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DAY 318, REDPILL 2022 If she's not stouthearted and determined, never consider commitment. Women that lack goals and ambitions will never value whatever you give them. Authority: Be selectively wise. |
dontai:Which justice again? Or, not what you expected? Lol. Do read for a second time. However: CaveAdullam: |
Herbworks:Nice report. 1. However, as much as I understand, there's no hidden conspiracy against men. Even if there is, it is one rooted in human nature that is common among everyone, which is: to gain power, control, and money. 2. In life, nobody can disrespect you face to face when you don't create such an opportunity. People may disregard you from afar, but for them to rub it on your face, only you can grant them access. Default mode: people fear you until you have established contact and proximity. 3. There is a common saying: "the way you dress, that's the way you'll be addressed. Treat yourself as a king and you'll be honored as one". Even a madman has a reputation - dirty, weird, and violent, hence, normal people stay aloof from them. Ask yourself, why didn't the woman press your head and hit you with a cane? If you have acted the same way as that man, you would have been treated similarly. 4. We don't have control over life's events and how other people will behave or treat us, just as we can't stop birds from flying over our heads but can stop them from building a nest on our shoulders. 5. Guys need to start upgrading. As much as empathize with men, modern-day men have a lot of work to do, because the ones I see on the street daily and the ones online/nairaland is a quantifiable reason why women and society at large don't have regard for men in general. 6. As women cannot win men in physical fights, same way men cannot win women in emotional and verbal abuse. Women can win verbally and emotionally, and this is more reason you must always be on guard to end every discussion with them tending towards altercations and physical abuse. You'll be unable if you are on your emotional side too, and in such a scenario, women will be supported by outsiders because average men and women are emotional and can be easily manipulated. 7. One man cannot cause this effective change on a large scale, the resonance can only be created by a conglomeration of individual men who pursue honor, glory, and integrity here and outside and are eager to bring back masculinity to his throne. Men bring back masculinity. |
DAY 317, REDPILL 2022 Men that are too attached to women will never go far in life. Ambitious men must be able to calibrate their proximity with women, ensuring a certain level of detachment when dealing with them. The feminine conundrum is eternal, an unregulated attachment will debilitate his masculine muscles making him unfit for the upcoming battle within and without. Not losing focus when dealing with women is a sign of peak masculinity. Authority: Focus.
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DAY 316, REDPILL 2022 Women don't know when to stop; that's where your leadership comes in. You may push to the extreme and tend towards tyranny; that's where her feminity comes in. If the negative sides of both are not tamed by their opposite positive sides, chaos looms in the relationship. Authority: Positive masculinity. Positive feminity. |
The best way of living is giving. The downside is that ingrates abound and their reciprocation of good ends with evil thereby making good hearts turn bad. But if you have a strong heart and full of abundance, the wavering nature of humans will never stop you from doing what's good and right to the best of your knowledge. The other downside: many love to give and put smiles on the face of people, but they are too poor to give. Their hearts are full of love and kindness even though their hands are empty. May be blessed beyond measure. May we know kindness and empathy. May we be able to separate the goats from the sheep. May we not lack. May our brains be open to good opportunities. Isé. Insha Allah. Amin. In Jesus name, amen. |
CaveAdullam: Hedgefunds:1. In life, you must work before you eat. The distance between you and what you need is the amount of work you are ready to do to obtain it. 2. Even though you are living a life of easiness, luxury, and comfort, it is because of the work another man has done. If people don't work nothing can be achieved. 3. The enjoyment and suffering of future generations are predicated upon the deeds of their ancestors. We are enjoying the effects of science and technology in the world today because ancestral scientists put in the work. We are experiencing an unstable economic situation because our ancestors never came up with a tangible way to maintain a good economy. Men and women have a need: resources, territory, mates, children, and comfort. 4. Women don't have the same physical strength as men, so they can only work a little to get what they need because women are not as strong and muscular as men, and are conflict avoidants - it is wise to stay out of trouble when you know that you are weak. Also, women's emotions will not make them challenge the abyss (there is another side to this though: that women love mystery... a story for another day but I have dropped notes on it previously). 5. Women can't fold their hands and die because they are conflict avoidants and don't have the same level of strength as men. They must do something to get their needs. And what they do is leverage their sexuality. How do they do this? 6. Women are the highest patronizers of the cosmetic or facial industry: makeup. Bútt enlargement. Breast enlargement. Sexual revealing clothes and other physical effects. 