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 Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 10:29pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
There re really some people I haven't seen here Maya pretty Greydoll Boss13 Cowgirl, ritalewisky(hope you re okay doll) Mad lion Melyn(my young bro) huntman(hope I dint chase you away) Nyere 84 Am really trying to remember names Chike orji(I can see you viewing the thread) |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 10:09pm On Feb 05, 2013*. Modified: 4:13pm On Feb 06, 2013 |
I didn't feel like keeping this thread alive anymore,but when I came back to this thread,I saw you and other people telling me to keep up the good work.It was 10 peoples voice against one person so that distractive feeling was overshadowed.I felt strong again. I know that lady would still come here,to read more stories,I want to use this opportunity to tell her that she hurt me.She didn't mean to ,but she did anyway.I know she said it innocently but lets say she did it wrongly.(Modified:she apologized to me via my mail today and we re friends now  )Just this afternoon alone,I know how many people that told me their personal problems via my mail,and I also gave them the little advice I ould offer.others encouraged me. One of my hobbies is touching peoples life,and I ve been asking God to give me an opportunity to reach out to people and he gave me Nairaland as a plat form. Do you know how long I have been postponing opening this thread?Untill I summoned courage to open it? Do you know someone in my office was even referring me to this thread not knowing that am the Carmelion her self. Your friend might be right,its not today ladies started hearing about topics like this but the truth is that there re some ladies who have not heard.People turn 18 every month. Daily news, I want you to reach out to those young ladies.let them know,so that they won't be caught empty.Arm them with the information about what is out there.Let them not feel the society allowed them to go wrong.Please we need people like you on this thread,the world needs people like you too. I know you will come back when you re better. Expecting you.Goodnight |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 9:43pm On Feb 05, 2013*. Modified: 9:25am On Feb 07, 2013 |
PLEASE NOTE:You might not understand this post and my next one cos i modified it to bury a hatchet  .We are cool now. Daily news,I want to tell you that you don't have to leave this thread because of what happened.At least wait for me to leave first because if there is anybody that would have left because of people mouth,I would have been the one. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 2:42pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
DailyNews: .Truly she is .Wedding announcements to be made soon. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 12:21pm On Feb 05, 2013*. Modified: 3:10pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Now I seriously want us to talk about shoes.Yes shoes.You see a lady looks more elegant on heels.it also boosts your confidence.But believe me I don't like the way some of abuse it. Heels are not meant for trekking,there is a great difference between real life and runways,so please don't copy those models.You see during fashion shows,those models dress up behind the stage,then walk hurriedly on the runways for just less than a minute,then run back to the stage and pull off. Then because you liked what you saw,you will now go and buy shoes as high as those,then trekk from your hostel to the class,or from your office to the bustop.OMG!,I don't even want to laugh,becos believe me,whether you like it or not,your steps re bound to change,and you will draw people's attention.God help you,you now fall down.lol . Sweetheart,heels re meant to be worn straight to a nearby car,which will take you to your destination.When you get down from the car,you walk elegantly,stylishy,gracefully,dollishly,princessly, until you get to your exact destination. Heels re not for long distance.time to dance?Do it gently.You can wear heels to the office but don't forget to also go with your flat sandals in your bag. No guy would want to identify with a lady who is walking and staggering like a drunk on heels.Rem we want to attract them by fire by force.I said "them" o! not guys,hehehehehehe.  ^^^^@dailynews,hope you noticed the difference? ,I am in the office,am not supposed to be doing this.I have work to do but am addicted to my own thread. thanks for the correction. 1 Like
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 11:47am On Feb 05, 2013*. Modified: 12:54pm On Feb 05, 2013 |
Hi,dolls,good morning .hey guys,hope you re good? .how is your day going?hope you enjoyed looking at those pictures I uploaded yesterday?yeah I know you did.The dolls would love to be like those girls,the guys would love their woman to dress like that right.I mean who doesn't like anything good?You see ,the main reason why I decided to first tackle the dressing aspect of a lady's life is because they have to look good to ATTRACT a man,Yes attract a man,since the society frowns at women making the first move.There is also an adage in my language that says"the eyes eats first before any other part of the body".if the food is not appealing to the eyes,then forget it. I know those outfits look expensive but I can assure you,they re quiet affordable. Forget the people you saw wearing some of them,they re here in Nigeria. You just need to know where to buy them in your area,what works for your body and how to be creative.Don't follow the crowd.if you re on the fat side,use belts to create waist line,flabby arms?don't do too much sleeveless.Too much Manchester?you need a good bra first.Flat arsenal?go for high waist flayed gowns/skirts.if you must wear leggings ,do that with a long top. Seeing that V-line down there is not too good.Is the material too light?then you need an under skirt.A lady SHOULD NOT leave her home without looking at the mirror,especially when there is no body at home to ask"pls how do I look?". 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 6:39pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
