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Sorry o,I didn't know that her size is the new "skiny" or "slim".
Besides,try to upload current pix.

Meanwhile,she is my fellow woman ,so it would be foolish of me to come here and talk about her size.

The main reason why I mentioned her is just to tell you that despite all Snoop Lion does in the media,he has a homely wife and family.

Like I said,am not here to discuss size.

kaboninc: And so are his kids!

You are current!

Hey dollllllSs!,woke up this mornning,feeling so Happy(wish everyday would be like this).

Today,during break,I would be going to window shop for my valentine gift.Yeah I like feeding my eyes

At the end of the day,I hope to go through my list again and make a final decision on what to buy(based on my pocket ofcourse).Then tomorrow, OMG I can't wait,amma rush down to the store and make myself happy.

You all should try and show some love to yourself tomorrow.Have a beautiful day!

nbright: Even if I'm an 8 yr old, what's the big deal in that?. I knew she isn't the original owner of the song. I've listened to Williams Onyeabor, Bongos Ikwes, UB40, Eric Donaldson, etc... Thank God for my dad's love for music. Talking about snoop's family, when u saw his wife, after child birth is she as fat and superficial as our Nigerian girls?... U girls will just see a pix on the net and that's it, u will start saying "look at this one, see how they look perfect" but u all don't want to know how they do it...

Then you don't know Snoop Lions wife. She is fat and chubby like the "Nigerian girls".

xyoung: @cameliondolls
Pls answer my pending questions

Questions?,Now am lost.Which one exactly?

nbright: That same OMAWUMMI sang Bottom Belle and we all know what that song meant, the message it carry's... (how girls love money scatter).

Hmmm....,so you mean to tell me you re the only dude who doesn't know that OMAWUMMI is not the original owner of that song?

That Bottombelle has been there since early 80's?

That the original owner is an ibo man called Herbert Udemba from Owerri?

Wait,was it from OMAWUMMI you first heard BOTTOM BELLE"?.

Awwww,if it is so ,then you re quiet young .That's cool.Nice meeting you dear.(Stretches hand for a hand shake)

Even if she is the original,I want to tell you that am proud of her!!!(*100000).Like she said,she needs to change the way she lives but she doesn't have to DO THOSE THINGS.

I admire her for putting her brain to work by digging up a song that was sang more than 20yrs ago.She "remixed" it so well,even kids sing/dance to that song.

I say kudos those to her cos instead of doing THOSE THINGS to make some change,that song BOTTOM BELLE is giving her coooooollll cash.She is a sharp babe you know.

Besides that's the entertainment industry for you.I don't judge them based on what I see,its work for them you know.Everybody is hustling.

Snoop lion(former snoop dog)with all his ruggedness,have seen his family(wife &kids)? You will trip...

Maya2pretty: @carmy doll, aren't u going to settle d dispute on ur thread? it's gettin really ugly oh, @RedBenson my brother relax na

Mayadoll,I can't see any dispute here.

I can only see that my thread is always on top in romance section because of frequent posts and regular visits.How are you?

Sheybor: hy carmydoll:Ditz bin long i posted here cos v bin busy...bt wen i checked dis mawnin i can c u r doin a great job,kip it up gurl...nd 2all d dolls nd guyz in d aos kudos 2 y'all.......nd plz letz kip up kippin d thread clean...shedoll signin out

Thanks sheydoll

Hello dolls,how is your day going?
I have not had time to post.Have any of you tried listening to the Song?I mean the one I posted the lyrics here.

I like the part where OMAWUMMI said

"I wanted to change the way i live
But i didn't have to do those things"

I also like the part where M.I said

"Even when the things were hard,i place my future in my God"

Dear dolls,sometimes its not easy,even this my current job is not so satisfying,I still apply for better ones.But I tell you no matter what!,I repeat!,let's not dirty ourselves!.love you dolls,be strong!

