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Change your phone number now. But if any of them trace you and apologize you can forgive that one but for now they are yet to realize what they did to you if your story is true ooooo

Kennedyiheme02:
masturbation spiritual problem?... why do we always blame the demons its a proven fact we as humans can get addicted to things, people get addicted to gambling, video games, movies... would you say they have spiritual problem?

Yes they are spiritual problems because those addictions are manifestation of weak spiritual standing. Shows lack of spiritual control and can be solved by being more spiritual and less fleshy. That's where God comes in to help you deaden your flesh and liberate you from addictions

You cannot kiss you children, sister and other relatives on their lips; you only peck them on their cheek and forehaed

layi:
I have a female house help thats 15yrs old. She is very intelligent, well mannered and speaks english but never went to school. Myself and my wife have thought several times on how to help her life and bring back her 'destiny'. We just cant put a 15yr old in primary 1.
How can i help her academically pls? I really want to help her life. I don't want to believe that its over for her school-wise.

NB: She spent 1yr with us 5 yrs ago but forcefully taken away by a wicked woman who was " trafficking them" when she found out we wanted to put her in school. She was molested in her new place and ran to us. Long story short, she stays with us permanently now cuz i went to cotonou last month and got permission from her father. How we got her dad's house and arranged the reunion is another long story.

Advise pls. Setting her up in business in future is not a problem but we want her to be educated.

about 4yrs ago an 89yr old man got enrolled in primary one in Zimbabwe.
you can get a private tutor to coach het to pass common entrance and start js1

I can only tell you to learn a trade, fashion designing hair salon. Generator repair etc

Righteousness89:
Ignorance Sending young men to their Destruction..

Listen Carefully,
Whether you like or you Don't Like
Whether you Believe or you Don't Believe

If you Drop Dead without JESUS you will Cry! Beg for Mercy! Plead for Mercy ! But it will be too Late..

If you Drop Dead without JESUS! You will open your Eyes in Hell!

If you Miss Heaven! You Cannot Miss Hell!

Let Wisdom Guide you now you Have Breath..

Please brother stop insulting God by saying His capable of burning man in hell ; that is where we got it wrong, it is not helping Christianity because it is a wrong doctrine. No place in the Bible that talks of man burning in hell. Read Rev 20:6-10. Sinners will die then Satan and his wicked prophets will be cast into lake of fire not humans emphasis 9&10

Please save your marriage let her stay with you, no amount of money can console you when what your scared of happens

Formication reduces a man to a piece of bread

Afam4eva:
Those name are common specifically with Ijaw people of Rivers and Bayelsa state.

Those names came with colonialism. Some ethnic groups tend to romanticize the colonialist more than others.

Those names existed before the colonization of Nigeria. Bonny for eg was a port for slaves transit as early as the 17th century the people of bonny were answering People Jumbo Cookey etc because of their interaction with westerners long before then. King Pepple of Bonny son was studying in Britain as early as 1650

wayfoward:
i Came back home after my pop from NYSC batch A 2019,I had had high hopes of getting a job as my family depends on me to be successful so I can take care of them and my younger ones,this has put a lot of pressure on me and I'm now frustrated and depressed that all I can think of is dying, my life has no direction,because I can't even take care of my self not to talk about them,I have no job,I don't even have capital to start up a business I learned during my service year.I am going to be 30years next year and i still deeply depends on my parent for food and shared three(3)rooms with my four(4)siblings including mom and dad and this makes me mad but I can't help it.Since three(3) years I have not bought any clothes,all I have is faded clothes which I maintain very well.
I have attended four(4) interviews in five(5)months all with no way forward, I cried at nights at my situation and I have come to conclusion that my life has no meaning, am just so tired,confused and don't know what to do.

Go an learn a trade fashion designing auto mechanic upholstery making plumbing etc and be useful

thesicilian:
All of these things you mentioned could have been done in heaven. You didn't need to be on earth to see God's wonders, or multiply etc.

The truth is, no one really knows why we are here.