ferhyntorlah: This is stale jare. If you are a virgin, hold on to your belief.!!!!! |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 6:11pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
clily: M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣ dear exactly same happened 2 me, I felt so terrible buh I realy thank God am over it nwIts okay hun,a very big and warm hug from me to you.hope you re better now?Are you working or schooling.I know its tougher when you re idle,please do check in here regularly.It will be okay. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 4:07pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
Ok o,somebody else should feel free to post more decent dresses, shoes and hand bags.Only corporate please,let's take it one at a time.We will talk later. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 4:03pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
DailyNews: Carm, I love what you are doing, to be honest with you, I am very proud of you, and other ladies should pls listen to your honest n open-minded counsels on this thread.^^^,thanks daily news.I tried my best to get black ladies,but you know corporate wears was handed down to us by westerners.So I didn't get much.Never mind just come again when its time for ankara,hehehehehe*dancing azonto*,they won't even see our back. .I mean whites can't even compete with us. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 3:23pm On Feb 04, 2013*. Modified: 4:30pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
No matter the size dolls,you re good to go!
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 2:58pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
Get your groove back!
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 2:36pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
Decency ,style and comfort is the watch word
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 2:28pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
More!
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 2:24pm On Feb 04, 2013 |
Get inpired dolls!,Get your groove back with these trendy/DESCENT styles Mon-Wed ,Work,lecture,exams any where as long as its the beginning of the week.We will talk more on these later.Be good.
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| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 9:47pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Aunty nurse: @Op, thanks a bunch.. U lifted my body & soul |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 9:20pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:12pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
temi4fash: Men are hoping for d best.. Dolls too are hopin lets keep hope alive...Thank you.I would have loved to say more on this but you see,you can not TRULY understand cos you re a guy. To be a single lady(when you re more than ripe to get married) is not easy.Nature/society frowns at you walking up to a guy and express your feeling.You re supposed to sit down and wait.I don't even want to talk about those cold nights when you need someone to cuddle wit and generate warmth. Religion forbids you touching yourself.No matter what you achieve in life,people will praise you from now till tomorrow morning and then end it with "but she is not married o".Then the praise is put to a stop and then your singlehood issues becomes the next hot topic.Smh. My brother you will not understand,you re in a mans world. God will help us all. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 9:20pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:11pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
Ok dolls,tomorrow is Monday.Most of us would be going to work,some to school,and other things.Those that re still job hunting,please I want to encourage you,do not loose hope. There is an addage that says"To acheive a different result,different steps should be adopted".please apply.I also want you accept jobs without looking at the pay(as long as it covers your tfare and give you small change)at least to make your hair and buy your sanitary pad every month without waiting Mr A or Mr C. My first job paid me 18,000.but i didn't mind,at least it boosted my Cv. Visit job vacancy sections and do not procrastinate neccesary actions.Dress well/decently too. Wear a smile,frowning gets guys confused.Cos they won't really know how to approach you.Some of them are scared of us o,don't mind some of these things they re saying here  .Less I forget the guys complained so much about our poor knowledge of current affairs.So how about turning on our radio and listen to news while we do our morning chores,and dress up to leave tomorrow morning?We re good right?*Hi five*lets do it together tomorrow and let's see how things would go,at least it doesnt involve us opening our legs for them lol. Goodnight dolls. 5 Likes |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 8:44pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:09pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
DailyNews:Hi dailynews,I can understand what you mean but I tell you,that's one the differences between a guy and a doll.Football and sports needs a lot of energy. Believe me I don't envy those women who participate,at least not with those muscles they ve developed in the name of sports.(Serena Williams).Now nobody should even tell me anything about their bank accts getting fat while am here forming doll. You see, there re 1001 ways I can increase my bank acct  .As for watching it,hmmm,that one is story for another day cos the way people around me shout during victory give s me headache.I don't even see my self shouting too.(My Opinion though). 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 8:34pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