This is the lyrics o the song,though it was an [color=#000000]anti-yahoo guys song[/color],
I want all the single ladies in the house to see it as an anti-runs girls song

TRULY MAGA DOESN'T HAVE TO PAY BEFORE YOU GET THE GOOD THINGS OF LIFE,
BE INSPIRED TO GET A LIFE!



MAGA NO NEED PAY
Hey , Hey , Hey , Hey
Maga no need pay
For me to buy correct moto
For me to take make my doe
Maga no need pay hey,hey
Maga no need pay pay pay pay pay pay

OMAWUNMI:
Reminising as i walk to ma car
Thinking about how it used to be
For Ekpoma, I dey ride okada
And most times, i dey soak Garri
I wanted to change the way i live
But i didnt have to do those things
Now am ruling V.I.P
And other girls wanna be like me

MODELE:
You ask me how i deal with ma reality
And i tell you truly it aint easy now
I feel the pressure too and dont know what to do
And now remember you reap what you sow
Now am sitting staring at the screen in my computer
Thinking really hard about what truely matters
Whats with all this data
Just to catch a Maga
It could have been your father
Or someone else's brother

CHORUS:
Maga no need pay
For me to buy correct moto
For me to take make my doe

Maga no need pay
No need for me to go Cafe,i hustle hard to make my pay
Maga no need pay
No need to do yahoo-yahoo,to do yahoo-yahoo
Maga no need pay hey,hey
Maga no need pay pay pay pay

BANKY W
7 in the morning,its a brand-new day
Eyes still swollen,still at the Cafe
Hustle real hard,from sunday-to-sunday
Hoping someday that Maga will pay
But Maga no need pay,for me to live correct
They call me Mr Capable, I got ma self respect
No need to do yahoo-yahoo,for me to cash a cheque
I dont need no Maga,just work harder now

BEZ:
Tell me what a boy like me should do
Thought i heard the guys do-do yahoo yahoo
And if i do not do it a ma cool
I'll be a fool to the girls at school
But maga no need pay to get a good degree
You'll have a great opportunity Dont have to hack and crack
Make use of Cd cracks
We can be more original,now you know my swag


CHORUS:
Maga no need pay
For me to buy correct moto
For me to take make my doe
Maga no need pay
No need for me to go Cafe,i hustle hard to make my pay
Maga no need pay
No need to do yahoo-yahoo,to do yahoo-yahoo
Maga no need pay hey,hey
Maga no need pay pay pay pay

ROOFTOP MC's
Tuale Officer
Whats the problem sir?
Oh! There's a law against Crusing in a Range sir
I dont know what you think we are
Cuz we rolling in a fancy car
We making that sweet money,i call it the Candy bar
Ok,all those wey maga pay
Where them dey today
Am straight,no deceit
My money here in sit
I dont mess with Cyber crime
But i make the Cypher rhyme
I get paid for my time
Dont need a scammer guy

WORDSMITH:
Am the role model's role model,there's no second guessing whom
Wordsmith was meant to make you change like a dressing room
Am living proof that there's dignity in Labor
My boss's like a prisoner and this is hard labor

M.I:
My father said i was a star
Before i ever spit a bar
You see,when you travel far
Dont forget who you are
Represent Nigeria
Represent for Africa
Even when the things were hard,i place my future in my God
Yes,see my Nation's reputation
Suffers much condolation
This's our situation
Are we Cybercriminals?
No,we are the minerals
Resources of our fatherland
We must rise and take the stand
Everyday heroes are born
Hostereo types are torn
Things we did to cause this harm
We are better,now we on
Hardwork Positivity
Truth reliability
Expose your ability
Change our reality
Thats all

CHORUS:
Maga no need pay
For me to buy correct moto
For me to take make my doe
Maga no need pay
No need for me to go Cafe,i hustle hard to make my pay
Maga no need pay
No need to do yahoo-yahoo,to do yahoo-yahoo
Maga no need pay hey,hey
Maga no need pay pay pay pay (2x)


