidence.

There are no gods. All gods are fantasy creatures invented by humans. Gods can’t be detected with our human senses because gods don’t exist.

“Perceived mind telepathy”? Well, right, there’s no such thing as telepathy but sometimes people think they are receiving messages from some outside source. They are actually getting some sort of feedback from their own subconscious mind.

A FOOL SAYS IN HIS HE ART THERE IS NO GOD
I want you to explain this Mr nogod
A woman dreamt that one of her child among the four sleeping in their room was taken away by unknown person, she woke up form her sleep, ran to the children's room and saw all the four children sleeping, she was relieved and happy, morning came all the children woke up; but before 12noon that day the one she dreamt that was taken away died. PLEASE OGA NOGOD WHICH SCIENCE CAN EXPLAIN THAT-- coincidental?

NipseyHustle:
Thanks bro. Please where do you recommend I get 'Isopropyl Alcohol' from? Can I get it from a pharmacy?

ISOPROPYL ALCOHOL IS CALLED IPA IN THE MARKET IT IS A MAJOR CONSTITUENT OF METHYLATED SPIRIT INFACT 90% I WOULD RECOMMEND ORIGINAL MOKO. METHYLATED SPIRIT. PLEASE CHECK THE CONTENT

Legendrysailor:
Hell no !!!

A man dat does not watch football is an infidel. Such man should be cast into d lake of fire.

Football is life especially when u support Liverpool

THINK OF THE BIGGER BOYS CHELSEA
END OF FOOTBALL DISCUSSION

Vickyvice:
Your father is dead and gone. Your dad wasn't d one who appeared to u in whatever form. He has returned to dust in all entirety like Adam and Eve. Hope and pray for the resurrection on last day. hopefully, ur dad may be among righteous ones.

GOD BLESS YOU MY LOVE

James4358:
Hello my nairaland family. I'll make this post short & precise... I buried my dad around april this year. Am the only available child, as my elder brother relocated abroad in january & has refused to make contact. I took a loan to sponsor my bro's trip abroad, & also took another loan from my bank to partly sponsor the burial as all the family burden rested on my shoulders.. Last month, my dad appeared in a dream telling me to hurry up in paying a vow he made in church of abt 50k before he died. I was warming up to pay the vow this month's ending as am stil servicing the loans i got from my bank. He appeared last week to remind me but yesterday night's own came with severe flocking. Am stil feeling the pains from the cain he used at my back & joints.. How do i contain him before month end when i'll be bouyant to pay the vow. Am afraid he may return with more beatings,. & am jst 30yrs old, & wouldnt want to have any part of my body deformed as a result. Your suggestions wil be greatly appreciated!

YOU'RE BEING FLOGGED BY DEMONS NOT YOUR FATHER. BIND THAT DEMON IN PRAYER. PAY NOTHING. YOU DAD IS DEATH SO IS EXONERATED FROM THE VOW

Hismasterpiece:
Ever since I was a kid, I've always been used to eating the meat last, that is, after eating the rice, or swallow or whatever is served.

I noticed that my father, mother, brothers all follow this rule.

I have also noticed it in public events. When rice is served, people usually eat the rice first and the meat last. The same goes for swallow or anything that is served with meat.

My question is, why is that so?

Why is it that most Nigerians follow this unwritten rule?

AS A FATHER IT IS PART OF TRAINING BEING ABLE TO SAVE THE BEST FOR LAST IT CREATES DISCIPLINE AN
D ENDURANCE

Zuchey91:
No, I recently told him about the cheating part.

IF YOUR EX OR Y IS HOMELY WHY IS HE DIVORCED? I BET YOU YOU'RE PRESENT HUSBAND IS BETTER THAN HIM. YOU'RE MARRIAGE IS JUST 3YRS AND YOUR EX IS ALREADY DIVORCED WERE YOU DATING HIM AS A MARRIED MAN OR HIS MARRIAGE COULDNT LAST 3YRS? IS THAT THE SIGN OF A RESPONSIBLE MAN

Hismasterpiece:
Please avoid false teachings.

People don't cease to exist when they die. We are spirits who have souls and live in bodies. 1 Thessalonians 5:23.

When a believer dies he goes to be with the Lord in Heaven. 2 Cor 5:1, 8. Phil 1:23.

Where they get this false notion that a person ceases to exist is from Genesis 3:19 where God told Adam that he was dust and would return back to dust because he ate the fruit.

God didn't mean that he would cease to exist, he was just telling him he would die physically as a direct consequence of him dying spiritually because he ate the fruit.

And they conveniently ignore Genesis 2:7 where God breathed into man and he became a living being.

The word for BREATH in the Hebrew and Greek is the same word for SPIRIT.

So man became a living being when God put a spirit inside him.

And they also ignore the warning in Genesis 2:16-17.

God said the DAY that he ate the fruit he would Die. But when Adam ate the fruit he didn't die physically until many years later.

What does that mean? Does that mean that God lied? Of course not. The DAY that our parents ate the forbidden fruit THEY DIED. That's the real them... Their spirit.

God is the Father of spirits Heb 12:9. And Adam is called the Son of God Luke 3:38. God is a Spirit John 4:24. Therefore Adam is a Spirit who was put inside a body.

