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no1concept:
Dear Nairalanders,

This post was made by me on behalf of my cousin concerning a current situation he is in and would really love to get the much advice he can about this.

My cousin met this girl 3 years ago when he just finished Youth service and of course, didn't have much financially. He asked her out and the girl readily agreed. Ever since then, it has been a wonderful relationship for the both of them. This girl tolerates my cousin's flaws even when he might be in a bad mood. This girl landed a job before my cousin and through out the 8 months he was jobless, she always stood by him and never cheated once on him. She loves my cousin to the Moon and back.

After my cousin finally landed his first job here in Nigeria, he started applying for jobs in Scotland cos he really had the intention of relocating. He got frustrated after he couldn't land the Scotland jobs after 2 years and gave up. His girl always cheered him up and told him not to give up. She immediately took over the job applications for him which she made every single day from her place of work on her office computer. She, in addition, fasted and prayed for my cousin without his knowledge for him to land his dream job in Scotland.

5 months later, my cousin got an interview and landed the job. He is about relocating.

Now, my cousin is in a dilemma. He has strong intentions about marrying this girl but doesn't know what his moving to the Scotland may result. He can't marry her right now not make arrangements to relocate with her due to the high financial cost. So he intends on leaving first to later come back for her. However, he is absolutely oblivious of what being away from her for too long may cause and would not wish to stay away too long, get entwined with too much work that he forgets about her which will break the girl's heart. Although he and the girl has talked about this, she has said she would wait for him no matter how long it took but has said that the ball is in the court of cousin to decide.

So, my cousin came to me and I have come to you dear Nairalanders.

He is asking if there is a greater advantage in him continuing with the girl all the way from Scotland, defying a long distance relationship or if he should simply end the relationship by the simple reason of not breaking the girl's heart in the long run.

Note: My cousin lives this girl sooo much but wouldn't want to see her get hurt by him.

Yours opinions are very much needed.

Opinions can be given without need for sentimental insults please. Thank you.

Affordabledeals:
You dont need to start abusing op, I went on jiji to check the price of this car, it's 2m upward. The car is very different from 2008 model. Una no know price of car make una shut up

DanteAutos:
This car is so clean Mehn... No cap

boyjo:
Thank GOD you did not accept o

okeyglm:
60k ksh is more than 280k naira. do you spend more than 280k naira a month in Nigeria? there are certain things people should stop coming to online and be asking. if you ain't satisfied with the job, many nairalanders will gradly accept the offer from you. your salary is more than 500k in naira. how many executive receives such amount in Nigeria.

Amaragold:
It was after I asked this question I found out what happened,anyway I was paid the next day.Next time if you don't have answers to a question just ignore it, I didn't direct my question to you ooo,learn to waka pass

jimnozi:
The only thing between you and a ready Job in Germany is the German Language.

Unfortunately where to learn this Course is very limited here in our country(Nigeria) Sometimes you need a native speaker to teach you or someone that has a lot of experience in Germany to do that.

To get a Job in Germany you only need the Language skills and some experience in your current job and some other Skills, Hotel management, IT Skills, Mechanics, Electricians name it and if you don't have any then you can still learn especially the IT sectors.

Also, you don't need an agent to do this all you need is your internet though I can also give you a guide. The point is you don't need to pay anybody to get this done

Never limit your career to only Nigeria there are a lot of opportunities out there in several sectors.

You searched the Job online.
They do a phone interview with you in German(Deutsch)
When they see you are sound in the language and also prove to them you can handle the job you applied for and make sure you can do this too not to just go and forge something sincerity will help you more than anything.

There are apps to learn this language like Duolingo and the rest but it is not as effective as when you are in a class and learn with other students also with a native speaker or one with good command of the language. Trying to speak to others in the class helps a lot that is why I will be introducing a school that can take you from A1 to B1 level.