M.I
Nigeria Yo! Yo!
Listen everybody
Put your bling up right now
Bringing this case means we are brilliant
We are legitimate,we are inspired
We are nigerians,we are great
It means that we do not have to do anything that we are not to do to make money
We just gat to ply ourselves and work harder
We truly Nigerian

bukatyne: The working class who decides to marry a guy who doesn't have much must have taken evrything into consideration and is fine with it. I'm still waiting for your story

Hello.bukatyne,sorry for keeping you waiting so long for the story.its just that am not yet in the mood for long posts now.Besides,these fonts re too tiny,my eyes hurts a little.

I will give you the full story later but let me give you a hint.

To the glory of God,this year started with proposal for me(but I turned it down) and I pray it will end with another proposal that will lead to marriage.Amen.

Yes I said to the glory of God,because,it means that I am still in the "market".It means that a man still considered me suitable enough to be his wife.

Well I considered a lot of things and turned it down(sorry).

The full story is about why I did that.I will type it when am in the mood for long post

At all the dolls in the house,have a blissful day.

Hi dolls,hope you re all up and kicking? I am so happy this morning(yeah some days are like that).I don't know why.

I listened to a song this morning,though its an old song by BANKY W,but I really got interested in the lyrics so I felt I should share.

The title of the song is -MAGA NO NEED PAY.

I will try and post the link for download here but just incase I didn't succeced,just google it.

Get inspired dolls!

nne3870: Nice thread,@ carmelion

Thank you Nne

beecool: Hi Carmie and Graphy, hope you dolls are good.
I want to say a big thank you to Carmie for putting up this thread, and to everyone that has contributed to it. God bless you.

Up Super Eagles! Up Nigeria!!

You re welcome to the thread beecool.Thanks for the compliment and God bless you too.

One of the Dps I got on bbm,been cracking me up

Graphy: Tanx carmelion 4 speaking on my behalf,bt anyway i am gonna act maturedly and ignore Redbenson,so dat i dnt derail the thread,tanx carmelion kip up d gud work,i am learning.God bless u.

Welcome to the club hun,you learn to ignore somethings,though I still feel,he didn't mean to insult you.He only expressed himself wrongly

God bless you too.

taio luv: @carmydoll,permit to say your gift in touching my life by openin this topic will take u to higher places beyond ur desires IJN,ur words were on point.

God will bless u more IJN,I know dis year shall be our year of conjugal bliss IJN.

Amen dear,I claim it IJN.Welcome to this thread.God bless you too.

RedBenson: @graphy, i doubt if u worth any man making breakfast in bed 4 u. Ask urself that. No offence!

Hi,Redbenson,my handle says Carmelion not Graphy so I know you were not referring to me.But I choose to let it concern me so as to prevent some things from happening here

When I first saw your post,I tot maybe its one of those fights carried over from another thread.But then your last sentence go me confused.Did you just say no offence??.or is it my eyes?.

Then I went ahead to check your profile and I discovered you just registered the day before yesterday.

So I wonder what you guys must have quarreled over within the space of two days ,that would warrant such statement.

Mr Redbenson,I want to blame it on wrong choice/usage of words,so please kindly modify that post before she comes to view the thread.(I pray she hasn't seen it).

Maya2pretty: @Carmy doll, yeah I know, my priority is gettin a good job, but dat is comin soon IJN

Amen to you Maya doll,it will come sooner than you expected.

Maya2pretty: *sighs* finally, sometimes it sucks bein single :-( but there r other priorities now

Yeah,same here but then like you said,there re other priorities now.

Personally I have observed that one of the worst things that can happen to you is to be a matured single lady and at the same time a dependant.

As in no husband,no money. Hmmm.....! I think you should use the last card you have to purchase a shock/insult absorbers .At least you can endure the way people will treat you especially your younger ones.