If you are alive then you have a chance to own an immortal body that does not die: after the resurrection. A body like that of the resurrected Christ. But you can only achieve this by living righteously now, you won't regret it. That is why we are alive; to qualify for immortal body or be death forever

Unnerve:
You come off like someone with a morbid mentality.
I hope this is not the case here and you're simply curious by trying to dissect the essence of life and what it entails.

A curious mind is one of the most certain characteristics of a vigorous intellect. - Samuel Johnson

What I can tell you for a fact, is that we were all born to die, no one escapes it. What matters is how we live in the short time we have.

Questioning the purpose of life despite the fact that it's all going to end with everyone getting fed on by worms, doesn't mean we shouldn't live - and by "live" I mean, you do what you can, you do what you must... and my personal favourite, have a lot of fun while at it.

Biologically speaking, the body of every human being is worth the exact same thing once it's dead. It doesn't matter who the person was, what they owned, or who they were.

Idris Elba spoke these lines in a movie, I found it very funny, informative but also funny:
"... The human body is really not worth that much, maybe 11pence worth of magnesium, a couple pence worth of calcium, a bit of iron, not worth much...all in all its probably about a total of 3pounds (in weight) ..."

The above is what every human is worth once bacteria has done its job.
Few people already know this (and can visualize it), but it doesn't stop them from living their lives...and it shouldn't stop you or anyone else either.

Death is very certain and outside our human sphere of influence, BUT how we live and how much fun we have before the worms come to feast, is totally up to us.

What you said is true but don't forget the resurrection. God will judge us

I've been seeing your ad for so long on this platform but I sell honey I get mine from Enugu and Benue my fear has been scam and adulteration. How can I get the Honey before paying? And how can you safeguard your money

Sony led TV is the best both in durability and picture quality others are following but might be three times costlier than lg Samsung etc

Most of the story about sex deprivation is because men have refused to take their position in leadership. Sex with your wife is call duty, which means your wife should pay you for performing the duty on her. Which she does by keeping the home clean cooking and washing, so if she refuses you to pay her for her own duty please keep your energy and converted it to other profitable venture

Report tto police

What oof your ID

Its not destiny he was only aat the wrong place aat the wrong time

Does your wife go to church? Then pass through her pastor to beg for forgiveness

Professorcplus:
Dream is a state of consciousness characterized by sensory, cognitive and emotional occurrences during sleep sometimes simulation of real life experiences and happens during rapid-eye movements (REM). Some can be entertaining, fun, romantic, disturbing, frightening, and sometimes bizarre.

What I'm trying to say is that long thoughts she exposes her mind to influences her mindset and certainly add to what triggers her dreams. Also, dreams that are entertaining, funny are hardly noticed because no serious event happened. But dreams that reenforces her disturbing thoughts frightens her. This is Illusory correlation.

I don't know about your belief, but I will advice you pray with her and comfort her, and make her have a positive mental attitude. She shouldn't worry about it. All will be alright.

What aare you saying? Your following science tto talk nonsense. Can you tell me how tthis woman thought about tthis dream iin the day time? A woman hhad four children in the night she dreamt aas someone came and dragged one oof the children living tthe space he was lying vacant she woke up from tthe disturbing dream ran to the sitting and saw the cchildrena all fast asleep she was relief; they all woke up the following morning but 11am that day the same boy that was dragged away iin her dream died. How did she think about that the previous day?

This is what sin causes if you have concentrated oon developing yourself you won't get this insults

You would have adopted aa child (ren) long ago what were you waiting for. Still not too late aadopt a meal child now

MadeINchenzen2:
yeah, yeah... The holy book said so much about The Apocalypse and Armageddon or the second coming of the son of man.


quite alright!!!

but let me put it in plain sentences.

Dont for a sec think that this world would be destroyed by the alpha and Omega,

Generations has come and go, people live and they die.

Inventions comes and is improved through innovations and technological advancements.

idea comes and is enhanced on.

There is a benchmark limit to all of these and any attempt to try to exceed those limits is calamity.


Humans are the only threat that will jeopardize the original essence of the earth and its inhabitants.

Nature has no hand in the damages that exist in our ecosystem.

we talk today about Global warming, not because nature made it so, humans did.