WHEN GOD CREATED MAN HE SAID MAN BECAME A LIVING SOUL NOT SPIRIT AND THE BIBLE CLEARLY SAID IN EZEKIEL 18:4 THAT THE SOUL THAT SINNETH SHALL DIE.
OGA SPIRIT HOW DO YOU RECONCILE HAVING SPIRIT AND RESURRECTION. JUST LISTEN TO FALSE DOCTRINE YOU DIE YOU GO TO HEAVEN OR FAKE HELL AND THERE IS RESURRECTION HOW DO YOU RECONCILE THAT THERE IS ALSO JUDGMENT DAY THINK ABOUT IT.
1CORINTHIANS 15:18 SAYS THE DEATH ARE SLEEPING WAITING FOR RESURRECTION
FINALLY PLEASE OGA SPIRIT WHERE WAS JESUS FOR THE THREE DAYS HE DIED BECAUSE JESUS CLEARLY TOLD MARY IN JOHN 20:17 DON'T TOUCH ME BECAUSE MY FATHER IS YET TO SEE ME LET ME GO AND SHOW MYSELF TO HIM
Man is nothing but a living soul. When we die our soul remains in the grave until the RESURRECTION

Okortor:
Nothing much except there's this my staff that by all means want to sleep with me despite ignoring her greenlight.

My next action is to sack her because I can't cheat on my wife but she's one of my best performing staff.

CALL HER POLITELY AND TELL HER THAT SHE IS YOUR STAFF AND SO SHE IS UNDER YOUR CARE N PROTECTION THAT YOU CANNOT MESS WITH HER IF SHE CONTINUES THEN SHOW HER THE DOOR BECAUSE MOST WOMEN THINK THEY CAN ALWAYS BRING A MAN DOWN NOMATTER HOW HIGHLY PLACED. DON'T ALLOW HER SEE YOUR unclothedness ITS AN INSULT TO YOUR WIFE

I THINK WORKING WITH SOMEONE SIMPLY MEANS YOU HAVE A STAKE IN THE ORGANIZATION LIKE HAVING A SHARE BEING PARTNERS; WORKING FOR IS THE CORRECT TERM FOR THOSE IN THE PAYROLL WHO JUST WORK FOR MONTHLY STIPEND

YET IF SOMEBODY OUTSIDE ASK YOU WHERE ARE YOU WORKING, YOUR REPLY SHOULD BE AM WORKING WITH NOT AM WORKING FOR

MufasaLion:
It's bad but at the same time it happens always. It's a hard thing to curb these days because the husband will never find out.

You can only hear these stories among guys but a woman will never spit it out not even to her friends except in very rare cases.

I know what I'm taking about.

ALL THESE HAPPENS BECAUSE MEN MARRY NON VIRGINS, WHEN OUR PARENTS EMPHASIZED ON VIRGINITY THIS IS ONE OF REASONS
THE PRIDE PRICE MEN PAY TO A GIRLS FAMILY IS FOR HER VIRGINITY; BUT TODAY MEN DON'T CARE THEY CAN EVEN HAVE FIVESOME WITH THEIR WIVES SO WHAT DO YOU EXPECT

Ezinwa120:
Is this a pay back or a coincidence? Only time will tell...stay tuned

THIS IS FAKE NEWS. THE ATTACK WAS OVER THE WEEKEND SO WHY DIDN'T OYEDEPO MENTION IT ON SUNDAY. 100% FABRICATED
#LIARMOHAMMED
#APCSYNDROME

Righteousness2:
How does a baby look older than the Mother?

Very likely as a result wicked Witchcraft Manipulations and Projections. The World is filled with Wickedness.

This is why it is risk to Just Live anyhow. It is risk to be Live without a Solid connection with JESUS Christ.

Only a Divine intervention from above will sort this out.

DON'T BOTHER YOURSELF THE PICTURE IS FAKE. LOOK AT THE FULL PICTURE YOU'LL SEE THAT THE BODY IS MISSING, BECAUSE THE BODY AND THE HANDS AND LEGS CANNOT BE THAT THIN

jonaifame22:
Well,this is coming at a time,when I'm seriously single like number 1, my place is quite comfortable, I have a DStv,a PlayStation 3,my room is always cold all thanks to my two horse power air-conditioning.

My ex gf left me like an evil spirit begen cast out by a strong man of God,since then I've been lonely like akon's debut single.

I work my own business with my bus,and I can afford to give her 1k daily for feeding while she'll eat what she wants when she returns from work.she's quite sexy, and she has lived with me and my ex last year for some weeks.

The kind of job I do requires that I work all day and I have lots of customers, and jobs come for me on a steady and I earn well.

She's fun like an activity of interest,and she fits into something that could do well for me after a long days hustle,at least someone to talk with,I have prayed severally to God to help me find a lively girl,who CLD keep me company after work hours,this looks like an opportunity,I wanna take it, but I'm kind of drawing back like the hairline of someone suffering from frontal hair baldness

Feeding will never be an issue, but how about my ex,how will she feel. Hmmmmmmm

FLEE FORNICATION IF YOU'RE UP TO AGE GET MARRIED. BE IN GOOD STANDING WITH GOD