So my dear,try not to be idle,upgrade yourself(ur acct too).But please do so in a morally approved way.

edelweiss: I have two nice cousins, cutes brothers, nice guys, brothers who makes me breakfast in bed on weekends I decide to spend in any of their house.(Now a man who can willingly make his sister breakfast in bed think what he can do to a woman)this two brothers of mine have being extremely unlucky with women!and I feel so sad cos I haven't treated nobody's brother the way they are treating mine! The are busy guys, normal graduates, just picking up,working and got their own pads,I ave introduced girls to them cos I know they are good,but girls are so unserious!Jeez its so disgusting, what do girls want these days?can't a girl stick to just one man?even when she knows the man means well for her? These girls keep messing up with my brothers hearts and I blame myself! U are dating my brother and u will be going on an amorous date with another man,ofcos I can't tell my brother but its so painful!I ask them why do u want a bf when u can't stay with a man! What are u chasing?its just so so annoying! One of my cousins just left my place, so unhappy and fed up with girls, and I couldn't help telling him, cousin please don't get abusive and insulting to women when u are a millionaire and those girls come running back to u, just ignore them but don't abuse.I don't know how to pour my heart, but my heart aches. Please let's set our priorities right.

Edel doll,good to hear from you again,personaly my weekend has been about house chores,resting and ofcourse Nairaland.Sorry to hear about your brothers.Like you said,thay re really unlucky.

Please I want you to encourage them.At least with you as their sister,they should know that there re still good ladies out there.

Please when next,you want to introduce them to girls,please don't introduce any girl to them.Be very selective,go for somebody who will value them(at least you know them better).

Emmm...wait,did you just say they make breakfasts in bed?,that's romantic you know.

edelweiss: I have two nice cousins, cutes brothers, nice guys, brothers who makes me breakfast in bed on weekends I decide to spend in any of their house.(Now a man who can willingly make his sister breakfast in bed think what he can do to a woman)this two brothers of mine have being extremely unlucky with women!and I feel so sad cos I haven't treated nobody's brother the way they are treating mine! The are busy guys, normal graduates, just picking up,working and got their own pads,I ave introduced girls to them cos I know they are good,but girls are so unserious!Jeez its so disgusting, what do girls want these days?can't a girl stick to just one man?even when she knows the man means well for her? These girls keep messing up with my brothers hearts and I blame myself! U are dating my brother and u will be going on an amorous date with another man,ofcos I can't tell my brother but its so painful!I ask them why do u want a bf when u can't stay with a man! What are u chasing?its just so so annoying! One of my cousins just left my place, so unhappy and fed up with girls, and I couldn't help telling him, cousin please don't get abusive and insulting to women when u are a millionaire and those girls come running back to u, just ignore them but don't abuse.I don't know how to pour my heart, but my heart aches. Please let's set our priorities right.

^^^Where is my Mr xyoung?,I think your topic just came up.

bukatyne: Dear, I appreciate what you are doing on this thread. However, i just want to point out some things:

1. the lady has a choice to marry who she wants to. Must the wedding be big? Must they live at Lekki? Must they have a ride? Some Churches make a provision of office wedding for poor couples. Just the pastors, parents and couple. Some very rich people started very poorly.

2. Love NEVER comes after marriage expect the grace of God: most women accept their fate and live in sorrow. One can't love two people at a time. Love can'y also be switched on and off. If she marries the 'ready' man and tomorrow he loses his job and doesn't quickly get another, what happens? I would say she never loved the boyfriend in the firdt place. I have a couple that had barely nothing when they married. Four yeras later, their story is amazing.

Thanks dear Bukatyne for your compliment and your post too.I learnt something from it.And NO,in things concerning relationships ,nothing is a MUST except to be FAITHFUL.

You made mention of couples that started poorly,now,there story is amazing.If you only you will agree with me, notwo stories are exactly the same.There must be a 'but','eventually','although'e.t.c.