7. Remember the WORK I made mentioned above. Work is still involved regardless of the direction they bend towards. This form of work is easier and less challenging for women. The aim is to get what they need. Of course, it is a manipulative tendency, however, it is evolutionary firmware women have built perfectly. It will upset you. It will scare you. But remember: in mathematics, we all were taught METHOD 2 should in case METHOD 1 seems tasking. Women choose METHOD 2. Instead of using their limited physical strength and wrestling with the abyss, they just upgrade their beauty and allow nature to do her work. Naturally, between men and women who do you think is more beautiful and handsome? No doubt, it is women. It is an evolutionary game. Dear men, I empathize with you. 8. Herein, men become women's escape plan because with men they can get what they need without fighting the same battle as men. And this is where the roots of hypergamy have a stronghold because it only selects the best men, men who have fought and conquered. On this note, women can also be deceived by a man who assumes the role of a warrior and king: what makes them fall into this deception is because of their feelings. They are too scared of difficulties, hence, any man that shows that best man quality they will quickly want to crowd him. These two types of men: true warrior and fake/pretending warrior are common among celebrities. 9. The exceptions don't count, but I will make mention of it. Some women struggled to be independent to achieve their needs. They are rare to the extreme. These women used METHOD 1 because they were compelled to use it or wanted to also proved themselves by not leveraging on their sexuality. Most independent women we hear of on social media climbed to the top through family, inheritance, or marriage. These women stood on the work of men. Simple! 10. Men have nowhere to turn to because everywhere is full of conflicts; the same conflicts he tries to avoid in one direction, he meets in another. His only leverage is to fight. Men only have METHOD 1. 11. Remember: to whom much is given, much is expected. What has been given to men? Enough physical strength minced with wits, intelligence, wisdom, and logic - the gifts of men. 12. . The conflict is in folds: A. The conflict to acquire the gifts of men. Though men tend to manifest these gifts, it doesn't manifest until they develop them. That's why every young man needs a good and strong father (same with women) to be their guard and shelter and to train them in the way of men by enhancing these gifts. B. To go to the battlefield and fight. Having the gifts is one part, using them is the next part. Because you can't win without fighting. If you don't fight you automatically become a slave to those that fight and even win. C. How to maintain your victory. On earth, victory is not guaranteed once. You fight to win; you fight to protect your medal or victory because the enemies you once conquered will rise again; competition is obvious - every other person needs what you have and will wrestle with you to get it. It is a competition that motivates you to become better or get consumed by envy and jealousy. D. How to come back again in cases of failure, because win you must else remain a slave forever. So, you see, the escape route for men is the route itself. Meaning, no escape. 13. You don't depend on women to help you because they are looking up to you. By the way, looking up to them for maximum help will weigh them down and they will retaliate by resenting you. You can't depend on other men because they are in the same struggle as you. Except you are obedient enough to go the way of a master-servant relationship until you become strong enough to become a master too. Fight you must whether you like it or not. How you fight is contingent on how you utilized your "gifts of men". 14. Husbands are always shocked by the attitude of their wives when they go low in the hierarchy. It is because women are scared of conflicts and they depend on their husbands for protection. They had the mindset that their wives will be their backbone when things get worst, however, their assumed backbone become their worst nightmare. It looks sad and depressing, right? Yeah. I understand. But take note: if these women don't act as nightmares you may become relaxed and deaden your ambitions as a result of comfort. It is an ambivalent situation: they are both your nightmare and your activation energy 15. This is not to excuse women for their nonchalance and revoke of submission, because a good and loyal woman will stand by you through thick and thin; loyal people of course. And that's why you must vet the woman/women you are committing to. 16. Conflict avoidance makes women submissive. And conflicting conflicts puts men in authority: "take this one talent from this lazy fellow and give it to the hardworking servants that have ten talents". DAY 315, REDPILL 2022 Authority: Take risks. Fight this conflict. Become a winner. Cc. Hedgefunds. |
DAY 314, REDPILL 2022 Man is woman's escape plan. Conflict is man's escape plan. Authority: Arm yourself. |
pansophist:I can supply him with portable ones. Not up to 30 years of age. Fresh babes for that matter. Untouched. Unscathed. PM me. |
DAY 313, REDPILL 2022 You'll exchange your coat for nàkedness if you don't go in value for value. Ingrates abound and reciprocation is rare. Appeal to incentives and take the other part of the bargain. Always go eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth. Exceptions: Patriarchs. However, they can still endeavor to get part of the bargain even though is not the full yield expected. Authority: Be wise. |
TainyLite: DAY 312, REDPILL 2022 Men used religion as a means to guard civilization, create order, bring prosperity and build reputable humans. Women used religion to disguise their dark secrets. Their involvement in religion is to decipher the mystery surrounding it so that they can leverage upon it with their sexuality - Samson, and Delilah. Women that fear God put Him first before their sexuality - Holy Mary. Authority: Don't contaminate yourself with the dead. Let them rest in peace.
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TainyLite:This poor mental form of reasoning always starts and ends with being a damaged h0e or prostitute - they are the only ones that have access to the holy communion. If that should be the case, what about male - murderers, pedophiles, fraudsters, and every male in prisons worldwide? They need to be set free because they have been hearing religious sermons weekly, however, their case is in hell. Women always come up with asinine thoughts like this to save face after they messed up the whole place. They know they don't stand a chance and can't win the existing structures. Rather, they create one and persuade people to see reasons with them and get them hoodwinked. Men who don't know this will praise God, shout for joy, and shed tears for finding a good wife. Meanwhile, God in heaven is cringing for such a dumbfounded man. Sigh.
