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Comedian2019:
Something wey full street, na him simps dey beg for? Nonsense

Meihn niggaarrr.
Na for a real niggar to jump enta bush oo if dem start those their games

Quaddafi29:
Most wives of today used to be paid for sex yesterday and the transition to free givers doesn't come easy for them. Start paying token in gifts and cash and watch ur wife spread them wider

Exactly.
They're used to transactional sex.
Only in Nigeria do you see females who feel its
a duty not an obligation for their boyfriends to be 'giving'.
They carry that mentality into marriage.

Klass99:
I am not married but I thought it would be nice to read from married women to know or understand why this occurs. It might help some married men self reflect and self correct where needed, if a particular situation applies to them. For example if it's poor hygiene, selfish or poor performance in bed, not providing, etc............ I am just speculating.

I followed Gaggii's thread on this same issue/topic, it was one of the most educating and entertaining threads I have come across on NL. It was delightful to see grown men being candid and vulnerable about their realities. I laughed hard at some comments, shook my head at comments from oversabi and ITK men, who aren't even married and one comment in particular broke my heart. See comment below;



Even though the user is a complete stranger I felt bad reading this, especially the words in bold. I think as women we underestimate how much men would really like to feel appreciated, complimented and loved (even if it's through sex). There were valuable lessons from Gaggii's thread and I appreciate the education in male psychology it provided me. A similar education (in female psychology) from married women, for men, would be appropriate. Let's learn from each other, but, I understand why some women may be reluctant to participate/share. The trolling, bullying and insults on the forum can be something else, especially towards women.

Link to the thread pls

Daveambition:
Alaye relax.
Na when yu wife a woman yu go knw say dem get manipulative formats..
Yu either abide to most of their terms&condition or angrily leave the house, las las yu'll stil return home & by then; she sef go don strategise another method to provoke yu the more..
Hardman no be for wey punna dey o, conji go bring yu to ur kness begging..
Forget wetin most men dey form outside, behind close doors dem weak dyeee

That is if you're not the type wey get craze for head.
Cheap olosho na 5k around my area,you go fit negotiate 5k hotel too.
If you touch madam she do guy,you dress up comot,enta by morning feeling happy ee by the time e happen twice,if na the ones wey get good upbringing them ģo behave.

alexiseagle:
This how they extort 200k from me for Enugu state and. A dose policemen wet dey for Enugu&abakiliki boundary

What did they catch you with?
Cos those ones,their wahala no pass 2k if your papers no complete

The fear of gravity,is the beginning of talk well
Empress give me the motor, I no go give you the motor
Finish Timaya season 2 eee

onlinetrader:
Pathetic!

It seems this man has mental issues

Mental issues because of rising sun?
Be like you you get slavery issues

duro4chang:
Good but it is Tinubu's matter they will be carrying upandan.

Monsurudeen, rest naa

koondog:
If you have sense you will know that the same dynamics you see in Onitsha, is same in Lagos and other major towns where Igbos are present like Nnewi, Aba, Asaba, Calabar, Kaduna, Kano, Maiduguri, Markudi, Port Harcourt, Abuja, Minna, e.t.c. You won't see such commercial activity in Osun, Ondo, Ogun and Ekiti because Igbos are not there. So, Lagos is not driven by Yorubas.

Governor Zulum Extols Igbo Spare-Part Traders
https://www.nairaland.com/6007920/governor-zulum-extols-igbo-spare-part

https://www.nairaland.com/500001/suswam-lauds-igbo-business-activities

You just like trouble

demitola:
Any sane, strategic man would just go with this man - Osinbajo. He is the best choice we could ever have since decades past

Sufferstication at its peak.
After quietly doing conductor work for buhari while buhari is wrecking the zoo,osunbade is still d best

SpecialAdviser:
With the north, Nigeria can never make progress. Go mark it. I don't know how many times we would school people on this.

Lol.
What IPOB yewtts saw sitting down ......

Hangmnk:
Work of cursed descendants of Evil lowlife monkeys. work of child factory products, bastards from the sad yeast. Drug trafficking meth smoking lowlife terrorists, I prayer they continue killing themselves and they should never have peace. Amen. I hate them fcking terrorists.

By 5:27am?
SMH

michoim:
What has your comment got to do with the topic? Are you always this daft?

Zombie,is your god buhari not racking up debts fastly for the zoo?

Is it that bad?