The story of a youngman who has close to nothing and decides to marry a girl who is a student is differnt from a youngman who has close to nothing and decides to marry a working class lady for a wife.

Both stories are all about starting poorly right?BUT do yo know the type pressure this lady(working class)would face at home,some ladies end up loosing contacts from their family all because they went after their love.Such decisions are not for the faint hearted.

I can't finish this without pointing out (again) that everyone is scared of the unforseen.God forbid but what if something happens to this guy tomorrow,who will the lady run to?.I know of a couple who got married ,started off happily without any problem,every body welcomed the bride and all seem to be well untill the guy died 1 year and five months into their marriage story changed.

Every thing her husband had was collected from her because she had a daughter not a son.So,to them,she should find a life somewhere else.Mind you her husband is a doctor o,so its not like they were managing.Also remember that none of her inlaws showed any sign of hatred when she was coming in.(I know all this cos the late guy was a friend).

I know that as a christain,God will always make a way where there seem to be no way,but as humans such decisons take time to make.Besides such ladies might have other things(apart from finance) bothering them,but unless they tell you,you might not know.I have a personal story to share with you later.

In a very special way,today my heart goes out to all those who parted ways with their Ideal potential life partners on medical grounds.

Falling in love with someone only to discover that both of you are of 'AS' genotype.I can't say I understand how you feel cos I am not 'AS'.But I know it hurts,especially when it wasn't your fault,and there is nothing you can do about it.

This is mostly hard for the lady cos she is supposed to WAIT(I hate this part)for another suitor(hoping he is now AA)to come and toast her.

Then while waiting,people who doesn't know her story would be saying all sorts of humiliating words all because she is single.*SMH*

My sister,my heart goes out to you.Its well ok?.Be strong and focused.Talk to your God and pour your heart out to him.I pray with you,(AA)'s would come your way.(((Big hug))).

xyoung: @carmelion...
You are so rude
How dare you ignore my question I directly to you
Is that how you intend to lead the girlfolks?

Sorry I lost track of your post.But since you mentioned it,I had to search for it and alas!I found it.

Then I discovered that answering your question would lead to repetition(I am not a fan of that).
The answer to your question is lying somewhere in one of the post on Pages 0-25 of this thread.

You may want to read through/in between the lines.Thank me later

Where is ritalewisky?hope she is okay?

Maya2pretty: Carmy doll, hello sweetie, took ur advice, got rid of every ounce of feelin I had 4 dat nigga and am happy and free. Men generally rn't worth any ounce of stress women attach to them, if he's urs, then u wont b stressed at all #Ilovemyfuturehusband

Good to see you again doll!,I ve been so worried about you(honestly).Wondering if you re stll crying just like me back then.What kept you?Good to know you re good and have moved on.

Just give yourself a little time to heal,you will be fine.

Don't ever try to bottle up emotions ,its okay to cry and let it all out.it makes you feel better.

When you re stronger,give love a chance again.They re not all bad you know.Good to hear from you again(((big hug))) .

After velentine ,let's gist about what happen that day.Men proposes,God disposes you know.

We might you know.....

Just saying

Hello dolls,how is your day going?Talking about how to spend the upcoming val,am really thinking of how best to spend it alone.

From my calender,14th is on a thursday so definitely I will be be at work.I would have loved to leave the office during break and give my self a treat,but what else is there to eat that some one has not eaten?Besides fast foods that day would be like accident scenes.

So am thinking of buying myself a wonderful gift.Not neccesarily expensive but something I would cherish. I have a list to choose from
1. A black hand bag
2.Going for pedicure/ manicure
3.Visiting a spa
4.A set of make up applicator
5.Thonging set for hair
6.Sleek lip gloss or Iman powder.

Hmmmm...,all these things boils down to money and my wallet is giving me signal.So I have to settle for just one /two items depending on the price.unfortunately,there is no beach or a waterfall around me,I would have love to go.