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obinna58:Nice contribution. Women's arrogance is always in a crescendo as they climb the hierarchy. They always want to imitate men because they think exhibiting these negative sides of men - egocentrism and arrogance have the same effects. A man can buffer his negative side with his attention and sacrifice. The best a woman can do just like you have said is "damage control" because they don't have it in them. The same is true for narcissistic men. They always want to be seen on top, calling the shots, pulling the triggers, and being Pavlov. By the time you shake them and demand their worth, you'll know that all they want is control without the prerequisites of what makes a leader. Thanks. |
DAY 311, REDPILL 2022 Never make the mistake of calling her back. Once she says the relationship is done, let her go. She is saving you for a better woman and future. Again, don't accept her back. Respect yourself. Don't ridicule your ancestors. It is as simple as that. However, difficult for breastified men. Authority: Don't beg her to stay. |
The5DME:No man is ugly. Have a skill. Build yourself: knowledge. Wisdom. Understanding. Add value to people. Understand human nature. Learn how to leverage. Attach yourself to people better than you. Have good cash to cater to your needs. If you are an ectomorph like me, start chewing plenty of food and iron. Simple. But hard! Yeah. Hard! |
Martinez39s:They can only throw words around. Meanwhile, they have not read from the beginning of the thread to the current page, but you'll see them flying down to passed judgment with unnecessary blabbing. They can't take hold of one post and trace your line of reasoning and come up with reasonable rebuttals. Just blah blah blah. Nonsense. "Dem neva see sumtin. Dem want make we turn the thread to guidance and counseling section. When it is way easier for them to create their threads and do all that they want. ". " Na inside romance section person wan self development". Looool. Ubunja, are you with me? Happy Sunday fams. |
DAY 310, REDPILL 2022 Had it been possible that men can sit down and make calculations of all that it takes to become the kind of man women desire and society admire, they will never allow their pearls to sink into the guts of women who don't know the value of commitments. Of course, the euphoria that appears at the finishing line always erases the struggles behind the track. Authority: Reject the ungrateful. |
DAY 309, REDPILL 2022 If they succeed with one, they'll want to improve on their game by preying on you. If there's proximity between you and the former prey(s), the predator or manipulator will assume you are fresh prey. Learn to understand how people treat people around you. And how people treat themselves too. There is always a ripple effect in human interaction which tend to change the nature of all social dynamics. Authority: Be vigilant. PS: a female colleague tried to play the game she has been playing on some of my senior male colleagues, however, I turned the table because I saw it coming and prepared for it some months ago. Cc. Hedgefunds, calibrator. |
SavageBoy:You try. Send a DM to the mail address attached to my profile. Thanks. |
SavageBoy:To gain access to zlibrary |
SavageBoy:Not direct but with a link you need to paste to the tor browser. |
SavageBoy:Yes. I have downloaded 1 book today to test the mic. Lol. Let me go test the mic again. Nairaland may block me so I don't know how to share the link. |
There are other alternatives. Meanwhile, with tor browser zlibrary is ALIVE, HALE, AND HEALTHY! Lick mouth. |
DAY 308, REDPILL 2022 The woman is God's reminder to man that beauty and comfort should not be worshipped or relied upon but as a sedative as he journeys into greatness and transcendence. Authority: Flow. |
sinfultrust:Do you stay in Lagos? Good evening. |
Ichidodo, that thing "haff choke me hard". Zabiboy, hope you good? Uncle CAPSLOCKED, how are you doing? |
KennethIbe59:Instead of that far distance why not run local, that is, within Lagos or the eastern part of Nigeria. Especially during the early and late hours of the day. |
It always ends with premium tears and alcohol. |
Women that put on waist beads are children of God. No cap! Only waist bead, "I don fall in love". |
1. When you are young, you want to grow old and be free. When you are old, you reminisce about your younger days. Such is life. 2. The fact that humans don't know about the future is paradoxical: it makes them prepare for what's ahead; and it makes them prepare wrongly. Yeah, we are sure there's a future but we don't know what the future entails. More like trial and error because life is not linear, it is a hole full of complex interconnecting lines activated by myriads of actions, behaviors, beliefs, experiences, and backgrounds of people with different faces and motivations. The action and behaviour of one affects the whole. 3. When we were young, we see the snippet of luxuries of older people, oblivious to their pains and struggles. We are eager for that luxury and minute joy because we think that's all there is until we become adults and the scales fall off. This also happens in business and success: we see the few that made it to the top and never considered the majority that failed - survivorship bias. 4. Anyway, it would have been a different story had it been there is economic prosperity. Though being an adult comes with a lot of responsibility; to whom much is given much is expected. However, we get shocked because as we entered adulthood, with little parental guidance or support we become perplexed and paranoid; what we envisaged differs from reality. 5. That's why parental guidance is sacrosanct in the lives of every child because they must prepare the child for the future by feeding them with good wisdom and exposing them to little discomfort so that when they grow up they can be able to navigate the world. The world is not what we think it is. It is brutal! Thanks. |
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