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heartofcity12:
Exactly. They can’t wait to put it all out, bro. There will be a trend to go completely naked someday and I know females would be game, it’s all about time.

heartofcity12:
My Redpilled friend met this girl just few days ago, this chat happened this Monday morning. I believe he passed the shit-test with flying colors.

Labadi69:
Short man don dey unfold him cash out plans. I don tell idiots here say these useless men get hidden agenda. Ubunja, Cave and co are broke unattractive hustlers wey no better pass una and many of una dey chop toto pass them. They are only united in their goal to cash out from gullible lazy youths. I have been saying it from day one and you can all see it unfolding.

Woman matter no hard at all. All na common sense. No let anybody use una to quench poverty wey hook them for neck like bow tie. Make una wise up and shine una eyes before yamayama slap that una bald head there

Hedgefunds:
Wisdom, Knowledge ,and Understanding.Thank you, Cave.

Gamblingaddict:
Good evening all.

Please I need help.

I have to use my other account. I an active follower of this thread.

How can I stop gamble.

I just lost money I borrowed from someone.

I actually intend using the money for rrepayinga loan I borrowed from a bank

Francis95:
Yesterday at my Faculty, I saw a junior colleague seated in the stair case with her coursemate (guy). I had met the girl once inside one of the classrooms but forgot to get her contact. She is quite beautiful like very cute and tall. So as i saw her in our Faculty building yesterday I signaled her to come. She came, after exchanging pleasantries and all I asked her to give me her contact so I would call her later because I was actually in a haste. This girl told me that she will only trade her number for a chilled coke. I told her I'm not getting her any drink, she said no problem that that's what she's gonna trade her number with because the weather was really hot.
I turned my back on her and left smiling . I wasn't surprised because I know Simps have been doing that for her. Thank God for Redpill.

Temmylee01:
the thing is m, creating a content is not the problem but seeing engagement is the issue, I was once a content creator, my Instagram refuse to grow my Twitter remains in one place, is only my Facebook page that grew from 5 followers to 1000+ and most of them are Afghanistan or Iraq I don't even know why they're the one following my page on that Facebook.
Being a content creator is not Moi Moi ooooh, imagine creating like 30 videos yet my Instagram followers do pass 64.

iLegendd:
Please, make una send me 1k make I buy garri. Hunger wan kill me. The sapa is too much.

CaveAdullam:
1. Children are women's greatest investment in a relationship. It takes pain to carry a pregnancy for 9 months + years (0-30years +) in nurturing their kids simultaneously with her husband.

2. It is because of this reason women don't like seeing their children engage in risky adventures which aligns with the fact that women are conflict avoidant. The higher the number of children the greater the risk, that's, if she's not able to protect them till strong adulthood. Hope you have seen mother hen and her entourage of chicks? She is harsh, tough, and overprotective because it took pains to bring them to life.

One or two kids pose more of a threat especially when she approaches infertility.

3. First child or male children have a strong place in the heart of women. If you are the (first child) + a male + (only child), forget it, the mother will never let you go. He is a reflection of her husband. She captures the husband in the son and wants to protect him for herself. However, this form of protection does the son no good at all, because it weakens his masculinity.

4. Men attached to an outburst of feminity can't wage warfare in the outside world. Because women don't teach how to become a warrior but an avoider. Counterintuitive, they want you to be strong enough to protect them and provide for them. Then begs the question: how can a man protect and provide without facing warfare?

5. This is why a masculine figure is important in the lives of young males and females. The mother teaches the children how to use silence and trickery to escape when necessary while the father teaches the children how to win by using strength. This is the importance of a father and mother in the life of a child.

6. Not only that, the father becomes a figure the son looks up to for guidance and how to become a better man; the daughter looks up to him to know the right kind of man she can enter a sexual union with and that can protect her and her kids.

7. The son observes the mother in order to know how to identify a good woman base on how she treats her children and respects her husband while the daughter observes her mother so that she can also become a good mother and wife to her children and husband respectively.

8. Life is not straightforward. It is twisted, mixed, complex, complicated, intertwined, and dark. You must look for wisdom to find your way around this maze called life.

9. You can't escape compromise in this life. You must challenge your fears. You must choose a better future over your loved ones.

Your loved ones will slow you down not because they hate you or are envious of your ambitions but because they love you so much that they don't want you to take the risk that leads to the apex.