Any of them I end up buying,I will try and upload it here.Just endeavour to have fun.Did I mention that I will dress to kill on that day,hehehehehe,No high heels,but necks must turn when I pass.Yes I said that.Bite me

nbright: So in a way u are saying "MOST" girls get married to a guy not because of love but because they know that they are gettin old?,

^^.I can't remember saying that.

You might want to quote me.I only said MOST girls(ripe enough to be married including me) wont wait that long(3 yrs).That's why you can't see a working class lady dating a student.

Personally,the pressure would be too much coupled with the unforseen

^^,@ Soyedele I understand what you mean but I must tell,most women (including me)would not want to wait that long.We re all scared of the unknown,too many uncertainties around us.

Please,pardon me,but I would like to know what you mean by,You don't need a job before you get married?

Just like I guessed,you don't feel comfortable with younger dates,but I can assure you ,that is one of the quickest ways to bypass this whole issues of

"my girlfriend of 4 yrs left me for a richer guy,girls are too materialistic"

"My family doesn't want me to marry my fiancee cos she is 30+,help".

I want to tell you that some of these ladies have to force themselves to love those guys they end up getting married to,just to evade pressure.

Forget (some of)those wedding pictures you see,its all for the cameras dear.if only you can see their mind.They wish it was their longtime boyfriends ,but they can't help it.

Luckily they will start loving their husbands after marriage,I mean they have no choice I just hope you uunderstand,and save yourself the stress.

madridsta007: WHAT U̶̲̥̅̊ NEED TO KNOW BEFORE SLEEPING WITH HIM. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it’s true: Just because a man has sex with a woman doesn’t mean that he has even spent a second thinking whether or not he wants to be with her or have a relationship in the future.

So if you’re thinking that sleeping with a man will make him “see your worth”, you’re dead wrong.

It is not the physical attraction a man feels for a woman - or getting close to her physically - that makes a man really “feel it” for you and want more.

Yet almost every woman I know equates sex with a relationship.

The Morning After

Let’s say you slept with a guy, and then he got distant. You’re probably thinking he played around with you and was not being honest about what he was looking for.

“You’ve gotta stop banking on what you think a relationship could be - and what I call a man’s “future potential” - and start opening your eyes to what is.”
But let me ask you this: Did YOU tell him what you wanted before you got physical? Did you say something like, “I only sleep with a man if he already values me and sees me for the amazing woman that I am?”

I’m guessing no. Instead, you probably did what lots of women do during “casual dating” - You gave him no impression about whether you were in it for the fun and connection of it all with him or were actually looking for something serious.

You thought the act of sex alone would speak for itself. Wrong.

If you’ve ever felt hurt because you became physical with a man and he ended up not having an interest in dating or starting a relationship, then odds are you can look back and see that you’ve made this mistake.

Of course, it doesn’t seem like it’s you who is making a mistake in these situations. It feels like the man you’re with is the one who obviously doesn’t get it and is a player for not being ready for a relationship.

But deep down, you know you slept with this man because you believed that if you could come up with enough “proof” that he should love and value you, and if you could make things “perfect” between you two, then he would become the open and loving man you imagined him to be.

Who Gives You Your Worth?

You’ve gotta stop banking on what you think a relationship could be - and what I call a man’s “future potential” - and start opening your eyes to what is.

You’re so wrapped up in his perspective, what he’s doing, his feelings, his emotions and his desires (or lack thereof) that you’ve all but forgotten about something way important. What YOU really want.

I’ll take a wild guess here and bet that the kind of guy that you truly want isn’t a guy who is going to freak out or act distant just because you’re telling him how you’re feeling after you’ve already slept together.

and what men really mean when they say they want “freedom.”

Knowing this will free you from the pain of getting too attached to a guy and then pushing him away. You’ll learn how to handle sex throughout every stage of dating and how to give him the “freedom” he’s looking for in a new way - through love and connected experience.


Happy Valentine dolls... I'm out for now...

Thanks for giving us an insight into a mans world,I appreciate