eimuhb: My username get as e beWelcome b-doll.I look forward to more of your post*cheers* |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 7:39pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
thehunted: To d money issue,how come u babes can date a monkey with money. 2 yrs ago while I was on a 120k per month salary,a babe turned ne down cos she felt that I wasnt rich. 2 yrss after she is coming close to me and wants something serious with me. Infact,she has suddenly become caring cos I have a good job now but she turned down this fine boi when I was coming up. What do u want me to do with her? Over the years,I have learnt to be mean to gold digging babes. All the plans I have for.her is to f00k her . Nothing serious. An offer was tendered two yrs ago,it was rejected and so it isn't valid anymore. Whatever we do now is just for fun and wasting time.Hi,Mr huntman.Thanks for all your contributions but I think its time to call your attention to the fact that you have been repeating yourself.like seriously.We the dolls have heard and we are already working on ourselves.So can you please tell us something you 'vent told us before? 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 6:58pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Cutejay: Hmmmmm! What can i say? Op nice thread very educative. Been following from the first page and i must say i have learnt a lot. I have had bitter experiences too which made me wiser, though i'm single at the moment and taking my time to learn more while waiting for MR RIGHT cuz i've learnt the hard way and that has made me stronger and wiser. Also trying to build my carreer and broaden my knowledge on many things about life (a womans life doesn't revolve around a man) there are many things we can do to improve ourselves like learn new things, upgrade our knowledge in other to meet up with future challenges etc. So ladies quit brooding over heartbreaks and make something meaninfull out of your lives, be patient,humble,respectful and above all be prayerful when the time comes the right man will come along.Thanks so much cute JAY for popping in and also for your contribution.We share the same view and I sincerely hope that every lady should do same.Thanks once again |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 6:55pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
mechummy: @ Op very nyc thread...I'm Chummydoll btw... Thumbs up!Hi chummydoll,you re welcome.thanks for the compliment |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 4:46pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:07pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
Now there is one secret,I want to let the guys into.Ladies are we good? .I call it a secret because from their posts,especially those complaining of the ladies being desperados.Ok here we go.Guys,no matter how close you feel you re to a girl,no matter,how many times you call her on the phone in a day,no matter the places you guys have have been together,as long as you have not taken her to that place you your house,even if it is a one room apartment she won't feel connected to you or even think of you as a potential life partner What am I trying to say?Once you invite any lady to your house,we the ladies see as a silent way of saying "baby,i ve been observing you all this while we were hanging out,you impressed me,oya let's move to the next level". Yes that's how women see your invitation.But its so unfortunate that guys don't see it that way so they go ahead and invite every girl they know to their house.Then when all of them starts vying for the first lady's seat,he gets confused. I also want to tell you that any lady who agrees to come to your house likes you and is comfortable with you.If you re a working class guy who is old enough can and can afford to get married but still single,hmmm,then you need to be careful with bringing ladies to your house if you re not interested in her. I am saying this because majority of we ladies would starting adding your surname to their name(in their mind o!) once they like what they see.Sorry o if it sounds silly to you but that's the way majority of us think. That was why I advised one of our brothers here KENGAli to be sure of what he wants before he invites her over to his house. I hope this helps some dudes who need such advise in the house. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 4:13pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:05pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
Thanks everyone for your contributions.I have learnt a lot from peoples views and I believe you all learnt something too.I want us to get something straight,a mans world and a woman's world is never be the same. Men wonder why we fix fibre on our hair ,apply make up on face,cry over every little thing ,walk on high heels and so on. On the other hand,the women wonder what exactly men find exciting in looking at a woman ass,running after an object in the field for 90 mins,drinking bitter stuffs e.t.c.So you see? We re in different world and can't see things exactly the same way.Yet nature demands that we cohabit and exist as couples.Threads like this brings us together to rub minds and help us understand the opposite sex better. From here I ve learnt that guys want intelligent girls who they can discuss with.So,its left for the ladies to work on themselves right?okay we will do just that. A lot of guys also complained of ladies being too conclusive about their intentions.Always assuming that every relationship should to marriage right? Ok,I will address this in my next post. Please let's try to be subtle and on point in our comment so as not to derail the thread,thank you |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 3:50pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Omo Daddy354: This msg is 4 me nd i grab sharp sharp. Thanx bro... BTW nyc thread,i rilly do appreciate d OP nd all those dat have been contributing... Am Racheal,dnt knw wia d doll wil fit in o lolYou re welcome Rachaeldoll,thanks for your appreciation. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 3:05pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
