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NOBODY IS AFTER YOU, ACCIDENTS DO HAPPEN DUE TO VEHICLE MALFUNCTION AND CARELESSNESS OR MISTAKES FROM THE PERSON WITH THE STIRRING. WE ARE TOO QUICK TO ACCUSE PEOPLE ESPECIALLY OF UNSEEN MATTER'S THE EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS WE ARE FOLLOWING ARE THEY THINKING THIS WAY. WERE YOU TRAVELLING TO HEAVEN THAT YOU WOULD BE DRIVING AT 120KM/HR?
IF YOU HAD ACCIDENT THEN YOU WOULD HAVE BLAMED YOUR UNCLE BECAUSE COINCIDENTALLY HE CALLED YOU BEFORE THE ACCIDENT AND TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE, HE LIVES IN THE VILLAGE.
DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT ARE ACCUSING YOUR FATHER OF BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR PLIGHTS? ALL THESE ARE RUBBISH, NOONE IS AFTER YOU, ONLY YOU CAN BE AFTER YOURSELF. GET CLOSE TO GOD AND DUMP NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

ChizzyBuna:
Now here is the real issue
As of today i told her that i saw her name on sack list. It didn't go well with her
She has accused me of using her to climb to get new position at work.
She is now threatning to expose all our flings and affairs to my uncle who is the M.D.
She swore that i cant be promoted and she be sacked. That if they will sack her then they must sack me too.

She said i should defend her like i did last year or else she will expose our office sex and flings to M.D
And if i defend her, that my uncle will definitely suspect and he might demote me or sack me. He is a tough disciplinary man. I have seen him sack his closest allies.
I do r know what to do. I havent eaten since afternoon. My mind is not at rest

AM SORRY TO SAY THIS BUT YOU ARE WORSE THAN SAMPSON, WHY WOULD YOU TELL HER, WOMAN WRAPPER, ALL YOU WOULD HAVE. DONE. IS TO PREPARE THE LETTER AND KEEP YOUR SIMPLETON MOUTH SHUT, WHATEVER SHE DOES AFTER THE SACK WOULD BE OF LITTLE CONSEQUENCE. YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER YOUR TONGUE WHAT ARE YOU WISE OR FOOLISH CHOOSE ONE

Senomi:
Gay redpillers, verily verily I say unto all foolish nairaland alpha sheeps, this will be the fate off all these useless nairaland men saying women are scum....in Jesus name amen.

WHICH OF. THE JESUS ARE YOU PRAYING TO? THE ONE THAT PLAYS FOR MAN CITY?

THE CHRIST DOES NOT ANSWER SUCH PRAYERS. EVERY NEGATIVE PRAYER END WITH THE PRAYEE: YOU YES YOU

ANY BODY THAT COMMITS SIN BELONGS TO SATAN. YOU CAN'T BE BORN AGAIN WITH MOUTH, BUT IN ACTION; LIVE ABOVE SIN WITH THE HELP OF GOD'S SPIRIT

DON'T LISTEN TO ALL THE VIBES HERE, MOST ARE INCORRECT.
THE PRICE WE PAY FOR SIN IS DEATH, BUT THE FREE GIFT OF GOD IS EVERLASTING LIFE. IT MEANS WE ALL WILL DIE, BECAUSE WE ARE ALL SINNERS COURTESY OF OUR FATHER ADAM, BUT THOSE THAT BELEIVE IN JESUS AND DO HIS WILL THOUGH WILL DIE WILL RESURRECT TO BE GIVEN ETERNAL LIFE
.....,.BUT THE FREE GIFT OF GOD IS ETERNAL LIFE THROUGH JESUS CHRIST

jaytii:
So after reading through NovesaTillie's thread https://www.nairaland.com/6909608/celebrating-one-year-abstinence-sugary#108790773
Two weeks ago, I decided to go on the same journey starting this year.

For this reason, I consumed more than my usual weekly dose of Coca-Cola and Pepsi (maximum of 4) no thanks to the festive season free drinks here and there.

Unfortunately, thirty five minutes (01/01/2022 12:35am) into the new year after screaming happy new year and saying hello to few friends and family over the phone, I was already downing a very cold bottle of Pepsi to cool my head before I realized I just broke my major resolution for this year.

Mr Dj please play Timaya "I can't kill myself"


Lalatiscl.ala, myn.d44 and the rest of the Nairaland family Happy New Year. I hope I am not the only one in this situation.

THAT'S THE DEVIL DECEIT, DON'T MIND WHAT HAPPENED MAINTAIN YOUR RESOLUTION, YOU WILL EVENTUALLY WIN THE BATTLE

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

I CAN TELL YOU SHE IS LYING

dingbang:
Please i need to understand the physics of this happenstance.