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meks007:
I don’t if it can be shared but if it’s possible, I’m ready to share

meks007:
My games are mostly digital copies
I have last of us CD only
Do you have games for sale?

meks007:
Does anyone have used GTA 5 cd or the Witcher 3 for sale.
Location: port Harcourt

heayernu56:
I don't know which section is the right one to post this. Please, does anyone here knows where FIRS office is located in Port harcourt? And how to get there from Airforce?

alexvatt:
I can easily trade binary options for you, while we share the profits 50% 50%. It makes sense than this MBA bullshit. I'm still surprise to see people falling for all these cheap scams after MMM saga.

Greatzeus:
Inside job.
Kidnappers don't kidnap randomly except they intercepted a car or bus on the highway. Apart from that,they usually know who their victim is,where he lives,works and how rich he or his family are.
Police should question her housemates or neighbor,Ex or current boyfriend, colleagues etc

emmanuelgon:
Not a chicken hearted investor, just invested more than I should, stop the insult

CopaMike:
What makes you think you would be paid your capital back when you terminate since they are not paying ROI that is relatively smaller? It is not about terminating

Cornellious:
boss You have to tell me the games you need bfor I can give price and again dollar Dey fluctuate so I can’t give price

olaboyeh:
Good day guys.. I'm really tired..my Civic 07 has shown me pepper... My gear oil started leaking from the converter seal..i took it for repair they removed engine and all..only for the my gear to refuse to enter gear 2 afterwards, it kept slipping out of gear when it's about to change to 2.. mechanic says i should buy a new transmission that something something related to the fiber in the gear..this is a car i drove to their workshop o...few days back my fan belt broke...someone came to fix it... afterwards i was driving then noticed temperature is high apparently fans were not working..had to get someone to fix it... after the fixing driving a bit noticed AC is no longer working..and shortly after my alternator went bad..the battery light came on...
Now i noticed gear oil under the car sef.. meaning the leak has started again...is this how honda deals with people or what is the way forward pls who can assist me

adanny01:
Bought it at 100k miles.

So you insinuate the previous owner did replace the gear box?

Am sure Piyke didn't replace his either.

The secret is having driven 4 generations of accord, I know how to avoid certain problems ignorant people assume is bad with the Accord. I avoided that thing that makes Accord gear box fails and since it has not failed yet, the previous owners didn't do same mistake either.

Amaragold:
Please how long does it take MBA to pay,I was due for payment yesterday bring Nov 27th,I haven't received any alert yet, it's supposed to be my first ROI

emmanuelgon:
Please stop, I'm scared

sirleke:
P0420: catalyst system threshold bank 1
catalyst system efficiency below
threshold bank 1

P0506: idle air control system RPM lower than expected....

Got the codes on my car...

Some1 should help out.

Thanks

Cornellious:
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robville25:
Is it that no one has the morale to go and handle this gazzuzz at his workshop? Too much talk is nonsense!

Who is gazzuzz seff?

Scammer
Fake mechanic
Fake parts seller
Bloody car dealer
Arrogance machine
Warranty dispenser
Plus including dubious and insultive.

Only one person oo.

Now you know his address, you also know what he looks like.

And he just brazenly said he’s working on someone’s vehicle again?

And you’re allowing him to destroy other peoples vehicles?

He must be stopped!

Go to his office and teach him a lesson. Better yet lock his gates in protest. Lets see where the arrogance will come from.


Is it that you’re spineless?
Or taking advantage of affordable data?
Or you’ve tried running him down and he keeps rising like yeasted flour?
Or you’re emotionally attached to Gazzuzz?
Or you’re scared of him?
Or deep down you know at some point you messed up and wanna count ur loss but are deeply peeved that he’s still up and about flexing?
Or your wife said he has a nice voice so you should leave him? (This one happened to me)
Or your case lacks substance to involve the police?
Or you’re just a hypocrite who’s conscience is tormenting?
Or all of the above?

If I were in your shoes or am a Prince of Persia, I will deal with him in ways he would not even fathom. I will go to his office and seal up the gates. Disconnect power supply. Seize all his wrenches! As a Prince I’ll go with my kinsmen and show him he messed with the wrong person. Who Is gazzuzz seff?