This is the love that weakens, a romantic kind of love, unlike the love of God - He stands with you as you walk through the valley of the shadow of death. This is the kind of love that strengthens you, the love of fire on raw gold as it massages its inner core extricating every impurity to refine the gold making it beautiful and immaculate.

10. This is you versus the future. You must put yourself first doing what's right and not foregoing truth, wisdom, and integrity. You must make sacrifices even if it involves ostracizing yourself from the love of your family.

11. It is a risky adventure for the male child because he has no escape route, unlike the female child that can leverage men with her beauty and sexuality. As a man you can't escape this warfare, you must fight to the end to seek victory, power, and freedom.

12. There is no guarantee that you will win. Failure is the default. But you must not be weakened by it. Better try and die in the process than not try at all. You will always regret and hate yourself if you don't try because you'll see others that tried, fought, and won. Then and there you become your worst nightmare. Your inner demons will torment you as you grow old towards your grave - a wasted life indeed.

13. Dear friend, don't be afraid. Mother will be proud of you if you come back with a medal. Even if you don't come back with a medal at least you have garnered experiences for life. Use these experiences to learn again. Try to win.

14. Project suggestions to your mother, tell her your ambitions, and bend her to help you pursue your dream. Manipulate her to the extent that she will become the one propelling you to your destination. Women are cheerleaders, they are always happy once they think they are the ones in charge.

If this proves abortive, you must stay aloof and find your way to the zenith.

15. Look for good males on the same journey as you. Find a good mentor. Learn a skill - preferably computer skills. Or, learn a trade. Learn sales and marketing.

Stay away from fraud! A good name is better than riches. Be the poor wise old man people neglect than the fraudulent rich man people clamor for.

16. If you are not going to school to study STEM courses or accounting, please, forget a university certificate and start fighting the battle now. Don't go waste your time in a university with a useless certificate at the end.

Stay well, my friend. See you at the last lap.

Have a nice day.

Cc. Ubunja. Hedgefunds. Calibrator. Emmaodet. Tonnyray. Heartofcity12. CAPSLOCKED.

CaveAdullam:
Can we call this a coincidence? Hahaha haha.

MODIFIED

Dear OP, this post is what you need and you must act asap.

My daddy has said everything but since he said I should come and "chook my mouth and do small tafia":

1. Children are women's greatest investment in a relationship. It takes pain to carry a pregnancy for 9 months + years (0-30years +) in nurturing their kids simultaneously with her husband.

2. It is because of this reason women don't like seeing their children engage in risky adventures which aligns with the fact that women are conflict avoidant. The higher the number of children the greater the risk, that's, if she's not able to protect them till strong adulthood. Hope you have seen mother hen and her entourage of chicks? She is harsh, tough, and overprotective because it took pains to bring them to life.

One or two kids pose more of a threat especially when she approaches infertility.

3. First child or male children have a strong place in the heart of women. If you are the (first child) + a male + (only child), forget it, the mother will never let you go. He is a reflection of her husband. She captures the husband in the son and wants to protect him for herself. However, this form of protection does the son no good at all, because it weakens his masculinity.

4. Men attached to an outburst of feminity can't wage warfare in the outside world. Because women don't teach how to become a warrior but an avoider. Counterintuitive, they want you to be strong enough to protect them and provide for them. Then begs the question: how can a man protect and provide without facing warfare?

5. This is why a masculine figure is important in the lives of young males and females. The mother teaches the children how to use silence and trickery to escape when necessary while the father teaches the children how to win by using strength. This is the importance of a father and mother in the life of a child.

6. Not only that, the father becomes a figure the son looks up to for guidance and how to become a better man; the daughter looks up to him to know the right kind of man she can enter a sexual union with and that can protect her and her kids.

7. The son observes the mother in order to know how to identify a good woman base on how she treats her children and respects her husband while the daughter observes her mother so that she can also become a good mother and wife to her children and husband respectively.

8. Life is not straightforward. It is twisted, mixed, complex, complicated, intertwined, and dark. You must look for wisdom to find your way around this maze called life.

9. You can't escape compromise in this life. You must challenge your fears. You must choose a better future over your loved ones.

Your loved ones will slow you down not because they hate you or are envious of your ambitions but because they love you so much that they don't want you to take the risk that leads to the apex.