Ordinary businessmen.
They're not waving flags nor seeking to take over territories

DubaiLandLord:
In Nigeria, IPOB is a terrorist group

That's y it's called zoogeria

Unlettered:
Sigh… i really want to believe this is sarcasm with a finess touch but bruhhhhhhhhh.

Negro you dumb AF!

Says an abokki who congenitally has a low IQ.
Fork off
Is buhari not borrowing and racking up debt?

Siwisheswereesh:
ibo amaka

Igbo

By the time sheikh buhari is done with zoogeeria,ISWAP commander go shout "Jesus is Lord and master"

Nonsense.
Scrap the govt funded pilgrimage joor

ThatFairGuy1:
This short man playing the card of Yoruba Muslim through Oluwole newspaper


Ipob are peaceful People, they are freedom fighters. We love them.

They're the best thing to ever happen to the Igbo race.

Raping women, terrorizing and kidnapping marked saboteurs is welcome.

Cannibalizing on saboteurs is nothing bad, BIAFRA or DEATH

Kamorudeen, rest naa

Miracood2:
Boss snowland God bless you for all you are doing.

I appreciate the 10k I got from u, stay blessed.

You are now a full blown almajiri.
Tufiakwa

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

BBC should always use thier number 6

Or else we go use number 7 for them

Let our spirit shine all over the world
So that we may live forever ever...

I rep futa jallon

Damn niggaarrrr.
So,you is a wise man?

obehi247:
Just because Boko Haram is a terrorist group in Nigeria does not mean every Nigerians are terrorist

BBC should apologize now

47 man
Na them

helinues:
Make you people continue to be creating senseless threads, accuse and attack others .

We have over 200 tribes in this country, why always you people?

This one hate you, this one detest you, please who exactly do you people love?

Even for the fact that half of your people are residing outside their home region, na still the region of the acclaimed haters your people are running to.

It's time for you people to have a rethink about your approach to issues.

All this blaming games are stale

You are not Ijaw,you are not Igbo.
What are you doing here?
Abi your own zombie duty na to face Igbos?

Godispeace:
Biafra /SE no even get anything too . na attach dem dey wan attach SS

Zoo reasoning
Na brain de make country rich no be "wetin you get"

And,the largest onshore gas reserves in the zoo are found in Imo State.
Imo and Abia are oil producing states too.Anambra has joined.

candidbabe:
Southerners should wake up.
Northerners who do not have any natural resources are looting our treasury dry.

Exactly.
The little forex the country earns from free oil and gas in the South is what they will use those ATMs to withdraw abroad at say 380naira/dollar thru their connections in the CBN.
Use it to buy cheap goods and sell here,repeat the process again.

Patrickker:
Which support? I am a northerner who owns my own farms, but I tell you most sincerely that no support comes anywhere. Everybody does it by themselves.

The dams,irrigation projects nko?
Subsidised fertiliser too.

Gbagura:
Shut up there, you this economic migrant. Ibo land would have been worst than North if Yoruba had closed our borders on y'all. We accommodated you all, gave you room to thrive and now you get mouth to be typing trash. Even this nairaland belongs to Yoruba man and he's still allow you insult his people without banning y'all.

Ibos are the largest subhumans in the world. Bunch of ingrates and that's why you will NEVER taste aso villa. Who wan dash nyanmiris presidency sef? Urhobos and efiks are your mate, Yorùbá are far miles ahead of you. The more you try to bring us down with your 5 tiny states lol, the more we put you in your space.

Dont wail yet, it's after 2023 you all gonna wail tire. Una never see anything...

Accomodator who couldn't accommodate himself
Accommodate your brothers living under d bridge and doing owo mi da first
Every oil souper is now from Lagos, little wonder your villages are like pre-historic times

OZAOEKPE:
Lol, the small 2k you get you don turn am to 10k

5 odds for bet9ja

NaBanga:
I'm just going to be honest with you, there is a high chance you will end up divorced if you are the lazy type. What we call work in Nigeria is the reason the country is not working. If you go 3 months without bringing in money while your wife, is working, you are going to regret the day you left Nigeria. Women are not made to take care of men.By the time your wife is working, trying to clean house and take care of the children in between, you will become her enemy. She will then realize you are not needed and that her life is much better with only the kids. Work and bring money for bills at all costs. Talk to your friends about childcare that will help your wife. Also, be thinking of a course that you can take that will make money in the UK. I wish you the very best and pray your marriage makes it.

Op,listen to this man