So the shooter aims the gun facing the sky and shoots the gun right? The bullet goes upward with a force then makes a u-turn and comes down with force too, enough to pierce a roof?..


Wow. I need more explanations.

BULLETS DON'T JUST GO STRAIGHT UP, IT NORMALLY A TRAJECTORY, SO THE ACCERELATION WILL STILL BE SLIGHTLY FAST BY THE TIME IT HITS THE CLOSEST ROOF

Daveambition:
Alaye relax.
Na when yu wife a woman yu go knw say dem get manipulative formats..
Yu either abide to most of their terms&condition or angrily leave the house, las las yu'll stil return home & by then; she sef go don strategise another method to provoke yu the more..
Hardman no be for wey punna dey o, conji go bring yu to ur kness begging..
Forget wetin most men dey form outside, behind close doors dem weak dyeee

STORY STORY

niyialama:
Yes, I have been. She was from an average well to do family and we used to be family friends, I was a disabled guy who resides abroad. We met online and she subtle impressed me, came over to visit and I was spending on her and family.

Cajoled me to come over to do introduction but after that, her mum and dad was not pleased with my condition and she found an excused to go for the guy she's been seeing whilst with me.

Life for you.

ARE YOU BLIND, DEAF, DUMB OR JUST PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED

fkj950ax:
Please "gifting" is not an English word.

Even the pidgin version we use in Nigeria of the right verb you removed is dash (dashed, dashing).

Give is the verb (action word) missing in the sentence and topic.

WE ARE NOT IN AN ENGLISH CLASS OGAMADAM, SHE HAS COMMUNICATED BECAUSE WE'VE UNDERSTOOD HER

samwash:
If this man is an American or a European, will you complain?
Now that he is an African & a Nigerian, is not man enough to be a father figure to the family he loved,desire & cherish.
Oga!!! Take your time, let the man run his home the way he desire it & if you are not cool with it, then back out & leave the family alone.
Life nor really hard, na we dey make life hard for ourselves.

I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT EVERY SPOILT CHILD AFFECTS THE SOCIETY NOT JUST THE PARENTS ALONE. BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY IS A BIGGER UNIT OF THE FAMILY. SO WATCHING A CHILD BEING DESTROYED BY THE PARENTS AND TURNING A BLIND EYE IS WRONG BECAUSE YOU ARE INDIRECTLY DESTROYING YOUR OWN CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY ALL WILL LIVE IN THE SAME SOCIETY. WHAT AFFECTS THE EYE ALSO AFFECTS THE NOSE

andyprez:
This is getting longer than it should. Wike has to do something about this or be held accountable.

This is how a responsible government should behave.

IS THE STATE GOVERNMENT CONTROLLING CRUDE OIL PRODUCTION IN ANYWAY? IS THEIR STATE GOVERNMENT CONTROLLING THE SECURITY FORCES THAT WERE SENT TO STOP IT?

THE RULE OF THUMB IS SIMPLE:
FOR MEN: NEVER MARRY A WOMAN YOU LOVE, RATHER MARRY A WOMAN THAT LOVES. YOU. SHE WILL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU.

cutecommend:
Some things look odd, but can take someone to hell...

(1) Tribal or racial hatred: Things like "I hate Fulani people, I hate igbo people, I hate Yoruba people, I hate so so people" will surely take you to hell...You can dislike certain acts or behaviors of a tribe, but it is ungodly to hate people of a tribe.

(2) Enjoying other people's evil act: Do you know you can enjoy someone's lie, someone's fornication, someone's deception, someone's wicked act etc.. Though you didn't commit it, but the fact you enjoyed or found pleasure in what the person did will take you to hell ..

(3) Insincerity: Things like you telling someone to fill your name in a list of those present for a meeting, when you are absent will take you to hell....Things like putting early time in office register when actually you came late will take you to hell....

(4) Worldly music: Worldly can be enticing and sweet to the ear, but know this that if you are enjoying worldly music when Jesus comes, you are going no where with Jesus

(5) Not Confessing: If you steal from someone, and you tell God to forgive you, He will forgive you. But if God ministers to you to go and return what you stole back to the owner and you refuse, you won't make heaven...Same: If you slept with your EX few days before wedding day, or you committed adultery, and God ministers to you to confess it to your partner. If you disobey, you will not make heaven..

(6) Being ashamed to walk with your Bible on the road can lead you to hell....

WHAT DOES HELL MEAN?

Stephen2324:
Husband closes work 4pm, wife closes 7pm, who should prepare dinner?

IS THAT A QUESTION? WIFE WIFE N WIFE.
IN FACT HUSBANDS SHOULD ONLY ENTER THE KITCHEN TO REPAIR ELECTRICAL FAULTS AND PLUMBING ISSUES PERIOD.