This is the love that weakens, a romantic kind of love, unlike the love of God - He stands with you as you walk through the valley of the shadow of death. This is the kind of love that strengthens you, the love of fire on raw gold as it massages its inner core extricating every impurity to refine the gold making it beautiful and immaculate.

10. This is you versus the future. You must put yourself first doing what's right and not foregoing truth, wisdom, and integrity. You must make sacrifices even if it involves ostracizing yourself from the love of your family.

11. It is a risky adventure for the male child because he has no escape route, unlike the female child that can leverage men with her beauty and sexuality. As a man you can't escape this warfare, you must fight to the end to seek victory, power, and freedom.

12. There is no guarantee that you will win. Failure is the default. But you must not be weakened by it. Better try and die in the process than not try at all. You will always regret and hate yourself if you don't try because you'll see others that tried, fought, and won. Then and there you become your worst nightmare. Your inner demons will torment you as you grow old towards your grave - a wasted life indeed.

13. Dear friend, don't be afraid. Mother will be proud of you if you come back with a medal. Even if you don't come back with a medal at least you have garnered experiences for life. Use these experiences to learn again. Try to win.

14. Project suggestions to your mother, tell her your ambitions, and bend her to help you pursue your dream. Manipulate her to the extent that she will become the one propelling you to your destination. Women are cheerleaders, they are always happy once they think they are the ones in charge.

If this proves abortive, you must stay aloof and find your way to the zenith.

15. Look for good males on the same journey as you. Find a good mentor. Learn a skill - preferably computer skills. Or, learn a trade. Learn sales and marketing.

Stay away from fraud! A good name is better than riches. Be the poor wise old man people neglect than the fraudulent rich man people clamor for.

16. If you are not going to school to study STEM courses or accounting, please, forget a university certificate and start fighting the battle now. Don't go waste your time in a university with a useless certificate at the end.

Stay well, my friend. See you at the last lap.

Have a nice day.

Cc. Pansophist. Hedgefunds. Calibrator. Tonnyray.

pansophist:
This is the one time when you have to ignore your mother and do what is right for you. Humans by nature project their wiring on others. So for men, he will push you to go out there and work while teaching you how to observe safety precautions but women will try to make you safer and more secure since it's what they want.

So for example, if there is a snake in the garden, your father will give you a cutlass and teach you how to cut its head off, obliterating the threat, but your mother will lock you inside, to prevent you from facing the threat. Both methods are good, but one is greater and makes you strong. The mother's method is good when a child is young, but as an adult, your father's method is better.

In any case, one person will not be happy. If you listen to your mother, you will be sad. If you go out there, she will be sad. So why not go out there and save yourself? Go out there, young man. If you make your mother happy, you may retain your body, but you will lose your soul.

Most importantly, you can't make other people happy. You can make them excited, not happy, Happiness is an inside job. You do not burden someone with the obligation to make you happy, and you must not accept it if your mother is doing it to you. Having the right to be happy is like having the right not to be offended, where do you draw the line of what constitutes offense then? Where do we also draw the line of happiness for her?

You are a man, your biological needs are different from women. Women need security, safety, and provision, and even better for them, it is someone else that will provide it in form of a husband. As a man, it is not the same for you. You must go out there and get bruised, forge your way out of the difficulties and bring home to bacon. You don't do this by sitting at home every day with your mum, to make her happy. YOU WILL LOSE YOUR SOUL.

Also, you should know that you are paying a dangerous price staying at home. You are wasting time, a fleeting wealth you have. You won't be stronger, healthier, and free in your 20's, don't bankrupt it. When men always mock women in their 30s who are unmarried, little did they look at themselves in the mirror to see that they are not better either.

Men peak in their 30's, but not most men, just a few. Most men will be invisible from birth to death, and it's because most waste their youths. The clock is ticking, and as you are wasting time contemplating if you should go out there and be a man or make your mother happy, the clock is ticking, and it will have a taste for you, and it will consume you.

Assuming you are 25, in ten years if you stay with your mother, you will be older, and your mother will be older too, she may become sick and want drugs but you can't help since you have allowed yourself to be tamed, and all you will hate each other. She will see you as a weak goat, and you blame her for your circumstances.

You won't even have the balls to ask women out because your insecurities and weakness will smell from miles away. A lot of you young people think society treats you sweetly as you are in your 20', it is wrong. I am in my early 30's, the difference is like day and night. Five years ago, questions I get are, ''what are you studying? '' or 'what do you want to be? Now it, ''what are you doing''? Where do you work"?