Think of all the tremors and disasters the world had witnessed... humans were the cause.


Every single creature that lived but now extinct was human biggest undoing.

The earth was given to human and if ever human were to be extinct at any point then they do that themselves.




Mark my word

God will not destroy the earth He created neither will God allow man to destroy the earth; God will destroy those ruining the earth and hand it over to those capable of taking care oof her. That was man's commission from the beginning

massinola:
See the animals the boys caught today.

The lockdown has not been easy on guys. So after their morning training, on their way back, they branched to a nearby bush and started hunting for any available bush meat.

These two were what they caught. I don't know their names but in our dialect, it's called Avu.


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They are civet cats

Help2020:
Hi Nairalanders.

I have been a good follower of this great Forum for a very long time and I must commend how you guys help with meaningful comments whenever someone requests for help.......

Pls I am in urgent need of your advice now....

Pls ignore my grammatical errors...

Here is the story......

I have a friend named Victor, (real name) a Ghanain..

We are close friends and we are about doing some business together. Before I present the real deal now, let me highlight one mistake he made that would have ended our friendship but I ignored it..

It was way back 2014..

We newly became friends then..and coincidentally there was a Muslim girl I feel in love with, and we starting dating. One day I was not around when my (Victor) friend came to meet this Muslim girl (my girl) and tried to kiss her.

She was a flashy girl and very tempting no doubt, but he almost broke the brother code by trying to do that to my girl. When my girl (now ex) told me, I was angry but decided not to ask him and it died like that.

Sadly, on religious ground I was not allowed to marry the girl so we went our separate ways, but I found it difficult to love again because I loved that girl deeply. So I relocated to another city. Kumasi.

Fast forward to 2020.. About 2 months ago my friend Victor invited me to come down to Accra for some business discussion. So I came and I met his wife's sister (real name Abigail) who now lives with them. Sincerely I felt something for her and told my friend strait away that I like Abigail, and I would love to know her more with marriage in view. I also spoke to his wife Abigail sister about how I felt for her sis but I needed their consent before I approach Abigail.

Consents were given by both of them and after few weeks I proposed to Abigail and she asked me to hold on, that she is going to formally inform her sis and the husband because she lives with them, and I quite understand.

About 2 weeks on Abigail accepted my proposal and I was happy, but went ahead to ask why she accepted and she said she has been hearing good things about me, and beside I am handsome (lol), pardon me I was just quoting her..

So we starting dating.

So 2 days ago I had some discussion with my friend victor (Abigail sis husband).

This time this discussion was basically about some issues he's been having with his wife, how he treats his wife badly lately, does not eat at home or spend time with the wife. So I spoke to him about why he should change and allow peace to reign in the house. As I was discussing with him, he then chipped in some issue about me and Abigail.

HE SAID AS HIS FRIEND HE WON'T ENCOURAGE ME TO ENTER THE WIFE FAMILY. THAT HE HAS BEEN IN THE FAMILY AND HE'S BEEN FIGHTING SOME SPIRITUAL BATTLE FROM THE FAMILY..

So I thanked him, I said to him that I will try to pray about it. That I know many family have some spiritual battles, but I will try and fight the battle....

Here I am somehow confused.. Does he genuinely mean well for me? or he just does not want me to marry this beautiful girl?

Less I forget. He also stopped me from introducing this girl into a certain business that would give her some financial freedom..

I am thinking he does not want the best for either me or the girls family....

And given how he speaks about his wife, I think he is heading in the direction of divorce, and maybe he does not want me to enter the family as that may cause some barrier......

All this are just my opinion given how things are playing out....

Pls I need your suggestion...
Thanks

@mods, pls help me move this to front page, I need urgent help pls

I suspect he could bbe sleeping wwith the wifes sister try to investigate

She wants you out of that house the truth is that's why she came over in the first place. I won't be surprised if your friend is privy to what is happening be careful

Go and learn a trade auto mechanic electrician phone rrepair etc
Even as an apprentice yyou will make more than 20k monthly
Most artisans aare looking ffor helping hhands depending oon where you are