₦airaland Forum

maxwelltony:
Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.

What does he do?

richmond500:
Is this suppose to be a joke?
That small gallop is what he called pothole?

He should visit Nigeria and see the canals we call pothole

We have redefined normalcy in Nigeria that's why! Anything abnormal is normal to an average Nigerian.

Do you know that an average Nigerian doesn't see drinking bottle water and flinging the plastic on the road as abnormal. It is just natural way of life that we built in ourselves over the years.

They just gifted undertakers free Benz. It doesn't take them 1hr to remove the car and bury the man back.

vicfajeze:
DAT one na lie bros

It is not lie. I've used a line that has been used b4 in the UK as well. Lines are rentals. Once it's no longer in use, it is rolled back into the system.

What I would expect telcos to do is to give it may be duration of 10years atleast before rolling it out.

All lines are now rentals. It's only yours 6months after you last made any transactions on it. (Be it phone calls, text msg, data/credit recharge).

It's unfortunate, that previous owner and contacts may not know the line has be transferred to another person.

But I think you can also demand for a fresh sequenced number.

You are very ok. Except if you don't have the urge at this your age, then something really serious to worry about.

rocknation62:
There are some areas this kind of small buses can’t get to

If legs can't get there, Okada won't be able to get there either.

Amotolongbo:
Hope it isn’t that Sat Guru is afraid of losing his first son

Respect the departed and the family he left behind. Make no further mockery in this regard.

pablobellins:
For the sake of those not too privileged.

Bail doesn't mean he is free from all the allegations. He is is free when the court aquit.

I bet my balls this gonna mk fp.

He is also not guilty until proven guilty in a competent court.

Let's just wait and see as the case pans out.

Reno, na true?

You distance from one another but refused to delete each other's phone number / block each other on social media.

"When you leave an amber on, full fire will develop"

Police station again!

Police station looks like poultry house. Which kind country be this?

Our major problem is we fail to develop other sectors. Even the oil & gas sector we do not develop it to it's maximum capacity.

States should be given Autonomous control of their resources. We need to operate a bottom-up approach. Not FG handing stipends to states every month.

I don't think the North are quite lazy as to develop their economic potential. I just believe their major problem is FG has spoilt them with this top-down system to the extent that many of their leaders just sit and do nothing. They like the freebies coming from Abuja.

If you need advice on building construction, is it a goldsmith you will seek?

Put your queries to Pencom or Aiico and not Nairaland. Seek advice from the right quarters first.

What God cannot do does not exist.

But,

What men can do exist!

FalseProphet1:
I see this woman getting a political appointment in the next administration. This I have seen.

Is that not what has always been the end game

femi4:
Them no reach 10 sef....that shows the level of insignificant of their course

Even if it's one man.

Always stand for the right, even if you are standing alone.

Nobody is saying he should not be tried.
But he should also not be denied bail as well.

rejoicelarry:
What's the business of the public?...

They are the jurist!

Mehnnn....Plastic bags! That's just so dangerous. This is what I would expect to see in 5th-world country.

That aside....

So na cyber they use in attacking pipelines....over here na physical destruction such as blowing it up our militant sabi.

tuborme:
When are they going to arrest Facebook and Twitter?

Add Nairaland join.

Anybody is free to contest na. Abi which one be this man problem again. Does a Christian coming out to contest stops a Muslim from contesting?

How did we even get to this point sef in this country?

Kandeed:
Advising them to escape is the most wrong advise to give. encourage ur members to hit the street and say Enough is enough of this mess y'all old men are plunging this country Into let there be a million men and a million women match so that y'all won't have to run away anymore. Let's install the change we want here so we won't have to be a slave to nobody. Give a date and let everyone come out

This is what should have come out of his mouth. and let most of our religious leaders follow suit. Nigerians are too docile

They will rain bullets on the "million protesters" like they did the End SARS.

Somehow, I think the British caused this problem we are facing now.

WIZGUY69:
The rate of lease doesn't correlate with the average salary in Lagos.

The average salary doesn't build, and also average salary doesn't look for average 1room or a room and parlour.

Rather you see someone earning #30k looking for a #350k to #500k flat instead of a #4K per month single room in Ojuwoye or Orile Agege.

Changing one's long time character in acting would be like Wole Shoyinka cutting of his white hair.

Once you create an identity for yourself over a long time, a new identity may just not fit you.

What I would like to hear in the interim while the case is under investigation is the total ban on the use of open fire (candles and the likes) in places of worship. Either by the church leadership or by the State Fire Department.

What I would like to hear in the interim while the case is under investigation is the total ban on the use of open fire (candles and the likes) in places of worship. Either by the church leadership or by the State Fire Department.

omojesu202:
picture or nobody will take you serious

You don't need picture for this kind of sensitive issue. Somebody is deeply troubled somewhere and someone (his friend) is trying to seek advice for him.

Posting the person's picture would add more salt to the injuries. It would increase the depression for the person, and ultimately kill him faster or make him to commit suicide sooner than he would have.

Remember....once his picture is posted, it would be available to the whole world. And there are so many uncivilized people that will say all sorts of mockery things rather than given positive advice.

femi4:
You think it's easy to get a new apartment. You can't just give quick notice without notifying the occupant on time just because you are the landlord

Mr Femi, The idea of a notice is for the tenants to prepare. And you must agree that 6months is quite a long time for the person to prepare.

We need to put sentiments aside. Do you know what it is for landlord not to eat for 6months?.....Death. So many tenants have sent their Landlord below the earth on top of their property.

The 6-months-rent-free notion is a misconception. It is no where in the law. There's only "xx-month-notice" and it's not free either despite it's a notice.

eagleeye2:
Do not try this method. If it backfire you will be spending some time in jail.
First if you want to quit your tenant, go to your lawyer pay and the lawyer will file the Notice to Quit and register it in the court. A bailiff will be the one that will issue the Notice to quit to your tenant. You have no basis handing the tenant to quit.
After six months, since she is a yearly tenant, go back to your lawyer to issue 7 days owners intention to Recover property. After the expiration of 7 days the lawyer will now file papers in court.
The process may take long before you recover your property, but bear it in mind that for any extra day the tenant stays on your property she will be liable to pay mesne profit. So don't fear that she will live there rent free. No. The court will help you recover your money if you are willing to follow the due process which might seem long.
As for those thinking that they can live rent free in another man's house pray that you don't jam a man who is determined enough to make you pay.

I will like to know what happens if a tenant was finally ejected and still couldn't pay up his/her outstandings? Is there a way the court would punish such tenants either by selling some of his/her belongings or he/she spend some time behind bars.

I totally understand there's nothing like 6months free. It's just a misconception people planted in their head over years.

Draslo:
Not a sense of entitlement. By law, I'm entitled to six months.

You are entitled to 6months notice not 6months free rent. Please don't twist the law.

I don't know where tenants or people generally thinks once they are asked to leave they have "free-to-stay-6momths".

The purpose of a notice is for you to prepare yourself up until the evacuation day. And it should normally run 6months before your current tenancy expires.

Biko, not 6months free.

So why the mugshots and public/social media posting when their offence is still just "alleged"

EFCC needs to be more civil and professional in their operation.