Every parent wants their child to bury them, it would be a tragedy if you allowed your mother to handicap your ability to be able to bury her gracefully because she shielded you from life. Don't allow yourself to be tamed, you owe it to yourself to be free and strong, and to be a man. Be one.

The divine blessing associated with the masculine is the ability to rescue himself and the feminine. Women do not rescue men, but men rescue women. This is the relationship between strength and weakness. If you destroy your life by allowing yourself to be tamed, redemption will never come from anywhere. A woman can be a prostitute and have a series of abortions and uneducated, but if she marries a good man, she is resurrected from her past and a sweet future awaits her.

A man that damages his life is disposable, it's final. I have to make this dark for you, so you man up and find your strength, because you may think all is fine because the dragon hasn't come looking for you. It will come, at least a decade from now, and that day is not good. I always get emails from people everywhere who read what I write here, and many of these men are those who wasted their life and looking for redemption.

Life is not kind to men that messed up, I wonder why lots of fathers are not guiding their sons to the truth because the life of a man is by default, difficult. Very difficult. Let me stop here. I believe I have advised you enough.

cc. Dobnina, CaveAdullam

Ifeanyicosta:
Am the only child in my family and my girlfriend is the only child in her own family.I was a blue pill when we started dating along the line she initiated a break up ,after 2months she told me she was pregnant for me,I seriously told her she knows am not the owner of that child.she did not argue it,but told me negative things about the guy that got her pregnant.
As a blue pill I pity her and she make me sleep with her when the pregnancy was 2months and 2 weeks,she needed that sex badly,I bleeped her with anger and cum several on her until she delivered.
Miraculously I knew about red pill through hardon and Ubunja.
As a redpiller I make her invest so much with me through sex,money,time and energy.she is forcing me to marry her.am even tired of her love ,and am afraid she might kill me if I marry another girl.
But what surprising me is that
1.she complained I hate her child(boy) and want me to take care of the boy
2.when she had problem with her dad (old)I heard her threatened him am d owner of the child
3.The boy is one year old ,she always tell d boy to call me daddy.in my mind I hate DAT shit.
4.anybody that see me, her and the child always say,d child LOOK LIKE ME.dis got me more confuse
NOTE:her mum is dead and she is older than me.

emmanuelbrown26:
Lolssss, guy man u funny abeg. But I like d way things are going in d kantri. They voted for change, the voted for 4+4, now they want to vote for emi lokan.
Mak all of us suffer am together, before before if I dey waka for road and see people in need, I go squeeze out something and give but right now, if I see a dying soul bcs of hunger, I go kukuma help d soul to go and join his ancestor. I have lost d Human consciousness in me

ubunja:
problem is genuinely good men don't turn these women on. A lot of the good guys rely on CHARACTER as their selling point. But arousal and attraction has nothing to do about your character. Why? Cause what a woman first sees when she looks at you is YOUR BODY not your personality, not your behaviour, not your character. Your body is the first attraction. The bait. That's what affects her pucc first. Your personality she'll only learn when she starts talking and interacting with you. Good guys oftentimes lose from the get go cause their presentation- body, dress, mannerisms- scream "gentleman" when it must scream "I'll tear that pucc up.!"

You need to look like you can fucc a woman's brains out. just by the way you look, dress and act. Sadly good men don't give that vibe. Cause they appear too nice, too caring, too considerate. A woman has a hard time imagining him tossing her around the bed, pinning her to the walls and folding her in 20 different positions. He seems too gentle to be that freaky. But that's the freaky sex that women dream about. When women look at a gangster or a thug, his fierceness and his passion and aggressiveness,, all they can think about is "damn if only he brings this fury to the bedroom, he'd surely murder this pucc!"
It's why women think men who are always angry are good in bed. And it's why your woman will sometimes provoke you or start a fight with you just before bed - she's trying to get that raw passion out via your anger so that you'll really handle her, like be really aggressive with her. But a gentleman could never.

pansophist:
Yes, but it's a Chinese movie, not an American one. China made the movie to glorify itself.

pansophist:
Lots of people here are heavily brainwashed, but good you are killing them with facts. If the truth will kill them, I say, let them die

One quick question, why didn't the US make a movie about the Korean war? They cant because China defeated them