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siofra:
Nigerian men have running away from responsibility since the 11th century

I DON'T UNDERSTAND; CAN YOU MARRY A.MAN LIVING WITH 3KIDS FROM ANOTHER WOMAN THAT IS STILL ALIVE, EVENTHOUGH HE WILL BE PROVIDING FOR THE FAMILY.

THEN IMAGINE A YOUNG UPCOMING MAN ENTANGLING HIMSELF WITH A LADY THAT HAS 3 CHILDREN ALREADY. HE. WILL NOW BE PROVIDING FOR FOUR OF THEM, WHICH IS ALREADY MORE THAN THE NUMBER OF CHILDREN REQUIRED IN A NIGERIAN FAMILY NOW.
WHEN WILL HE BRAKEVEN

Babsojimjim:
happen to establish an oil business which I have not finished paying for the capital I borrowed to start it. The boys I brought in to work with me on casual basis with no written agreement, will always steal the oil when am not around and when I caution them they will challenge me and not keep to my orders.

Their last action when I was not around was very painful,they refused taking the work serious such that I had great loss. From where I was, I told them that if they dont execute the job,whatever decision I take is final. Despite my comments they never took the job serious,and by the time I came back, I asked them to leave my business alone, I even gave the landlord of the area some little stipend to give to them but they refused collecting.

This evening they sent a letter through someone that they have gone to summon me in a shrine and that I must pay them the sum of 1.5million. I looked at it with dismay and would like to take action asap.

What action do I take and how do I go about it? Thanks for your input.




Dear All, situation on ground now concerning my message above is that, the main one among the three persons was caught last night and handed over to the police. The other two are still on the run. The wife of the one arrested has been suing for peace and crying over the phone. While the other two who are on the run are still making threatening statements over the phone that we must report to the shrine this week else there will be disaster.

Due to the wife tears and plea, how can we resolve this issue now outside police or how can they withdraw whatsoever they did at the shrine.

Thanks once again.

Cc: Seun
Lalasticlala
Obinoscopy
Mynd44

DON'T GO TO ANY SHRINE, TELL THEM TO BRING THE SHRINE TO YOUR HOUSE.
WHO IS BIGGER YOU OR THE SHRINE, HAVE SOME BALLS

Mercychen:
Exactly!
God bless you.



You know with the female family planning comes a lot of risk and issues of mismatch or even failure which leads to unwanted pregnancies. While the male type is safer and with less risks.

THIS IS NOT TRUE JUST A SLIGHT TWIST TO. THE UTERUS IS ENOUGH TO STOP PREGNANCY FOREVER.

injuredman:
I have a friend whose wife had an inappropriate relationship with a mutual friend of us. The mutual friend is a Catholic priest, and my friend's wife only communicate with this priest when my guy is not home. She deletes most of her WhatsApp chats with this priest. The husband have confronted both his wife and our friend (the priest). The priest has gone incommunicado with the my friend, and even me. My friend's wife has not seen anything wrong with what she did. She only tells the husband that whatever she did wrong, that she has confessed to God. There are so many clues to show that something went wrong between these 2.
My question is, does she owe the husband any apology or confession?
Or generally put, should a spouse infidelity be left for God or the erring partner should confess for proper healing to take place?

SHE SINNED AGAINST HER HUSBAND, IF HER HUSBAND DOES NOT FORGIVE HER, GOD CANNOT FORGIVE HER.

SHE FIRST MUST ASK FOR HER HUSBAND FORGIVENESS BEFORE ASKING FOR GOD'S; BUT IF AFTER SEVERAL ATTEMPTS AT BEGGING THE HUSBAND FOR FORGIVENESS HE REFUSES, SHE CAN ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS AND BE FORGIVEN CITING HER NUMEROUS PLEAS TO THE HUSBAND

Iyaebe:
If this is all you've got to accuse her of infidelity then go work on your mindset because you've got no proof and evidence.

WHAT LEVEL OF REASONING IS THIS, WHAT STOPPED HER FROM TELLING HER HUSBAND THE TRUTH IF SHE WAS CLEAN. ONLY AN ACCOMPLICE CAN TALK THIS WAY. SHE LEFT SICK CHILDREN IN THE HOSPITAL AT THE MERCY OF A MAID AND YOUR TALKING, MAYBE SHE WENT TO PRAY AT THE SYNAGOGUE.

I THINK WHAT I SENSE HERE IS THAT THE MAN IS TOO SOFT AND CARING WITH AN IRRESPONSIBLE WIFE, PROBABLY A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, THAT IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE ANY MAN CAN MAKE.
EVERY MAN THAT NEEDS PEACE IN HIS HOME MUST I REPEAT MUST HAVE SOME LEVEL OF AGGRESSION OR YOUR IN. FOR A LONG UBER RIDE FROM WOMEN.
EVERY MAN MUST TAKE 60% REDPILL TO HAVE A STABLE HOME

I THINK THAT OUR LADIES SHOULD STUDY A MAN FROM AFAR AND APPROACH HIM FOR MARRIAGE. THE ERA OF LADIES WAITING FOR THE RIGHT PERSON TO COME THEIR WAY IS OVER.