Chinwem: ^^^ lemme add, an infection like chlamydia can be asymptomatic and cannot be cultured in standard lab culture media......so if you ve had STI treatment before or done it sans protection then make sure you were emperically treated for this as wellThanks chinwe doll for throwing more light on this ,Do you ve a career in the medical line? 2 Likes |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 1:26pm On Feb 03, 2013 |
nyere84: SINGLE?? Pls i hope one is single if he/she is nt married??Dear nyeredoll,how have you been?hope you re okay.Am really having a good laugh at your definition of being single ,50 guys only you?So what about us?lol.well as for your sister,I don't really know much about she and her man but below re some situations under which people refuse to leave abusive situations even after several warnings1.Under spell 2.Wrong orientation 3.Good sex(not found everywhere) 4.Lack of self confidence. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 12:11pm On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 3:02pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
After treating this for two solid weeks,did the staph go?No.I already read it up somewhere that it is a very very stubborn bacteria.Mind you I started spending the little money I had on drugs. I was determined to treat it,so I decided to start another round of treatment not minding the cost.I also practised a higher level of hygiene as regards my being a woman.when treating an infection,its not advisable to go back to the same undies.it would come back.I ate a lot of fruits too.then after two weeks,I went for another test,the staph was gone. That was when it dawned on me that peharps he knew all these while cos he was always visiting the hospital,complaining of movements around the body(a symptom of staph). So why didn't he tell me?Cos he knows it would confirm my suspicion of his unfaithfulness.Well once bitten,twice what?hmmm,I told him politely,"am so done with you".I mean imagine if it was HIV?Is that how my life would have changed bearing? All because of love?I even went for a pelvic scan and every appeared intact(God help me). After some months,my period regularized ,as in comes on a particular date,my ovulation too. Hmmm,my dear sisters I don't care what anybody says on this thread.I would keep saying what I have been saying.Open your eyes while in love. |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 11:53am On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 2:59pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
I could not even cry,I was shocked beyond imaginations,I could not eat,I slimmed down instanta.No wonder my cycle were totally messed up. I felt so ashamed of myself,I I didn't know my life has gotten this low all becos of sex.You need to see me reading up every topic about staph on the net.My Bp rose cos I read terrible stuffs could happen if not treated fast. Did they just say fast?I don't even know how long this thing has been in my body.Well I pulled myself together and went to see my doctor.I didn't ask him much question cos I know he would not want me to hurt. All I needed was treatment ,a comprehensive one at that.And it began.Injections,pills,tablets to insert in my honey pot. I even asked for the cream form of drugs,I don't mind rubbing it .My doctor wanted to admit me but what do I tell the world that am doing in a hospital bed,when I look healthy? |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 11:42am On Feb 03, 2013*. Modified: 2:58pm On Feb 07, 2013 |
Before I broke up with my man(the very one that insists on no condoms and I foolishly agreed),I noticed something.His erections were no longer strong the way it use to be.But I didn't read much meanings into it. I became worried but I didn't know how to complain cos I know I have a high libido,so I thought I was just the one wanting more and more.When it was time for me to do my Hvs.I did but when I collected my result.OMG!,I could not believe my eyes. I have Staph in my system!.I usually don't like opening my result in the hospital,I do that at home so that just in case it warrants fainting ,I would not embarass myself outside.  |
| Romance › Re: A Thread for Single Ladies :) by carmelion(op): 11:15am On Feb 03, 2013 |
To every doll out there,especially those who re sexually active and those who who just broke up from a relationship.I want us to talk about the health aspect of a woman (as in reproductive system).How many times do you go for check up in the hospital or do you wait for symptoms like itching,odour,irregular cycle,abdominal pains e.t.c.There is a lab test called High Vaiginal Swab(HVS).Its for women only and it entails a slim swab stick driven gently inside your honey pot to collect specimen for culture analysis.The result is usually out after two days so as to observe if you have any infection.If you do,the result will say so.Then when shown to your doctor,he /she would take it up from there.Personally I do mine twice a year ie every 6months.its not so expensive(N1000-N1500) depending on the hospital.I recommend this test for every doll in the house especially if you re having trust issues with your man.Some of these infections might be in your system,and you wouldn't know.So don't just break up and feel you have gotten rid of him.Please run to the hospital and sanitize yourself.I don't need to talk much about knowing your HIV status @lewisky doll.pls take care
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