IF YOU SEE A MAN IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD, OFFICE, SCHOOL, CHURCH THAT YOU'RE CONVINCED IS YOUR TYPE TALK TO. HIM ABOUT IT.

YOU CAN START BY SLIPPING A PIECE OF PAPER WITH YOUR NUMBER CLEARLY WRITTEN CALL ME; WE NEED TO TALK

IF HE DIDN'T CALL NEXT TIME YOU SEE HIM ASK HIM WHAT HAPPENED, HE COULD MISPLACE THE PAPER, GIVE HIM THE NUMBER AGAIN

IF HE EVENTUALLY CALLS BOOK APPOINTMENT WITH HIM IN A PUBLIC PLACE, IF HE HONOURS IT PLEASE DON'T BE SHY TO TELL HIM YOUR MIND

YOU COULD START LIKE THIS: YOU ARE A VERY INTELLIGENT, HANDSOME, WELL BEHAVED MAN THAT I WOULD LOVE TO BE CLOSE TO...,....

PLEASE BUY HIM FOOD, ASK HIM THE TYPE OF SOUP HE LIKES, BUY THE SAME SOUP FOR YOURSELF

LADIES GOOD MEN ARE VERY FEW NOW SO IF YOU STUMBLE ON ONE DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO COME TO YOU GO TO HIM AND BE WISE

PLEASE DON'T USE THIS APPROACH FOR IGBO SMOKING, LESS LEARNED MEN

Candidlady:
iwant to believe the first wife is dead, if nat this na al shades of wrong!

okay what if the first wife is dead, would you stil hang the pastor for the new union?

THE WRITEUP CLEARLY SAID SECOND WIFE WHICH MEANS THE FIRST IS STILL ALIVE

LiberatedGirl:
" Husband's Love Your Wives like how Christ loves the Church". Can you die for your wife like how Christ died for the Church ! You cannot and you should not.

MEN HAVE BEEN DYEING FOR THEIR WIVES AND CHILDREN FROM THE BEGINNING OF CREATION. ADAM DIED BECAUSE HE CHOOSE TO FOLLOW EVE AND ABANDONE GOD. MANY MARRIED MEN DIE SLOWLY WORKING AWAY THEIR LIFES TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES. AND MANY MORE DIE AT THEIR PLACE OF WORK TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILY.

EG: THE LEKKI BUILDING COLLAPSE CAN. YOU CHECK THE RATIO OF MEN TO WOMEN THAT DIED THERE; THOSE MEN WENT THERE TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES

brizziedos:
Skills with a lot of deals

Deals this days are scary, because trust is almost dead

YOU COULD BE KIDNAPPED ON YOUR WAY, TAKE FLIGHT

Mercychen:
MUA!

Though mine is determined by mood. Depending on my mood I can eat half pot of rice. Yes. On such days it looks like I'm never gonna get full.


Way back ( student days) I used to finish 4 cups of garri eba. But now, I can only eat 1 cup; and I don't even finish it these days.

ARE YOU PLUMPY

LAND FIRST

AmazonTopaz:
Forgiveness is different from justice.

I am a lady first of all and I hate rape and any violent act directed at anybody.If I were raped I would definitely want justice and forgive myself because I cannot change what has happened but I can survive it and come out better.Will I forgive my rapist definitely not but will I forgive myself yes I will and I will pursue justice.I will not give a pat on the back for evil and wickedness I believe in consequences if you understood what I told the person I quoted you will understand that I agreed with him but believe that self forgiveness is important what I mean by this in a situation you painted is that I will not blame myself for what happened many victims blame themselves for the terrible things that happened to them so they find it hard to move on.I will get back on my feet with the right support and come out of the ugly situation.I wasn't talking about forgiving wrong doers no they deserve to pay for their misdeeds and should face the law.When a criminal is being punished you the victim gets to feel some succor but it will not change what has happened but it will help you live because who did the wrong isn't at peace either and will serve as a deterrent to others

HOW DO YOU EQUATE THIS YOUR WRITEUP TO JESUS TELLING HIS FATHER TO FORGIVE THOSE THAT WERE KILLING HIM UNJUSTLY

LIVE HIM NOW, HE FEELS SINCE YOU HAVE MORE MONEY THAN HIM HE'S INFERIOR. HE WILL DO EVERY THING TO MAKE HIMSELF SUPERIOR TO YOU EVEN BEATING

WHY GIVE CHILDREN IN SECONDARY SCHOOLS PHONE, FOR WHAT